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COMMON BEHAVIOURS AT SCHOOL AND HOME AND
ALTERNATIVE APPROACHES
REASONS
BEHAVIOURS
Not doing homework
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE
• Give make-up activities TO TRY POSITIVE
or chores • Provide peer support
• Teacher/parents/student agree on solution DISCIPLINE
Fighting • Provide peer mediation/counselling PUNISHMENT HURTS CHILDREN DISCIPLINE TEACHES CHILDREN
• Withdraw privileges, e.g. TV, games • Lowers self-esteem • Raises self-esteem
• Give tasks that build team work and • Demands compliance • Helps children to exercise choice(s)
problem solving skills • Inspires anger, resentment, rebellion • Motivates and encourages
• Focuses on “misbehaviour” • Focuses on feelings and root causes
Skipping school • Give child responsibilities at school
• Teaches children to rely on external answers • Teaches children to problem-solve
/ class • Counsel child about the value of education
• Discuss causes and solutions with child • Leaves child feeling misunderstood • Fosters understanding
• Ignores dignity of the child • Preserves mutual respect
Damaging property • Child researches cost of damage • Past-focus: “why do you always do that?” • Future-focus: “next time, try this”
• Child contributes to repair costs • Increases power struggles • Decreases power struggles
• Child does repairs
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