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Guys ... they can be very sweet. But also pretend ... Butterflies in your stomach is fun, but it can
also end differently!
Do this test!
a. Actually. All brand clothing while he does not even have a job.
b. That is not too bad. he did not even have enough money for a drink at the bar
haha!
3. Can he be found in red light districts? (parking places with (squat) buildings etc.)
a. Yes, he was in a car with some friends in a parking lot. I felt looked at.
b. He took me there sometimes, I found this really scary .. I had expected a nicer
place.
c. No, whether he is at home, or with his friends in the pub, or with me lol!
4. Has he lied to or manipulated you? (eg: You can do this for me after all I've done for
you)?
a. No, he really would never do that. Maybe he would ever think of an excuse, but
no more like that.
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5. Has he threatened by force?
a. Yes
a. Not nice. He went beyond my limits, and he said something strange: "You have to
get used to it."
a. Is there, if I have done what he wanted from me, he is nice .. that's why I do
everything for him.
b. He then kicks me into the ground / Does overly nice while it is apparent.
a. Sometimes when I run for him, because I really did not want to go to bed with a
man ...
b. No O_O!
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c. I do not know, sometimes with his friends, but this can also be a coincidence ...
and I always keep my phone on ...
c. Yes now. He wants me to help him, but how do I not know (yet) / he wants me to
go to bed with his friend because he has debts there.
d. I do not know.
b. Not anymore, he has become cold and bitter and scolds me.
What is a loverboy?
A loverboy is a young man who seduces a girl or boy into a (dependency) relationship to make
money. A loverboy affects the victim to go with men to bed for money, to transport drugs, for
large loans or telephone subscriptions to conclude, to commit thefts or to recruit other victims.
Also loverboys are active, both in the big cities and in the countryside. For example, young
people image approached at schools, stations, coffee shops, discotheques, shelter homes and
more and more via the Internet.
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In principle, everyone can fall into the hands of a loverboy. The risk is greater for less olds with a
low level of intelligence, intense adolescent behavior, little self-esteem, little friends, an
overprotected upbringing or problems at home. Also vulnerable young people such as Single
Minor Asylum Seekers, Mentally Handicapped or young people there is an extra risk with a history
of sexual abuse.
Finally, not only girls, but more and more boys are victims of a loverboy.
The loverboy works extremely sophisticated. He is a born charmer, who is his slaughter-
sacrifice tempts with attention and gifts. Once the girl falls in love, a game follows of intimidation
and arbitrariness. He alternates his victim with feigned affection, threats and brute force. Under
the guise of 'true love' he demands all control over her and demands unconditional obedience
and loyalty.
He isolates her from her family and puts her in a position of complete dependency.
heath. Then he forces her into prostitution or another form of crime
The victim:
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• suddenly shows different behavior
• makes a lot of quarrel at home / does not arrive home on time / runs away from
home
• dress provocatively
• is hunted / tense
A loverboy:
• loves material display (designer clothing, latest mobile phone, car ownership)
• can occur as the ideal son-in-law or just set up the victim against the family
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• pay attention to changing behavior at school, at home and with friends
• make it clear that your child is always welcome is no matter what happens
• do not do anything behind your child's back, unless this is necessary due to acute
danger
• keep a close eye on the schoolyard and the school environment (concierge,
camera monitoring, passes, etc.)
• never drop the boyfriend, because then you are crocheted the victim
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