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T HE
E T I QU E T T E B O O K
OF THE B ES T S O CI E T Y .
B E CO M E E D UC A T E D AND P O L I S IIE T‘ IN G E N E R AL S O C I E T Y.
C ON T A I N I N G N IC E P O IN T S O F T A ST E , G O OD M A N N E RS
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AN D T E E A RT O F M A KIN G O N E S S E L F A G RE E A B L E .
A M AN UA L OF
M A NN E RS A ND C US T O M S
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W IT H F O RM S FO B
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y S EE THE TA B L E OF C ON TEN TS .
ED ITED BY
M RS . J ANE ASTER .
N E W YO R K
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MD C C C L XXXI I .
TABLE OF C O NTENTS .
PAGI
THO UG H T S ON S OC IE TY AN D T HE S PI RIT OF SO
OIAL
Wh a t 733 S oc i ety ?
The necessity o f Social Intercourse .
THRE E CL A SSE S OF B AD S O C IE T Y
1 disting ui she d by F amiliari ty
L ow S oc i ety , .
D a n ger o us S o c i e ty
Ske t c h of Engl ish Socie t y from t he Six
Cent u ry
t e e nt h .
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I HE RE QUIS IT E S OF G O OD S OC IE T Y
Ed u c a t ion .
Reason .
Temper .
Hospi t ali t y .
G ood manners .
B ir t h .
W ealth .
Rank .
D is t inc t io n .
C ONT ENT S . 11
TH E S P IRIT OF SO C IAL O B S E RV A N C E S
Th e Conne c tion bet w een the L a w s of Ch ris
t i a n i t y a n d those o f So c i ety .
D omesti c Position .
Paterf amilias .
The Matron . ,
The B a c helor .
2 716 A r t f m a ki ng On c s A
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r eea bl e
o se lf g .
CHAPT ER I .
D RE SSIN G R O OM -
Cleanlin ess .
The Teeth .
The N ails .
The Hair .
CHAPT E R II .
TH E LAD Y S T0 1 L E T
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o o o o o 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 . 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 .
E arlyRisin g .
Cleanlin e ss .
12 CONTENT S .
Ex e rc me o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o 0 0 0 0
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T h e H a ir .
0 0 0 0 0 0 0
E xtravagance .
Simpli c i t y .
J e w elry .
Ma x ims f o r Ornaments .
Orders 850 , .
L i nen .
Seasonable Dress .
Dress fo r W alking .
D r ess fo r V isit s .
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C ONTENTS. 13
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D ifferent S t yles o f Dress .
Sporting Costumes .
Hunting 850, .
CHAPT ER IV .
LA DY S
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Co u ntry Dress .
Dinner Dress .
B all Dress .
Ridin g Dres s .
Court Dress .
CHAPT ER V .
The ir V alue .
Se l f de f enc e —B o x i n g
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14 CONTENTS.
F ield Sp e rt s .
Riding .
Mo u n t ing .
D ri v ing .
Dan c i n g .
Quadril les .
Ro u nd Dances .
The V a l tz .
Polka .
O t her Dances .
The Piano .
Music i n G eneral .
Sin g ing .
Ca r ds .
Roun d G ames .
L a n guages .
So u p .
Fish .
Ham V eniso n ) , .
A n i m a ls serv ed w hole .
CHAPT E R VL
FE MI N IN E
Their N e c essity .
Music .
Ch oi c e o f Instruments .
Singing .
A g e a Restri c tion .
Choi c e o f Songs .
A pp r Op ri a t e n e s s .
W orkin g .
Appropriateness o f W ork .
CHA PT ER V II .
MA NNE RS C A RRIA G E
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A ND H A B IT S
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Manner : value o f a g o od o ne .
Rules f or preserving it .
Sel f respect
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A fie c t a t i o n .
Dignity .
w al k.
The Smile .
Certain B a d Habits .
Smoking discusse d .
Et i q u ette thereo f .
C HAP T ER V III .
THE CA RRIA G E OF A
Youn g L adi es .
Modesty .
Agreeableness .
Politeness .
Di gnity .
Deli c a c y o f L anguage .
Temper .
French
The Physical Carriage of L a d ies .
CHAPT E R IX .
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The Promenade .
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The Cut“
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Sometimes necessary .
Sh o u ld b e made In o fie n sive l y .
The Salute .
Its History .
Kissing .
Shaking Hands .
C HAPTE R X .
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The V isit .
Ho u rs fo r V is i t s
The Cards .
E t i q u e t t e in Call ing .
N o t at Home .
V is i t s in Coun t ry Houses .
CHAPT ER XI .
DI NE RS ,
N D IN E RS ,
AND D IN N E R P A RT IE S -
D INN E R P AR TIE S .
The ir Number .
L igh t in g .
The Servan t s .
Soup .
Fish .
The J oint .
V ege t ables .
The O rd e r o f S erv in g .
C ONTEN T S . 19
G ra c e .
CHAPT ER XII .
LA D IE S AT
Invitations .
Order o f Precedence ;
O f Proceedi ng t o th e D i ni ng Room -
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CHAPT E R X III .
W h om t o Invite .
Arrangement o f th e Rooms .
L ig h tin g .
The Floor .
The Mus i c .
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Re freshments . .
The S u pper .
In t rod u c t ions .
B a l l Room A c q uaintance
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Manners at S u pper .
Fl irt a t i o n .
P u b l ic B a l ls .
CHA PT ER X IV
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G eneral R u les .
G eneral Rule s .
CHAPT ER XV .
MA RRIA G E
O fie rs .
En g agements .
C ONTENTS . 21
Th e L icense .
The Trousseau .
Th e B ridesmai ds .
Invita t io n s
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Th e G en t leman s Dres s’
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G o ing to t h e Ch u rc h .
Th e Ceremon y .
Travell i ng Dress .
F ees t o Servants .
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24 THE SPI RIT OF SOCI AL OB SERV A N CES .
oc i c ty ?
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first is undoubtedly the best medi u m ; and we con
stant l y fi nd the sons of mannerless millionaires t u tcred
that they will tolerate you there till you have learned
you r lesson which is not one to be known in a day ?
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Your fai lure i ndeed may be pai n ful and end in your
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eve n ing party The pont i fic al legate went out but li ttl e
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how did you leave the Pope 9 The cardinal bowed and
smil e bu t could not conceal h is astonishment The fa
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Use ful or not use ful it would seem that codes Of man
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her carry a li ttle book of e t iquette under her fan into the
ball room ; and if the heavy headed essayists Of a Quar
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the Stag yrite s morals are social ones ; the morals that
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r — alias gentleman —to his equals betters and
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society .
t he writers on Behavior .
FA LS E MOI I V ES FOR POLITEN ESS . 29
v hich in the present day not a dozen are ever per formed .
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be st begins by defining Etiquette as a S hield agai nst the
intrusion of the impertine nt the improper and the vul
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perhaps tell you that he has enj oyed the honest fell ow s ’
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society but it will be in th e tone of a j oke Not so
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to cultivate He is quite aware that equali t y is the fir st
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official visit and though both hold the same rank the ro
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g fo r two hundred miles in the same rai l way carriag
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54 THE S PI RIT or SOCIA L o ns nnva nc ns .
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doting dowagers would presume to talk of the society
of the whist — table The intercourse must be direct fr o m
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mind to mind .
to the play for the very same purpose ; but that which
the for mer ? As the great mind can content i tsel f wit h
its o wn reflections stimulated at most by the prin t ed
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without . Most deep thinkers h ave had one pet book which ,
they have read one bosom friend whom t hey have studied
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Lea n no t on on e m in d c onsta ntl y ,
man coming from the field to the policeman hanging abo ut,
Owen Meredi th .
86 THE sr m rr OF SOCI AL onsna v m es s .
aspire to rival .
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and the cleverest men are often the most sociable ; though ,
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Chesterfield says there are two sorts of good company ;
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people who have the lead in courts and in the gay part of ,
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valuable art or science If this were not the Opinio n
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s o cie t y .
What it b ings us r .
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people says D ean S wi ft
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have so m et imes very nast y
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g ood but
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the morals are detestable The first is low ,
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al 1 8 l ow and revolting
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A man of sel f respect will not .
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no t my boots which stink In Ben Jonson s day i t was ’
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the way
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When on an another occasion a gen t le ma n
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or come now paymaster is alm ost a s bl an a bl c as
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To th ee be al l me n h er o es ; eve ry r ac e
calm dignity with which to show that the o ffence has bee n
of it
. From familiari ty to indecency is but one step .
sented on the stage and a t least the last three should neve r
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l egs in the present day but should never stre t ch them apar t
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ly pardonable .
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for the same train as mysel f comes up and says ,
It is a ,
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fine day sir evincing a desire for a further interchange
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short with a
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Ye s and turn away ; or because as many
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ms we r ? “
Something God bat h to say to th ee worth
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hearing from the lips of a ll and I may be sure th at I ,
respect nothing so much as their pur ses and their pri vate
his income was or what were the names of his si x chi ldren
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breeding i f I sought to re ~
she inquired ,
How much did it cost a yard ? ”
Such
q ues t i on s are common e nough on the Continent and o ur ,
46 THE SPI RIT or SOCI A L onse n m nc ns .
Until the end of the last century the word vulgarity was ,
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calls it her lunch ”
The Rev Mr Smi t h cannot a fford
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The com .
Wil l iamsons again are for ever dragging the said cousin
into their conversation that the J amesons may be st u pe fie d
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forget the end that lays us all in the common com for tle ss
l ap of mother earth
Nothing there fore will more irretrievably stamp you as
Vulgar in e ally good society than the repeated introduc
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60 THE SPI RIT or SOCI A L os ss nvs nc ns .
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he did I am t emp t ed to think Scribbles either a gr oss
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Midge relates for the thir teen t h time how she travelle d
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down with Her Grace and I see how her eyes glo w
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t r flunkies as they are now called is one which has
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fl ourished through all time and the satire of all ages has
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gene ral they have had a substantial obj ect in view and
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l augh at the American ladies who talk of the limbs of
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t heir chairs and tables ask for a slice from the
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bosom
of a fowl and speak of a rump steak as a
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vons ists and where it begins but i t is clear that nature has
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of Charles court
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fancy those people must have who will not allow us to say
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go to bed but substi t ute retire to rest
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Surely the .
be auti ful word than woman ? woman man s ruin first and ,
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forge t that you are a woman and only call you a lady ,
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nautical friend who cured hims el f he said of the bad , ,
cry
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bother when her boot lace brea k s or what no t
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But “
bother is only the feminine form of yo u r Sa xon
expl e ti ve and means i n r e a li ty j ust as muc h
, So km .
54 THE S PI RIT or SOCIA L O B S ERVA N CES .
you r man who would cut his throat sooner than use a ba d
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word will never t heless write it
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d n as i f e ve rb dy -
fine words murdered and used in any but the right sense .
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wi ll do as well ; buy is better than purchase ,
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Wish than desire and so on T he small gen teel
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those of large and those of small means Ano ther sim .
i l ar piece of fiu mme r
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y is the expression If anything ,
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s hould happen to me which everybody knows you mean
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for,
i f I should die As you do not conceal your
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water only for her toilet ; but this is not a case in point ,
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ruin a young man and the social evil here takes its
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fic u l ty i f not an impossibility
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Henry V II I indeed had . .
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been raised the more influence has the gentle ness whic h
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tl e man wa s a man who could associat e wi th ladies A nd .
have been thought a prude had she obj ected to the gross
s cenes in the masks and plays ac t ed be fore her and found ,
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c alled by t heir right names but an insidious innu e ndo
took the place very o ften of bet t er wit and was probably ,
e nj oyed fa r more .
Son to seek out rank and weal t h for those who had i t no ,
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origin of our modern middle classes .
drinking The high society was still the best and it was
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too that mere wealth which could never have brought its
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THE S PI RIT OF S OC I AL OB S ERV A NC ES.
t ile clas ses and the rich merchant s daughter who was
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c ial arrangements .
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a l practitioner And how is it now ? How many gen
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y to t he W oolsack bring s ,
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It is an age
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of unity cas t e is obliterated and , ,
e ducated .
versity that the larger a college the smaller its sets and , ,
that you knew more men in a small college than you pos
ibl y could in a large one It is the same wi t h the middle
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g ro w s the more
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it will split up in t o classes which m a
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ha ve no name and may be separated by very slight dis
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has come to mean good for society and there fore ,
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e ducation of a university or a boarding school I think
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x l a ini n
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y horror I remember
. passing through the galleries of
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ast to Raphael s c artoons
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Are we ? she asked languidly as we sto od in the ,
of th ose gr a n D r me
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p resenc e d conceptions ea h ow .
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artis ts ,
composers arch i tects scu l ptors and so forth and
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I have j ust bough t a Hobbema was said to Mrs B ,
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the bot t om of a rare engraving the name Raphael Mengs ,
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influence of Perugino in that figure S O too it will .
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rant who composed Fidelio and in what op e ra occu r ,
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such common pieces as Ciascun lo dice or Il segreto .
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or cleverness to back it he will not only be pa rdon e d,
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p u t a nts
; a discussion on the other hand in which every ,
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hearte ning than a perpetual Yes j ust so and nothing , ,
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that which we learn first o f all things yet Often have not ,
the examinations for the army and the civil servi ces ; how
valuable it is i s now generally acknowledged by men Of
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and since the best society is that in which the bes t thoughts
are interchanged in the best and most comprehensible man
ne r it follows that a proper mode o f e x pressing ourselves
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day have made the test of fitness for good society For .
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is a woman o f excellent ed ucation You must not .
Loca l ism is not patriotism and there fore until the Union
is di s solved we must request people to talk English in
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Engli sh society .
fro m Mu die s and devoting his whole day to its con t e nts
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it will soon fall into bad health i f it gorges but does not ,
to dinner ?
72 T HE S P I Rl T o r s e e m . o c s s RV A NoEs .
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leave no excuse to poor or rich fo r an ignoranc e
world
The respect fo r m or a l c h a r a c t er is a distinguis h i ng .
The woman who has once fallen the man who has onc e ,
lost his honor may repent for years ; good society shuts
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wome n who
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bil ity dr i ves the o ffender to despai r and makes the one
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ac count the low sneak who lounges into a club —room and
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actuated by pique whispers into a frind s c ar in strict
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74 THE s p rmr o r so c i A L o ns nnv a n os s .
woman were not driven from her home and thrust int o
the very j a ws o f sin and the world would be happier and
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Th ys is a brydel
For th e women of Wal ton wh o sp ea ke so ydel .
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reli c 1 only wish that every parish church had one and ,
high and low even I may say of good and bad though a
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p l a te s
. The mistress o f the house made the matter wo rs c
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by putting in at last My dear Charles do be mod e
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ra te. and the irritable man only increased the awkward
ness by an irri t able reply I overlooked this and dine » .
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quite a fool J ane he said turning savagely upon her
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must as St P aul warns us o ften be
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sacrificed to peace
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A so ft answer turneth away wrath ; and if he
c annot check his own feelings su fficiently to reply i n
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tha s f pri vate animosi ties
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Of the cut as a nec e s
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Bu ffive s to say that when given for the first time with a
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hat generally the ill wi ll must be bet ween one guest and .
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Is it not as much as to say This man is unfit for me
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and with the respect due from a guest to a host you must
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p unishmen t bu t I would not have been the executioner
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t ion and good bree ding could pass muster without them
ing .
M i c e and hints for this will be given in various
se c tions bu t I may here say that it is an a rt whi c h de
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truagine s th at t he o fi ce s o f
host a nd hostess are sinecures ,
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82 THE S PI RIT or so c u n c s s nn va n c s s .
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se rmon in each pocket high in the right low in the
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give out t he wine for us The host sits at the head or side
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l and would not only shut vou out from enj oying t he socie ty
i f people of no ordinary stamp but is now generally c o n ,
said I ,
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it is evident she did not bring them up in t he
ki t chen ”
. My interlocutrix wore the name of a celebrated
poet and was of one of the oldes t families in England
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people I k new .
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The advantages o wealth are considerable in the or
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mation of soci ety In this country where hospitality
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y if you are to m i x much in the world But goo d .
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Gondone rs h ave still to learn that large pompous feel
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age are neither agreeable nor in good taste and t ha t ,
guests rather f01 their manners and c onve 1 sat i ona l po wers
than for position or weal t h t heir re ce p tion may become
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Mere wealth says Mr Hay ward truly enough can
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through the rooms people whispered That is t he r i c h ,
there was not the slightest fear of my Spilling the chocola te,
and I was too far from her to S poil her dress had I b ee n ,
a rdon assuring her that there wa s not the sligh test cause
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for alarm ; but She was not sa t isfied and while I beat a ,
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was pronounced to be atrociously vulgar as well as
immensely rich .
gentleman and fewer still perhaps bear that charac ter that
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comes Major ; a merchant Colonel and a man of ,
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Whom you are to ask a favor is al ways a General ,
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from the Mermaid and they should have strict inj une
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have two or three for you may be sure that they will be
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We have now seen what are and what are not the re “
in a party and every one may pronounce you a per fec t and
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agreeable gen t leman but vou may go home and get pri
va t e l
y intoxicated or beat your wi,fe or be cruel to you r ,
which can only j udge from what they see determine the ,
li ttle all over the world The Turk may show his p0 .
by carving your portion for you ; but the same S piri t dic
ta tes bc th— the S pirit of friendliness of goodwill Thus ,
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Socie t y .
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must e a t and drink and dress and walk and talk and St ,
ity in all and that the rich may not be able to flaunt
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and says you shall not p ut your kni fe into your mon th it ,
and that ther e fore on your part it is good not bad tas t e
adopts the beau t i ful and rej e cts the inelegant That mo
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to uched and heads which can ache and your sten t orian .
How can it ask more ? How can it rip Open your heart
and see if with your bland smile and oily voice you are a
l iar and a hypocrite ? There is One who has this pow
er —u
forget it not —but society must be content with the
semblance By your works men do and must j udge you
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t he has one la w for the bachelor ano t her for the ben e ,
PA TERBAMI L IA S
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dict ; one for the maid another for the matron ; one law ,
vagaries .
and receives our awe ; the same who finding his maj esty ,
ve t o that bade her rej ect the handsome l ove r who had so
oor a for t une and broke — ay broke her heart that beats
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the latest mode of the day while we are pleased with his ,
era t ion for the changes that have taken pl ace since he
96 me SPI RIT or SOC I AL o nsanva naas .
party and the dinner party she takes a higher pl ace and -
she fears that poor Charles will catch cold at eight and -
away to his club But when she assumes the dress and
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y o f the matron The French have a p ro
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F a ir e l a c o u r a l a m er e p ou r a vo ir l a fill e
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ve rb and
I should strongly recommend the young man who wishe s
t o succeed with a damsel to show particular a ttent one to ,
land ; but a good nat ured man will take care that she doe s
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praise is not lost upon her and the idea is precisely one ,
same praise bes t owed by others But whe t her you have .
neglected .
he will not let the dance lead him into a flirtation But .
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98 THE S PIRIT or S OCIA L oe s nnva nc ns .
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the old ch ambers days A great deal is forgi t e n t o .
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ing out a new double t ; i f he h urries to the dra win g
t ee rt a fter dinner or is marked in his attention to ladies
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mond and Green wich t he high dog cart and the seat or,
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ever had ”
. Ye s Benedict I envy thee and if B e atrice
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c hanged his manner and his habi t s he has got new d utie s , ,
that I have never been married and th ere fore know nothin g ,
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Poor Coeleb s do not leave the matter too late do not say
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Hang me in a bottle like a cat and shoot at me i f eve r , ,
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c a se to o ff er fo r their non —
observance He must mak e .
for the former and talents for the latter and is expected
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On the other hand she must not frequent dinner par t ies -
can wear She has many privileges but must beware how
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; and i f she h as beauty she will soon find that wit i s
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a power ful rival With the two she may do what she
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Without a good heart her mind and her face will onl y
draw envy and even dislike upon her In England the .
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where may dance in the ball room and tal k at the dinnel
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coming what is commonly known as a damper The .
spoons for the salt you must be content to use your kni fe
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do ,
applies to every kind of society At the same t ime .
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mto cons t ant practice The fruit you will soon reap You
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p osition people,
wi l l say of you He is a most a re e a bl
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and well bred man -
and be glad to i ntroduce you to good
society But you will reap a yet better reward Ye r w il l
. .
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106 ms SPI RIT or SOC IAL OBSERV ANC ES .
fo r t he time to o t hers
. How do you kno w what grie f or
care you may not obliterate what humiliation you may
,
what— last but really not least— what intense dul l nes
, .
and Wer ther S howed his misery by wearing the same coat
an d appendices fo r a whole year As to the saints they .
,
mu ses his mouth seven times the first thing in the morn
ing . It is strange that Manu while enumerating the ,
P robably the worthy old Hindu was par t ial to oscu l ation ,
of
“
l inen the finest quality plenty of it and country , ,
”
Washing Fi ne linen has always been held in es te em
.
.
mand .
w n c ie rg es may think .
1"
Th e l a te D uk e of Q u ee nsbur y h ad hi s milk bath -
e ve r y da y [t n
‘
ul a t i n
g liquids you S hould content yoursel f wi t h passing
,
handsomest men I ever saw and one who at six t y had not ,
work as this which does not take health as its main sub
,
coarse S ponge —the coarser the better will cost ano ther -
ens the circulation at once and sends the blood which has .
, , ,
ve n i e nt l
y be per formed withou t dressing should be so ,
.
de pe nds .
What Is more repulsive t han a woman a smile ’
11 6 IN SID E THE D RESSIN G ROOM -
.
for your o wn com fort you should brush your t eeth bot ],
”
polite I have had the wind in my teeth all t he way
.
,
to onions “
Well sir replied his friend who at once
.
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, , ,
down to wards the finger But t hen they cul t ivate b eau ty
.
in e very detail for poor things t hey have none but per
, , ,
the smallest is the same man who can compass the largest
,
r
y
,
was the bot t le imp-
o f a Bishop o f Here ford W ho in
.
try in the world where the latter have been held in such
dislike, as to compel them to abandon their uni form in
everyday li fe Perhaps it was on this acco unt that ci
.
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1 22 I N SI D E THE D RESSI N G ROOM -
.
s till be used .
”
t wIl razor But the war he made on his chin was very
.
.
, , ,
for each day o f the week so that no one shall be too much ,
which na t ure has given him i n the manner that nat ure ,
ker you should have their dress and their manner too
,
a puritanical
s .
cold I never have more than one cold per annum and I
.
,
o having i u st g ot no
f
.
126 INSI D E THE D RESSI N G ROOM -
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, , .
are not so easily attainable But the man who throws his.
t han t him .
12 8 THE LA D YS ’
TOI LET .
hav e inspired the nymph whom she loved with the belie f
in May dew tradi t ion handed do wn the counsel fro m one
genera t ion to ano t her the fairy or gnome smiling all the
, , ,
da ughters steal out and bend down amid the butter cup s -
, ,
For gentle ladies you may wash may bathe your forms
, ,
and faces curl your locks and shake out your crinoline ; ,
( 1 com ing out and abroad from your chambers youth , wil l
Sh ell e y .
E AR L Y RI SI N G . 1 29
not abide with you It is true that rules for habitual early
.
p arties or
,
great fatigue on the previous day or e xt reme ,
comple x ion .
”
whole Cyc l onze dia of narcotics , young women forget that
there is no roy a l oad to heal t h and beauty
r
They must .
, , ,
over his wholesale subj ects and to beguile him into Sparin g
,
of sa ffron
Suppose then that this first and vital standing order for
the to ilet be stringent and that re freshed and there for e
, ,
rouged to the very eyes ; t hose beau t i ful deep blue eyes
We ar e bl u sh in g r oses ,
Lo 1 my t h ou ghts of wh i te
And it was cer t ainly remarkable that a fter the Princ ess
’
Charlo tte s int roduction at Cour t rouge which had bee n , ,
Hunt .
RO UG E A ND C O SMETI CS . 1 33
own but there are lights in which the small deception will
be visible and the charm of all coloring is gone when it
,
de rne at h .
may not always inj ure the health it dries up the cuticle , ,
much sunburn t was t old that cucumbers cut into slices and
put into cream produce a decoction that would take off
,
used this very po wer ful specific and her face was blister ,
cd. Nothing indeed but time and cold weather will take
, ,
re e abl e remedy
g .
, ,
tion not only t horoughly but without irri ta t ing the skin ,
inflammation .
”
DO you want luxuriant hair ? is a question we see
daily in the papers ans wered of course by a Specific If
, , ,
.
I say the care ful brusher for great harm is oft en done t o
,
the best and the former is most eas ly Obtained gen u ine
, .
All sce ts are more or less inj urious to the air and they
n
h
,
”
ing even the “
luxuriant hair of a person in heal th if ,
be devised .
ports under the hair used at this time because they super ,
most inj urious to the hair ; but I own I obj ect much to
the e nds o f blac k lace bows of ribbon &C used by many
, ,
.
,
thos e past girlhoo d and not old enough to wear caps the
.
,
case is diffe re nt .
C HAPT ER III .
D RESS .
A STOR Y
says an emin e nt writer is ne ve r too ol d
, ,
”
to te ll i f it be made to sou nd ne w
,
If this be true I .
,
5 ,
( 1 38 )
14 0 D RESS .
we can be cer t ain from the fact that it has al ways a e com
a n ie d an absence o f goodne ss The best dressers Of every
p .
not pretend that the converse is true and tha t the best ,
take it as you will can only arise from one of two closely
,
wore it .
republic .
it was .
14 2 D RESS .
, ,
once more grace ful and more com for t able How complete .
, ,
his age not under five and sixty in a light cut away the - -
,
-
,
”
peg te p continuations and a turned do wn col lar It
-
,
-
.
,
;
e ver his age he will have some respect to his pro fe ssio n
,
wi t hout running into debt which is ano t her term for dis ,
”
be ing now qui t e ou t as he tells us Even when there
,
.
proo f of pretension .
,
~
g u l a r it
y so that,
i f you can discover what others wh o a re
mistakable surprise —
Qu est c c que c est que votre ami
.
’ ” ’
,
past century .
cu s t om
’
he r co u rt dre ss as at St James . However this might be .
15 0 D RESS .
e
xcuse f r t he fa shion which imposes the coat &c of P al l
o ,
.
us ,
i f less po we r ful close and o ppressive ,
Why then
should my I c rd Fashion permit the Frenchman and Yan
r
~
has been proved by statis tics that there are four single to
one married man among t he inhabitants of our mad houses -
,
-
.
their gloves and neck ties The deeper colors are some
-
.
,
.
. .
hand that wears its riches on its fingers has rarely wo rke d ,
73?
154 D RE SS .
, ,
t o a t t ack .
2 L e t i t b e S imple
. Elab orate studs w ais t coa t button s
.
,
-
, ,
gloves and so on
, Indeed i t is be tt er to wear no gloves
.
,
y ur laundress
o The beau x of forty years ba c k put on
.
LI NEN . 1 57
ing you must change your Shir t too There has been a .
, ,
the body from the sun and on the other hand Shields , , ,
it from the cold But the best sh irt of all part i cularly
. .
, ,
haps all o w me to suggest that the next best thin gto wea l
nex t the s kin is flam e and tha t too of the coarses t de
,
scri pt ion .
, , ,
, ,
vi z
,
N 0 rule .
a ppropriate to the season and the obj ect There are fou x .
,
-
,
-
man may do well with four of the first and one of each ,
present day Should not cost him more than the ten t h part
of his income on an average But as fortunes vary more .
, ,
~
attire .
. .
ordinary boots gloves not too dark for the coat a scar f
, ,
put them in his pockets is the natural action but this give s ,
, ,
mell made his reputat ion by the knot of his cravat and ,
stick in fact with no gold head and yet fo r the town not
, ,
ample and loose and a tall well built man may throw it
,
-
”
,
.
, ,
fine pai r of shou l d ers I may not be allo wed to strut alo ng
.
, .
tail coats and black cloth at any hour of the day and in
-
, , ,
an
y portion o f the civilized world but it will be under ,
,
'
”
did like Sa Majest é d en has and you will either be
,
’
,
, ,
tire you ade pt some por tion peculiar to a class belo w you
, ,
, ,
, ,
for all G erm a ns have bad tas te and bad le g s — who revived
th i s d i ous long obs i l e te instrument o f pers onal tor tur e
o
,
to a hot bag of thick stu ff round the leg ; how far pre fe
rable the freedom of trunk —hose to the har dly fough t ,
”
l iberty of the peg t e p trousers But it is not all
-
.
“ ”
ry disguise o f the human form divine i s one that ,
t he rule
For all evening wear — black cloth trousers .
worry or ball ,
The only distinction allo wed is in t he
.
.
, , ,
g ,
the room and dra wn off for dinner While on the one
,
.
,
”
Wash my hands when I ve done dancing we have no ’
,
he might pick his meat from the hot dishes more rapidl y
tha n the bare handed a u c s ts -
As to gloves at tea par ti es -
p e c t e d to be worn ; but
“
touch nor a eat but wit h a .
ried off his own to o I shall not easily forget the con
.
my hat and the host could not restrain some small face
,
t
se e ing anyth ing with the naked eye I am t he soul ( .
, , ,
”
best and so on and knows what things ou ght to be
, ,
p . e
8
170 D RESS .
“ ”
To be dressed on the other han d since by dress we
, ,
”
dre ssed and a man is called litt le dress e d well ,
” ”
dressed and much dressed not according t o the quan
, ,
j ockey w,
hom I meet in my walks a month be fore t he
” “
and t he same number of com forters
“
To be l ittl .
:
”
dressed is to wear old things of a make that is no lon ,
“ ”
To be much dressed is to be in the extreme of the
fashion with bran new clothes j e welry and ornaments
, , , ,
”
Ishould say J ones wa s a fast man said a friend to ,
”
me one day for he wears a white hat
,
If this idea of .
e verything to his ease and com fort The off hand style of .
-
c lothes and for my part I S hould rej oice t o see the Knick
,
'
son between our clothes and our skill A man who we ars .
use ful Having laid down the rule that a strict accuracy
.
p ockets gaiters
,
in one case and i f necessary ,
large booti, ,
breeche s and
some kind of boots are indispensable S o .
Ox ford who ride over the bou nds and like to display their
”
pinks In any case you are better with an ordinary
.
,
“
o nly by the fi ne old boys who hunted sir fi fty years , ,
”
hunting days sir ; such runs and such leaps
,
Again .
,
“ ”
your cords should be light in color and fine in quality
your waistcoat i f with a red coat quite light too ; your
, ,
small simple gold pin ; your hat S hould be old and your ,
”
e d and there fore less e x pensive to keep ; the tops are
“
,
p ipe c l~
aying the tops of the latter but the old ori ins
g , .
”
mahoganies of which the upper leathers are simply
,
LA D YS ’
D RESS .
dress ev ery day and who wore a small kerchie f over her
,
to hide her doubly tipped little finger dress has had its
-
,
”
and whilst extolled by the unco gude as a virtue may ,
( 1 76 )
THE LOV E OE D RESS . 1 77
g e nu i t
y and indus t ry in in feriors ; in the middle c l a ssel
”
vot io n to dress which forms in France a ,
Science apart , ,
pleasure to others .
ti on s
. N0 one looked better than my wi fe did to night -
of hi s decision .
even only hal f Worn out What gauzes and odds and .
,
another evil
; it has been found that the indu l gence in
pe rs mal luxury in women has an inj urious e ffect on the me r
l l tone It is in some na t ures the first symptom i f not
.
,
“ ”
daughters is reported to be able t o do with two thou
,
the price of a dress apologizing there for for She was muc h
, ,
was enough for any girl not of age even i f she had large ,
make rs bill s for his reckless spause the judge stated that
’
,
1 82 LAD Y ’
S D RESS .
which will com fort struggling pro fessional men and gen , ,
e ra l ly ,
be thank fu lly received by all who need some e u
tho r i ty to aid in keeping the milliner s bill within lue
’
respectability .
t aken This was to be the dress and the lady saw i t the
.
,
, ,
bons and old point lace Sometimes a tiny mob cap was
,
.
-
stuck on one side the whole was so immense that even the
huge family coaches were too small and the ladies usually ,
sat with their heads hanging out o f the window o f the car
ri a ge Powder was a main ingredient and hair—dressing
.
,
w s in deed a science
a On great occasions the hair dresser
.
-
, ,
stocking ; and the dress that could have stood alone com ,
Patc hes long held their reign ; and went out only with
rouge having even survi ve d the reign of powder
,
.
, ,
the top of the head and two or three curls worn in front ,,
p .
, ,
,
.
the hair ; over this rose the bow called — in comp l iment to
the first appearance of two gira ffes in this country— t he
gira ffe bows Their reign was short an d the hair san k
.
, , ,
wit h a gush gave the poor young lady breath ; the heart
,
It has been found also that the liver the lungs the
, , , ,
the practised tight lacer for vanity is gene rally obs t ina te
-
”
ar e no worse than your neighbors was the common e x
,
be done without inj ury ; no stays can ans wer the purpose
so well as those made by a good French stay maker who -
the tin ts of the dress : the whole is placed for inspe cti o n ,
”
hines with every hue ornament or flowers bu t t he , ,
tinc t ions .
Rich dark silks per fectly well fitting ample in skirt and
, ,
9
194 LAD Y S nnnss
’
.
, ,
to the bre e c h .
of ri c h n e ss in the dress .
For the countr y the attire should be taste ful and solid
,
and strong The h u net may still though plain and per
.
, ,
”
di se ase ,
as Mackenzie calls it has h owever yielded to , ,
u sl
g co
y accompanied it wi t h the Balmoral boot and eve n ,
c arriage or visiting d re ss
,
This should be e xceedingly
.
”
ch ap e a u d e f a tig u e A really good shawl or a mantle
.
,
o
f t h e ho u s e— point always
a to be taken into c onside ra
c i all
y bracelets are not inconsistent
, ; the dress should b e
, , , ,
, , ,
our ing e ven a t the I t alian opera in the simple toi l ette of
p
a sm ll di nner party The s or t i e d u ba t or short e ve
a .
,
.
”
this season whils t she is at the same t ime lavishi ng
.
, ,
that day ; some lined with cherry color ; others with blue ;
a fe w w i t h amber ; most with white Even a fter all the .
cal led g ood dresses seldom look well The heavy richly .
,
,
.
”
more e ffe c t t han any o t her c o il/ t i r e but t hey are whe l i c
ou t o f fashion on a young lad y s he a d The unmarri e d ’
,
.
ue t s o f flowers corresponding to t he g u i r l a n d e or c a
q
~
che pen i e on the head are the favorite dress of the young ,
”
w an ts mowing said a wag looking at a be auti ful ta ll e
, ,
tree .
204 LA D YS
’
D RESS .
he r costumes is remarkable .
good taste care fully preserve the fast fading attrac t ions -
The d ress is made even for elderly ladies low ; and the
, ,
with flowers .
Silk.
s ide
.
an
y other jewelry su fli c i e nt l
y handsome may be worn in ,
the hair but the two former are most frequently adopted .
usually black or brown like the hat The fea t her it may ,
.
,
F
inally as far as regards hats let a hint be th r own out
,
,
’
208 LADY S D RESS .
fair riders .
are once lost sight of— if fi fty a pes fift e e n— if the countess
A CCOMPLI S H MENTS
LORD B YRON in one of his letters tells u s tha t he might
have be e n a be an i f he had chosen to drink dee p and
,
”
of a compleat gentleman were to swear a ne w oath in
” “
e very sentence By the foot of Pharaoh
,
As I am a ,
'
snufl Opening the box with one hand the ease with whic h
, ,
and kill or k eep them ; the third fitted you for the society
of women .
( 2 09 )
210 A C C OMPLIS H MENTS .
”
l s h me nt s I a te r l n n i l ia s you err like many a British
’
p i . i
, ,
, ,
”
e y e e lation
-
”
th at is I reckon my dander s ris a bit a fter that Of
’
.
i
,
a nd down on his horse till his hat slips to the back of his
,
,
RI D IN G . 21 ?
you had not been able to come out on these subj ects .
10
21 8 A C COM PL I S HM ENTS .
,
»
,
.
chapter .
the lady is in the saddle you should o ffer t o put her foot
in the stirrup and to pull down the skirt and you th an ,
but not sti ffl y and well back in the saddle ; stick the
,
k nees into the sides thereo f and keep the feet parallel to ,
the horse s body the toes turned in rather than out The
’
,
.
hunt unless you have a good seat and a good horse and ,
you know some one in the field The first essential for .
precious animals .
siona l h u nt s ma n ev e r acquires
'
rise e ven less t han a man and neither o f them S hould lean
,
his ground .
”
a nd hansom cabmen as much as o f gentlemen but there ,
”
s on o f Nimshi was
“
no gentleman when we remind ,
l ike habit .
if I did not snatcl: a kiss there and then it was not for .
2 24 A CCOMPLI S H MENTS .
”
you fo r t hat ball sir ? not Ball you there as om
“
, , ,
’ ‘
di s plays in society
Simil a r observations apply to all kinds of out ( loc i -
in this respect he will for more reasons than one pre fer
, , ,
o ffer to take the greater share and will never S hirk his ,
”
is certainly desirable that a compleat gen t leman should
be able to handle an oar as well as a gun bo t h tha t whe n ,
, , ,
'
whe n he wants coals rings the bell and the but l e r comes
, ,
”
footman who comes up and puts it on
,
I t hought of the .
, , ,
“
more servants than a cook a maid and a buttons and , , ,
"
1 0*
22 6 A CCOMPL IS H MENTS .
, ,
it par ties and balls are given for the purposes of da nc ing
, ,
“ — — ”
Thank yo u a w I do no t dance is now a very ,
,
’
the l adies dresses are crushed and torn and the gentl e
’
.
228 A C CO MPLI S H MENTS .
dc n t
’
take re freshments Thank you I can t eat sup ,
’
“
per Thank you I don t talk Thank you I don t
,
’
,
’
”—
drink champagne for if a London ball room be pu rga
.
-
o
door post you may not be in the way you may be certain
-
how to dance .
The gaiety of .
ou treat her
y .
g
un for t unately common but immedia t ely stamps a ma n ,
y ,
of the room .
"
Steps as the c /za s s er of the quadrille is called be
, ,
sary to keep time with the music the great obj ect being ,
should a l vanc e from the one side and there fore none but ,
, ,
hate ful to me .
p ol k a and ,
an old woman i s ridiculous in a waltz C or .
so can any dance and the French c a n c a n pro ves that the
,
” “
them replied the prelate
,
I have never even seen a
,
walt z ”
. Upon this the younger ecclesiastic a ttempted to
ex plain what i t was and wherein the danger lay but the ,
k now so much about it does not appear but they cert ainly ,
” “
th ese seem harmless enough Oh ! but Monseigneur
.
ing can be more atrocious than to see a lady lay her head
’
on her par tner s S houlder ; but on the o t her ha nd sh e , ,
tion . The lady again Should t hro w her head and sh oul .
a l ls ensue fro m it
'
”
Au x ye ux b r ill an ts l es y e ux e te in ts .
other His hand there fore goes no further rou nd her waist
.
y ,
.
grace ful ; the feet are thrown out in a single l ong step,
which Turvey drop I presume would call a j e té
, ,
Afte r .
Wh e re is t h e Pyrrh ic ph a l a nx gone ?
h i ll room
-
”
“
the logic of the body ; and Addison de fends himsel f
‘
not to a calmer
,
more heavenly frame of mind To a
,
.
, ,
man in the society both of his own and the other sex It .
11
24 2 A CC OMPLIS H MENTS .
”
He can tell a good s t ory and sing a good song is al ,
men who play but little will sometimes inflict the [mu t ,
- -
811 t l
1 . .
, ,
, ,
”
“
I do not play and t he words are u nde rstood to mean
,
skill ra t her than the result of the game must be the point
of interest .
the gam e is not a social one and re quir e s too much air ,
, ,
the joint which he carved very ill at all times and where
, ,
,
the firs t receiver has done and is ready for a second help
tn
g . W hen at l a st t he hungry fa t her or elder bro t her c an
y u r o wn
. When thus situated the following hi nts will
.
,
be found u se fu l .
H INTS ON C A RV I N G A ND H ELPIN G .
to head under the upper side which is t hen divided into two ,
.
you value your fi ngers you will take care tha t the guar d ,
more ways t han one o f cut t ing the same joint that some ,
nati ve
is the best j oint and is bes t cut i n very t hin slices clo se
.
rous cut from the edge to t he bone The meat then flies .
side of the opening t ill you can out no more You may .
slice ,
your guests will not and in company you mu st
t
h ere fore begin in t he middle The kn uckle shoul d poin t
to w a rds your le ft You then cut from the side farth e r
.
then to cut off the breast and fi nally separate the ribs
,
.
thin slices on each side The meat round the eye a deli
.
,
~
not be too thin ; and the stu ffing in the centre should be
helped wi t h a spoon In a breas t of veal the ribs shoul d
.
, ,
c urm e t you will get his ear by sending him pus s s and
/
’
, ,
have done your Best the flesh is not worth eating e xcept ,
HI NTS ON C A RV IN T
} . 25 7
back with the fork The side bones come off next in a
.
-
joined are ,
simply turned back wi t h the kni fe be fore the
operation commences A p he a s a n t is carved like a fo wl
. .
” “
Of a g oo s e or a t u r k ey we are told it is vulgar to
cu t more than the breast but there can be no vu l gar i ty ,
.
26 0 FEMI NI NE ACCOMPL IS H MENTS .
again ; the world is too large and we are too rich Elo
,
.
q u e nc e even ,
wen t out ,
w i t h metal bu t t ons and w h i t e
p lay e d even w
,
i t hou t t ha t gre a t execution which c omp e ls
listening are o ft en ai ds to conversa t ion : it flo ws the mor e
,
those associa t ions too have their value The air that
, , .
honored .
y , ,
whole co mp a ny .
.
,
A moth e r wi t h h er da ngli te r s or he r n ie c e s ,
“
D on t forget me
’ ”
Ins t rumen t al music is a pnrOpriata
.
and even the finest ama t eur vocal per formers have l os t
pain fully .
12
26 6 FEMI N I NE A CCOMPLI b fl MENTs .
mili t ates most agai nst good breeding is an indi ffe rence to
or want o f considera t ion for t he fe e lings o f o t hers ; and
,
'
,
pro fes s ion tha t he“
,
whit the more insure the good feeling which ought to sug
gest the good acts .
ing worse than the laws of the realm which show how ,
t
he world might te ll me I was teaching hypocris y I am .
of Manner be necessary
,
.
th e line bet ween the two and to show where the one ,
“
we hear ,I think Mr is a very excellent man bu t
.
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274 MANNER C ARRI AG E, A ND H AB ITS .
hi m a nd he a nnihil a t es by w n t o f c on s i de ra t i o n a l l the
,
a .
and when she has made t hei r hear t s her o wn the least ,
”
the head through t he heart and we may be sure that ,
”
“
isa mass of tarlat ane and a fl e c tat ion My dear Be
'
a
.
Believe me that men who are worth your arrows will not
be smitten wi th tinsel sha f s ; believe me t h a t the bette r t
these days But Tibbs feels wi thin him the Sp i rit of gov
.
”
Did you ever he a r su c h nonsense ? giving you goo d
re asons forsoo t h i f poe t s a nd philosoph e rs co u ld be me a
companion .
. .
”
ing for him ; he will only dra wl out a No o o or a - -
,
.
who t errifie s you with his curt blunt manner ; and Lack
adaye who is so languid that he cannot t ake the troubl e
,
a t all .
.
,
Papa with the same kind of banter Pat e rfam may give . .
”
at a visit o f condolence or be you the most bereave d
of widowers you will not bring your tears and sighs to
,
”
a l ways with t he men mus t exp e c t to find t h e m some
,
u r vi n
g t he back in wa rds The ches t sho u ld be expand e d
.
,
bu t no t s o much as to make “
a presence The head ’
.
than to a man .
In lis t ening again you should mani fest a cer t ain inte
, .
may cross your legs i f you like but not hug your knees ,
.
,
-
na t e creature s eye
’
.
ad e
r i s d ressing will
’
ill admit that our men are dis
,
st
”
! i ng n es m en s t r e s di s t i ng u é s If the face fol l ow s the
' ‘
.
,
down a fist upon the table nor slapping one hand u pur ,
,
-
t h e fingers
" So t oo in blo wing your nose you mu st net
.
,
ly ; and when
,
you sn e e z e use your handk e
,
rc h i ef I do
not go the leng t h o f sayi ng t hat you must repres s a
sneez e entirely Th e re is a pl easant custom still uni ver
.
,
a n tr
y in some par t s o f England o f blessing a
p e rso n wht
excuse for rising from the dinner table where there are no -
ladies to go to .
c a mbs consents a
,
nd rather than lose her lord or master
.
,
even supplies the hate d herb with her own fair hands .
palaces and matrons sat over the cups of their lords and
, ,
13
2 90 MA NNER, CA RRI A G E, A ND H AB ITS .
cu t ate .
fresh fruit too is eaten with the natural prongs but when ,
with the aid of the fork unless you can succeed in brea k
,
in
g it Apropos
. o f which I may hint that no epicur e
so as to hold its own j uice and its own s ugar too is one
, ,
whether you are a well —bred man or not ; and here let me
premise that what is good manners for a small dinner is
good manners for a large one and vi c e ver s é Now the ,
.
,
throw your head back like that you look like an ald e r ,
none indeed ! ,
V ery likely in m y house You may be ,
.
, ,
oc k et —
handkerchie f So talk away to the lady on you r
p .
will do but I beg you will not make that odious noise in
,
need not sc rape up the plate in that way nor even tilt it ,
more ; but I must j ust remark , that it the cus tom i s not
able habit But don t you hear the servant o ffering you ’
.
and onc e for all whatever you eat keep your mouth s hu t
, ,
have your own way Perhaps next you will be asking me.
sir ? You did not come merely to eat but to make you r ,
”
Say no That is t he fourth time Wi ne has bee n
.
and you must eat it wi t h your fork Break the rusk with .
of one wine only You don t mean to say you are hel p ’
.
is empty You need not eat dessert till the ladies are
.
g one but
,
o f
f er them whatever is nearest to you And .
now they are gone draw your chair near mine and I will
, ,
What ! you are e x cited you are talking loud to the col
,
and tea which I beg you will not pour into your saucer
,
to 0001 Well the dinner has done you g ood and me too
.
, ,
.
not l e s m a n i er e s p r e v e n a n t es
‘
”
. i vi l they are ashamed to get i t out
,
Since the man .
be o ffered .
Do the young ? ”
The young are per fect now—a days ! -
.
,
( 2 98) w
3 00 THE CA RRI AG E or L A D IES .
render it so .
g g .
, ,
.
the very extent and deafen you for all other sounds ;
,
they may speak the words Of wisdom but you wish the m ,
“
manner ; it is not ati e c t ation it is her manner only
'
, ,
”
manne r Afl e c t ati on has long ceased to be the fashion
'
.
,
in shops .
cottage .
“
One great discredit to the present day is the fas t
”
young lady She i s the hoyden of t he Ol d comedies
,
,
”
t al ks o f
“
the men of such and such a charmer
,
“
.
"
She does not mind but rather pre fers sitting with
,
t he
p yl a s bi lliards But i t
. is in her marked antagonism to h e r
one charm a fter another dis a ppears like the petals from a ,
her from discerning when she has gone too far and the ,
”
fast young lady becomes the hardened and practised
flirt against whom all men are on their guard
,
.
, ,
blue stocking
-
You may know the prude by her stoli d
.
satic n reprehensive
,
She has started in li fe with an im
.
~
The prude and the pedant are Often firm friends eac h .
“ ”
epith e ts : Idiot dolt wretch humbug dI Op from he r
, , , ,
’
the same time mys t ifving The young blue stoc king has
,
.
thing itsel f .
any one as she goes Ne ver let her apologize for not
.
, ,
should always be the first and sole object when alone with
you .
”
appears to think do her t he honor to enter her house
,
.
me n.
She has a chair ready for every one and the room s ,
“ “
is n eglected Something civil ( and civil with eas e ’
”
th e better .The conversation is soon general though ,
At a e d the usual time you rise and the lady follo ws you
y , ,
hich a m d—
w a l p rop os visit o ften seems to produce in a
-
a lady o ft en rings the bell to let you out o ften sitting down ,
ance ,
a cordial pressure n ot s h a k i ng of the hand ex , ,
ing the body from side to side or the ver y slow gait which
,
not for dancing alone but for the even more important at
,
, ,
, ,
br ef wha t ever may be the spot chosen for the gay peacoc ks
,
to s t ru t in .
you bow sligh tly and pass on T h ere are one or two
,
.
, .
a lady whom you kno w sligh t ly you must wait till she ,
bows to you You t hen li ft your hat quite off your head
.
the person you meet You li ft it off your head but that
.
,
whi ch I hope you will not , you take them out be for e how
THE SA L UTE . 31 8
raise your hat all the same but you do not shake hands ,
u nless the lady puts out hers which you may take as a ,
ste p long but the lady again has the right to prolong t he
,
once stop and give the hand and enter into conversation .
stop ,
still less so i f she is walking with a lady or gen
,
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51 4 THE PROMEN A D E, ETC .
i ntroduce m
e m also and it then
,
behooves you to m 01
fu r t her .
and moved away ; but be fore the P rince was out of hear
pl ace it does the cutter as much inj ury as the c u ttee The
, .
You go out happen to meet and cut him dead The next
, ,
.
”
boy making love to Matilda ! he cries indignan t ly and ,
orders the said Matilda and her mamma to cut him Mont .
k itchen .
“
Not acc u stomed to associate wit h menials ”
,
clas s than our own must the Smiths whose father was a ,
have once been familiar with the Simpkinses you are not ,
acc ount allow him to speak to you and t he n s tar ing him
, ,
”
in the face e xclaim ,
Sir I do not kno w you ! or as
, , ,
behead him with the fixed stare ; but rather let him see
th a t you have noticed his approach and then turn yc a! ,
come up to you a fter that bow to him sti ffly and pass on
, .
very early form of salutation and one that has not yet .
it still preserved in our courts But this was too awk ward
.
— ”
his marrow bones whenever he met a constituent or a ,
”
clergyman wearing the knees of his black limb covers
i nto shining patches as he walke d the p a rish and met Ti n .
the knees were bowed is not yet quite vanished from the
modesty of our land Maid servants and country w1ves
.
-
re t ain it still .
THE KIss. 32 1
,
.
in a ny other animals .
pression of the wish that his proboscis may not drop off
so me cold morning ; an d indeed thi s custom must assist i n
where the feet get terribly dry from the heat of the soil ,
us 3
, a ve ry early
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822 THE PROMEN AD E, arc .
— —
is let us hope even in ngland the most innocent thing
E
in the worl d Certainly about the period o f our own
.
,
”
e ra,
the kiss o f peace was a mark o f love betwee n
“
Wh il e b ehi n d th e v e st ry door
H or ac e Twi ss wa s s n a t c hi n g a ki ss
From t he l ip s o f H anna h Moor e .
while he hates you The hand is a fter all the m ost nat u
.
'
the mysterious salu t e with signs for the eye they are ra re ,
ter royal arch knight templar and all their other absu r
, , ,
me she could not love me and when she would not l isten
, ,
Wards .
bred man who with a smirk on his face j ust touches the
.
, ,
is the blunt honest shake of the rough who lays out his ,
hand with the palm e pen and the heart in the hollo w of
it stretches it well out and shake s and rattles the one
, ,
there is the style of the man who gives your hand one
tos s as i f he were ringing t he dinner bell ; and anothe r
,
-
t he fingers .
a trussed fowl and the long fingers are extended with the
,
”
hand old boy !
, Then of s t vl es to be always avoided ,
al l m e j u di ce
, is the hearty single clasp full hand ed
,
-
, ,
sa t ion can here spea k more freely The talk can descend
, .
( 880)
882 V ISITS, I NTROD UCTI ONS , ETC .
send in the letter with your card and ask for admission ,
.
you do not know nor address one to one whom you know
,
the custom for the new comer to call on the residents firs t
j ust the reverse of ours .
vISITs or CEREMON Y . 83 8
, ,
you must not l OOk at your watch but wait till there is a ,
the person on whom you call you may ask in the firs t ,
gay Whatever you may feel you must respect the sor
.
,
rows Of others .
distance .
cards are cheap you must never leave more than three at
,
,
-
”
so is you should leave a card because young l adies do
, ,
”
J ones ,
and escape If you have to present three or fou r
.
15
3 38 V ISITS, INTRODUCTI ONS. ETC .
i nte nded to dec e ive and since the words are universa lly
understoo d to mean t hat you are eng a ged it can be no ,
must hold his hat grace fully not put it on a chair or table , ,
“ ”
bore is a person who does not know when you have had
e n ough Of hi s or her company Las tly a lady never call s .
,
At the same
,
340 V ISITS I NTROD UCTIONS, ETC .
you will retire to your own occupa t ions soon a fter break
fast unless some arrangement has been made fo r passing
,
cause a host who receives much should pay his own ser
vants for the extra trouble given Some people have mad e
.
, ,
,
.
CHA P T ER XI .
”
“
B OA RD ! cr ied a friend Of mine one morning aft er a
heavy dinner party ; It ought to be spelt bored Neve r
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.
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, ,
( 3 12 )
84 4 nm ns a s, ma ma s AND D INNER PARTI ES. -
should o f his own free will spend twice the sum o nce a
,
-
of the dishes we now spread only for the rich the fash ,
“ ”
affo rd £ 5 for the starving should on no account af ,
‘
omes almost lo w when dinner parties take the semblanc e -
1 5*
34 6 D I NNERS, D I NE RS, A ND D I NNER PART ES -
I .
you do not feed them wi t h the es pecial dain t ies they l ook
for their gra titude shows itsel f i n sneers at your hos pi
,
~
8 18 D INNERS, D I NERS, AN D D I NNE R PA RTIES -
.
women you love ( two of each for no man can find m ore
-
per fect your guests will spoil it all by falling into coup
,
rate the opposite guests too far for easy and general c on
versation Las tly i f your means enable you to dine a
.
,
”
soul c a n t here possibly be bet ween a hundred na
, y ev en , ,
,
THE D ININ G ROOM. -
al wa ys the m t
os com or
f t able If the party h e sm a.ll —a ir
u lu
- ‘
o nes .
”
ners cut oil the lord a nd l ady o f t he fe ast from their hon
e red guests and n e c e ssi t a ted leani ng across ; while i f
.
c r ne
y p g ,
f
, ,
e ve r ,
mus t no t be le ft in darkness and lamps may be ,
”
fe c tl y clean They should have t h e ir be a t s like po
.
, ,
-
,
A RRA N G E M EN T or THE TA B L E .
3 53
White a ama sk
t able cloth over it what a re we to place ,
too large and on each side towards the t hin ends of the
,
and the best of its kind is the fit test service to dine off, ,
p art ,
I pre fer t o think t hat no hands h a ve be e n soi l in g
t negl e ct it
o .
g
r
and as t he gues t s pass in I may here observe th
. a t t hi
“
o bj ec t o f soup being t o tak e the chill e ff the appe t i te “
deaux wines ga in ra t her than lose by the mix t ure and you
, , ,
which will not destroy your tas te for the good wines t o
fo l l ow it A sensible man avoids varie ty in drinking
. .
German wine for the meal and cl aret for dessert will , ,
, .
“
other th e n pas s it round and le t s have another six ’
,
”
penn orth’
The connoisseur o f beer righ t ly judges tha t
.
for the beer with cheese but the drink with the German ,
, ,
eels ,
and l ampreys ( both of which must be mad
mussels ,
e ra te ly ind ulged in t he one producing very o ft en a rush
,
—
are scores o f ways of dressing them all too which you can ,
l e arn in any good cookery book and almost any fish can -
”
was a boy Oysters t hough e a ten a t dinn e r in France
.
,
.
, ,
2 Fish
. .
vea l
5 The ro ast or p i ec e de r es is t a n c e
.
, .
6 V egetables
. .
7 The game
. .
9 The ice .
1 0 The dessert
.
.
,
dresse d is “
a di sh to set be fore a ki ng and that you .
,
SA LA D S 86 ]
Of morde nt mu s ta rd , a dd a s i n gl e spoon
An d on c e wi t h v in e ga r
p ro c ur e d fro m t own
Tru e fl a vor n e e ds i t , a n d y ou r poe t be gs
Le t onion a to ms l u rk wi t h in t h e bo wl ,
And , sc ar c e s u spe c te d , a ni ma t e t h e wh ol e
t h e fa vor d c ompou nd t oss
’
And l a stl y , on
A magic s poo n fu l o f a nc ho vy s a u c e .
—
Fa te c ann ot h a rm me I h a ve d in e d to day -
.
,
16
U I A N ERS, D I NERS, A ND D I NNE R PA RTIES
-
.
”
l est med to encourage our minion lyricists and ther e ,
as l ar e a corpora t ion as a n
g y o t her o f the nine t .
9”
els e is t he meaning o f writing fo r bread
But stop I had n early forgo t t en G race Well that is
,
.
,
“
Better a dry morsel where love is t han a stalled 0x , ,
”
s nd l e t me adapt it t o the present day g r u mblw g
th erewi th Ho w o ften does a man say the words o f his
r a c e a nd soon a ft er find fault wi t h the dinner u n ra te
g , g ,
each plate when the dinner is really good and the din
, ,
ne r giver a n epicure
-
missed the ladies sit for a short time at dessert and then
,
door for them and all the rest rise and stand by thei r
,
”
c hairs Then comes the drawing round and the c on e
-
.
,
ladies ears
’
.
wine and he may rise and leave the dining room be fore
,
-
“
join the ladies which he should do whenever he sees
,
an
y one growing warm over his port and talking too free
ly. Coffee and tea are both served up stairs and both ,
as four hours to digest and that the best aid to digest ion
,
will assimilate far better with the poor author than with
the millionair e weal t h simply because it is wealth gains
, ,
those who are left out ; and many lose valuable friends
who howe ver conscious they may be of an inferior posi
,
and hostess has long since passed away and to the fac ili
,
or G UESTS .
they can t ell you lit t le but how bad their quarters wer e ,
and how they were hurried away from such and such a
y oursel f as
,
i f you were subjecting yoursel f to a cross
e xami nation . Yet the late Lord G renville remarked th at ,
for he was then sure that some good topic would be started .
16*
370 L A DLE S AI
'
A D I NNER .
s tances .
“
Perhaps says D r Johnson good breeding co nsi sts
,
.
,
-
their wives and families are there fore fi t for any society ;
there is no possible obj ection to their mixing a t a dinner
table with nobility provided they be well bred and agree
,
-
of t he barristers .
look as well as she can To this end her room and all
.
all at once she must not be hurried yet each and all mu s t
, ,
“ ”
ca ll out dinner to the servant be fore the door was
closed The French host and hostes s would di e rather
.
delay .
with the one he has chosen to the dinner table and place s -
,
.
arrangement .
rises with his appointed lady neighbor gives her his arm , ,
It must not be forgotten that all the com fort and par t
of the success of a dinner party must depend on the pre
-
r ovmce
p .
‘
the assuming of them at proper times and in prope l
”
pl aces .
as a ins t itution
Th e: t on ne ta bl e . ct mi gue z m f m m
C HA P T ER XM L
B ALL S .
in
g
-
room pillaged o f its carpet and furniture and in cours e ,
put the fi nal stroke to his misery by mistaking him for his
own butler ; when Pa t e r fa m undergoes this and more he
.
,
t hat she is engaged to the young and weal thy Sir Thysse
T hatte Bar t and that it was at one ball he me t her a t
, , ,
, ,
”
How many shall we ask Arabella ? ,
large ball .
’
”
c om fort .
”
"
And the hall .
su re fi
’
,
B ALLS . 381
”
cider that you have done the notorious if not the agree
,
“
Any number over one hundred constitutes a larg e
ball below that number it is simply a ball and u n
,
’
,
’
mo re e njoyable it will be .
"
What s h a l l we do for gentleman mamma ? I have ,
”
twen ty five partners fo r t hem
-
.
like kitten ”
How De Boo t s of the Mu fii ne e rs comes to
.
“
We ll my love says mamma
,
” “
,
we must get some ,
P aris and in its magni fi cent rooms gave some of the larg
,
“
e st and most brilliant balls but o wing to the friend
’
, ,
gentleman went up to her and told her that there was one
of the swell mob present Mrs P— was dea f and amia . .
”
he has had some supper But the disciple of Fagan had
.
ro om .
”
two In the flats of the l a rge French houses you
.
“
,
,
,
, _
”
dance is a bad dance and the cloth drawn over the Kid ,
, ,
you should hire a man who with a brush under one foot , ,
four or five hours till you can almost see your face in it
,
.
Above all take care that there is not bees wax enough
,
’
-
and violi n form the mainstay of the band ; but if the room
17
3 86 B ALL S .
oth e r dance .
, ,
parties they give you towards the end of the evening hot , ,
i
te rr ble prej udice against beer in England bu t it is pe r ,
, ,
ar
e i ndispensable an element o f the ball —
supper as trifle
tipsy cake and mayonnaise which last if made with
-
, ,
.
4
dances are formed and a well bred young lady does not
,
-
dance till she ha s found partners for all the young ladies
or as many o f them as can be supplied from the ranks of
the r e crui t s present No w a nd then you will s ee her dart
.
”
wi thout you some what reluctantly accepted per form ed
, ,
”
pink Miss A
,
I advise you to get introduce d t o her .
beauty once did at the Tuiler ies I have not the pleasure ,
”
of your acquaintance by which she acqu ired the reputa
,
”
engaged .
“
I have a slight headache and do not inte nd ,
3 92 B A L Ls
upon and a you ng lady who does not wish to have her
,
h r sel f
e
.
,
B A LL ROOM-
MA NNERS . 3 93
for the next dance You will have the pleasure of hea r
.
u
Sh e sa i d , I a m a -
we a r y a -
w e a ry ,
I wo u l d I we r e i n be d f ’
, , ,
,
t
Versa tion .
1 74t
3 94 B ALLS .
ca tc l
y
. W hat must the sta t e o f t heir minds be if t he
tc o much c hampagne .
. .
”
to go to s upper and i f s he says yes which in 9 9 9
, , ,
eve r l i t tle you may relish this you must no t show your ,
"
f not a t a side t able or even at none you m ust be as ao
-
, ,
matters you had better at once get her some thing sub
,
,
-
hunt b lls are gen e rally bet ter t h a n common s u bsc rip
-
a
,
t i on balls
-
Charity b alls a r an abomin able a n o ma ly
.
-
.
lic balls are scarcely e nj oyable unless you have your own
party .
M OR N I N G A ND nvnzu x e m a mas .
Ha t r e d o f Turks ,
Th e w ish of m y l a dy l o v e ,
-
B e cau s e it t h e f as h io n ,
’
s
Lo v e of b l oo ds h e d ,
For th e s a ke o f th e pa rty ,
898 MORN r N o A N D E V EN I N G PA RTIES .
” “
a r ty to see the sun set , make a p a r ty to t a k e a
p
wa lk ; m ake a party to hear t he nigh tingal e ma he
3 party to go to church make a par ty to go no wher e
” “
ne a r church but to Hampstead Hea t h i nstead 5
,
mak e
a par ty to ride a donkey make a party to play at a
”
new g ame make a party to do nothing at all There .
the very people who rail at balls and parties and a muse ,
“ ”
na me o f charity I don t t hink the Pharisees were
.
’
, g
th e s a me ul timate aim may be gove rned by the same laws
l h a v e m a d e an except ion for dinn e r and dances b e caus e ,
t ween nine and ten and the party breaks up be for e one
,
or one chair .
find t hat people kno w when to use t heir t ongu e s and whe n
their e a rs As to t he e t ique t te o f m u sic it is the sol e
-
.
,
ha v e qu i c k l y cho s e n t h e ir s o ng or pi e c e n e v e r wa i t ti ll
the comp a ny is silen t do n o t go o n pl a yi n
,
i nt r o o u c t i r y g
te rri ble con fusion The best way of giving recep t ions
.
,
be eng a ged for the former none bu t r e al amat e urs for the
,
l a tt e r
. Bo t h ought to be but rarely are follo wed by a
,
sli pper since they are gene ra lly very fatiguing if not
, ,
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