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Starting Point
Our Christian life properly begins with God and God’s love. God loves us first and the way we
live our Christian life is our response to God’s love.
Our image of God is crucial; how we imagine God affects how we respond to Him.
If our predominant image of God emphasizes love and mercy then our relationship with God
and others will be shaped and guided by love and mercy.
The best image we have of God’s love is Christ who is the fullness of God’s self-revelation.
When we look to Christ in the Gospels we see the perfect expression of God’s love for us.
Discipleship in Christ
The proper moral response to God’s love to is to live a life in imitation of Christ.
The Lord says to each one of us, “Come follow me,” and we respond by being his disciples and
following his example of love in our lives.
In the Gospels we encounter a variety of images used by Christ that reveal to us the depth, the
greatness, and perfection of God’s love.
It is important to consider these images as guides for our moral response to God.
God’s love for us does not depend on our behavior – our sins do not diminish God’s love nor our
good works increase God’s love.
God does not force us to love him; God invites us to communion with Him.
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him
shall not perish but have eternal life.” Jn 3:16
God would rather suffer and die for us rather than lose us to sin.
Sometimes our experiences of imperfect human loving can cause distortions in our image of a
loving God, especially when we encounter sin, pain and tragedy.
We sometimes make the mistake of thinking that God’s love is like imperfect human love –
selective, arbitrary, conditional.
Distortions can also come from some scripture passages that use human metaphors to describe
God, particularly in the Old Testament.
When biblical writers use human metaphors to describe God they draw from their own cultural
experiences. Sometimes these metaphors are imperfect and their meanings can be
misinterpreted by readers.
God uses evil (the plagues) to do good (freeing the Israelites from slavery).
Sacrifice of Isaac
Jesus had to introduce more authentic images of God’s love to correct distorted beliefs that
Israel had about God (e.g. Punishing God image in OT is countered by the Parable of the Prodigal
Son and the Good Shepherd image in the NT).
When we unconsciously allow distortions to affect how we see God our sense of morality and
our sense of sin are directly affected.
If our image of God becomes less loving and less merciful, our treatment of ourselves and other
also becomes less loving and less merciful.
We need to identify and guard against these distortions in order to conform our lives to the love
of God.
This image can come from childhood experiences with strict authority figures who emphasized
obedience to rules.
This image can also come from biblical passages that portray God punishing rule breakers (e.g.,
Adam and Eve, Israel and the golden calf, etc.)
We might think of God as being strict with rules and will get angry or displeased if we violate
rules or are unable to follow them perfectly.
If we view God predominantly as a strict lawgiver we end up with a life that overemphasizes
observance of the law.
We begin to measure our goodness and the goodness of others based only on obedience to
rules.
We are unable to deal with situations that are not covered by existing rules of the Church. We
either become paralyzed or insist on a forced application of the rules.
Missing a deadline
God gave us laws to guide our loving; not to make us slaves to the law
Goal of moral life is imitation of Christ, not blind observance of the law.
Laws are valid only insofar as they help us to love like Christ.
Result:
Our experience of reward and punishment at home and in school can develop in us a
predominant image of a God who relates to us simply through reward and punishment.
“I think God is always watching and judging my every move. if I am good, God will love me more
and I will have many blessings in my life; if I am bad, God will withdraw his love and I will get
punished with bad things in my life.”
The problem with this image of God is that, it does not match what we see in reality – evil
persons seem to prosper and bad things happen to good people.
This perceived inconsistency can lead people to question God’s love -- some would conclude
that God is cruel, has favorites, or is blind to human suffering.
Some people would also interpret every tragedy as a punishment from God for some unknown
sin and blame themselves for deserving such a punishment.
Such an image of God will foster a morality that justifies strict punishment of sinners. We
become less compassionate to others who are less than perfect.
An image of God that rewards and punishes could also lead to a morality that equates goodness
with prosperity and sinfulness with suffering.
Such an image could lead to one to think that God’s love has to be earned as a reward for good
behavior. This can affect how we relate with others – we seek to earn other people’s love and
other people have to earn our love.
Loving is reduced to a transaction. It is not freely given; it is something one has to earn.
We end up confessing tragic situations as if these were God’s punishments for sin:
A miscarriage is confessed as a punishment for negative thoughts about the pregnancy.
Even if the bible gives us images of God as a judge we still affirm that God is primarily a God of
love and mercy.
Result:
We learn to relate to God not with fear but with humble and loving gratitude.
Result:
We rest in the assurance of God’s free and unchanging love; we become more generous and
free in our loving.
We also seek to treat others with fairness and equality; we strive to end unjust inequalities in
the world.
God as Tester
Some people view many difficulties in life as challenges sent by God to test one’s faith.
This view can come from a literal reading of bible passages where God is presented as testing a
person’s faith (e.g., Abraham; Job)
“If I am unable to cope with my problems and I get upset or I question God, then my faith is
weak and I failed God’s test.”
Negative emotions such as anger, frustration, and sadness are seen as signs of a weakening of
one’s trust in God’s love. To give in to these feelings is a sign of lack of faith and a failure in
God’s test.
Some people feel guilty about questioning God about bad things that happen in their lives; they
think that one should never question God’s ways -- it would be a sign of disrespect (like
questioning the decisions of a parent).
God understands how we feel and he send us the Spirit to console us and strengthen us when
problems become too heavy.
Result:
I stop blaming God and now I can face problems with God at my side.
We realize that it is normal to feel sad and to cry out to God in times of trouble – these are not
signs of a weak faith.
Correcting this image:
If we fail despite our best efforts, we have not committed any sin. God values the best efforts
we give.
Life is not a test; it is journey with Christ (with others) to our heavenly home.
Result:
I begin to have peace because I now know God is not testing me. God is beside me through all
the ups and downs of life.
Some people see God as a master controller who plans everything that will happen in their lives.
They believe that a person cannot escape the will of God.
When dealing with difficulties in life, they either become passive and resigned to their suffering
as part of God’s plan or they rebel and blame God for being cruel and arbitrary.
Sometimes they will try to make deals with God to influence God’s plan for their life. (I will be a
priest if God will take care of my parents; I will stop drinking if God will save my sick child)
People who see God as a controller would confess “sins” that go against their perception of
God’s plan for them:
God does not cause evil to happen. He helps us to do good despite the evil around us but He
never uses evil to do good.
Result:
I am encouraged to use my freedom responsibly and choose the good that God desires for me.
I do not condone or tolerate evil. I seek to actively fight against evil in the world.
An Image to heal
our distorted images of God
Always turn to Christ on the cross when you start wavering in your belief in God’s love.
On the cross, all you see is God’s absolute and total love for us.
Christ on the cross teaches us that God’s response to sin is forgiveness not punishment.
A God who gives himself totally to us does not let rules get in the way of his loving.
A God who is willing to die for us would never want to punish or harm us.
A God who has an eternal love for us is not interested in testing us because he already loved us
from the beginning of Creation.
Reflection Questions