Reflection paper on "Children learn what they live"

The poem tells exactly what a child will be base on what his parents way of living. Either way

of living a child will always be influence and adopt the type of person their parents used to be.

Growing up with my parents defines of who I am now. But as what I observed, having a lot of

siblings each may have different and multiple personalities. I have nine siblings with same father

and mother and my parents practice heartedly the religion, they live in an old way, and they

always discipline us, keep on reminding things that we should ought to live and learn. But each

of us grew different way, I don't know exactly but as an observation I have siblings who don't

pray and wear hijab even my parents practice those things. Maybe we are in the generation

where environment is the great influencer than parents. At school children spend more time

than at home. And what they see they always do and copy it. What are children before got big

differences from now. Most of their mindset think that if you will be praise even in bad things

make them good which is sometimes not and it only brings them harm.

It's undoubtedly that a man's behavior will be shaped on how he has been nultured and

disciplined by his parents. There are some instances and some parents failed to attend the

responsibility and obligation to what is ought for them to attain for. The stage being parents

requires full attention as it's their duty to guide their children and grow responsibly.

The perspective of every child in dealing with situations will depends on how they have seen

their parents used to do it. Say for example, the environment you are living with has different
cultures and races. If your parents hate and discriminate others you are more likely be

influenced by how they treat them. Because being a child as experienced, everything that you

will see from your parents you think are correct. If you see them doing things that way, you will

also do things that way. Just like the religion that you have, if you see your mother wearing

"hijab" you will also be influenced to wear hijab as it's your mother used to practice.

What you will be depend on what your parents are. And every practices that they used to

have will be possibly pass from generation to generation. Parents have to lead by example. They

should show to their children what their children ought to learn. They may adopt some traits

from environment, however, what completes their character are parents way of living.