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Thesis Statement: Love coming from the opposite sex, sharing of one’s
misery, and building up families are the unmarried
person’s regrets of not marrying in her entire life
I. Introduction
A. Importance of marriage
B. Purpose of writing
II. Life of married couple
A. Nothing separates
B. Blessings gained
C. Doing of planning
III. Love of each other
A. Outcomes
1. Happy together
2. United together
B. Trust
1. Stronger relationship
2. Longer relationship
IV. Sharing of one’s misery
A. Open as one
1. No secrets
a. No secrets in the family
b. No secrets in each life
2. No frustrations
B. United as one
1. Happy life
2. Blessful life
V. Building of family
A. More happiness
1. Physical happiness
2. Emotional happiness
B. More planned
1. Children
a. Number of children
b. Disciplined of children
2. Future
VI. Conclusion
THE SINGLE GEMINI
Regrets of Not Marrying in Your Entire Life
“ Now to the unmarried and to all the widows, it is good for them to remain as
they are, but if they cannot exercise self control, they should marry, for it is better to
Better get married than never because you will experience happiness, love and
contentment. Happy are those who are married because they can inherit the things they
want. There’s the love that will go deeper and deeper each day that you’re together. Love
Love makes your relationship strong. Love also makes you open and united as
one. You will be united and open with the anxieties and problems in life. As a result, both
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As you get married you will become better person in the family and a good father
to your children. Getting married is not an easy task or a simple choice to take. This is the
time wherein you will encounter the sorrows and joys of life. Sorrow will come at the
least expected. Thus, we should not take for granted all the possibilities we have to face if
There is joy when there is satisfaction in needs. Building a family is the main
goal. This family will serve as the inspiration to decide on what to do. Having a family,
Life is like a wheel, sometimes up and sometimes down. Some will get married,
some will stay single and others will pursue their vocation in life. Moreover, they will
sacrifice their own happiness just for the sake of others instead of getting married. No one
could ever blame them; they’re just manifesting their sympathy to others.
We can’t hinder our own perception because they get into their minds without
knowing why and when It’s hard to forget the past episodes which brought pain and
depression but taking into consideration that there are also ways on how to beat all these
pains and finally got to move on to the next door to freedom. One of which is by getting
married. If you get married, you will have someone who can count on and lean on. You
will have someone to cry on and laugh on. You have someone who take care of you and
love you not only for today but also for eternity. If you will get married, there is someone
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who will share your trials and problems. The main results of being a single at a very
unreasonable age are no love from the opposite sex, no one whom you can share with and
Life of a married couple is between the husband and wife. They are the most
important elements in a happy marriage. The need for warmth and love must start with
the father and mother in the home. Happy marriage life is also a successful life. No
matter what the obstacles are, there must still be presence of cooperation. Each must have
a role in the house. Each must have an obligation to ponder. According to Smith,
“Marriage resembles a pair of shears, so joined that they cannot be separated often
moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing anyone who comes between
them.”(71) This implies a unity between the husband and wife. Thus, it can make their
relationship to become stronger. As a result, nothing will separate the two of them.
coming from Jesus Christ your house will be called a home. A happy marriage life means
a happy home. Why not a house? There’s a vast difference. A house is a dwelling place
surrounded by walls while a home is a place where there is system and order, where joy
reign, where song and cheer and hope are the constant atmosphere, where the couples
recognized their obligation, and above all where the works of God are studied and
learned are the blessings that married couple gained in their life.
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Getting married is much better than staying single for the rest of life. It is the time
wherein person will experience how to be loved by someone special. The time where
there is the present of someone that you can lean on. Above all is having a family, which
serves as your inspiration and happiness. The act of getting married is much better if it’s
more planned. Others say that they are afraid to get married because they do not want to
experience miserable life. According to Espineli, “Life of married couple depends on how
they should plan their married life. I’m so happy now because I’m contented with my
life. Before we get married, we planned well all the things needed so that our relationship
will last long. We shared well our ideas and plans in the future. As a result I’m very much
Having a successful married life involves the act of planning. For marriage is a
lifetime course, where there is no graduation. Unfortunately, many couples take this
course without thinking. As a result, they just get part ways. The only thing they think is
applying for marriage license. But marriage goes far beyond family and sex. Married
couple must think on how to become their relationship stronger. There are subject areas
that engaged couples, should look into before enrolling in this course.
Anticipation of marriage calls for preparation. For marriage need full preparation.
Firstly, both must be ready in all the consequences they will encounter. Secondly, they
must oblique to the responsibilities as parents someday. Thirdly, they must promise to
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If athletes prepare for competition for long period of time to insure success and
victory, how much more should those lifetimes partnership do so? In this country,
marriage is for keeps. It is “till death do us part”- not “till divorce do us part.”
Another thing married person can have is the love coming by someone
special. Happy married life is the result of having love that shows as respect because God
made each person unique. He does not compare one with another. God respects each
potentials, shortcomings, his past and future. As a result, both can attain a happy
relationship or married life. Both are united to do things together because there’s already
In addition to that is trust. Trust is one aspects of love. It is a capital that one can
invest in a person she is related to especially with the husband or wife. Without trust, the
other person ceases to be a loved one. A person who has no trust in another becomes
more sensitive and easily gets threatened. Thus, he or she nags demand, suspects other
person. It may take time for him to be truly trustworthy yet he grows because of the
climate that has given as a respond to him. Some relationship fails because they lack trust
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for the person they loved. In loving someone, trust is really there. Trust must be in each
other’s heart. This having trust can make the relationship stronger and longer.
On the other hand, unmarried person cannot experience a special love, the trials of
gaining trust because they are single. It finds a hard time, for them in their journey
because they have nothing in hand. As a result, they may long for the love that truly
comes from heart and can only be given by the husband or partner in life.
Married person easily fines someone to cry on and lean on if they have problems
in life unlike the unmarried one. Unmarried person cannot easily open up or share what is
there problem for they find it hard to trust someone. Furthermore, they are afraid to
express what they fail because trust is not that easily be obtain with someone.
However, married person easily speaks what is bothering him because of his
husband or partner. She can easily share all her secrets because she can fully trust her
partner. Moreover, in expressing thy feelings with each other, the more their relationships
become stronger and more pleasant as time goes by. The wife will more love his husband
because each other know already their secrets. They have exchanged their fears, likes and
dislikes, ambitions in life and what both hope for in the future. They tend to be an open
individual at all.
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Trials and problems will get in the way between married lives. No
disappointments or frustrations are gained for each decision is being likely shared.
Opinions are likely asked between the husband and wife. Furthermore, each opinions will
be talked about thus, leading the trials and problems be solved. Then success will get in
the way because both are helping each other to find the solution.
BUILDING UP A FAMLIY
Building up a family is what married couples must plan. This is also the one
which unmarried person regrets for not getting married. If they fail to build up this kind
of society, they will not be married and stay single as they are. A family is a group of
people living together; often related by marriage, birth, or other strong bonds. One strong,
skilled person usually the husband is ruling it. He is responsible in taking care of his
children. He will look for their future, their needs in life. A family serves as inspiration of
a married couple.
Unmarried person fails to make this one. And they experience regrets at all. This
family is where their life revolves. The family is their center in life. It is in this society
where they strive more and more in order to make them happy. Families’ need the help of
Maslow’s hierarchy classifies as most basic: food and shelter, safety and security, love,
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Food and shelter are the basic needs of family. The father is responsible for giving
all these needs because he is the head of the family or the breadwinner. It is important
also that the husband must know his role in the family. The husband is the head of the
home. A father, who is a patriarch, is strong yet loving and compassionate. The father
must know the limitations of his children. In order to commit a happy family life, the
Both husband and wife must shared love and affection. Within the family, there
must be love between them. Knowing each strength and weaknesses are very important.
Sharing one’s problem is the way to know some important matters within their selves. It
is in this kind of field that the other members will know their problem. In order for this
Problems will little by little solve upon discussing it with the members. A family
is such a true happiness especially if you have respectful daughters and sons. According
to Duenas, “I’m so happy now because God give me children that are very responsible,
respectful and loving. They are helping my husband and me with the financial support.
My eldest daughter is already a graduate of accountancy and she is working now in the
bank. She bought dresses for her younger sister. And I’m very much proud with him.”
(2005) With a daughter like this, is such a true happiness. It is not only physical
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Happiness is state of mind, an emotion within one’s soul, a particular type of
energy in one’s thoughts and mind that allows a fast flowing physical energy into one’s
life. If you have a family of your own, this is the time wherein true happiness expands in
your heart. Having a family can add more happiness in a married life. They will serve as
your inspirations. This family filled up your longing of someone especially if you will
Prior to it is the emotional one. It is happiness within you. Having a family that is
always happy is such a good vitamins in a married life. Conflicts and problem are easily
solved provided all the members in the family are complying with their responsibilities as
are what couples considered as great success. Children were an essential source of labor
in the family economy and a source of support in an old age. Children are there source of
inspirations. In order to commit peaceful surrounding and happy life, the number of
children must be planned. The couples must undergo the family planning process. They
must agree the number of children they will raise. It is important to avoid conflict
between the two of them. As daughter and son, you must know your obligations.
Everybody must be moving to know where you stand in the family. Mothers are still the
principal nurtures and caretakers of their children, but the norms of parenthood have
shifted.
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Fatherhood literatures are changing along with the actual behavior of father and
children in real life. Until recently, a father could feel he was fulfilling his parental
obligations merely by supporting his family. The father is expected to spend time with his
children when his work is done. He is expected also to discipline his children.
Furthermore, your children will become more responsible and respectful to you.
The more you will train your children into a better person, the more they will know their
usefulness as part of the family. Some parents will just do not care to the welfare of their
children even though their children will no longer respect them as they are. They do not
care what their children are doing to them. Others say that it is because of love but many
In order that the married couple will become happy, they must be close to their
children. Spend some time with them. Let them share what is inside their heart and mind.
Above all you must discipline them to become a better person or children towards you
and towards others. In addition, before it’s too late, both must plan for the future of their
children or siblings. Getting them educated is one of their major goals. Through
education, their mind will be open to the knowledge of the world. Future of the children
should be in your mind before anything else. Their brighter future depends only in your
hands. The two of you must work with each other for brighter future of their children.
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CONCLUSION
care of special someone is what he or she need. It is a care which usually comes from the
bottom of the heart. It’s not only the physical doings but also the emotional one. This
special feeling which is from the heart is what they called LOVE.
Furthermore, you do not have someone to cry on and lean on with your sufferings.
Life is somewhat different if you have someone in your side. If you have problems, then
he is there ready to help you. If you need someone who is ready to listen with your
anxieties then you can find comfort with your partner. He will give his shoulder for you
where you can cry on. Tensions and problems will be relieved if you will share it with
A family is a true happiness. If you will not get married then you cannot build up
this one. You cannot build up a family of your own. Unmarried people nowadays are
depending only to their brother or sister for financial support. They lack care coming
If you do not want to experience being alone for the rest of your life, get married.
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WORK CITED
BOOKS
Fabella, Armand T. The Best of Love, Courtship and Marriage. Manila, 1986.
___. New American Bible, The. William H. Sadier and Thomas Nelson (Publisher). 1979.
ELECTRONIC SOURCES
http://www.charminghealth.com/self-help/prevent-emotional-imbalance.htm 13
Feb.2006.
OTHER SOURCES
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