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Relationships:
Honing Your Interpersonal Skills
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Learning Objectives
1. Creating an environment that motivates, inspires and
guides people to success.
2. Understanding how to work with different personality types
and how to empathize with people as unique individuals.
3. Developing and honing communication and listening skills.
4. Understanding the basics of body language and its effect on
building positive relationships.
5. Gaining tips on how to handle difficult people and manage
conflict.
6. Understanding the components of developing high
performing individuals, teams and organizations.
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What are we facing in today’s world?
What is your day to day life like?
Time Deprivation
Financial Meltdown
Downsizing/reorganizing
Budget cuts/freezes
Globalization
Sustainability
Multi-generational demands
Stressed & confused workforce
Your thoughts?? 4
How do you create an environment
conducive to high performance?
Describe a time when you were part of an organization
that was performing at its peak?
What was happening in the organization to make that
happen?
How did the staff and other stakeholders interact with
each other?
What was accomplished?
Share the words that describe the working
environment.
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Understanding Needs
Maslow
Hierarchy
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In the last 7 days, I have received recognition or
praise for doing good work.
My supervisor, or someone at work, seems to care
about me as a person.
There is someone at work who encourages my
development.
At work, my opinions seem to matter.
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The mission and purpose of my company makes me
feel my job is important.
My associates or fellow employees are committed to
doing quality work.
I have a best friend at work.
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Likeability Factor
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EMPATHY: your ability to recognize, acknowledge,
and experience other people’s feelings
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Tips to Improve Listening Skills
1. Shut Up
2. Recognize that you listen for personal success
3. Become less self-centered
4. Prepare to listen – set goals for certain
conversations
5. Check for body language/nonverbal clues
6. Hold your fire – don’t interrupt or plan your
response when others are speaking
7. Listen with your head and your heart
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Basics of Body Language
Up to 93% of communication
is non-verbal, including
tone of voice, eye movement,
posture, hand gestures,
and facial expressions.
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The eyes communicate more than any
other part of the human anatomy.
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Bodily cues are the most reliable of all
nonverbal signals of deception.
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Personal Space is
important.
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Parting Recommendations
• BS serves no one.
• Accept only direct and honest communication
from yourself and others.
• Subterfuge and political machinations only waste
time and opportunities.
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2. Expect and look for the best in
everyone.
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4. Minimize process.
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5. Work toward being extraordinary. Be
bold. Resist incrementalism.
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6. If most people think your idea is nuts,
after you have considered it with your
volunteer and staff teams, go for it.
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7. Create the “third place” in the lives of
your stakeholders, after their personal
and work lives.
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9. Be guided by personal integrity.
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10. Have courage.
• Push yourself.
• Leave your comfort zone.
• Acknowledge that it is OK to fail as long as you
learn from mistakes.
• The stakes are high and the potential results of
acting with courage are huge.
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