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purpose, research questions, significance of the study, scope and limitations, and
definition of terms.
remains controversial (Fuchs et al., 2018). An estimated 15 million babies are born
too early every year. That is more than 1 in 10 babies. Babies born before thirty-
seven weeks of gestation are classified of premature. These babies are known
some women, labor begins early for reasons that are sometimes clear, such as
experience ruptured membranes prior to the onset of labor and prior to 37 weeks.
prematurity vary. In Mayo Clinic website, not all premature babies experience
complications, being born too early can cause short-term and long-term health
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problems, metabolism problems, and immune system problems. In the long-term
complications, premature birth may lead to cerebral palsy, impaired learning, vision
problems, and chronic health issues. Generally, the earlier a baby is born, the
higher the risk of complications. Birth weight plays an important role, too. Some
problems may be apparent at birth, while others may not develop until later.
Globally, prematurity is the leading cause of death in children under the age
of 5 years. And in almost all countries with reliable data, preterm birth rates are
increasing. Preterm birth is the most common cause of death among infants
worldwide. About 15 million babies are preterm each year (5% to 18% of all
deliveries). More than 60% of preterm births occur in Africa and South Asia, but
12% of babies are born too early compared with 9% in higher-income countries.
The Philippines is among the countries with the most number of babies
"born too soon," a United Nations agency claimed. The country was ranked 8th out
of 184 countries in terms of number of premature births based on latest data, the
UN Children's Fund (UNICEF) said in a statement (Patria, 2012). Out of the 2.3
deliveries. This translates to a premature birth rate of 14.9 percent, the 12th
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The researchers conducted this study to have a deeper understanding and
knowledge about the experiences of mothers who gave birth prematurely. Also,
their insights and learnings can inspire other people, especially mothers.
by mothers with major cases. At this stage of the research, preterm birth will be
generally defined as (1) one of the leading causes of premature death, (2) common
problem during pregnancy and birth, and (3) factor that affects child's growth and
development.
The scope of the study will be the experiences and struggles of a mother
who gave birth prematurely in Cavite. Also, if possible, children who were born
prematurely with major complications will be interviewed. It's not always possible
to explain the causes of preterm birth and why it happened. There are risk factors
for being born early. This study will be conducted from July 2018 to October 2018.
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The study will limit the questions when the participant is not able to answer
it all, and when the question is too much and too personal for the participant. The
researchers won't force them to answer, instead they will just replace them by new
questions.
shared experiences of the mothers that can help them on the things to do if ever
Mothers with prematurely born child. This study will be significant to mothers
with prematurely born child for it will give them advices and experiences from other
mothers with same cases as them. Also, this study can inform them what are the
Soon-to-be mothers. This study will be significant to the women whose soon to
be mothers for it will inform them on the things they should do and shouldn’t do.
Also, this study will give them knowledge about the things that they don’t know yet.
Prematurely born children. This study will be significant to the children who were
prematurely born for them to realize that their lives was a gift from God. That their
mothers really love them despite of their complications. This study will also help
them in the future if ever they have loved ones who have their child prematurely
born.
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Definition of Terms
This study contains some terms that has other definitions connected to the
field of medicine. To have better understanding, these are the terms with their
definitions.
Gestation stage. It is a fetal development from the time of conception until birth.
Premature death. It is the deaths that occur before a person reaches an expected
Preterm birth. It is a birth that takes place more than three weeks before the
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CHAPTER 2
mothers and the coping strategies. The main purpose of this review was to relate
the studies on how the struggles and experiences of mothers and her child affect
their lives.
Premature Birth
than 9 months, from the start of the last menstrual period to childbirth. Labor that
begins before 37 weeks is called preterm labor (or premature labor). Premature
birth is defined currently as 37 weeks or fewer gestation, but that target has been
moving over the past couple of decades. It used to say under 36 weeks. The
smallest babies fall within less than 26 weeks gestation (Henner, 2013).
Women who become pregnant again less than 18 months after having a
baby are more likely to deliver early, according to a new study. Past reports have
also linked having a short interpregnancy interval - the time between giving birth
and getting pregnant again - with a greater risk of premature birth (Lehman, 2014).
Premature babies, especially those born very early, often have complicated
medical problems. Typically, complications of prematurity vary. But the earlier the
baby is born, the higher the risk of complications. According to Medline Plus,
the final months and weeks. Because they are born too early, preemies weigh
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much less than full-term babies. They may have health problems because their
According to report Born Too Soon: The Global Action Report on Preterm
Birth, each year, some 15 million babies in the world, more than one in 10 births,
are born too early. More than one million of those babies die shortly after birth;
Development (NICHD), preterm birth is the most common cause of infant death
and is the leading cause of long-term disability related to the nervous system in
children. Globally, prematurity is the leading cause of death in children under the
age of 5 years. And in almost all countries with reliable data, preterm birth rates
are increasing. Inequalities in survival rates around the world are stark. In low-
income settings, half of the babies born at or below 32 weeks (2 months early) die
support, and basic care for infections and breathing difficulties. In high-income
countries, almost all these babies survive (Donahue and Horrow, 2016).
have a good chance of survival if the basic, low cost interventions are in place.
Around 84% of the 350,000 preterm babies that are born annually in the
Philippines fall into this category. Babies born between 32 and 37 weeks should
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Today in the Philippines, 48% of children who die under the age of 5 years
are newborns, and 39% of these die from preterm complications, making this the
Mothers who gave birth prematurely have a lot of experiences starting from
with a very special child. Preemies are warrior babies that have had to fight to
survive. Appreciating and celebrating their milestone, no matter how small they
are. Premature parents appreciate every tiny indication of growth and progress
(Shield, 2018). Almost all premature children are sweet and caring.
According to Arnold & Sawyer (2011), the first contact between parent and
after birth or later in NICU. The first time parents held their babies was often weeks
after the birth and clearly illustrated differences in parents’ bonding with their
infants. Two thirds of couples saw their baby at birth but remaining parents saw
their baby for the first time in NICU. No parents held or touched their baby until
they were in NICU. The anticipation felt by parents prior to seeing and touching
their baby for the first time was characterized by contrasting emotions, with some
Sometimes, mothers need to ask permission if they can touch their own
baby because of the complications they have. They need to learn about high tech
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medical equipment like ventilators and feeding tubes unlike having baby strollers
and diaper wipe warmers. Getting up all through the night, every night, because
the milk machine is empty that makes the baby cry. (Ringley, 2018).
guilty feelings, or feeling that they would be better off dead, or wanting to harm
It’s important to be realistic: life with a new baby is unlikely to feel the same as life
before children. While the baby is in hospital, their daily routine may feel like a
treadmill of hospital visits, expressing milk and sleeping. Social activities, hobbies
and interests fall by the wayside for a while. Mothers will feel unbelievably tired,
and if their baby has health problems they will inevitably feel extremely distressed.
Second, emotionally, babies that were born prematurely are surely hurtful
on the mother's side but what's good in this is that the mother touches the skin of
the baby that she was longing to experience. By the excitement of delivering the
baby and then was birth earlier than expected time is surely nerve wracking but
knowing that the baby is on the right condition, it makes the mother feel like she is
the happiest woman in the world. There’s no such thing that can exceed mother's
love towards her child, her baby. The worry of the mother for the preterm baby is
maybe temporary and then be happier as usual, difference is that, she has now
her baby. Or it may be permanent (if the baby didn't make it) and worse, may lead
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the mother to have mental illness because of the trauma she experienced with her
Emotional health may include to one of the causes of a preterm labor, and
as for the vice versa of this, the preterm labor may also cause the mother to
experience problems with regards to the emotional health, the emotional struggles.
As well as feeling joy, love and happiness at the birth of the baby, this period can
exhausted and unhappy or tearful for several months after having the baby. Many
parents find it difficult to focus on their own needs after having a new baby -
especially if she is unwell. If they are suffering from a complete lack of motivation
and feel very low after their premature birth, they could be depressed. In the case
of postnatal depression, this can sometimes include not feeling close to their baby
or enjoying being with her, which may be accompanied by a sense of guilt and
incompetence, feeling low, sad, guilty, tearful, helpless or hopeless, low self-
esteem, self-hatred and needing reassurance, feeling irritable and intolerant with
those around them, including the baby or partner finding it virtually impossible to
They can expect to feel grief and anger – these are the feelings they
experience when real life doesn’t live up to the future they expected. Premature
it may take them a long time – and possibly professional help – to accept what has
confused, abandoned, powerless or guilty. Some feel grief because of what they
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fear the future may hold, and it is common to try to place blame for the situation on
others.
described a behavioral profile that seems consistent with the preterm behavioral
phenotype described earlier, and we invite the reader to refer to three meta-
analyses for further details (Bhutta et al., 2013). According to Published Findings,
Researchers at the National Instituted for Health and Welfare and University
of Oulu in Finland found babies who were born prematurely had weaker muscles
than those born after 37 weeks. Their study suggested that their findings extends
to all premature babies, even those that are considered only slightly premature or
feeling less physically fit than those born after the 37-week mark, though
premature birth. There are many options and services open to families with
children who suffer from learning or developmental issues. Children with these
issues can still lead normal, fulfilling lives with the right support and tools. The
parents should monitor their child from a young age and keep watch for any signs
that their child may be suffering from learning difficulties, and then seek
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Fourth, mentally, according to Moorhead (2015), giving birth to a premature
baby is a lot much harder than we thought, a lot much harder than those of the
term babies. Not just in physical, financial, emotional, spiritual and so whatever
but also in mental aspect of the parents, especially the mother. It is hard for the
mother if she gave birth earlier, preterm. She’s not mentally prepared. She did not
that the baby will be fine so the mother will start worrying and will overthink about
the condition of her baby, her child. She will not be able to stop thinking until she
Mothers experiencing a preterm birth are at risk for maternal mental health
and infant are noted. The need for healthcare professionals to intervene prenatally
much attention in the literature as a risk factor for preterm birth, impaired
have only recently gained research attention. A few studies support the role of
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risk for motor development problems. Because early mother-infant interactions are
potentially reducing depression and PTSD symptoms in the mother (Anderson &
Cacola, 2017).
Lastly, financial. Not all parents can afford what are the things a prematurely
born baby needs. Most of the things are expensive. Especially to single parents,
mostly mothers. Not all mothers have work or jobs where they can get money.
Also, mostly prematurely born babies mothers nowadays are teenagers. They
can’t easily find a job when they are still on school. Those were the disadvantages.
But there are also advantages. Mothers can seek help in the government since
there are agencies that are willing to help those who are in need. Also, their own
Coping Mechanisms
Parents of NICU/SCN babies often feel a sense of loss, guilt, regret and
distress about how their baby came into the world. Many deliveries resulting
in NICU/SCN admission are traumatic ones, and not how we planned or imagined
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According to Hubbies Page, having a premature or sick newborn in hospital
is a very emotional and stressful time. Parents often feel powerless, intimidated
and controlled. They find themselves in a new environment where others have the
primary role of caring for their baby. Being the parents of a premature baby can be
very stressful. Mums and dads of premature babies often go through a lot of
emotional ups and downs in the early weeks and months of their baby’s life. When
they get practical help and emotional support from family and friends, parents often
cope a lot better with the experience. And when they’re managing well, they’re
It’s okay to ask parents what they need. Some parents want to shut
themselves off and cope with the situation alone or with a few close friends and
family. Respect their wishes, but at the same time let them know that you’re
thinking of them. You could try to offer help at different times. Some parents need
lots of people around for support. These parents might love having company at the
hospital. Some parents want to talk about things other than the baby (Raising
asked the nurses in the hospital’s neonatal intensive care (NICU) ward to close the
curtain around her daughter’s incubator, so that she could do the only thing she
could think of at that moment, which was to pray. “I just prayed and asked God to
give me strength because from then on, I was going to need strength... to be strong
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When a baby is born prematurely, parents often feel shocked, confused,
abandoned, powerless or guilty. Some feel grief because of what they fear the
future may hold, and it is common to try to place blame for the situation on others.
Emotional reactions are not always predictable. Having a premature baby is a huge
adjustment and it may take you a long time – and possibly professional help – to
Synthesis
Having a premature child is not what any parent wants. When a baby is born
guilty. It is a frightening ride into unknown territory. It is being thrust into the hardest
possible parenting struggle before they have even met their child. It is feeling
disconnected from the one person in the entire universe that they have been
There are many causes that caused the early delivery of a mother. Some
say that it was because of "incompetent cervix." Mothers who have their baby
prematurely born are often frightened and nervous. It is really very hard for a
mother to have a premature baby because they'll never know what the things they
should do or how will they take care of their baby especially if there are major
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Many of them don't understand what it feels like to have a premature baby
until they experience having one. There are a lot of variation in preemie outcomes,
and some parents have it easier or harder than others. Some will struggle more
and have a more complicated road to travel. How did they react the first time they
knew that their baby is premature, what are the steps that they followed in taking
care of their babies, are they building a stronger relationship with their baby, what
are the things that they avoided -- those were just few questions most of us want
to know? The purpose of this research is to deeply understand what the struggles
Despite the long-term health difficulties that preemies may face, most
premature children are able to live long and healthy lives. It is imperative that their
parents pay extra attention to their health and developmental to address any
issues as soon as possible. But, so long as the proper medical attention and
support provided, those born prematurely can still lead fulfilling, happy lives.
Having a premature baby might be one of the hardest things that has ever
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CHAPTER 3
METHODOLOGY
This research chapter contains the research design and methodology of the
study. The purposes of this chapter are to define the research methodology,
explain the sampling, population, and describe the procedure that was used during
Research Design
variables specified in the research problem through the set of methods and
control over factors that may interfere with the validity of the findings (Burns and
Grove, 2003). Research design is the framework that has been created to find
from their surroundings, and how their meaning influences their behavior. This
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This study involves these phases, namely conceptual, narrative, and
interpretive phases.
Conceptual Phase
will be conducted for the researchers to fully understand the concept and
content of literature.
Narrative Phase
design. The main data collection instrument will be the researchers for they
are going to interview the participants. There will be ten participants who
Interpretive Phase
data. The data and information that will be gathered during the interview
between the researchers and the participants. The researchers will find
other articles related to the topic that will act as the framework of the study.
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Research Population
the target population are five mothers of a prematurely born baby with major
complications, which were chosen as the participants. The participants of the study
Sampling Technique
technique is the name or other identification of the specific process by which the
is too small or excessively large, it may lead to incorrect findings. This method is
produce accurate results and to have a clear explanation about a certain event.
Research Instrument
data related to the experiences of having a prematurely born baby from the
participant. The researchers gathered questions based on the global issues and
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To ensure the credibility of the data collection, the researchers take aside
the participants by interviewing and writing the opinions of the participants, which
are the mothers, about her experiences and struggles on having a prematurely
born baby.
Strategies of Inquiry
researchers and the participant. We will use cellphone that will allow us to connect
to the participants. Data inquiry will be held at the researchers’ place and also, at
the participants’ place. Through this, the researchers will ensure the confidentially
of the information given by the participants. The researchers will distribute guide
This basic interpretive qualitative study involves the gathering of data using
one-on-one interview and communication. The gathered data will be coming from
five (5) mothers who experienced preterm birth and is focusing to those with major
where they observe, listen, and understand the information from the participant.
As a matter of fact, interviews are best used when there are only few related
studies about the topic. This can give different insights from different people and
regions. They can also help evaluate topics that are sensitive to be declared in a
group environment. The questions that will be given into the selected mothers will
be used to find out their struggles and experiences as a preterm birth patient.
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During the interview, the processes that happen are (1) respondents answer the
questions given, share their insights and experiences, and (2) the researchers’
experiences of the respondents. Most of the questions that will be given are about
the struggles and their impairments from the real word. Other questions will be
pertaining on how they survived, what factor required them to get through
The data will be analyzed by comparing the factors or the common factors
that they experience. By these common factors the researchers will be able to
know the most common things that they are encountering in their everyday lives.
The researchers will also know how they faced their lives in this world. It can also
be a guide to other people who is experiencing the same situation as what are they
experiencing.
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CHAPTER 4
This chapter presents the results and interpretation of the data gathered
that will answer to the research questions given at the outset of the study.
by mothers with major cases. At this stage of the research, preterm birth will be
generally defined as (1) one of the leading causes of premature death, (2) common
problem during pregnancy and birth, and (3) factor that affects child's growth and
development.
The participants were also asked about their biographical data such as age,
address, occupation, and type of complication. After the data gathering, the
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Demographic Profile of Participants
them to fill out in order for the researchers to extract significant information from
them. Table 4.1 presents the demographic data of the mothers who participated in
profile that the researchers gathered. The participants answered what are their
Being Pregnant
3 34 Polio
Muscles
Method of Analysis
The researchers of the study analyzed and interpreted the answers of the
participants through selective coding. The responses were grouped and tabulated
through the responses, category, sub-category, theme, and core category which
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are divided based on the questions asked. The researchers compared the answers
of the participants.
Complications
Mothers who gave birth prematurely have a lot of experiences starting from
their delivery. Their physical, emotional, social, mental, and financial aspects were
also affected. Some related studies and literatures provide information about it.
The findings of this study showed the different experiences of mothers. The
researchers also identified the themes that emerged from their responses. The
premature child/children. The theme is about the positive experiences that the
mothers have faced. Participants shared their own experience through chat/social
media.
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Moreover, Table 4.2 presents the categories, as well as the sub-categories,
Difficulty in breastfeeding
Physical Experiences Child delivery
Prioritizing her child
Deep sorrow
Emotional Experiences Feeling relieved
Joy and difficulties
Sympathy from people
Social Experiences Looking after her child
Strong faith and positive mindset
Mental Experiences Mindful about health
Mentally responsible
Financial stability
Financial Experiences Government assistance
Discount cards
Three (3) of the participants said that they had positive experiences. While
two (2) of the participants, participants 4 and 5, are the ones who said that they
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I delivered my eight-month twins... Breast milk only for him that I need to feed
him every 2 hours or less and my secretion of milk that time was not adequate.
(P1)
(P2)
(P3)
condition is severe. But even though it’s hard, three (3) of the participants said that
difficulties.
In emotional experiences, four (4) of the participants said that they have
positive experiences. While participant 4 said that she had negative experiences.
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It makes me stronger and refuse to quit. Despite the sad part that I lost one of
my twins, there’s still one who lives and been a reason for me to move on and
get back my sanity.
(P1)
Gumagaan ang loob ko kapag nakikita mong lumalaban at bumubuti ang lagay
ng baby ko. (When I saw my baby fighting and getting better, I felt relieved.)
(P2)
Masaya ako kase una ko siyang anak. Nagulat ako kase nga napa- aga…
Masaya nung hiniga, nilagay siya nung doktor sa dibdib ko… Pinakamahi-rap
din kapag nagkakasakit siya, napakasakitin kase niya. (I felt happy because
he was my first son. I was shocked because I delivered him early… I was
happy when the doctor laid him down in my chest… It was also difficult when
he gets sick because he’s so prone to it.)
(P3)
I felt happy and relieved because I knew that my daughter survive despite
that she’s a premature child.
(P5)
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According to Arnold & Sawyer (2011), the first contact between parent and
child.
Only two (2) of the participants said that they have positive experiences
when it comes to social. While three (3) of the participants said that they have
negative experiences.
The other one is a lovable kid so, no negative impression. For the people who
knew the story, they felt sad for the loss of the other twin. They said, “Naku
kung nabuhay siguro si Aeron, ang pogi din nun.” (If Aeron is still alive, I bet
he’s a good-looking man too.)
(P1)
(P3)
The parents should monitor their child from a young age and keep watch
for any signs that their child may be suffering from learning difficulties, and then
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Category 4: Mental Experiences
Operational Function: It means having positive mindset and strong faith, and
All of the participants said that they have positive experiences when it comes
to mental. None of the participants said that they have negative experiences.
My concept & ideals in life – I’m a broad-minded person that it didn’t affect my
faith in God that there’s a good reason for all the trials that’s we’re going
through.
(P1)
(P2)
(P3)
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Natuto ako mas maging responsable sa buhay at may mahabang pasensiya
para sa mga anak ko. Uunahin ko muna ang mga bata bago ang sarili o kung
ano pa man. Mas kailangan sila i-prioritize. (I learned to be more responsible
in life and have a longer patience for my twins. They come first before myself.
They need to be prioritized more.)
(P4)
(P5)
Most of the participants said that they have a positive mindset regarding on
All of the participants said that they didn’t have any negative experiences
I and my husband had job that time that I may say, we’re quite financial stable
that time.
(P1)
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Financial assistance mula sa DSWD at PCSO sa ospital. (Financial assistance
from the DSWD and PCSO from hospitals.)
(P2)
(P3)
(P5)
Mothers can seek help in the government since there are agencies that are
willing to help those who are in need. Also, their own families and relatives, who
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Theme 2: Negative Experiences of Mothers who Gave Birth Prematurely
premature child/children. The theme is about the negative experiences that the
mothers have faced. Participants shared their own experience through chat/social
media.
Two (2) of the participants stated that they had physical struggles.
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Two months sila sa hospital, two months din ako pabalik-balik sa ICU para i-
check at bantayan sila. (They are in the hospital for two months and I’m also
going back and forth for two months in the ICU to check and watch over them.)
(P4)
I have two premature children.… I don’t have enough time to sleep and rest
because I need to observe and watch my child.
(P5)
up all night and learning about high tech medical equipment like ventilators and
and 2 have difficulties in breast feeding and child delivering, respectively but they
One (1) of the participants stated that she had emotional struggles.
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Pray lang kay Lord… kapag may sakit sila, doon ako pinanghihina-an ng loob
dahil hindi naman sila normal ipinanganak nandun pa rin ‘yung kaba. (Just pray
to the Lord… when they are sick. I am discouraged because they were not
normally born, the nervousness is still there.).
(P4)
then was birth earlier than expected time is surely nerve wracking but knowing that
the baby is on the right condition, it makes the mother feel like she is the happiest
knowing first their situation, and trying to engage her child in physical activities.
(P2)
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Naapektu-han ako socially, kasi sa tuwing may mag-aaya na makipaglaro sa
anak ko kailangan pa nilang magpaalam at kailangan ko munang alamin ang
sitwason ng anak ko. (It affected me socially because every time that other kids
invite my daughter to play with them, they need to ask my permission and I
need to know my daughter’s condition first.)
(P4)
(P5)
Participant 2 had a hard time asking help in social media for her premature
child. While participants 4 and 5 need to check first their child’s condition before
Participants who were born before 37 weeks reported feeling less physically
fit than those born after the 37-week mark, though researchers were reluctant to
attribute lack of physical fitness later in life to premature birth (Sakellariou, 2017).
The findings of the study showed the coping strategies of mothers who gave
birth prematurely with major complications. The researchers identified the theme
that emerged from the responses. The theme that emerged was:
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The theme, with its accompanying categories and sub-categories, will be
premature child/children. The theme is about the coping strategies of the mothers
that have used in order to handle their struggles. Participants shared their own
Category 1: Family
All of the participants stated that they coped with their struggles through
their family.
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I just let my emotions help me in coping up. I just let it flow. I cried when I feel
like. Time helps me heal the wound of losing. Glad, that I have one son left to
take care of and a family that’s been there to help me when I needed them
most. I’m a broad-minded person that it didn’t affect my faith in God that there’s
a good reason for all the trials that’s we’re going through.
(P1)
Hinarap ko ang problemang ito kasama ang aking pamilya, humingi ng tulong
sa Diyos, nagdasal at kumilos. (I faced this problem together with my family. I
asked God’s help and guidance, prayed and moved.)
(P2)
Pray lang talaga. Lagi ring nandyan yung mga kamag-anak at kaibigan ko para
tumulong. (Just pray. And beside my family and friend were always there to
help.)”
(P3)
(P4)
I always remind myself that God and my family is always there beside me to
comfort and motivate me.
(P5)
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According to Raising Children Network (Australia) Website, some parents
want to shut themselves off and cope with the situation alone or with a few close
friends and family. Some parents need lots of people around for support. The
results of the study proves this statement. All participants were given support from
their family.
faith.
Four (4) of the participants stated that they coped with their struggles
Hinarap ko ang problemang ito kasama ang aking pamilya, humingi ng tulong
sa Diyos, nagdasal at kumilos. (I faced this problem together with my family. I
asked God’s help and guidance, prayed and moved.)
(P2)
Pray lang talaga. Lagi ring nandyan yung mga kamag-anak at kaibigan ko para
tumulong. (Just pray. And beside my family and friend were always there to
help.)
(P3)
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Sa tulong ng mga magulang ng asawa ko at patuloy na paghingi ng guidance
at assistance sa Diyos. (With the help of my in-laws and continuously praying
to the Lord for guidance and assistance.)
(P4)
I always remind myself that God and my family is always there beside me to
comfort and motivate me.
(P5)
just pray and asked God to give her strength from then on. Participants 2, 3, and
4 prayed and asked God’s help and assistance. While participant 5 remind herself
Participant 1 just let her emotions take her. When she wants to cry, she just
let it flow.
I just let my emotions help me in coping up. I just let it flow. I cried when I feel
like. Time helps me heal the wound of losing. Glad, that I have one son left to
take care of and a family that’s been there to help me when I needed them
most. I’m a broad-minded person that it didn’t affect my faith in God that there’s
a good reason for all the trials that’s we’re going through.
(P1)
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Some parents want to shut themselves off and cope with the situation alone
or with a few close friends and family. Respect their wishes, but at the same time
let them know that you’re thinking of them (Raising Children Network (Australia)
Website).
Category 4: Time
Time helped Participant 1 to cope up for her lost son. It helped her to heal
I just let my emotions help me in coping up. I just let it flow. I cried when I feel
like. Time helps me heal the wound of losing. Glad, that I have one son left to
take care of and a family that’s been there to help me when I needed them
most. I’m a broad-minded person that it didn’t affect my faith in God that there’s
a good reason for all the trials that’s we’re going through.
(P1)
predictable. Having a premature baby is a huge adjustment and it may take you a
long time – and possibly professional help – to accept what has happened.
The findings of the study showed the insights and learnings of mothers who
gave birth prematurely. The researchers identified the theme that emerged from
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Positive Insights and Learnings
In this part of the paper, the researchers will discuss the experiences of
mothers who gave birth prematurely with major complications. The theme is about
how the mothers made improvements in themselves based on their learnings from
media.
Category Sub-Category
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Participant 4 believed that having a premature children with major
Para sa akin may dahilan kung bakit nangyari ito at sa palagay ko ay hinahanda
at sinusubukan ako ng Panginoon kung gaano katatag ang pananampalataya
ko sa Kanya. (For me, there is a reason why all of these happened to us maybe
God allows this to happen because He measures our faith in Him.).
(P4)
asking help behavior was seeking help from God, who has a supernatural power.
Following the spirituality resort and entrusting the destiny determined by God,
intensive cares. Religious well-being of participants was the background for some
of their behaviors such as begging and trusting God, appealing to the Imams,
adherence to the Qur'an and seeking help from God was experienced for most
women. They supposed this event as God's will and surrounded them to the
Category 2: Family
Participant 1 thought positive things which helped her to cope up. Also, it
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I believe that there’s a good reason why things happened to us unexpectedly.
From this experiences, I should be positive on things that didn’t come my way.
It helped me to cope up. It also made me to love my family more.
(P1)
study indicated that they need help and support from spouse, family, friends,
relatives and health care team. Due to the changes, they were not able to perform
their roles completely and they need help in furthering their daily tasks towards
difficult times.
Maging ma-ingat lalo na’t buntis. Huwag pabayaan ang sarili. Maging matatag
at maging malakas ang loob sa lahat ng oras. Huwag basta-basta susuko at
bibitaw lalo na sa panahong kinakaila-ngan. (Be careful especially when you’re
pregnant. Take care of yourself. Be strong and be courageous all the time. Do
not hesitate to give up and let go in times of need.).
(P2)
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According to Arzani & Valizadeh (2015), one of the main strategies mothers
used emerged to be patience, tolerance, and dealing and coping with problems. It
sapped their energy and made them feel too intolerant and weak to cope with these
problems. But, when their motherhood instinct flourished, they tried to gradually
accept their situation and fight with their weaknesses by not giving up and
persistence.
Operational Definition: It means being thankful for the baby’s life and
(P1)
Kahit ganto ‘yung sitwasyon namin, hindi naman kami nilalayuan ng mga tao,
tinutulungan pa nga kami. Basta napagisip-isip ko rin na maswerte ako dahil
nabuhay ang bata. Nabigyan siya ng pagkakata-ong mabuhay at maging
masaya. (Even though our situation is like this people don’t go away from us
instead they help us. So I think I was so lucky because the child was alive. That
he was given a chance to live his life and be happy.)
(P3)
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Thinking about positive things because I know things are going to be alright. I
know that God is challenging me because everything happens for a reason.
(P5)
Focusing on positive aspects, they were hopeful for future good days and
conditions. They plan for future and try to calm down by thinking about positive
aspects. In fact, they attempted to struggle with their negative feelings towards the
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CHAPTER 5
This study has taken steps to gain deeper understanding on what mothers
really experience in having premature child with major complications. Many people
don’t understand what it feels like to have a premature baby until they experience
having one. This study delved into the experiences of mothers who gave birth
Research Design
Research design is the framework that has been created to find answers to
research questions. The researchers used the qualitative type of research. It aims
meaning from their surroundings, and how their meaning influences their behavior.
This uses observation as the data collection method. The basic interpretive
qualitative research type was used in this study. The case study research design
was used in this study, which involved the conceptual, narrative and interpretive
The selected participants of the study were mothers who gave birth
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The data collected was analyzed and transcribed after conducting the
interviews. The translated data was interpreted through the process of coding in
order to get the core categories and the categories. Selective coding was done to
analyze the collected data. It was arranged and tabulated with the answers of the
participants, the code used for the categories, the sub-categories, etc. Through
selective coding, the researchers have been able to identify the themes regarding
the experiences, coping strategies and learnings of mothers who gave birth
prematurely.
From child delivery, the mothers had positive and negative experiences.
They encountered different experiences when they delivered their child and as
their child grows up. The mothers had more positive experience than negative
ones.
different aspects, which are the physical, emotional, social, mental, and financial
prioritizing her child, deep sorrow, feeling relieved, joy and difficulties, sympathy
from people, looking after her child, strong faith and positive mindset, mindful about
discount cards. On the other hand, the negative experiences were going back and
forth in the ICU, lack of sleep, worrying about the health of her child, seeking help
through social media, knowing first their situation, and trying to engage her child in
physical activities. There are more positive experiences than negative. This
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indicates that mothers didn’t suffer on having a premature child with major
complications.
In the midst of struggling, the mothers have used coping strategies in order
these problems. All of the participants performed the active coping strategies.
The mothers have coped with their struggles through family, faith in God,
emotional outburst, and time. Support and presence of the family helped them in
facing those struggles. They have strong faith. They also asked God’s guidance
and assistance. The mothers have also coped by emotional outburst. Turning
those struggles into positive things helped them overcome their challenges.
predictable. Having a premature baby is a huge adjustment and it may take you a
long time – and possibly professional help – to accept what has happened.
they learned a lot of things. Mothers with premature child showed their capabilities.
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The mothers made their struggles as motivation in continuing their lives. For
some mothers whose child died because of premature birth, they have stronger
Mothers love their family more and they are thankful for the baby’s life. They
learned to think the positive side and didn’t hesitate to give up. They valued their
Research question no. 1 asked about the experiences of mothers who gave
birth prematurely with major complications. They had more positive experiences
aspects, the mothers had more positive experiences. They only had more negative
experiences in the social aspect. The common experience that the participants had
mothers. Since they have experienced many struggles, they had to perform coping
strategies in order to overcome them. All of the mothers used active coping
strategy. They didn’t avoid their premature child instead they love them more. Their
families helped them to cope up. They also asked God’s help and assistance to go
through those struggles. The coping strategies that the participants used were
effective because they were able to learn different things and it helped them to
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Moreover, research question no. 3 asked about the insights and learnings
of mothers. After experiencing different struggles and coping with them, the
greater improvement in the lives. They learned to be optimistic. Also, this struggle
made them to love their family more. With these experiences, they improved
themselves.
This study can inspire other people, especially mothers. Having a premature
child with major complication brings many struggles. These struggles helped them
to change their perspective in life. They learned to be tough at all times. Changing
Recommendations
STEM students, especially those who are taking medicine in college, will be
able to use this study to gather information about premature birth and its
complications.
Mothers
Mothers can also look for some coping strategies that they can use in
overcoming their struggles. They can use the coping strategies that the
participants used if they are also experiencing the same situation. They should not
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Future Researchers
Based on the data and the conclusion of this study, the following topics for
that may be used by mothers who gave birth prematurely with major complications.
Further research is also needed to know the different experiences of mothers and
her child.
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We, the researchers from Rogationist College Senior High School Department, are
currently working on a qualitative research entitled “Experiences of a Mother Who
Gave Birth Prematurely with Major Complications in Cavite” as our performance
task in the subject Inquiries, Investigations, and Immersion. This study aims to develop
a deeper understanding and knowledge about preterm birth experienced by mothers
with long-term cases.
In line with this, we would like to ask you to be part of this study and be one of our
research participants. We believe that the experiences you will share with us would be
of great value for the completion and accuracy of our research work.
Rest assured that all the information gathered will be treated with utmost confidentiality.
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Title of Research: Experiences of a Mother Who Gave Birth Prematurely with Major
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mother who gave birth prematurely.
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3. There are no expected benefits associated with your participation in this study.
However, you may gain new understanding of your experiences.
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academic purposes only. Researchers will not receive or retain any personal
identifiable information though a few demographic data points will be analyzed.
5. Even though the results of this study may be published, we will not include any
information that would make it possible to identify you. Any information that can be
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Interview Questions:
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Participant 1
Interviewee: On March 24, 2007, I delivered my eight-month twins. It’s a sad thing
that the other one, Aeron didn’t make it. He just lived for 36 hours. The other one,
Andrei is now in Grade 6. Physically, my struggle that affects me – The one that
lived was just 1.7 kilos when I delivered him. Very small, fragile and delicate that
really needs my special attention. Breast milk only for him that I need to feed him
every 2 hours or less and my secretion of milk that time was not adequate. And
he’s been in NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) for 2 weeks. I just signed a
waiver for the release of my boy in the hospital to be home. As I said before, my
most difficult experience was the other one just lived for 36 hours.
Interviewer: What did you feel when you knew that one of the twins survived?
Interviewee: It makes me stronger and refuse to quit. Despite the sad part that I
lost one of my twins, there’s still one who lives and been a reason for me to move
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Interviewee: Yes. He has an asthma. The doctor said that it’s because his lungs
was not fully developed when he was born. But we’re doing what we can as a
Interviewer: What are the impressions to your child regarding his complication?
Interviewee: The other one is a lovable kid so, no negative impression. For the
people who knew the story, they felt sad for the loss of the other twin. They said,
“Naku kung nabuhay siguro si Aeron, ang pogi din nun.” (If Aeron is still alive, I bet
Interviewee: My concept & ideals in life – I’m a broad-minded person that it didn’t
affect my faith in God that there’s a good reason for all the trials that’s we’re going
through.
Interviewee: I and my husband had job that time that I may say, we’re quite
Interviewee: Dealing for the loss of my other twin was really the hard part. I
remember two years after that happened, I’m still crying whenever I see children
quite same as my twin’s age. Charlene and Aga Muhlach’s twins, and Carmina
and Zoren Legaspi’s twins, seeing them in commercials made me cry. I miss
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Aeron. I just let my emotions help me in coping up. I just let it flow. I cried when I
feel like. Time helps me heal the wound of losing. Glad, that I have one son left to
take care of and a family that’s been there to help me when I needed them most.
come my way. It helped me to cope up. It also made me to love my family more.
Participant 2
mga kaibigan ko. Medyo mahirap kase hindi naman agad mapapansin ng mga tao.
and asking for their help, also chatting and texting my friends. It becomes hard
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araw blood testing palagi. (Maybe the most fulfilling part was I delivered my baby
normally even I lose water in my tummy; the hardest part was seeing my baby
cries because of the pain caused by injections, blood testing every day.)
ang lagay ng baby ko. (When I saw my baby fighting and getting better, I felt
relieved.)
siya. (They told me that my baby can survive and he will go out of the hospital
immediately.)
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kailangang tuparin. (Maybe all the restrictions must be obeyed. All the instructions
must perform.)
oras sakripisyo at pila sa mga kailangang ayusin para sa bata. (I learned to be firm
Interviewer: Ano pong mga benefits at suporta ang natatanggap niyo mula sa
ating gobyerno? (What are the benefits and supports that you get from the
government?)
Interviewer: Paano niyo po hinarap ang mga experiences na ito? (How did you
Interviewee: Hinarap ko ang problemang ito kasama ang aking pamilya, humingi
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Interviewer: Ano po ang mga naging aral niyo sa mga experiences na ito? (What
Interviewee: Maging ma-ingat lalo na’t buntis. Huwag pabayaan ang sarili. Maging
matatag at maging malakas ang loob sa lahat ng oras. Huwag basta-basta susuko
pregnant. Take care of yourself. Be strong and be courageous all the time. Do not
Participant 3
kailangan ding bigyan ng extra attention. Kunwari kapag naglalakad, hirap kase
siya minsan, mas lalo kapag nasa kalsada kami (Giving extra and special care to
my child, cause we need to see a doctor so I need to close the store, sometimes
our sales were put to waste, it also need an extra attention. For example when
walking, sometimes it was hard for him especially when we are on the street)
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Interviewer: Does the struggle that you experienced affect you? How?
anak tapos may sakit pa. Naghahalo ‘yung takot at saya kase diba kapag unang
premature eh medyo mahirap. Mag-aalala ka, hindi mo alam gagawin. (At first it
was a big deal, because it was new to me since he was my first child and he has
complications. It was mixed emotions because he’s my first child and I’m still not
used to it and it seems to be like you still don’t know what to do, you need to adjust
but then it was premature so it was hard. You’re worried and don’t know what to
do.)
Interviewee: Masaya ako kase una ko siyang anak. Nagulat ako kase nga napa-
aga. Mukha naman siyang normal, maliit lang medyo tsaka malambot-lambot mas
lalo na yung ulo. Masaya nung hiniga, nilagay siya nung doktor sa dibdib ko. Nung
habang lumalaki siya, doon na namin nalaman na may polio, after ilang weeks,
nilalagnat na siya tapos may kakaibang feeling kapag minamassage yung mga
katawan niya. Dun na namin napansin yung polio. Pinakamahirap din kapag
nagkakasakit siya, napakasakitin kase niya. (I felt happy because he was my first
son. I was shocked because I delivered him early. He looks like a normal child,
maybe he’s just small and his head is kinda soft. I was happy when the doctor laid
him down in my chest. As he grew older, we knew that he has a polio, after a few
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weeks he got cold then there’s a weird feeling as we massage his body. That was
the time that we notice that he has a polio. It was also difficult when he gets sick
Interviewer: When you are experiencing the struggle that you mentioned, what do
biogesic kapag alam kong simpleng lagnat lang naman. Minsan kapag sumasakit
katawan niya, hinihilot ko. (Sometimes we’re not able to see a doctor, I just buy
medicine if I know that it is just a simple cold. And if his body hurts, I just massage
it.)
Interviewer: At times of difficulties, what makes you stronger and refuse to quit?
kong may magandang kinabukasan para sa kanya. Nakikita na, maaari siyang
magtagumpay sa buhay, kaya mahal na mahal ko ang panganay ko. (If you see
your child living a normal life, you’ll see that he has a good future. You’ll be able to
see that he can have a successful life, that’s why I love my eldest son so much.)
Interviewer: How does looking at you child suffer feels like? Seeing him overcome
those challenges?
Interviewee: Mahirap din para sakin kapag nakikita kong nagtitiis siya. Pero mula
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dun. (It’s also hard for me to see him enduring the pain. But the time that he proved
to me that he can join and live a normal life like others, I was happy with that.)
Interviewer: What are the different impressions that people make on your child?
kase nakilala naman siya ng mga bata kaya napakarami niyang kaibigan. (When
he was in elementary, there were people who laugh at him. But then the children
pero kailangang may bantay. (He always plays with other children. I always allow
Interviewer: Does having premature child change some of your concepts and
ideas in life?
Interviewee: Oo, naging mas masipag ako atsaka mas umiral yung pagmamahal
ko bilang isang ina. (Yes, I am more industrious and my love as a mother shows
up more.)
matatalo ng hirap, kawawa naman yung bata. Ako okay na kong mawala kase
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mararanasan eh. (Don’t be weak, because we will be easily beat by the struggles
in life the child will be pity. It was okay for me to die because I already build my
Interviewer: What are the benefits and supports that you get from the
government?
sa PCSO tsaka yung mga foundations ng mga artista. Nagtatanong nga ako kung
kami ng kaunti sa mga gamot niya. (Other people that I know, they got a chance
foundations of the artists. I am asking them how. But we have an ID and booklet
Interviewer: How does the special care needed by your child affect your financial
stability?
Interviewee: Nahihirapan ako minsan mag-budget kase kahit simpleng ubo, sipon
lang pinapacheck-up ko na siya kase mahirap na. Kapag wala kaming pera, hindi
even just simple cold we immediately go to a doctor. And if we don’t have enough
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Interviewee: Pray lang talaga. Lagi ring nandyan yung mga kamag-anak at
kaibigan ko para tumulong. (Just pray. And beside my family and friend were
Interviewer: What are your insights or learning from the said experience?
Interviewee: Kahit ganto yung sitwasyon namin, hindi naman kami nilalayuan ng
mga tao, tinutulungan pa nga kami. Basta napagisip-isip ko rin na maswerte ako
masaya. (Even though our situation is like this people don’t go away from us
instead they help us. So I think I was so lucky because the child was alive. That
Participant 4
Interviewee: Una mahirap kasi sobrang liit nila tapos pinanganak sila may
infection sila sa bituka pero nagamot na ‘yon noong nasa ICU sila. (At first it was
hard because they are so small. Then they were born with intestinal infection but
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Interviewer: Does the struggles that you’ve experienced affect you? How?
Interviewee: Two months sila sa hospital, two months din ako pabalik-balik sa ICU
para i-check at bantayan sila. (They are in the hospital for two months and I’m also
going back and forth for two months in the ICU to check and watch over them.)
Interviewee: Iyon ‘yung tuwing umiiyak sila. (That was every time when they cry.)
Interviewer: When you are experiencing the struggle that you mentioned, what do
Interviewee: Mahirap talaga sila patigilin sa pag-iyak. Sabi nila baka dahil sa dami
mas mahina. Ginagawa ko, ibinibigay na lang kung ano ang gusto nila para
tumahan sa pag-iyak. (They are hard to stop crying. Some says that maybe it’s
because there are many medicines that were injected to them when they are still
a baby, especially Marcus, he’s weaker. So what I do is I’m giving them what they
Interviewee: Pray lang kay Lord dahil alam ko na hindi niya pababayaan mga
anak ko lalo na kapag may sakit sila, doon ako pinanghihinaan ng loob dahil hindi
naman sila normal ipinanganak nandun pa rin ‘yung kaba. (Just pray to the Lord
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because I know that he will not abandon my children especially when they are sick.
There I am discouraged because they were not normally born, the nervousness is
still there.)
Interviewer: How does looking at your child suffer feels like? Seeing him
Interviewee: Masakit man para sa ina na makita silang ganun lalo na si Marcus.
Yung paa niya may problema pero nakikita ko naman na ‘di niya iniinda at
nakakapaglaro pa siya kahit ganoon ang sitwasyon niya. (It hurts more for a
mother seeing them on that situation especially Marcus. His feet has a problem
but I can see that he’s not complaining it and he can still play with a situation like
that.)
Interviewer: What are the different impressions that people say to your child?
Interviewee: May mga naaawa sa kanila. Yung iba naman tumatawa pa. Iba’t iba
na anak. (Some are pity for them and some are laughing at them. They have
different expressions because they don’t have any experience having a premature
child.)
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Rogationist College Senior High School Department
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Km. 52 E. Aguinaldo Highway, Lalaan 2, Silang Cavite
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alamin ang sitwason ng anak ko. (It affected me socially because every time that
other kids invite my daughter to play with them, they need to ask my permission
Interviewer: Does having a premature child changed some of your concepts and
ideals in life?
pasensiya para sa mga anak ko. Uunahin ko muna ang mga bata bago ang sarili
responsible in life and have a longer patience for my twins. They comes first before
Interviewer: What are the benefits and supports that you get from the
government?
Interviewee: Suporta simula nung baby sila tinutulungan sila makalabas ng ospital
Interviewer: How does the special care needed by your child affect your financial
stability?
Interviewee: Halos hindi makaipon sa dami ng gastos sa kanila pero sa una lang
naman. Habang lumalaki naman sila gumagaan na din yung gastos. (There are
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Rogationist College Senior High School Department
(St Anthony’s Boys Village), Inc.
Km. 52 E. Aguinaldo Highway, Lalaan 2, Silang Cavite
Tel.: (046) 414-0448 Fax: (046) 414-2198; 414-1014
too much expenses and no part of our budget was put into savings. But as our
Interviewee: Para sa akin may dahilan kung bakit nangyari ito at sa palagay ko ay
happened to us maybe God allows this to happen because He measures our faith
in Him.)
Participant 5
Interviewee: I have two premature children. My daughter stayed two weeks in the
hospital to undergo medications. I don’t have enough time to sleep and rest
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Km. 52 E. Aguinaldo Highway, Lalaan 2, Silang Cavite
Tel.: (046) 414-0448 Fax: (046) 414-2198; 414-1014
Interviewee: I felt happy and relieved because I knew that my daughter survive
Interviewer: What are the different impressions that people say to your child?
Interviewee: Luckily, people positively say my child grow smarter and brave.
Interviewer: What are the benefits and supports that you get from the
government?
food chain. Also, we have PhilHealth card which helps us to lessen the expenses
in the hospital.
Interviewee: I always remind myself that God and my family is always there beside
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Rogationist College Senior High School Department
(St Anthony’s Boys Village), Inc.
Km. 52 E. Aguinaldo Highway, Lalaan 2, Silang Cavite
Tel.: (046) 414-0448 Fax: (046) 414-2198; 414-1014
Interviewee: Thinking about positive things because I know things are going to be
reason.
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(St Anthony’s Boys Village), Inc.
Km. 52 E. Aguinaldo Highway, Lalaan 2, Silang Cavite
Tel.: (046) 414-0448 Fax: (046) 414-2198; 414-1014
APPENDIX E: Coding
every 2 hours
or less and
my secretion
of milk that
adequate.
iyong nakaya
ko i-normal si
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baby kahit na
nawawalan
na ako ng
tubig sa loob
ng tiyan ko...
(Maybe the
most fulfilling
part was I
delivered my
baby
normally
even I lose
water in my
tummy…)
care to my child
child…
magsasara
muna ng
tindahan,
minsan
sayang ang
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benta,
kailangan
ding bigyan
ng extra
attention.
(Giving extra
and special
care… I need
to close the
store,
sometimes
our sales
were put to
waste, and it
also need an
extra
attention…)
balik sa ICU
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para i-check
at bantayan
sila. (They
are in the
hospital for
two months
going back
two months
in the ICU to
check and
watch over
them.)
children.… I
don’t have
enough time
to sleep and
rest because
I need to
observe and
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watch my
child.
a lost
premature one of my
me to move
on and get
back my
sanity.
kapag
nakikita
mong
lumalaban at
bumubuti
ang lagay ng
baby ko.
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(When I saw
my baby
fighting and
getting
better, I felt
relieved.)
siyang anak. es
Nagulat ako
kase nga
napa- aga…
Masaya nung
hiniga,
nilagay siya
nung doktor
sa dibdib
ko…
Pinakamahi-
nagkakasakit
siya,
napakasakiti
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n kase niya.
(I felt happy
because he
was my first
son. I was
shocked
because I
delivered him
early… I was
happy when
the doctor
laid him
down in my
chest… It
was also
difficult when
he gets sick
because he’s
so prone to
it.)
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sila, doon health of
pinanghihina
-an ng loob
dahil hindi
naman sila
normal
ipinanganak
nandun pa
rin ‘yung
kaba. (Just
pray to the
Lord… when
I am
discouraged
because they
were not
normally
born, the
nervousness
is still there.)
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5 I felt happy Feeling Emotio-nal Positive Experience
because I
knew that my
daughter
survive
despite that
she’s a
premature
child.
experienc so, no
e in having negative
a impression.
knew the
story, they
the loss of
the other
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twin. They
said, “Naku
kung
nabuhay
siguro si
Aeron, ang
(If Aeron is
still alive, I
bet he’s a
good-looking
man too.)
post at through
humingi ng social
social media,
mag-chat at
mag-text sa
mga kaibigan
ko. Medyo
mahirap kase
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hindi naman
agad
mapapansin
ng mga tao.
(I
experienced
… posting on
social media
and asking
also chatting
and texting
my friends. It
becomes
hard
because only
few paid
attention to
the post.)
sa ibang child
bata.
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Pinapayagan
ko naman
pero
kailangang
may bantay.
(He always
plays with
other
children. I
always allow
him but
there’s
always
someone to
sa tuwing before
aaya na them to
makipaglaro play
sa anak ko
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kailangan pa
nilang
magpaalam
at kailangan
ko munang
alamin ang
sitwason ng
affected me
socially
because
every time
that other
kids invite my
daughter to
play with
them, they
need to ask
my
permission
and I need to
know my
daughter’s
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condition
first.)
attempting to in
engage my physical
child to activities
physical
activities
together with
the other
children.
experienc minded
a didn’t affect
premature my faith in
there’s a
good reason
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for all the
trials that’s
we’re going
through.
matatag, health
magtiis, at
magtiyaga sa
lahat ng oras
sakripisyo at
pila sa mga
kailangang
ayusin para
sa bata.
(Be careful
especially
when you’re
pregnant.
Take care of
yourself. Be
strong and
courageous
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all the time.
Do not
hesitate to
give up and
let go in
times of
need.)
panghihina-
an ng loob,
kase madali
tayong
matatalo ng
hirap,
kawawa
naman yung
bata. Ako
okay na kong
mawala kase
naitaguyod
ko na ang
pamilya ko
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pero yung
anak ko,
marami pa
siyang
mararana-
san eh.
(Don’t be
weak,
because we
will be easily
beat by the
struggles in
will be
pity. It was
okay for me
to die
because I
already build
my family up
but my child,
he will still
face different
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challenges in
life.)
responsable -ble
sa buhay at
may
mahabang
pasensiya
para sa mga
anak ko.
Uunahin ko
muna ang
mga bata
bago ang
sarili o kung
ano pa man.
Mas
kailangan
sila i-
prioritize. (I
learned to be
more
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responsible
in life and
have a longer
patience for
my twins.
They come
first before
myself. They
need to be
prioritized
more.)
thinker and
more
understand-
ding.
a quite
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premature financial
time.
mula sa assis-
DSWD at tance
PCSO sa
ospital.
(Financial
assistance
from the
DSWD and
PCSO from
hospitals.)
kakilala…
Pero kami eh
nabigyan na
ng ID at
booklet sa
Amadeo.
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Nakakadis-
count kami
ng kaunti sa
mga gamot
niya.
(Other
people that I
know… But
we have an
ID and
booklet at
Amadeo. So
we have a
discount for
his
medicines.)
tinutulungan tance
sila
makalabas
ng ospital at
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makabawas
sa ibang
gastos sa
ospital. (The
support
coming from
the
government
helped us to
discharge
them and to
lessen the
hospital
expenses.)
discount
whenever we
eat in a
restaurant or
fast-food
chain. Also,
we have
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PhilHealth
card which
helps us to
lessen the
expenses in
the hospital.
Time helps y
me heal the
wound of
losing. Glad,
that I have
to take care
of and a
family that’s
been there to
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help me
when I
needed them
most. I’m a
broad-
minded
person that it
didn’t affect
my faith in
God that
there’s a
good reason
trials that’s
we’re going
through.
problemang assit
pamilya, ort
humingi ng from
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tulong sa famil
Diyos, y
nagdasal at
kumilos.
(I faced this
problem
together with
my family. I
asked God’s
help and
guidance,
prayed and
moved.)
ring nandyan of
kamag-anak y
at kaibigan Stro
ko para ng
tumulong. faith
(Just pray.
And beside
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my family
and friend
were always
there to
help.)
magulang ng from
asawa ko at famil
patuloy na y
paghingi ng God’
guidance at s
assistance assis
sa Diyos. tanc
(With the e
help of my in-
laws and
continuously
praying to the
Lord for
guidance and
assistance.)
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5 I always Pres Family
myself that of
family is y
beside me to ng
motivate me.
e? . From this ng
experiences, famil
I should be y
positive on more
things that
didn’t come
my way. It
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helped me to
cope up. It
also made
me to love
my family
more.
Huwag ul al
Maging h
matatag at
maging
malakas ang
loob sa lahat
ng oras.
Huwag
basta-basta
susuko at
bibitaw lalo
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na sa
panahong
kinakaila-
ngan.
(Be careful
especially
when you’re
pregnant.
Take care of
yourself. Be
strong and
be
courageous
Do not
hesitate to
give up and
let go in
times of
need.)
sitwasyon for
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namin, hindi the
nilalayuan ng ’s life
tinutulungan king
Basta ve
napagisip- reas
maswerte
ako dahil
nabuhay ang
bata.
Nabigyan
siya ng
pagkakata-
ong
mabuhay at
maging
masaya.
(Even though
our situation
is like this
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people don’t
go away from
us instead
So I think I
was so lucky
because the
child was
alive. That he
was given a
chance to
and be
happy.)
kung bakit e
nangyari ito
at sa palagay
ko ay
hinahanda at
sinusubukan
ako ng
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Panginoon
kung gaano
katatag ang
pananampal
ataya ko sa
Kanya. (For
me, there is a
reason why
all of these
happened to
us maybe
God allows
this to
happen
because He
measures
our faith in
Him.)
positive positi
things ve
because I
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know things reas
be alright. I
know that
God is
challenging
me because
everything
happens for
a reason.
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APPENDIX F: Curriculum Vitae
PERSONAL DATA
Age : 16
Birthday : February 17, 2002
Gender : Female
Height : 5 ft.
Weight : 49 kg
Civil Status : Single
Nationality : Filipino
Religion : Roman Catholic
Language Spoken : Filipino, English
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Secondary : Rogationist College
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
2018
Primary : Lalaan Central School
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
(2008-2014)
CLUBS/ORGANIZATIONS : None
CHARACTER PREFERENCE
I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and beliefs.
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LARA ALEXANDREA B. DE LEON
071 Maitim 2nd West Tagaytay City, Cavite
Cell Phone Number: 0966-256-1253
jomjomcambaliza@gmail.com
PERSONAL DATA
Age : 17
Birthday : September 23, 2001
Gender : Female
Height : 5’4 ft.
Weight : 57 kg.
Civil Status : Single
Nationality : Filipino
Religion : Roman Catholic
Language Spoken : Filipino, English
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Secondary : Rogationist College
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
2018
Primary : Bethany Christian Academy of
Tagaytay
Maitim 2nd East Tagaytay City,
Cavite
(2008-2014)
CLUBS/ORGANIZATIONS : None
CHARACTER PREFERENCE
I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and beliefs.
110
PATRICIA MAE A. LEONARDO
127 A. Mabini St., Brgy 3., Amadeo, Cavite
Cell Phone Number: 0906-907-5186
leonardopatricia126@yahoo.com
PERSONAL DATA
Age : 17
Birthday : May 09, 2001
Gender : Female
Height : 5’4 ft.
Weight : 52 kg.
Civil Status : Single
Nationality : Filipino
Religion : Born Again Christian
Language Spoken : Filipino, English
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Secondary : Rogationist College
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
2018
Primary : Amadeo Elementary School
A. Mabini St., Amadeo, Cavite
(2008-2014)
CHARACTER PREFERENCE
I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and beliefs.
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MARC STEPHEN C. MALARAYAP
Buho, Amadeo, Cavite
Cell Phone Number: 0977-304-1067
msmalarayap@gmail.com
PERSONAL DATA
Age : 16
Birthday : October 30, 2001
Gender : Male
Height : 5’3 ft.
Weight : 55 kg.
Civil Status : Single
Nationality : Filipino
Religion : Roman Catholic
Language Spoken : Filipino, English
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Secondary : Rogationist College
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
2018
Primary : Fr. Luigi Caburlotto School
Buho, Amadeo, Cavite
(2008-2014)
CHARACTER PREFERENCE
I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and beliefs.
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ANNA MARI V. SULIT
Brgy. Toledo, Silang, Cavite
Cell Phone Number: 0908-266-3765
sulit.annamari@gmail.com
PERSONAL DATA
Age : 16
Birthday : May 17, 2002
Gender : Female
Height : 5 ft.
Weight : 38 kg.
Civil Status : Single
Nationality : Filipino
Religion : Roman Catholic
Language Spoken : Filipino, English
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Secondary : Rogationist College
Lalaan II, Silang, Cavite
2018
Primary : Alfonso Central School
Alfonso, Cavite
(2007-2010)
CLUBS/ORGANIZATIONS : None
CHARACTER PREFERENCE
I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and beliefs.
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