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Dylan Archer
Ms. Woelke
Pre-AP English 9A
10 December 2018
In William Shakespeare's The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, which takes place around the
thirteen hundreds in Verona, Italy, two young adults marry in secret while their households are in
conflict with each other. However, Romeo and Friar Lawrence, the man that married the two,
changed and affected the lives of their own characters, other characters, and future events in a
negative way. They do this by making rash unreasonable decisions, causing unnecessary grief,
Romeo and Friar Lawrence affect their own lives by making quick and irrational
decisions when Romeo murders Tybalt and Friar Lawrence foolishly puts blood on his own
hands. Very shortly after witnessing Mercutio fall to Tybalt’s blade, Romeo seeks out Tybalt and
states that “either thou or I, or both, must go with him,” and in response, Tybalt states that
Romeo “shalt with him hence” They then fight and Romeo slays Tybalt his cousin
and they say things like “must go with him” meaning to the grave as he is dead. Furthermore,
Romeo acting on his rage and vanquishing Tybalt directly led to him getting banished which will
permanently keep him from his family and more importantly, his new wife. A short while later,
Juliet’s father made an arrangement to wed her to nobel Paris and in response, she would
threaten the Friar in stating “give me some present counsel” or she is going to kill herself so, the
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Friar will answer by giving her a potion, all the while stating that drinking this “distilling liquor”
will make her seem dead for forty-two hours,(Shakespeare 4.1.67-96). In agreeing to give Juliet
the potion and allowing her to fake her own death, he forced upon himself partial responsibility
for whatever she chooses to do with this potion and because of these unreasonable actions, he
ends up painting blood on his own hands. To summarize, Romeo’s hotheaded actions cost him a
happy being with the love of his life and a caring family while on the other hand, the Friar aids
These two men also had a largely negative effect on their friend’s and family’s lives
through the unnecessary grief caused by them. Towards the end of this tragedy, Romeo goes to
Juliet’s tomb to end his own life where he runs into Paris who is there for the same reason and
Paris tried to “apprehend thee for a felon” as he believes that Romeo has come to defile Juliet’s
tomb, soon after, Paris states “oh I am slain” as he had just been defeated by Romeo in a
duel,(Shakespeare 5.3.69-72). In this situation Romeo affected another's life by murdering him in
cold blood, this heinous act could have been avoided by simply explaining the marriage. At this
point, Romeo has murdered two young men due to his temper and reckless actions leaving a
gaping hole in the lives of all their loved ones. Moreover, the Friar allowing Juliet to fake her
own death causes unfathomable grief for the young woman’s family to the extent of causing her
nurse to cry out “O woe, O woeful, woeful, woeful day!” while also compelling her mother to
describe the day as “accursed, unhappy, wretched, hateful day!”(Shakespeare 4.5.49-55). Very
few people can understand the unadulterated pain and grief that comes from losing a child, even
more so on a major day in their life such as on a wedding. Yet again, the Friar could have just
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explained the situation and all of this been avoided by the simple action. To explain, the young
Romeo and “wise” Friar Lawrence caused unbelievable tournament for those in their lives.
Lastly, these two troublesome miscreants also had a harmful effect on future events by
taking young lives from the world when they faked the gullible Juliet’s death and plotting a
secret wedding. After first meeting Juliet, Romeo travels to the Friar’s cell and asks that “thou
must combine by holy marriage” himself and the beautiful Juliet in response the friar states that a
man’s love “lies in their eyes” and “not truly in their hearts” and even still the holy man that he
will be ‘thy assistant” and marry the two,(Shakespeare 2.3.62-98). Agreeing to perform this
secret wedding, against his better judgment, partially causes the deaths of Romeo, Juliet, and by
extension, Paris. All of these people could have had a positive effect upon their city but, instead
just caused pain and heartache. To add on, in the final moments of Romeo’s life, he commits
suicide with poison mere moments before Juliet awakens and as she sees Romeo’s dead body,
she takes a dagger and states “there, rust and let me die” after stabbing herself,(Shakespeare
5.3.175). Romeo’s haste to take his own life causes Juliet to be struck with grief and take her
own life stealing the young beauty from the world. This sad death was too early for all and could
have yet again been easily avoided.Overall, Romeo and the Friar steal several incredible lives
Finally, Romeo and the Friar negatively affect future events, their own lives, and the lives
of those around them. In conclusion, these negative effects are clearly visible in Shakespeare’s
text through the rash decisions, unnecessary grief and secrecy that was shown by Romeo and
Friar Lawrence.