BULLYING
OLEH MERRIAH HATI LUBIS
B ullying is the behavior of
someone who hurts
Whether physical or mental.
others.
There are many types of bullying. It can
hurt in physical form, like hitting,
pushing, and so on. In verbal form is
insulting, shapping and using a word.
Bullying in social form such as
astracism and ignoring people. In the all
around era of technology bullying can
go through gadgets, and social media
called cyberbullying . Cyberbullying is
when someone is humiliated, terrorized
in social media or via e-mail, sms and
phone. The most common bullying
example we encountered around us is
the sisters of the class who bumps into
the class sisters, because it is considered
to behave. Bullying is of concern to the
ministry of social media affairs.
From survey data, as many 84 percent
of children aged 12 to 17 years have
been victims of bullying. The author will
explain how to deal with bullying and
prevent bullying. Also, the effect of
bullying.
To prevent the emergency of act
of violence among adolescents the role
of all parties involved in the
environtment of adolescents like is
needed. As early as possible, children
get the right environment. Families
should be a comfortable place for
children to express theirs experiences
and feelings. Parents should evaluate
the patterns of interaction that have
been aloned and become the right model
in interacting with others. Give
reinforcement or praise to the pro social
behavior shown the child and further
encourage the child to float his talent or
interest in activities and parents should
still communicate with the teacher if the
indicates a problem originating from the
school. During this time, the most
teachers do not pay much attention to
what is happening among their students.
It is important that teacher have
kowledge and skills on prevention and
how to deal with bullying. The author
think,the elementary school curriculum
should contain elements of pro social
attitude development and teacher
provide reinforcement to their
application in daily life at school. School
should support groups of activities to be
followed by all students.Furthermore,
school provide access to complaints or
dialogue forums between students and
school, or parents and school and
stabilish, clear school rules and
sanctions against bullying
Do not underestimate, there are
still many parents who consider the
class to intimidate the class sister a
tradition, as well as abusive treatment
received y the child from his friend is
often ignored because it will pass the
time. It is time to change that view.
Establish deep communication with
children. Pay more attention when the
child is suddenly moody and lazy to
school. Parents should teach to protect
themselves, teach children to be self
defense in the sense of avoiding
themselves for victims or perpetrators
of violence. Tell him “If you hit your
friend, you should tell to me or teacher”
and does not teach reply or use to force
in self defense. In addition, do not get
use to bringing expensive children or
excessive money to school because it
could potentially be target of
bullying,fertilize children sel-defense.
Now, I will tell you how to
handling bullying. Most ideal is where
there is integrated policy and action that
involves all components ranging from
teachers,students,principle,parents, which
aim to stop bullying and ensure security
for victims. Anti-bullying programs in
school are conducted among other things,
by activity monitoring and sanctioning the
perpetrators or compagning in various
way. Teacher can incorporating bullying
material into learning will have a positive
impact on the students personal
development.