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izing your feelings can help you think it zone provides a unique view of life, and To have a successful new beginning
through. If you know anyone who has it is a succession of such views over a or change, begin to identify yourself
been through a similar transition, ask lifetime that produces wisdom. Expect with the final result of the change as if
him or her to tell you about the experi- old fears to be awakened, so take care of it has successfully happened. Visualize
ence and what helped ease the transition. yourself in little ways, such as exercising, the change, using as many specifics as
In this process, don’t denigrate what has getting enough sleep, and eating right. possible. See and experience yourself as
to end or think of it as wrong. The deci- Talking with a trusted mentor or friend successfully adapting to the change. If
sions made in the past and the activities about your fears may also help you to helpful, list or describe the advantages of
were correct at the time. understand your feelings. the change so you focus on the positive
A method to achieve a successful end- Making the best use of the neutral aspects instead of allowing fears of what
ing is to formally mark it with actions or zone involves finding a regular time and may go wrong to dominate. Expect to en-
activities that dramatize it, such as having place to be alone, away from the familiar counter some challenges that you haven’t
a party. Inviting others to the celebration distractions. Consider taking a few days anticipated and envision yourself being
encourages you to honor the past and put to go on your own version of a retreat. able to handle these challenges. Always
it in perspective. You might begin a log or journal of see problems as challenges and oppor-
Neutral zone. After a successful neutral zone experiences and document tunities, not obstacles. Finally, be patient
ending, you must endure the neutral what you really think is going on, how with yourself and take the change one
zone—a no man’s land between the old you feel, what puzzling or unusual things step at a time. Be gentle with yourself,
reality and the new. The neutral zone have happened, and what decisions you and acknowledge that it is going to take
may begin with a feeling of disenchant- wish you could make. Another approach a little time to become fully functional
ment, but slowly you will begin to see the is to take this pause in the action of your with the change. It might be useful to
disenchantment experience as meaning- life to write your autobiography, because celebrate small successes of the change,
ful. The fact that things are up in the air in seeing where you have been, you can such as surviving the first day, week, or
now and that you sometimes feel that tell where you are going. This is an op- month.
you are right back where you started is portunity for you to step back, take stock, Conclusion. Change transition can be
not a sign that you have made a mistake reassess, and experiment. It provides you eased by understanding the need to have
or have been wasting your time. Rather, the opportunity to consider your pos- a formal ending, to endure the neutral
the neutral zone represents a journey sibilities in a new light by breaking free zone, and then to have a new beginning.
from one identity to another. Necessary of yesterday’s view of things and generat-
reorientation and redefinition occur in ing a new list of possibilities. Take this Suggested readings
the neutral zone, where creative, renewal, opportunity to discover what you really Bridges W. Managing transitions: making
the most of change. New York: Addison-
and development opportunities are wait- want by asking yourself, “If I only could, Wesley; 1991.
ing to be recognized. what would I do?” Bridges W. Transitions: making sense of life’s
Described another way, the neutral New beginnings. The new beginning changes. New York: Addison-Wesley;
1980.
zone feels like you have cast away the is the desired change, such as a new com-
shell of your old identity like a lobster puter system, new job responsibilities, Sara J. White, M.S., FASHP, Pharmacy
and are staying close to the rocks because or a child going to college. Having suc- Leadership Coach
you are still soft and vulnerable. You cessfully ended the current situation and 550 Ortega Avenue, B123
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know you will have a new and better benefitted from the neutral zone, you are rxsjw@yahoo.com
fitting identity in time, but for now you ready to embrace the change. Don’t be
have to move slowly. surprised if even in this final step some of The author has declared no potential
To successfully handle the neutral the old anxieties triggered by the ending conflict of interest.
zone, you need to surrender to the emp- are reactivated, as change always repre-
DOI 10.2146/ajhp080256
tiness in order to escape it. The neutral sents a gamble with no guarantees.