My Six Favorite Relationship Resources

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Hi, my name is Karen M. White, and I’m a Vedic
astrologer who is deeply involved in a lifelong love
affair with astrology. Why? Because astrology has
so much to offer in the area of love relationships;
healing for past relationship heartbreak,
understanding a mate on a deep level,
understanding our love style, and understanding
how to fulfill our greatest emotional needs. !
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why you haven’t found love even though you’ve been “working on
yourself,” Vedic astrology will tell you exactly what is getting in the
way of love.!
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astrologer, one of the things we do is make remedial
recommendations based on your birth chart. !
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In addition to the spiritual remedies given for the Moon, Venus, or
Jupiter such as mantra, journaling, and other planetary therapies, it is
education on relationships, communication skills, and getting
personalized support that makes the most difference in a person’s
love life. !
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! The following six recommendations provide crucial
education on relationships (just understanding the differences and the
unique needs of each sex brings a huge amount of enlightenment in
relationships). Each of the love experts below has a unique angle on
love and there is sure to be at least one of them that you resonate
with. !
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! You can get personalized support from some of these
resources too; there are services that can provide the witnessing,
guidance, and the feedback you need to make your vision of love

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come true.!
Favorite Recommendation #1: Carol Allen
The work of astrologer and author, Carol Allen, of

SouMateStars.com and CarolAllenAstrology.com has
probably done more to educate the layperson on the correct
use of astrology than just about anything else I’ve found.!
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I recommend her excellent e-books because of the
Planetary Personality Profiles (how to spot the planetary
type a man is without having to know his birth chart), the
explanations of how astrology does and does not work, the
timing of love, and her audio programs are hands-down the best work I’ve seen
in the astrological field for the layperson since Linda Goodman. !
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! Her newsletters are excellently written and a person can learn a lot about
astrology just from reading those, but most importantly, one can learn a lot about
love and our part in making it successful for ourselves regardless of our birth
charts. !
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I owe Carol a LOT. She is the one who sent me to Ernst
Wilhelm (to the left) to learn the Vedic Compatibility Technique
six years ago. I was using Horary astrology to help my clients
with their love lives (an awesome form of astrology in and of
itself) and reading her amazing newsletters. I don’t remember
how they ended up in my inbox, but obviously, it was fate!!
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! She kept talking about the amazing Vedic Compatibility Technique in
her newsletters and I recognized a lot of Dr. Pat Allen’s work in her advice on
love based on the differences between men and women. In fact, I thought she
might be Pat Allen’s daughter because of her last name! !
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! But mostly, as an astrologer, I wanted to use the Vedic Compatibility
technique in my own practice. Most of my clients were interested in their
relationships above everything else in life. !
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! So, I emailed her and asked if she was one of Pat Allen’s daughters (no
relation), and if she would teach me the Vedic Compatibility technique. She told
me that she learned it from Ernst Wilhelm and sent me to him with her blessings. !
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techniques I learned from him and it changed my life personally, and as an
astrologer.!
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! My confidence in my practice as an astrologer grew tremendously
because the Vedic Compatibility Technique is so reliable, accurate, and healing.
It answered some questions for me personally as well, about a past relationship
that didn’t work out. !
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! I wanted to understand why love wasn’t enough to save the relationship
and all my searching for answers through therapy, 12-Step programs (Al-Anon &
ACA), and reading self-help books, etc., didn’t answer all my questions. Though I
did receive a lot of healing through this search and all of it was very, very helpful. !
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! Since learning and practicing the Vedic Compatibility Technique as an
astrologer, I have completely healed from the heartbreak of that relationship
because I understand now, through astrology, the real, spiritual reasons, we met,
fell in love and why we ultimately weren’t meant to be together for life. !
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! I was able to let go of thinking that we could have done anything
differently to make it work. !
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! As an astrologer, I consider the Vedic Compatibility technique, along with
Horary astrology, to be my best tools in helping my clients with their relationships,
past, present, and future. For many of us, love is our greatest desire and reason
for being and this kind of information is clearly a gift from the divine.!
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! It turns out that Dr. Pat Allen’s work was instrumental in understanding
the ancient Vedic Compatibility technique; it’s evident all through the Vedic
Compatibility Report (aka The Right Man Report on
Carol Allen’s websites). !
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Ernst told me that it was Dr. Pat Allen’s work that
finally made the Vedic astrological technique make
sense to him because it provided context for it (times
may change, but people never do - the masculine/feminine dance is the same
from age to age). !
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! Pat Allen’s gift is to teach psychological science to the layperson and her
research into Carl Jung’s archetypical psychology, modern brain science, and
Eric Berne’s cognitive psychology led her to write, lecture, and teach to the
layperson (and to therapists through The Want Institute organization). !

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! Fortunately, Ernst Wilhelm, the pioneering astrological genius, came
across the work of the psychological genius and pioneer, Dr. Pat Allen, and
everything fell into place. In my opinion, it was clearly by divine design! !
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! Dr. Pat Allen was my therapist in my 20’s and learning the Vedic
Relationship Capacity and Compatibility Technique as taught by Ernst was a way
of coming full circle for me and completing my quest for healing. !
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! Because of her, my questions were answered about men, what it means
to be a woman, where feminism fits into love, and how to have a healthy
relationship. I was a young woman in the 70’s and 80’s and I was so confused.
She was like a second mother to me and because of her, I was able to get
married and become a mother myself.!
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! There are pages of videos on YouTube with interviews of Pat Allen, and
other videos of Pat Allen giving seminars, or leading people in one of her famous
relationship “pledges.” !
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Favorite Recommendation #2: Dr. Patricia Allen
As mentioned above, Pat was my therapist in my 20’s and she helped me to get
married and have a daughter, in fact, without her I don’t think I would have been
able to marry, at least not to someone who was actually
good for me. ! !
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I had heard several of her weekly profound and funny
Open Forum Relationship seminar tape recordings about
the masculine and feminine energy roles in relationships,
and it was helping to make sense of my on-and-off
relationship with the then love-of-my-life. They were riveting!!
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! Growing up, my parents were ill with the disease of alcoholism and being
the oldest child, I was raised to be more of a boy than a girl. Self-sacrificing,
overly responsible (I was a second mother to my siblings), and a rescuer without
healthy boundaries, I tended to get involved with men who were great boyfriends
but not good husband material. !
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of any kind, “the eternal boy” type of man. It was what I was comfortable with and
it inevitably caused me tremendous pain in my love life.!

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! Pat helped me to end the 13-year-long, on-and-off relationship with my
first-love boyfriend. With her support and encouragement, I met and married my
first husband and had a daughter. !
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! Many years later, after learning the Vedic Compatibility technique, I found
out that in my first long-term relationship, the energy was reversed between us. I
was the masculine and he was the feminine, which explained why we were angry
at each other so often. To get a deeper understanding of what I’m talking about
here, read about the reversal of energy and its effects HERE (called “Respect”).!
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! With my first husband, however, the energy flowed from him to me, so I
was the feminine and he was the masculine. I had healed to the point that I
could be emotionally vulnerable and relate from my feeling-feminine side
rather than from my over-intellectualizing, over-functioning, and performing-for-
love, masculine side. !
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The Want Institute & Her Relationship Improving Seminars & CDs
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! At The Want Institute website, you can buy her lectures and CDs on
communication and how to have a loving relationship, what it means to be a
woman, how to know if you love yourself or not (and how to fall in love yourself
so a good man can fall in love with you too), how to negotiate a good relationship
deal for yourself, and all about the true nature of men (you’ll fall in love with men
too just as they are).!
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Getting To ‘I Do’
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The book I recommend the most by Dr. Patricia Allen (&
Sandra Harmon) is Getting To ‘I Do.’ It’s a great introduction
to what she has to offer your love life and it has the best
descriptions, in detail, of what the feminine-energy person
brings to a relationship and what the masculine-energy
person brings to the relationship. !
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In this book, she also tells you how you can have a good
relationship with a feminine-energy man if you are
comfortable being the masculine-energy partner. This works
equally well for gay and lesbian couples too.!
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!If therapy is part of the love remedies given to you by me
or another astrologer, you can find an excellent therapist trained by Dr. Pat Allen

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through The Want Institute, the best investment into your love life that you ever
make!!
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Pat’s Free Audio Files on Flirting
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! To get an idea what Pat’s lectures are like, listen to her free audio files on
How to Flirt! There are eight lectures in all and they cover many of the highlights
of what Pat teaches in all of her relationship lectures. !
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! She continues to have free weekly relationship seminars in Orange
County and Los Angeles (often on flirting) where you can attend in person and
work with her on your relationship issues in front of the audience. !
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On The Millionaire Matchmaker
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! Pat is the love doctor on the popular The Millionaire Matchmaker show
hosted by Patti Stanger about millionaire men looking for the woman of their
dreams. She speaks directly to the millionaire men in an earthy way, at first it can
be shocking, it’s like listening to grandma swear. But she speaks the truth and
once you hear it with her unique spin, you’ll never forget it!!
Favorite Recommendation #3: Lauren Frances!
Lauren Frances is the Love Coach from the Institute for

Romantic Research. Carol Allen introduced her in one of her
newsletters, I believe (they’ve done some events together too),
because Lauren is one of the premier online love coaches in
the world. She is also known for teaching safety in online
dating.!
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I recommend her services and classes because of her
modern advice on dating in today's cyber world and the huge
role texting and social media plays in romance. Her funny,
infectious optimism and confidence about love is what I want my clients to catch
from her, it is very possible to find real love online! !
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! She is an excellent teacher because she is so good at making her ideas
stand out; she is a master of the metaphor. !
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In her book Dating, Mating, and Manhandling – The
Ornithological Guide to Men, she likens men to birds, and as a
metaphor, it works. Learn how to demystify male courtship

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behavior (why do they fly away just when you’re getting close?), flirt like a man-
magnet and get “flocked” with suitors! !
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Lauren’s audio courses are excellent and full of information you can use right
now. She has lots of free teleseminars you can listen to also (get on her mailing
list) full of great information.!
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! She's incredibly skilled with relationship marketing and she’ll help you
find and express your relationship brand; colorful, vivid, and very appealing to the
type of man you want. A modern-day Scarlett O’Hara who calls herself !
Dr. Double-D, Lauren has really done her homework. !
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! She has dated several very wealthy and famous men herself and is the
queen of flirting and romance, what she teaches women about love, dating, and
mating has resulted in many women getting married and having a “legendary
love and bodice-ripping romance.” !
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! And, they met their husbands online! After working with Lauren, it’s
common for a woman to go from few “winks” and contacts from men online to
literally hundreds of high-quality men ready for a real relationship wanting to
connect with her. !
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! She even has a wonderful Man-Magnet Makeover WeekendTM available
that gives a woman a real lift and makes her feel confident, attractive, and like
the woman she never thought she could be (see VIDEO).!
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! I recommend her MP3 Podcast Courses because they are so upbeat
and practical yet they really stand out in the advice given on paving the way to
love, no matter how old you are, if you’re divorced, a busy career-woman, or if
you haven’t gone on a date in a decade or two. I recommend taking her MP3
courses in this order:!
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a. Legendary Love MP3 e-course (this one helps with healing past
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b. All of her On-line Dating e-courses (step-by-step instructions on
creating an on-line profile and how to conduct yourself on-line  
with men in the modern world of dating). Her clients go from a few
guys being interested in her online to thousands. I’m not kidding! 
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c. All of her free podcasts too (scroll down to the end of the page for her
Romantic Reboot free podcast.!
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Favorite Recommendation #4: Rori Raye
Rori Raye of HaveTheRelationshipYouWant.com has an

interesting story that I believe every woman can relate to. She
has figured out the secret to success in attracting and keeping
a relationship alive - don’t try to control your man and to inhabit
only your own skin completely. This is magnetic and invites a
man to pursue you even after being married to him  
for many years. !
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! Her methods seem almost like magic, and in a way they are magical in
that many of the exercises given are mind-set changes and self-love practices
designed to shift a woman’s energy field.!
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! The way they build a woman’s emotional strength and resilience and
support her femininity is some of the most beautiful material I’ve ever seen. Once
you know how to honor your feelings, feel them, and then express them, you are
able to fully express your femininity, and help a man to connect to his heart.!
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! I love her Modern Siren program because she gives several energetic
exercises that make you feel beautiful and really good about being a woman.
This attracts men like crazy! She gives extensive and detailed help in how to
have a conversation, a confrontation, or to ask for what you want from a man in a
way that brings him closer, even when you are sharing painful feelings.!
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Have The Relationship You Want, her e-book, is about the 5
Keys To Creating a Great Relationship and is full of energetic
exercises for handling strong feelings with grace, and
successfully dealing with the fear of not being in control of the
relationship, but instead letting go to get what you want. It’s
about having faith in the feminine.!
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A client once told me that she wanted to know the exact
words to say to her guy when things weren’t going well
because she tended to clam up in any kind of conflict or
confrontation. Well now there is something for her! Rori has
created exactly that, scripts for handling the most difficult conversations in your
love relationships, simply called Love Scripts.!
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! Rori has a whole catalog of products now and you can browse through
the catalog, and her newsletter gives lots of valuable information and exercises

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you can do right now for free. !
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Favorite Recommendation #5: Byron Katie!
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The silver-haired woman with a man’s first name and a
woman’s last name, but who is called Katie, is not a
relationship expert exactly, but she has created a simple
self-enquiry method that can free you from any kind of
emotional pain.!
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! Her blog, ByronKatie.com, has many videos of her using this self-enquiry
method with people in every kind of situation.!
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or in certain houses in your birth chart, you are likely ruining your relationships
without knowing it. Katie’s method, what she calls “the work,” helps you to let go
of your idealistic ideas of the way things and people “should” be and to love what
is (the true function of Mars).!
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Katie’s process will help you to find clarity and peace, in any situation. She
teaches how to question your thoughts and to let go of your “story.” It’s a path to
true inner freedom; it’s simple, though not always easy. Liberation on the deepest
level is possible through this simple four-question pattern.!
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Katie has several books, the most famous one at this time is probably Loving
What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life, and, I Need Your Love – Is
That True?: How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start
Finding Them Instead. !
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demonstrates the process with people at her live events. She has a great sense
of humor and you can see people starting with tears and ending with laughter
through doing the work. At her blog, she has a Relationship category with videos
you can watch to see how The Work is applied to love. Some of it is hilarious!!
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! You can even go to her School For The Work if you want to master the
process and use it to help others. You don’t have to attend the school to do it, but
if you want to know you have mastered it, this is a good way to do it.!

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Favorite Recommendation #6: David Cunningham!
Last but not least, David Cunningham’s e-book, The

Man’s Guide to Great Relationships & Marriage for
$39.97 is a book I recommend all the time to my men
clients, though women could learn a lot from it too (like
what a good man is like). !
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You can find it at his website MakingHerHappy.com,
along with two free bonus e-books Break-Up Busting
101, What Women Want, and a free subscription to his
daily newsletter. !
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Just his newsletters are worth the $39.97 alone, but
the e-books are full of the crucial information women
wished men knew about them and about love over the
long term.!
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David wrote this book for men who want to win, keep, or win back the
woman he loves. I read this book and what he has to say about women and what
they need to be happy in a relationship is pretty spot on. !
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His book is written for the man who wants a long-term committed
relationship, or who is already in a relationship. It’s not for the man who wants to
know how to bed as many women as he can.!
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I especially like everything he says about creating attraction for a woman.
A woman can love you but not be attracted to you anymore, making her more
susceptible to an affair.!
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This book can be eye opening for women too because of what David
describes as a real man. It can help you figure out what you do and don’t want in
a man. Keep in mind it would be pretty hard for any man to have all of the
attributes David describes, but it does bring clarity. !
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You can get a relationship coaching session with David too to help you
with your personal situation. He’s very logical, yet kind, which is refreshing when
you are dealing with an emotional situation like a break-up or when you are at a
crucial stage in a relationship. David is known as “the Doc” because he can help
with just about anything you need. !
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In Conclusion:
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There are many other worthy relationship resources, of course, but these
are my top six at this time. During a consultation, I will recommend many other
books and resources also depending on what we’re talking about. I’ve been
making a study of relationships for as long as I can remember and I love to read
on a variety of other subjects too. !
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The Really-Ready-for-Love Astrological Consultation
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If you want to know exactly what is going on in your love life (or!
NOT going on) in 90 minutes or less, book an appointment with me!
to get your Really-Ready-for-Love Consultation.!
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Finally know what is in the way of love for you and what you can do to
become as receptive and magnetic to love as possible. Most people won’t tell
you what you’re doing that’s pushing them away, they just tend to disappear or
end the relationship. !
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If you're already in a relationship, find out exactly what your partner!
needs to feel loved and what parts of the relationship will flow easily with little
effort, and where you'll need to be more conscious and intentional together.!
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Create a life of love using your personal divine love map - your Birth!
Horoscope - as a guide. There really IS an owner's manual for your life, and!
for your love life too, it was created at the divinely appointed time!
of your birth.!
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"Thank you so much for helping me to sort out my relationship with my
boyfriend. After my divorce from a man I felt was the love of my life, I
was afraid to move on with my current boyfriend and make that
"commitment" to him--I care for him, but was so afraid that I'd make
another mistake as I've done in the past with men.
But after discussing our compatibility strengths and compatibility points

I was able to move on with him that very same day and now we are
discussing our future. He's as happy as am I. I have grown to love Vedic
Astrology because it allows us to look at our relationships realistically
(not just on the soul mate and so-called chemistry level), but offers us
"fixes" for problems we may have and helps us to understand our
partners on a deeper level.

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I could write a book, but let me end by saying thank you for your
guidance and recommendations. I cannot even begin to tell you how
much of an impact our conversation has had on my life and my
relationship."
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--Natalie Thomas, Pittsburgh, PA
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For the past few years you have been a guiding light in my life.
Whenever I have had doubts about my relationships, you were there to
help guide me to making the right choices. You told me when
relationships would fail - and they did. You told me when one
relationship was not done - and he came back! Twice!!
--L.H. Aliso Viejo, CA

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May the stars bring you hope, healing, and happiness!!
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Karen M. White!
Divine Time Astrology!
http://divinetimeastrology.com/ !
Karen@DivineTimeAstrology.com!
714-754-6443

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Favorite Recommendation #1: Carol Allen

The work of astrologer and author, Carol Allen, of

Favorite Recommendation #3: Lauren Frances!

Lauren Frances is the Love Coach from the Institute for

Rori Raye of HaveTheRelationshipYouWant.com has an

Favorite Recommendation #5: Byron Katie!

Last but not least, David Cunningham’s e-book, The

But after discussing our compatibility strengths and compatibility points

--L.H. Aliso Viejo, CA

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