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“It’s rare that I read a textbook that’s so good, I don’t merely want to recommend
it, I want to actually rave about it—in a very loud voice! Advanced Acceptance and
Commitment Therapy is such a book: a truly superb advanced-level textbook for the
ACT practitioner who already has a handle on the basics, but now wants to evolve a
more fluid, flexible, and effective style of ACT. I confess to having frequent pangs of
envy as I read this book (which I devoured cover to cover in the space of one week)
and many thoughts such as, I wish I’d written this. It’s easy to read, extremely engag-
ing (in parts, laugh-out-loud funny), and incredibly practical. Even highly experienced
ACT practitioners will get a lot from this book. I certainly learned new things from
reading it, and I’ll bet good money that you will too! … So if you’re ready to move
from the beginner level ‘ACT-ish therapy’ to genuine, high-powered ACT, then rush
out and get this book now!”
—Russ Harris, author of The Happiness Trap and Getting Unstuck in ACT
“As I read Advanced Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I kept turning to my per-
sonal knowledge of Darrah Westrup and her incredible ability to communicate, in
writing, her gifted therapeutic experience and understanding of ACT. I know Darrah
as both a colleague and a friend, and this book shines a bright light on her amazing
talent and facility with the intervention. Readers will be engaged from the opening
pages regarding theory and processes, through the thoughtful and seasoned applica-
tion of ACT, all the way to its invitation to continue the ACT journey at the book’s
close. She brings to this volume not only a digestible, considered, and at times humor-
ous read, that every therapist, not just those using ACT, will find invaluable, but also
a personal sense of herself that is kind, grounded, and compassionate. Thank you,
Darrah, for this beautiful contribution to the ACT community and therapist com-
munity at large.”
—Robyn D. Walser, PhD, associate director of dissemination and training
at the National Center for PTSD, director at TL Consultation Services,
and assistant clinical professor at the University of California, Berkeley
“Advanced Acceptance and Commitment Therapy is an invaluable resource for every
therapist who doesn’t just want to do good ACT but great ACT. Easy to read and
very practical, this book succeeds at linking concrete skills to deep philosophical and
behavioral principles underlying the ACT model. The numerous clinical vignettes are
commented with great precision and clarity, and show how to activate key processes
through natural interactions, beyond traditional exercises.”
—Matthieu Villatte, PhD, research scientist at the Evidence-Based Practice
Institute, Seattle; ACBS-recognized ACT trainer; and associate editor of
the Journal of Contextual Behavioral Science
Advanced
A cceptance &
C ommitment
T herapy
The Experienced Practitioner’s
Guide to Optimizing Delivery
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . v
Introduction: Where It All Begins . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
PART 1
Getting Oriented
1 Let the Theory Guide the Way . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
Diving In The Aim of ACT The Means of ACT What about
RFT? The Core Processes of ACT Problems with the Processes
Either In or Out Quick Tips for Staying on Point Summary
3 Style Matters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
Individuality, but Not at the Cost of Fidelity Actual, Not Theoretical,
Equality Getting in the Room Sharing as Contribution The Gift
of Transparency Nurturing or Enabling Support Does Not Mean
Aligning Summary
PART 3
Some Finer Points
11 Curveballs and Consistency . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 219
Oh, by the Way… Bad News In Pursuit of Happiness Summary
References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 245
Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 249
iv Advanced ACT
CHAPTER 9
The Conundrum of
Self-as-Context
S
tanding in a checkout line the other day, I found myself thinking about a girl I
had known in seventh grade. She sat next to me in social studies and never said
a word. I never saw her talking with anyone, actually. She was very pale, and
would spend the class picking at her skin. Another image quickly followed, this time
of a boy in kindergarten whom everyone avoided because of the strong smell of urine
that came from his clothes. We kids couldn’t believe he wore the same stained clothes
to school day after day. Standing there, I had a startling thought: those kids could have
been abused. Sadness washed over me, mixed with outrage and regret. And then I was
through the checkout line.
These relational networks are really something, aren’t they? When I went back
over my thoughts, I realized that absent-mindedly scratching a small bump on the
skin of my arm had made me think of the girl in social studies. Or rather, relational
framing had derived a relation between that behavior and this girl, something I tapped
into thirty-plus years after the fact. Relational framing further linked two people I
had encountered years apart. That is, I derived that both were potentially members
of a class—in this case, abused children. This derived relation was connected with
the relational network I have developed around being a parent, which had already
been added to the vast relational network developed in the course of my clinical work.
Transformation of stimulus functions brought forth the emotions evoked by such expe-
riences and there I was, standing in a checkout line with brand-new derived relations
and a lot of painful feelings.
Relational framing is obviously a potent process. In pondering the plight of the
little boy and girl just mentioned, what is most tragic is the self-concept that likely
developed as a result of their experiences. Just as I and others quickly defined who they
were based on how we framed their behavior or appearance, they too were deriving
their very identities based on our reactions.
Putting this phenomenon into words seems to diminish its importance. The way
in which we experience and label ourselves is arguably the most influential aspect of
our lives. It determines the very quality of our existence. It influences our interpersonal
behavior, so our self-concept has a ripple effect on others that just continues to extend.
It can serve as a significant behavioral constraint or it can help us be present to, and
vitally engaged in, our lives. It’s a big deal.
Through the study of thinking and language acquisition, we are gaining insight
into how self-concepts are formed. This has major implications for that boy and girl,
for all the clients like them, and for us as therapists. By observing and coming to
understand the process of developing self-concept, we see that our self-identity is actu-
ally a product of language. We have formed it. We have been taught who we are by
others (just as they were taught), and by the relational frames we have derived. In that
sense it’s all a selected, construed reality. But how can we get past all the relational
framing to help clients see that?
This question will be a central topic in this chapter concerning the self-as-
context dimension of ACT. I will first revisit the experience of self as viewed in ACT,
touching upon the role of relational framing. I’ll then spend a bit of time on what we
are ultimately after in the therapy and how the model proposes to help clients in this
area. And then I will get into some specifics of some key self-as-context interventions.
As always, I’ll be pointing to various difficulties and missteps I have encountered, the
objective being to help therapists optimize this piece of the therapy.
THE STRUGGLE
Whenever I ask therapists what part of ACT they find most challenging, they invari-
ably point to self-as-context. When I observe ACT sessions, it is the self-as-context
piece that clients struggle with most. So we have a problem in that both therapists and
clients have difficulty with one of the key processes in ACT.
In the first chapter of this book I suggested that an understanding of the behav-
ioral learning principles informing ACT is clinically helpful. I think self-as-context is
particularly aided by some understanding of relational frame theory. Most essentially,
it helps us be more informed regarding the processes we are aiming for. Being more
informed not only assists our efforts to flush out those processes but also promotes
clinical flexibility and creativity. Rather than simply relying on particular self-as-
context exercises or metaphors to work on self-as-context, for example, we might think
of novel, in-the-moment ways to further that ability. There is also a very thin line
between the clear, practical work (such as helping clients notice that they are having
a thought or feeling) and more complex ideas (such as “Who is this Experiencer?” and
“Are we talking about the soul here?”). In other words, we can quickly find ourselves
on unsure footing with clients. I will restate that in ACT it’s okay to be unsure, so long
Client: “So is ACT like Buddhism? Like having no ego? Or do you mean
like Christianity, like the soul that ‘moves on’ after we die?”
Client (a little stymied): “Well, you are talking about the Self here.
So I’m wondering what ACT would say about that.”
Client: “I guess.”
Therapist: “Well, let’s say that it does. Let’s say that I’ve just come back
with ‘Yes, the observing self is the soul.’”
Client: “My mind just immediately comes up with ‘and how does
he know?’”
Therapist: “Exactly.”
Client: “So what you’re saying is…that there’s no point in asking this?”
Therapist: “We humans have been asking these sorts of questions for a
long time. Pondering the ‘mysteries of life’ is part of the human
experience. A rich part. It’s more that this therapy isn’t about
having the answers to those sorts of questions. You have your own
relationship with ‘the soul’ and what that means to you. In ACT
we might look at what that relationship means in terms of how
you live your life.”
In the above example the therapist directly explored the function of the client’s
question. In doing so he gently pointed to the client’s desire to get to right answers. He
also emphasized the client’s “right” to hold whatever beliefs he has, as well as ACT’s
emphasis on workability. Of course, should you determine it to be clinically appropriate
(for example, if the client is simply working to understand), you can always respond to
the content of the question.
Client: “So are you talking about the soul? Is the ‘Observer self’
the soul?”
Client: “Cool.”
Me: “So, are you aware that you are sitting there, looking at me?”
Client: “Yes… .”
Client: (Nods.)
Client: “Yeah.”
Me: “And can you catch any thoughts you are having? Like maybe
thoughts about what we’re doing right now?”
Client: “Yeah.”
Me: “So that entity doing all the noticing? That’s the self we’re talking
about here. The self that is aware of being in this moment, that
can notice the thoughts, feelings, and sensations of the moment.
That’s the same observing self that was in those different
situations we just went through in the exercise—that self that
knows you are here in this moment, that knew you were there in
those moments.”
I cannot recall a situation in which this sort of in-the-moment work has not
helped clients recognize the conceptualized self. A typical move at this point would be
to move from this sort of discussion to a metaphor or additional experiential exercise. I
really try to come at self-as-context from a variety of directions to solidify and fill out
this process for clients.
Now enters the chessboard metaphor, a key intervention. There are several useful
metaphors for self-as-context (such as “house with furniture” and “box with stuff in
it”). However, the chessboard metaphor is a powerful classic. Since first presented in
the original ACT book by Hayes, Strosahl, and Wilson (1999), the chessboard meta-
phor has been one of the central interventions in ACT. It is a personal favorite simply
because I have found it to be effective; it is often the chessboard metaphor that helps
clients finally understand what we mean when we talk about the “self that is larger.”
(Note the hierarchical framing involved here: that even while recognizing a self—a
locus of perspective—that is distinct from or larger than present thoughts or feelings,
we see that they belong together. The experienced thoughts, feelings, and sensations
belong to that larger self.) Yet I have found the chessboard metaphor to be the hardest
of the commonly used metaphors for therapists to do effectively. The idea may seem
straightforward, but execution can be a bit tricky.
Most of the difficulties have to do with setup. I’ll talk about setup again in the
next chapter when discussing general ways to maximize ACT metaphors and exercises.
Main process being targeted: self-as-context (contacting the self as the chessboard)
Supporting points: chess pieces cannot be removed from the board (history is addi-
tive), there’s no winning (since pieces can’t be removed), the board contacts all the
pieces (this is not a strategy), the board is intact (the self is distinct from the pieces),
being the board is different from feeling whole and intact.
In identifying these various clinical objectives, therapists are guided to set up the
metaphor in a way that will help them convey these points. A central strategy in opti-
mizing ACT is to use every available opportunity to further psychological flexibility. In
other words, although you may be targeting a particular process, why not further other
abilities as well, if the opportunity is there and your client seems ready for them? While
the chessboard metaphor is geared toward self-as-context, there is rich opportunity to
make headway in willingness and committed action, for example. There is another
significant opportunity as well. When clients learn to operate at “board level,” they see
that they are whole and intact regardless of the pieces they carry.
In chapter 6, I stressed the importance of word choice in ACT, stating that even
small wording differences can have important implications. As it applies to the chess-
board, sometimes therapists don’t specify, when establishing the metaphor, that the
board “extends in all directions” (that there are no edges to the board). The client
then does not understand why individual chess pieces must remain on the board. As
another example, many therapists support clients in evaluating their experiences by
labeling pieces as “good” or “bad,” rather than taking the opportunity to help clients
defuse from such thoughts.
I have seen therapists set themselves up for a struggle with this metaphor when
they set the stage in an overly elaborate manner. That is, they get caught up in detail
that doesn’t really add anything clinically. One consequence is that they open them-
selves up to a complicated discussion that is off point. They can get bogged down in
some detail of the metaphor rather than focusing on the processes being targeted.
Another consequence is that the main point is diminished. I have seen cases where
the therapist put so much into the setup that the client had lost interest by the time
the “you are the board” point was reached. So the point is not “the story of the chess-
board.” The metaphor is meant to illuminate a process (self-as-context), and it’s advis-
able to get there as cleanly as possible. Keeping the intended function of the metaphor
firmly in mind will help you determine how much detail—and which details—to
provide. Consider keeping it concise.
“In this metaphor, it’s as though your life is a chessboard.” (Therapist puts a
chessboard or something representing a chessboard on the floor or table.) “So
imagine that this is your life. In this metaphor, though, there’s no edge to the board.
So imagine the board as extending in all directions, like an infinite plane. Can you
picture that?” (Client nods.) “As you’re moving through life, you are picking up
pieces.” (Therapist begins placing pieces somewhat randomly on the board.)
“Every thought, every feeling, every memory you’ve ever had is a piece on your
board. And remember, this board extends in all directions. There’s no edge to it. So
just like your own history, once a piece is on your board it’s on your board. There’s
no way for pieces to fall off or get knocked off once they’re on. Are you with me
so far?” (Client nods.) “Some of these pieces are really pleasant (holding one up
piece before placing it on the board). Some are neutral; others are not so pleasant
(picking up a different-colored piece). In fact, some of these are downright painful.”
(The therapist picks up a few pieces that are the designated “not so pleasant”
color and places them next to each other on the board.) “Do you notice
something here?” (Client is silent, considering the board.) “The pleasant and
uncomfortable pieces sort of hang out together. We could call this one the trauma
you experienced in ninth grade (picking up a large ‘unpleasant’ piece), and these
are all the painful thoughts and feelings that come along with that (bunches them
together on the board). And here are pieces that come up around your grandson
(bunches a bunch of ‘pleasant’ pieces together and pauses for client to take this
in). And, as we’ve talked about a lot in here, what we humans do is try to win this
game! We try to make the pleasant pieces win. We try all sorts of things to vanquish
the pieces we don’t want to have (moves pieces around randomly). But we’ve got a
real problem.” (Therapist pauses for a moment or two, joining with the client in
simply pondering the board.) “What’s the problem with all this strategizing, with all
this trying to win, when there’s no edge to the board?”
(The therapist silently picks up one of the pieces that hasn’t yet been placed on the
board, shows it to the client, and puts it on the board.)
Therapist: “Yeah. Not to mention that it takes a lot of effort and energy.”
(Pause.) “So it seems we agree that there’s no winning this game.
There may be something else to see here, though. Sticking with
this metaphor, what if we are something besides all these pieces
moving around?”
Client: “What?”
Therapist: “If you weren’t the pieces, what else might you be—sticking with
this metaphor?”
At this point the therapist is well placed to work on the main ideas conveyed by
this metaphor. I really lean in as soon as clients arrive at being the board, emphasizing
that what we are on to now is something major. It would be important to talk about
how the board is in full contact with the pieces, because clients can quickly turn being
the board into a control strategy. That is, it isn’t about not being affected by the pieces.
It’s about the awareness of being distinct from the pieces and about simply holding
and experiencing them rather than getting pulled into battle. I like to (carefully) pick
up the board and move with it across the room, inviting the client to notice how the
board can move, with all its pieces, in a valued direction.
I tend to save the most (in my view) significant implication of this metaphor for
last. After the above points have been made, I ask the client a final question:
Me: “This board is intact. This board is fully capable of holding these
pieces and all the pieces to come.”
I also use the opportunity to assist clients in making the distinction between
being the board and feeling like the board. Individuals who are fused with very negative
self-evaluations can quickly reject alternate perspectives. They turn to their experi-
ences, their thoughts and feelings, as guides to reality. When told that they are actu-
ally not to blame for being victimized, for example, or that they are, in fact, acceptable
as they are, they immediately check their internal experience. When they find their
experience to be incongruent with what they are being told (in other words, they do
not feel okay) they reject the contradictory input wholesale. Trying to change these
sorts of self-concepts can result in the client feeling even more unworthy. Her “bad”
self-concept is further evidence of her flawed nature. In other words, such fix-it efforts
tend to extend existing relational networks in problematic ways. I usually put pieces on
the board to represent these evaluations, and point out: “Even if you have never had
OTHER PERPLEXITIES
In the course of exploring how we further self-as-context in ACT, I have mentioned
ways in which therapists can set themselves up for difficulty. Now I’ll highlight some
other missteps I’ve observed that can make this part of the therapy challenging.
First, it is not about the parts. That is, sometimes therapists, while working on
building self-as-context, will suggest that the client needs to go with (as in attach to
SUMMARY
I’m sure this section has revealed my feelings about the self-as-context piece of ACT.
As a fellow therapist, it is likely you, too, have looked in the eyes of a fellow human
being who is 100 percent convinced she is worthless. You, too, have encountered the
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