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Nathan Elerts
Trotter
Brit Lit 3
8 January 2019
Throughout my life I have experienced problems with situations ranging from sports to
school and the occasional mix of the two. Most, if not all, of these problems emerge from the
same recurring problem. I am a helper. This means I will always feel the need to help others,
From my time as a soccer player I noticed how my need to help others became a blessing
and a curse. Many other people who fall under the “helper” type have been found to “devote an
enormous amount of energy to them,” and I had quickly found that similarity within my style of
play. I would often find myself giving advice to people who were showing negative emotion
towards a mistake they had just made, or I would try to help organize the team as much as
possible to take some weight off of my coach’s shoulders. I would do this to a point where it was
taking a toll on the amount of energy I was putting into my own game.
Being a helper has also taken a toll on the way I approach school. Most people who fall
under the category of being a helper “begin to feel that gratitude is owed to them.” During group
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projects, no matter what the subject or who the people in my group are, I feel as if I should focus
my time and effort on my group members rather than my own work. This has lead to my portions
of projects to be the weaker one. Not only that, but I feel as if my weak projects should be
When I played soccer for Poly I found my helping personality to present itself as a curse
once again. Whenever we would be sent to study hall, I would always make sure that I could
help anyone as much as I can. Eventually, this would lead me to lack the energy needed to get
my own work done. I found myself with subpar grades, however, I wasn’t upset due to my
previous efforts to help because “Helping others makes [helpers] feel good about themselves.”
In order to make myself a better person and an overall better helper I must start
thinking for myself more. Before devoting my energy towards someone or something, I should
confirm that I have done enough for myself. Doing this will lead me to become the healthiest
version of myself.