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ABSTRACT: This paper is intended to make the ideas of Martin Buber more
directly available to psychotherapists. Buber's influence on therapy is mostly
indirect and the author believes that his impact could be considerable if his
writings were better known and more often discussed. Several important ideas of
Buber are summarized. These include dialogue, I-Thou relationships, existential
guilt, and confirmation.
irectly, but more often indirectly, the ideas of Martin Buber have
D influenced therapists and schools of therapy. Boszormenyi-Nagy and
Spark (1973), for example, refer directly to Buber's influence. "Dialogue,"
"confirmation," "I," " T h o u , " "guilt," are familiar words to psychothera-
pists. T h e y are also basic concepts in the writings of Martin Buber.
T h e purpose of this paper is to make the ideas of Martin Buber more
directly available to therapists. It is not intended to provide new insights
into his thinking, but only to make explicit what is mostly implicit.
BUBER'S LIFE
Buber lived from 1878 until 1965. His life and works span m a n y
continents and cultures, m a n y ideas and interests. He was born in Vienna
and died in Israel. H e was b r o u g h t up in the Jewish tradition of Central
Europe, endured the violence of Nazi Germany, and lived the last 27 years
of his life in Palestine which, in 1948, became the state of Israel. H e was
educated in classical Hebrew, written and spoken. H e was a student of the
Scriptures and translated the Jewish Bible into m o d e r n German. H e
wrote about and studied Hasidism and Hasidic texts. A scholar, h u m a n i -
tarian, professor, philosopher, and religious thinker, Buber was consid-
ered a m a n of peace, integrity, and dialogue. About few m e n could it be
said that their person does not belie their writings, but it could be said
about Buber (Friedman, 1955, p. 5).
H a v i n g lived through almost 90 years of history which was marked by
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DIALOGUE
I-THOU RELATIONSHIPS
CONFIRMATION
In April, 1957, a dialogue took place between Martin Buber and Carl
Rogers. In that exchange, Buber clarified his ideas about confirmation and
distinguished confirmation from Rogers' concept of u n c o n d i t i o n a l posi-
tive regard or, "the acceptance of this person as he is" (Buber, 1965, p.
182). By confirmation Buber also meant acceptance, but he went beyond
that to mean h e l p i n g the other in the struggle against oneself for the sake
of what a person is able and meant to be. It is not unconditional since it
calls the other to be more, to be better, to be the person one aspires to be
but fails. Confirmation takes place by accepting the other as a partner in
dialogue, as a person to w h o m I am willing to be present to. Differences
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need not be settled. Approval of the other's action may not be possible.
But confirmation is my acceptance of the other as a person w o r t h y of my
time and also as capable of changing.
EXISTENTIAL GUILT
CONCLUSION
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