Preview Of ‘The Ultmate Dating

Secrets’ eBook For All Things Dating.

This is planned to be
sold for $195.00. Now you have the preview with
some excellent resources to make your dating
experience the best.

Preface
This book has been written primarily with a view to help the millions of lonely
people around the world with safe dating methods and practices. There are also the
huge number of innocents and shy people who do not know how to maneuver
through the complex dating world, people who do not know the dating scams and
scamsters posing as lonely people stalking the online world.
The dating site referred here have been in the business for more than a decade and
known for its standards and safe practices. The site also has everything that you
may fancy in dating and adult fantasies.

The advice in this book would be ultimate in dating articles, dating site
recommendations, dating resources and complete dating education and knowledge.
This book is only a preview and the final ‘Ultimate Dating Secrets’ would be sold for
$195.

10 Golden Rules For Successful Online Dating

As everyone knows, the favorite method of mating and dating for singletons the world
over is to join an online dating site. But what most people don't realize is that only around
10% of dating site members actually meet a long-term partner on their chosen site and a
whopping 70% don't even receive one message from another member. If you follow the
10 simple steps outlined below, you too can join the 10% who find love and romance on
line.

1. Choose the right dating site. The boom in online dating has provided a plethora of
choice for consumers but you should take a few moments to decide on the type of partner
you're looking for, not to mention the town or city where you would prefer him/her to be
located. There are niche sites which cater to all sectors (single parents, bikers, gay people
etc) and general sites which welcome all comers just as there are city or country specific
sites and sites with a global perspective. Choosing the right site for you is probably the
most important decision you'll make when looking for a partner on line.

2. Choose a great username. First impressions always last and the on line identity which
you give yourself is the first thing that other members will see before they check-out your
profile. 'Funny' works, 'cryptic' works and you wont go far wrong even if you decide to
use your own christian name; but if you go down the smutty or sexually suggestive route
(which a lot of guys seem to do), you'll find that other members will give you a wide
berth.

3. Upload a photo. This is crucial as a significant percentage of people only search for
members who have bothered to include a pic; you want to see what other members look
like so it stands to reason that other people will feel the same way about you. If the only
photo you have isn't particularly flattering, you can always mention that in your profile -
it's still better than no photo at all.

4. Complete your profile. There's nothing more off-putting than a profile which screams
"I can't be bothered to do this properly". If you don't have time to complete all the
categories when you are signing-up, then make the time to do so at the earliest
opportunity.

5. Be upbeat and positive. If you're feeling a little down or lacking in confidence, now
isn't the time to say so when you're writing a description of yourself. If you come across
as confident, happy and full of fun, you'll get much more attention than if you come
across as mono-syllabic or down in the dumps. And remember, humour is a real ice-
breaker and a great aphrodisiac.

6. Widen your search criteria. If you generally go for people who have blonde hair, blue
eyes and are between 5'4" and 5'6" and you narrow your search down to just these
specifics, then you may be missing out on a great many other members who you'll also
find just as attractive. To start with, just search by gender, age and location and that way
you'll be giving yourself the widest possible choice.

7. Don't automatically dismiss people. If you receive a message from someone who's
profile you like but who hasn't bothered to include a photo, you should still write back
and ask them to send a pic to your regular email address. You'll find that many people are
more willing to do this than post a pic for all and sundry to look at.

8. Use all the features on offer. Many sites provide a great deal more than just an internal
emailing system. Some sites might include voice messaging whilst others enable
members to chat and flirt in 'real time' with other members and the more you take
advantage of everything that's available to you, the more chance you have of making
contact with someone special.

9. Be proactive. Once you've registered and completed your profile, don't wait for others
to make contact with you. When you spot someone who you think might be a good fit
with yourself, write to them and introduce yourself. And don't just say 'Hi, I like your
profile', tell them why you've written to them and point out the things that you believe
you have in common. A long opening message will create a much better impression than
a short, perfunctory one.

10. Check back with the site. Most popular dating sites have new people joining all the
time so remember to log-in at least once every day to view the most recent members and
you can then contact anyone you like the look of before others get the chance to do so.
Also, you should remember that on most sites, the members who log-in the most appear
higher up the search listings than those who don't so your profile will be easier to spot by
people with whom you might be compatible.

So there you have it - successful online dating is not rocket science; it just takes a bit of
thought and a bit of effort and if you adhere to the 10 rules that I have outlined above,
then your personal life will soon receive the kick-start it deserves.
 100% Free Online Dating

With over 700 online dating sites in the United States alone and new sites cropping up
weekly, it can be difficult to choose the right site totally free online dating site for you.
The vast choices available can be overwhelming. Totally free online dating site comes a
dime a dozen. Choosing a totally free online dating site could sometimes be confusing.
Totally free online dating site lets you try the free dating services before making a
financial commitment. Totally free online dating lets you try out some of the numerous
dating sites in order to know which one offers the best opportunity for you to meet
people.

There are innumerable advantages in using totally free online dating site on the Internet.
First is the convenience. Totally free online dating site offers the world of dating at your
fingertips. The freedom of totally free online dating site is that you can post a profile,
browse members of a website and often receive emails at absolutely no cost. Some sites
may require you to only pay the free online dating site when you want to write back to
someone or initiate first contact. This means you never have to join a totally free online
dating site that doesn’t meet your own standards.

Many people use totally free online dating site upon the referral of friend. If some of your
friends are successful in their online dating quest, you naturally want to try out the same
site to see if lightning can strike twice in the same place. Others have a standard criteria
for the free online dating site because they strongly associate themselves with a specific
group such as Christian, Asian, gay, vegetarian, swingers – name it and there’s a
probably a free online dating site for it.

Totally free online dating should allow you to have total control over the point at which
you give out your personal email address or phone number. Find out if the totally free
online dating site ever sells your information to telemarketers or allows members to
access your personal information. Any breach of your privacy is grounds for choosing a
new totally free online dating site. Some totally free online dating sites pose as dating
sites but are in reality pornographic sites or are soliciting your personal information for
profit. Be sure the totally free online dating site you join is legitimate and is truly in the
business of bringing singles together.
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100 Questions to Ask Your Valentine

Looking to get to know your valentine date better? Running out of things to talk to your
sweetie about? First date jitters and don’t know what to talk about? Well, here are 100
questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing is
to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t
force anyone to answer a question they don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not
willing to talk about a certain subject.

1. What was your best job?

2. What were your worst jobs?
3. Tell me all the places you worked
4. Tell me about your best friend
5. Tell me about your family
6. Tell me about your relatives
7. What was your first car?
8. Favorite movie star?
9. Favorite entertainer?
10. Favorite song?
11. What were your life changing moments?
12. First girlfriend/boyfriend?
13. First kiss?
14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?
15. Have you ever been arrested?
16. Political affiliation?
17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t?
18. Have you used drugs?
19. Do you like to shop?
20. Best way to relax?
21. Favorite thing to do alone?
22. Ever had a one night stand?
23. Do you save money?
24. What hobbies to you spend money on?
25. If you found a $100 what would you do?
26. Do you want children/more children?
27. Are you a good parent?
28. What makes a good parent?
29. Are you romantic?
30. Ever loose a pet?
31. Dog or cat?
32. Pets growing up?
33. Sleep in the nude?
34. Favorite midnight snack?
35. Do you exercise?
36. Did you ever see your parents making love?
37. Peanut butter and what?
38. What is one food you will never give up?
39. What is a food you can live without?
40. Favorite drink?
41. Perfect day?
42. How many cds do you own?
43. How many dvds to you own?
44. Favorite thing to spend money on?
45. What is the weirdest thing about you?
46. What is on your bedside table?
47. Are you cheap or thrifty?
48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?
49. Grades in high school?
50. Favorite teacher?
51. Relatives in jail?
52. Toppings on pizza?
53. Black or white?
54. Glass half full or half empty?
55. Ever been to a food shelf?
56. Ever milked a cow?
57. Ever tipped a cow?
58. Bath or shower?
59. Mountains or the beach?
60. Plane, train or automobile?
61. Favorite all time movie?
62. Worse movie you have ever seen?
63. Best concert you have been to?
64. Beer, wine or coffee?
65. Best vacation?
66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?
67. Worse vacation?
68. Three places you would love to visit?
69. Worse boss?
70. If you could do anything what would it be?
71. Super powers you wish you had?
72. Ever had a massage?
73. Ideal romantic dinner?
74. Dumbest purchase you ever made?
75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke?
76. Ever sold blood?
77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of
price?
78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine?
79. Ever won the lottery?
80. What would you do with your lottery winnings?
81. Are you a neat freak?
82. Can’t stand being around people who_________?
83. Crowds or small groups?
84. How old do you want to live to?
85. Loose your sight or hearing?
86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex?
87. Pet peeves?
88. Most annoying habit?
89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex?
90. Major turn offs?
91. Tattoos?
93. Piercings?
94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you?
95. Computer geek?
96. Trekee?
97. Play an instrument?
98. Been in a band?
99. Most embarrassing moment?
100. Nude beach yes or no

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 10 Dating Safety Tips For Online And Off

Still looking for a special someone? Just be sure to keep yourself safe. Here are ten ways
to find love for your heart but keep your personal protection on your mind.

1. Watch out for someone who seems too good to be true. Begin by communicating
solely by email, then look for odd behavior or inconsistencies. The person at the other
end may not be who or what he says he is. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you
uncomfortable, walk away for your safety and protection.

2. Make sure all contact on a member site takes place through a double-blind system,
ensuring your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your
last name, home address, phone number, place of employment, email address or any
other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. When corresponding
with someone, turn off your email signature file. Stop communicating with anyone who
puts pressure on you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into
revealing it.

3. Cautious decisions will result in a better dating experience. Be sure to protect yourself
against trusting the untrustworthy; potential boyfriends must earn your trust gradually
over time, through consistently honorable, straightforward behavior. Take all the time
you need to investigate for a straightforward person and pay careful attention along the
way. If you suspect someone is lying, he probably is, so act accordingly. Be responsible
about romance, your heart will thank you. Don’t become prematurely intimate with
someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. If you mutually decide to cross the
point of no return, be smart and protect yourself. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention (http://www.cdc.gov/ ) provide some of the most current information
available about sexually transmitted diseases and preserving your health.

4. Most online dating services do not require members to submit to background checks.
So make sure you get as much info as possible by asking questions, utilizing internet
search engines and most importantly, using common sense. Nothing is 100% reliable, just
remember to use your head…not just your heart.

5. A photo will give you a good idea of the person’s appearance, which may prove
helpful in achieving a gut feeling. In fact, it’s best to view several images of someone in
various settings: casual, formal, indoor and outdoors. If all you hear are excuses about
why you can’t see a photo, consider that he has something to hide.
6. A phone call can reveal much about a person’s communication and social skills.
Consider your security and do not reveal your phone number to a stranger. Try a cell
phone number instead or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone
number from appearing on a Caller ID. Give out your phone number ONLY when you
feel completely comfortable.

7. The beauty of meeting someone online is that you can collect information gradually,
later choosing whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world. You never are
obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level on online intimacy. And even if you
decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It’s possible
that your decision to keep the relationship anonymous is based on a hunch that you can’t
logically explain. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts

8. Pay attention to displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control

you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful
comments or any physically inappropriate behavior are all red flags. You should be
concerned if your date exhibits any of the following behavior without providing an
acceptable explanation: Provides inconsistent information about age, interests,
appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc. Refuses to speak to you on the
phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy. Fails to provide direct answers to
direct questions. Appears significantly different in person from his or her online persona.
Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.

9. When you choose to meet offline, always tell friends where you are going and when
you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with a friend. Never
arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a
public place at a time with many people around (a familiar restaurant or coffee house is
often a good choice), and when the date is over, leave on your own as well. Refrain from
drinking excessively, as it could weaken your ability to make good decisions. If at some
point you and your date decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the
timing is right thank your date for getting together and say goodbye

10. If you plan to fly in from another city, arrange for your own car and hotel room. Do
not make known the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make arrangements
for you. Get a rental car at the airport and drive directly to your hotel. Always call your
date from the hotel. You can also check out the location you both agreed to meet at ahead
of time to see exactly where it is and to get more familiar with an area . If the location
seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel. Try to contact your date at that
location or leave a message on an answering machine. Always make sure a friend or
family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And carry a cell
phone at all times.

Never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, use
your best judgment to diffuse the situation and get out of there. Excuse yourself long
enough to call a friend for advice, ask someone else on the scene for help or slip out the
back door and drive away. If you feel you are in danger, call the police; it’s always better
to be safe than sorry. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your behavior; your safety is
much more important than one person’s opinion of you.

While cheaters, liars and frauds certainly can be very convincing on the Web, you’ll also
find them in nightclubs and offline dating services, parties or even sitting across from you
at your local coffee house. Despite where you meet someone, dating is never risk-free,
but a little caution will reduce your risk to your safety when trying to find that certain
someone for your heart.

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10 Good Reasons for Sugar Daddy Dating

A growing percentage of females openly admit to prefering the company of an older guy
on a date, rather than same age or younger. The present day Sugar Daddy is a far cry
from his 20th Century counterpart, who would be more inclined to keep such a
relationship totally private, enjoying clandestine meetings at secretive venues. Today, an
older guy will display his younger partner openly, publicly and with pride.

Here are ten good reasons why sugar daddy dating is becoming more and more popular
within the online dating arena. The comparisons are based on age difference relationships
with long term in mind.

1./ Generally speaking, a female will feel safer in the company of a more mature sugar
daddy type date, especially on first meeting. He is more inclined to suggest coffee or
dinner in a crowded venue as a first meeting place, or be quite happy for her to suggest a
locale where she would feel comfortable. Her ease-of-mind, during that first date in
particular, will be high on his agenda.

2./ Although there are exceptions to every rule, women dating the older sugar daddy
types notice the higher level of respect shown to them during such relationships. The
emphasis on romance overshadowing his desire to get her into bed is often more
apparent. He is less likely to be interested in a superficial encounter.

3./ The prospects of a long term relationship are usually very real, his playing around
days are obliterated in the past. His mature mindset now focused on the many other
aspects and indeed the benefits of being in an adoring long term union.

4./ The 'sugar daddy meets sugar baby' relationship is often centered around the male's
need to protect and show support towards his younger partner. Many miscontrue this
notion as a 'sex for favors' arrangement. Yet in his mind, sex is far from being a pre-
requisite. His pride would be severely dented if he thought for a moment that the sexual
encounters were brought about as a direct result of his demonstrations of kindness.

5./ Loyalty too will be of great importance. His desire to protect and support will be
extremely focused, and once he discovers his belle, his eye is less likely to be turned in
other directions. The strength of the relationship is an important issue and he will defend
that vigorously.

6./ Baggage can often be a problem in any new relationship. Whether it be family
resposibilities, ex partners or even financial issues, baggage from the past can often
deflower an otherwise perfect opportunity. The older, more mature male is less likely to
allow external issues to spoil the possibilities and will often take his partner's external
resposibilities on board with grace, understanding and a positive attitude.

7./ Sexually, although not quite the opportunist he used to be, his need to delight and
satisfy will oftentimes be stronger than seeking his own satisfaction. He will take time to
seduce her mind, his idea of foreplay has evolved way beyond 'fumble on the couch'
status. The aftermath of those intimate encounters too will be loving and warm, with
pillow talk becoming a tender part of the process.

8./ Romance is an important aspect of any dating relationship, but a sugar daddy will pay
much more attention to the romantic suggestion. This is not simply manifested with
flowers, gifts and material things, but the hand holding, public shows of affection or little
notes left discreetly for her to find.

9./ On the maturity front, it is accepted that a female is far more mature the a male at any
given age. Therefore it makes sense that she would have more in common with an older
guy than one her own age. They will hold each others attention for longer periods, they
will have more interests to share and they will be much closer as friends within the
overall plan.
10./ The genuine sugar daddy will enjoy spoiling and pampering his young lover and take
every opportunity available to make her feel like a princess. Not necessarily by way of
showering her with material things, but generally taking care of her needs. Making her
feel that she is important to him, loved.. cherished.. protected.

The 1920's version of the sugar daddy would typically shower his young lover with gifts
and often cash, as a 'reward' for her company or sexual favors. These days the
arrangement is centered around a relationship, a solid bond between two willing partners.
The spoiling, pampering and protection satisfying both his need to give, and her need to
receive. This twenty-first century sugar daddy sugar baby arrangement can often develop
into a powerful union of mind body and soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the
dust.

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52 Free Things To Do With Your Partner On Date Night

One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with
each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to
carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours,
helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular
activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is
left?

Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will
crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date
night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to
see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year.
What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending
money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular
relationship and circumstances.

WINTER

1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.

2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.

SPRING

14. Work on a remodeling project together.

15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by
making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free
samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.

SUMMER

27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.

28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night
who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.

FALL

40. Go for a drive together.

41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue,
strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done,
plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish
and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.

Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the
year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to
add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.

The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship
alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a
couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter
this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity
chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.

As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time
each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you
stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.

Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door.
This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time
for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There
will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.

Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time
together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to
do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages
ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You
have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
10 Tips To Online Dating

Years ago, the grocery store was the best place to meet a potential new love interest.
Today, online dating is quickly becoming the singles hot spot with individuals around the
world looking to meet someone new. Photo profiles that detail personal information is
becoming the norm in online dating and gives individuals an opportunity to see what a
potential mate looks like on paper before taking the next step.

If you are considering online dating, there are a few tips that can help make the
experience a more enjoyable and successful one.

Online Dating Tip # 1

Find someone who shares your common interest, life goals and family preferences. It is
important to share some of the same hopes in order for a relationship to be worthwhile.

Online Dating Tip # 2

Use caution when giving out personal information, including your full name, address or
telephone number. At first, provide nothing more than an e-mail address.

Online Dating Tip # 3

During casual conversations, look for possible warning signs of control, jealousy or
tempers.

Online Dating Tip # 4

If an individual seems to be extremely needy or needs to talk to you every minute, this
may be a sign of possessive behavior and should be recognized early. If you notice this
happening, move on and find another possible online dating match.

Online Dating Tip # 5

Don’t be afraid to ask questions. It’s perfectly normal to inquire about marital status,
children, hopes, dreams, etc. If someone is uncomfortable with these questions, it’s a
good indication they have something to hide.

Online Dating Tip # 6

Don’t rush. Take the time to get to know someone before you decide that you are
comfortable enough to meet them. A relationship takes time to build and there is no
reason to rush into anything.
Online Dating Tip # 7
If you learn that someone hasn’t been honest about his/her profile or other detail, end the
dating potential immediately. Dishonesty is no way to begin a relationship and it makes
you question anything else that he/she may be hiding.

Online Dating Tip # 8

With honesty in mind, it is important that you be honest in your profile and with anyone
whom you are having an online dating relationship with. If and when the relationship is
ready to move to the next level, it will be too late to correct anything that wasn’t truthful
and the chance of a relationship will likely be lost.

Online Dating Tip # 9

If you plan to meet someone in person, do so in a public place. Preferably, the meeting
time would be early in the day or the afternoon. It is never a good idea to meet a perfect
stranger at dark or in a secluded area.

Online Dating Tip # 10

Be yourself. Don’t pretend to like something or be someone that you are not just to please
the other person. If they are the right one for you, there will not be a reason to pretend.

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 Polishing Your Seduction Skills

With what you've learned with me so far, you WILL be able to get numbers from women.
Lots of them. Now I'm not saying you'll get the info for every lady that turns your head
– plenty of women will be unavailable for various reasons. Some have boyfriends,
some are taking a break, some are just in the wrong mood – whatever, it doesn't
matter. You know enough to not let the unavailable women get you down, affect your
confidence, or change your playfulness. We're not worried about them.

And now that you can get the numbers of TONS of women, my job is done, right?

Wrong. This is just the FIRST STEP and you've got to remember that. Just because
you've got a woman interested – and even if you keep your relaxed confidence
going – there are plenty of places to stumble.

The Instant Date

Like what? This may surprise you, but you SHOULDN'T take women on dates. That
might sound strange, so I'll phrase it another way.

If you take a woman to dinner and a movie, you're asking to be strung along like a
knitting club's quilt. You set yourself up for all sorts of mistakes – which I'll talk
about in a second – and you're just begging for uncomfortable silences and boring
conversation.

Hey, you can make it work. You just make yourself work a LOT harder.

So what should you do instead? Well, best-case scenario you create an instant date. You
go from meeting to GOING somewhere, TOGETHER. This can mean moving from the
bookstore to a coffee shop, one club to another – or often, to begin, just
LEADING a woman from one part of a bar to another.
Create a World

That's a POWERFUL move. Say you want to tell her something (and have something to
tell her). Maybe it can be about something you want to show her at your house, like an
album or a book (done subtly, this is a great way to lead to a house call). Take her hand
and LEAD her to a more secluded spot.

Don't put your hands all over her; you look desperate and pervy. But once you've led her
somewhere, you've shifted the world a little bit – you are in it TOGETHER.
Maintain strong eye contact. Speak in a quieter, confidential voice (the kind she wants to
lean in to hear).

Set yourself up that way, and it should be much easier to get yourself moving to another
spot right off the bat. The important thing is that you concentrate not on getting a woman
to bed, but on moving to the next step.

Once you've got a connection, the next step is changing settings so you reaffirm and
strengthen that connection.

This is good in so many ways. It gives you a chance to get to know the girl quickly;
which is impressive when it happens quickly, plus it let's you figure out if the lady is
worth your time before you've invested much.

It feels natural; something even the best dates fail at.

It's low-pressure fun; spontaneous, without expectations or commitments.

It's just great. Not to mention it allows YOU to set the pace you proceed at.

Don't Push

Now, this isn't something you ALWAYS do. If a girl is out with her friends you don't
want to impose – in fact, for that reason you should always set a time limit when
you've started talking with a woman. I have to get back to my friends in a few minutes,
but before that I have to leave soon, but first
If the lady you like seems ready to follow, then you can say I'm going to xxx, it's a good
spot, you should come. SOMEONE needs to teach you what this city has to offer (By the
way, this is a KILLER line if you're not a local.)

Oftentimes the woman won't be able to join you for whatever reason – could be
she's got plans already, maybe she doesn't want her girlfriends gossiping, she might just
be shy. That's ok. You can still meet her but here's how you do it.

Don't Be Ordinary
Don't ask her to dinner. If possible, don't even ask her in advance. A spontaneous meeting
at a coffee shop or going shopping in an eclectic neighborhood with built-in conversation
is great.

Your call should sound something like this: What are you doing right now? I'm about to
hit Java Joe's, you should come and entertain me.I'm shopping for some clothes, and I'd
like a woman's opinion. What are you doing now?

Make sure you're going somewhere fun. The kind of place with strange knick-knacks all
around so you're conversation can naturally flow from your surroundings. Why do extra
work when you can let the atmosphere help you?

Can't Buy Me Love

THIS is key, and I'll talk about it again and again. DON'T PAY. Especially with a woman
you've just met. Paying says all the wrong things.

Women will read it different ways; here's a few.

It says I'm not interesting, so I'm bribing you to spend time with me.

It says I want to prove I'm good mate material by showing off my financial success.

Or the corollary: I'm insecure, so like a man with a small penis and a hot sports car, I'm
trying to buy myself some confidence.

Worse still: “I don't really know you, but I think you're hot so I'm going to try and
buy my way into your jeans.

Equally cringe-worthy: I just paid for you. Now, what are you going to do for ME?

Oh, let's not forget the classic: I'm used to paying for women so they'll keep me company.
Feel free to take advantage of that and bleed me for all I can handle, regardless of
whether you like me or not.

And of course, with a certain sensitive sect of ladies, you're saying;I'm a sexist pig. Now
cook bitch.

In fact, can you say anything good by paying? Well, you could be saying;I'm a nice,
generous man.; Great. We all know by now how sexy that is.

No Early Meals!

This is one of the biggest reasons to avoid the dinner date, at least to begin. In addition to
creating an awkward social setting with someone you barely know, you basically force all
sorts of uncomfortable thoughts about the money involved.
Coffee? Who cares about a coupla bucks?

Shopping? You're not going to buy her something, are you? That smells of bribery worse
than dinner, and you'll just make her uneasy.

Avoid putting yourself in situations where the issue of payment comes up, and you'll
avoid this whole can of worms.

All About Online Free Dating

Online dating has recently generated a lot of interest both in the online and offline
communities. This is all because of its phenomenal success in the stiff and competitive
internet business niche. Online free dating offers an attractive alternative to the traditional
way of meeting people. Online free dating web sites offer real time chat, emailing,
profiling, and telephone access dependant on the clients’ choices. Online free dating has
made dating more convenient and quick. Since all you need to do is get a computer and
internet connection then you are on your way to meeting people from different countries
and from all walks of life.

Dating through cyberspace has transformed the dating scene. For those who are not sure
that online dating is the way to go for them, online free dating is the best way to go.
Online free dating lets you try online dating without any charges. You will get a feel of
how things are in online dating. Online free dating enables you to try the online dating
site before making a financial commitment.

There are innumerable advantages in using online free dating site on the Internet. First is
the convenience. Online free dating web site offers the world of dating at your fingertips.
The freedom of online free dating web site is that you can post a profile, browse members
of a website and often receive emails at absolutely no cost. You only pay the online free
dating web site when you want to write back to someone or initiate first contact. This
means you never have to join an online free dating web site that doesn’t meet your own
standards.

Free online dating sites usually offer a number of services but the following are the five
most common:

1) Browsing the database of singles

Depending on the online dating site, the free online dating service allows you to enter
common search criteria such as age, geography, and others and open sites of potential
matches.

2) Submitting photographs

Most free online dating service allows you to submit one or more photos for to be
displayed to potential matches.

3) Writing a profile

Most free online dating service help you write the profile by asking key questions such as
age, height, gender, location, hobbies, and interests. Some online free dating sites ask
more detailed questions.

4) Completing an assessment

Most online free dating sites have their own unique or trademarked name for assessment.

5) Communicating with prospects

Some online free dating sites will let you instant message or post on a forum with your
fellow daters.

Are You Desperate To Date A Girl?

Don’t be! Finding the right girl for you to date takes a lot of confidence, honesty and
time. A good place to start is visiting the places where a lot of people hang out, at the
same time, places that you love so that you both have a thing in common. If you love
going to coffee shops or going to clubs on Friday nights, then look for her there. It is
important to meet a girl that do things similar to things that you do.

An effective and interesting way to meet a girl is through online matchmakers. These
matchmaker sites will assist you so you can find the right girl for you. Here, you can read
about their personalities and traits as well as you can talk to them and see their photos.
Make certain that you take time in knowing the girl well before you invite and meet with
her on a date.

If meeting girls online is not your “cup of tea” then you can meet girls at social
gatherings, parties, clubs, disco or the gym. You can also organize a simple party and let
your girl buddies to bring along their friends. The more girls that you meet, you have
more chances of meeting that special girl for you. Just remember that you will not meet
her just by staying at home. You have got to go out and look for her with conscious effort
and a very alert mind.

And when you do find her, although it is a good thing to display your attraction and
interest, never over do it; never tell her things that will make her run away from you.

Keep in mind not to ask the girl right away for a date; asking her too soon might scare her
off. Instead, be casual and friendly; get to her a step at a time, before you decide to date
her. Call her so you both can have a conversation and you will find some things about
her. Then when you feel that the time is right and that you like her enough to spend an
evening with her, then go and ask.

Congratulations! Now you are ready for a date (in case she answered yes). Here are
guidelines on what to do:

1. Spend the evening in a place you know she loves. Since you already know what her
“likes” are during your phone conversations, then you will have an idea where to bring
her. Also be sure you like the place; this will be of no problem, since you met her in a
place that you both enjoy visiting.

2. Dress right. This means dressing for the occasion and for the place; dress that you look
and feel good. Take extra effort so that you are well groomed (shaved, smells nice,
freshly ironed clothes and clean shoes). Remember, this is your first date and you have to
put on that good and lasting impression on her.

3. Relax and be yourself. Do not put too much thought on whether she will like you or
not. The fact that she said yes for this date means she likes you. When you are relaxed,
you can converse well and make her at is as well.
4. Be courteous and polite. Be careful of the things you say and do as rude comments or
anxious behavior is unpleasant and can offend her. Be considerate and respectful; when
you smoke, ask her first.

5. Listen. At some point, let her do the talking and just listen attentively. By listening,
your conversation will continue to flow. While it is good to ask her questions so that you
can get to know her, be careful with your questions and avoid personal interrogation.

6. Be careful when selecting the food. From your phone conversations, learn what her
favorites are. Likewise, carefully choose a menu that is not messy to eat.

7. Never ever get drunk. There is nothing humiliating then having a drunken date.

8. Never talk about your past relationships. Remember, the woman you like is with you
now and a potential serious relationship at hand. Forget about the past.

9. End the date right, do not be overly pushy. Evaluate the situation. When you feel that
you both had a good time and you like her, a hug or a brief kiss will do. Do not go
beyond. This will just send out the wrong sign, signaling to her that you are either very
desperate or that you are only out for sex. Do not forget to thank her and tell her that you
had a wonderful.

So do not be desperate. There are a lot of women out there and if you will not find them,
chances are, they will find you! Just be patient!

Avoiding The Dangers Associated With Internet Dating

Internet dating offers individuals, couples and groups an opportunity to meet online with
the possibility of developing a romantic or sexual relationship. Most Internet dating
services provide unmoderated matchmaking, allowing users to make their own
connections via e-mail or telephone.

These services allow users to browse potential dates using criteria such as age, gender
and location. Almost all internet dating sites allow their members to upload photos of
themselves which can be viewed by other members. Some sites also offer podcasts,
online chat and message boards. Most internet dating sites allow free registration as part
of their trial service in order to attract new users. Afterward the trial period is up, a
monthly fee is charged.

Many internet dating sites are broad-based, meaning their members are from a variety of
backgrounds who are looking for different types of relationships. However, there are also
some sites which are more specific, basing membership on more narrow criteria like
common interests, location or relationship desired.

Online dating has both positive and negative aspects that people should be aware of
before joining any internet dating service. Internet dating allows members to meet more
people, users can easily browse other members profiles, members can communicate
anonymously and with reduced fear of social awkwardness, geography is no problem
since members can meet people from distant locations, most dating sites are either free or
moderately priced, and members can chat with each other through e-mail or instant
messaging before deciding wheter they want to pursue the relationship in real life.

There are, however, some negative aspects to Internet dating. Some members
misrepresent themselves, lying about their marital status, age, gender, physical attributes
or finances. On most sites, men outnumber women, so female members are bombarded
with responses. most of whom are inappropriate choices. Some internet dating sites don’t
remove expired profiles, and thereby falsely inflating the number of potential dates on
their service. And, despite modern advances, the same dating problems that arise from
basic human psychology and behavior still affect Internet dating.

How to avoid the danger of internet dating

There are some internet dating services that monitor the online behavior of their
members, but only to a certain extent. There are also sites that provide second-party
regulations in order to keep track of complaints, with moderators banning users who
violate the rules of the online dating service

Likewise, online dating members should also take basic safety precautions, withholding
their home address and phone numbers – as well as workplace or school information –
until they've satisfied themselves that their potential date is trustworthy. Although it's true
that it's safer to meet people online than in bars or other similar places, it's still wise to be
cautious, as not every person online is telling the truth about themselves.

Each user should remember that they control over the information they share with others.
Moreover, they also need to use common sense, just like when dating in the real world –
but the key to safety online is in limiting the amount of personal information divulged.
 Beware of Russian Dating Scams

This has gotten so bad the U.S. embassy has issued alerts to warn people about this. Here
are the basics from the embassy.

United States citizens should be alert to attempts at fraud by persons claiming to live in
Russia professing friendship, romantic interest, and /or marriage intentions over the
Internet.

Typically, once a connection is made, the correspondent asks the U.S. citizen to send
money or credit card information for living expenses, travel expenses, or "visa costs".
Sometimes, the correspondent notifies the American citizen that a close family member,
usually the mother, is in desperate need of surgery and begins to request monetary
assistance. Scams have even advanced to the point where the U.S. citizen is informed of a
serious or fatal accident to the correspondent and the “family” asks for money to cover
hospital or funeral costs. Several citizens have reported losing thousands of dollars
through such scams.

The anonymity of the Internet means that the U.S. citizen cannot be sure of the real name,
age, marital status, nationality, or even gender of the correspondent. In every case
reported to the embassy, the correspondent turned out to be a fictitious persona created
only to lure the U.S. citizen into sending money.

These scammers have created male as well as female characters and entice same sex
correspondents as well as those of the opposite sex. A disturbing recent twist are
scammers who have connected to U.S. citizens through chat rooms for HIV positive
individuals, posed as HIV positive individuals themselves, and asked for money for
treatment or travel to the United States.

Correspondents who quickly move to professions of romantic interest or discussion of

intimate matters are likely inventions of scammers. A request for funds almost always
marks a fraudulent correspondent. U.S. citizens are cautioned against sending any money
to persons they have not actually met. If they do choose to send money, they can take
several precautions.

-They may refer to U.S. immigration web site for authoritative information about the
immigration process and the true costs involved. For example, U.S. law does not require
Russian visitors to have a certain amount of "pocket money" or "walking around money"
in either rubles or dollars.
- They may arrange to prepay for a plane ticket directly with the carrier rather than wiring
money for transportation to the traveler.
- If the correspondent provides an image of a purported U.S. visa as proof of intention to
travel, the U.S. citizen may contact the United States Embassy in Moscow to ascertain
the validity of the visa.

Be careful. Be skeptical. Think and then do your research.

Five Big Myths About Women — Debunked

1. Women don't like or enjoy sex as much as you do.

Is there anyone who still believes this? Read an issue of Cosmopolitan or watch an
episode of Sex and the City, and you'll know what's up. When you're fighting hard for
that tiny little bang (which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl has just gone
off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really enjoys sex more, right?

Whenever you go out, keep this in mind: The girl you're talking to wants to have sex
every bit as much as you do. It's just that she needs more time to relax and lose her
inhibitions, because society is likely to label a more sexually active girl a “whore.” Just
provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your company, and the
rest is guaranteed.

2. Women don't like porn and aren't turned on by visual triggers.

There's an urban legend that women don't like to watch porn — well, my friend, it's time
to blow that one out of the water. The fact is they DO like to watch porn — it's just that
they won't admit it. According to my girlfriends and countless other women I've asked,
upon seeing a new man, a woman always looks at his ass first — and even librarian types
will sneak a second or third glance.

Although women tend to be more attuned to their other senses — sounds and smells —
than men, visual triggers are just as important to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally
watch a porn flick when she's horny, although she won't spend an hour every day
searching for sex on Google.
3. Women like badass machos who are rough and don't show any emotion.

It's a common misconception in our society that men should be as badass as Chuck Norris
and never cry or show any emotion. If you think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate
to be the one to break it to you, but being badass won't make you a man.

A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make decisions. But a
man should also be passionate and capable of showing emotion toward a woman.

Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like it when your girlfriend
gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she also likes to feel the same kindness from you.

4. Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled.

Don't be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you're with a girl — but please be
careful not to become a wimp and lose control. A woman likes to be controlled by a
strong man to a certain degree, and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your
own special brand of “tough love.”

A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to protect her. But how can
she feel secure that you can provide for her properly if you let her take control? Taking
control might feel nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds it
increasingly boring and tiresome.

A woman does need freedom, but at the same time, she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a
man who knows how walk that thin line between giving her enough space and making all
her decisions for her will be very attractive to a woman.

5. You need to become a player and develop serious game to attract women.

To attract women, you don't need any fancy techniques or skills. What you DO need is to
learn how to take care of yourself and dress properly, to develop certain social skills, to
live your life with passion (note that passion doesn't have to mean bungee jumping; you
can be passionate about everyday things too) and to loosen up and be yourself around
women.

If you're starting from ZERO, there's a learning curve you'll have to go through. Most
important, you need to approach and talk to many women before you can actually come
out of your shell and be your true self. Interacting with many women is also key to
finding your Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society and/or
your upbringing. Your shortlist for success is:

a. Take care of yourself.

b. Go out and socialize.

c. Be passionate about your life, and feel good in your skin.

d. Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you'll see that she comes to you
when you least expect her.

Want to learn more about these topics? I've written an e-book called “All About Women”
that takes you by the hand and guides you through everything you need to know: how
women think, how to be the Man, where and how to approach women without fear, how
to make your dates more effective and how to move easily from your first conversation to
sex. If you liked this article, make sure to check out my book!

Get them excited on the First Date

When you have been talking to someone online for a time you both may decide to take
the next step with a real life date. Online dating can be very beneficial but without a
good connection in real life, you cannot move onto something more with long lasting
potential. Many people are concerned about moving from online dating to dating in real
life. It can be very dangerous. Online daters also need to worry about the other person
not being honest about them. The best thing that you can do is to simply give it a shot.
In the dating world, you will experience many failures but it is possible to have a good
and true relationship if you try hard. The first date with an online friend can be nerve
racking so you have to be sure to get the other person excited about meeting you.

First it is a good idea to plan a first date that will take place in a public place. It is easy to
lie online and you do not want to find yourself to be a victim of an online predator. To be
safe, you need to suggest meeting at the place of the date instead of getting into a vehicle
with someone you do not know. Plan a date for the daytime and it is usually a good idea
to have very little alcohol involved. If you are still not sure about meeting for security
reasons, you should suggest a group date where each of you brings a few different
friends.

There are a number of good date ideas that you can use for your first date. You should
always have a meal at a good restaurant or go to the movies. However when you are
eating or watching a film it is difficult to get to now another person. You can suggest a
date based on common interests that attracted you to the other person in the first place.
For example if you both enjoy sports, you can go to a baseball game or playing golf. If
you like the outdoor adventures you can plan a first date at a rock-climbing place. For
more quiet dates, you can meet at a coffee house or listen to a soft music concert.
The most important thing to remember about a date is to make sure that each person is
comfortable. If you are both having a bad time and it is obvious, it is not inappropriate to
suggest leaving early. However if you both are having a great time, you may want to
extend the date to another activity after the first date has ended. Leave the first date open
because not every person will have a connection with you. You need to be prepared for
both success and failure.

The Key to Reaching the Next Level in Dating Success

Back in the days when I was a teenager, I actually had reasonable success with women,
but it was far from consistent. Many of my behaviors and attitudes were anything but
high-status. Having internalized what high status males actually do, I have made
immeasurable progress in relationships, friendships, and business, I only wish I knew
these things earlier!

Many things can be associated with the high status mindset, but I have identified the most
important thing a man wanting to improve their success with women must know.

That sexuality is completely natural and they are not scared to express it.

The key is how you do it.

Have you seen many movies or television shows about relationships? The constant theme
is that most men are idiots with relationships and that they are lucky to find one girl.
They go out of their way to repress their sexuality, thinking it will turn a woman off. The
key to expressing sexuality is to not be explicit about it. Do not speak about it, and do not
grope some random girl who hasn’t given you the right signals. What you must do is use
body language to communicate to women that you are a sexual being and you know they
are too.

Pop quiz, you are speaking with a woman you just met. She is standing in a position with
her chest thrusted slightly forward, she is smiling with you, batting her eyelashes, and
flicking her hair. Do ya think she might be interested? This was an obvious example, but
you see the point. She was able to sub-communicate to you that she is interested and all
you have to do is be your natural manly self.
But you ask, how does a man sub communicate these things as well? Many ways. Some
basic things that are known by most are good posture; calm, and strong speech patters.
There are many books on these things, and I recommend you read them. What I want to
talk about here are less obvious things that society as a whole does not talk about.

One non-obvious technique that works very well is what some in the seduction
community call, The Triangle Gaze. It is basically something many women seem to do us
all the time.(by the way, MANY body language tactics they use can be used by men too).
The triangle gaze is an eye movement technique. Simply move your gaze from her left
eye to her right eye and down to her mouth, and pause a millisecond there. Don’t do it
over and over, but every now and then do it. It is powerful and she WILL understand
what you are trying to get across, and often she will be impressed if you do this in the
right way because you will be demonstrating your social intelligence. And fellas, women
are much “smarter” in this regard than most of us.

Another subtle technique that can be used to sub-communicate to a woman your

intentions without being a cad are the use of double entendres. A double entendre is a
word or phrase with more than one meaning, usually two, as the title suggests. Not
cheesy, raunchy pickup lines, but things said on the fly that can be ambiguous, making it
near impossible for her to forget you. Here is an example of a bad use of a double
entendre:

You talking to a waitress: “So what time do you get off?”

That is one of the oldest in the book and at best she will laugh and say something like

“When I get home to my boyfriend”

At worst she will instantly write you off as a loser and walk away.

Something better would be charming. It would make her wonder about your intentions,
and make her want to find out exactly what you want from her. Personally I love
speaking with people who are visiting from far away, exotic lands, or who were not
raised here. There is so much material for conversation and rapport building. One thing I
love to do when speaking with foreign women is talking about their home country and
talking about how sensual, and passionate it is. This is a compliment to her in a round
about way and she will welcome the topic. She will also have no choice but to ponder the
words sensual, passionate(and any other double entendres you throw in) and connect
those images and thoughts with YOU! The key is to ramp up the intensity than ramp it
down...ramp it up, ramp it down, rinse and repeat. Combine this with confident body
language and a genuine interest in learning about her and you are well on your way to
becoming a seduction master!
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