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be thought of as spanning a continuum from healthy to the pathological, with
the narcissistic personality style on the healthy end and the personality disorder on the pathological end. Table 8.1 compares and contrasts differences between the narcissistic style and disorder. The following two case examples illustrate the differences between the Narcissistic Personality Disorder—Mr. C.—and the narcissistic personality style— Mr. J. Although DSM-5 only describes one type or presentation of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder, research describes three types: overt, covert, and the malignant (Caligor, Levy, & Yeomans, 2015). All three types are highly self- absorbed and have little genuine regard for the needs or feelings of others. Overt Type. This type presents as grandiose and thick-skinned and is the embodiment of DSM-5 criteria. These individuals are characterized by overt
TABLE 8.1 Comparison of Narcissistic Personality Style and Disorder
Personality Style Personality Disorder
Although emotionally vulnerable to Reacts to criticism with feelings of negative assessments and reaction of rage, stress, or humiliation (even if not others, they can handle these gracefully. expressed). Shrewd in dealing with others, utilizing Interpersonally exploitive, taking the strengths and advantages of others advantage of others to achieve his or to achieve their own goals. her own ends. Can energetically sell themselves, their Grandiose sense of self-importance. ideas, and their projects. Tend to be able competitors who love Believe their problems are unique and getting to the top and enjoy staying understood only by other special there. people. Can visualize themselves as the best or Preoccupied by fantasies of unlimited most accomplished in their field. success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love. They believe in themselves, their abilities, Have a sense of entitlement and and their uniqueness, but do not demand unreasonable expectations of especially special treatment or privilege. favorable treatment. Accept accomplishments, praise, and Require constant attention and admiration gracefully and with self- admiration. possession. Possess a keen awareness of their thoughts Lack of empathy; inability to recognize and feelings, and have some awareness and experience how others feel. of those of others. Expect others to treat them well at Preoccupied with feelings of envy. all times.
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