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All youth need to develop a set of core life skills to manage school,
work, outside interests, and social relationships successfully. From the
Core Life Skills
perspective of brain development, these skills include planning, focus,
PLANNING
self-control, awareness, and flexibility—also known as “executive
Being able to make concrete plans, carry
function” and “self-regulation” skills. No one is born with these skills, but them out, and set and meet goals
everyone can learn them through practice.
FOCUS
Best “Windows of Opportunity” for Skill-Building Concentrating on what’s most important
Early Childhood Adolescence at any given time
SELF-CONTROL
Controlling how we respond to our
Core Life Skills Proficiency
AWARENESS
Noticing people and situations around
us and how we all fit into the picture
FLEXIBILITY
Adapting to changing situations
BIRTH 3 5 10 15 25 30 50 70 80
Age (Years)
Early childhood is a critical time for the brain, when connections are being ALSO IN THIS GUIDE:
made that become the foundation for a child’s future health, learning, 5 Ways to Help Youth Build Their
and behavior. Adolescence is also a vital “window of opportunity” for Core Life Skills page 2
building core life skills—and for practitioners to provide support. During
this period, the brain strengthens its most-used connections, making How Stress Affects Developing Core
them faster and more efficient, and “prunes” away less-used ones. As Life Skills page 3
the different areas of the brain mature during adolescence, their ability to
function as an interconnected system improves. Practicing core life skills 5 Ways to Deliver Services That
during adolescence helps the brain build the most efficient pathways to Reduce Stress page 4
support these skills throughout life.
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5 Ways to Help Youth
Build Their Core Life Skills Tips for Practitioners
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Practice with real-life Spot and plan for triggers. Take another’s view of stressors.
situations. Help youth recognize what triggers their Encourage youth to ask people they trust
Encourage youth to problem-solve around intense emotions (for example, criticism how they cope with stress. Or, suggest they
real-life challenges they face (for instance, from an adult, losing a game) and learn to look at situations from someone else’s
trying to finish a project for school when take preventative actions—taking a deep point of view. As one example, for a young
a friend texts with a personal problem, or breath, stopping to think, focusing on long- person upset over an early bedtime, ask
handling a peer’s depression). term goals—when those triggers come up. them what might motivate a parent to have
a firm time for “lights out.” A parent caring
WHY? Young people learn best when the WHY? This empowers youth to become
about youth getting enough sleep to func-
experience is relevant to the real world and more self-aware and develop coping strat-
tion well feels very different than a parent
they can test out their own solutions. egies for the heat of the moment.
trying to control a young person’s behavior.
SKILLS: Focus, Flexibility SKILLS: Awareness, Self-Control
WHY? Seeing stressors in a new way can
diffuse anger, frustration, and fear. Young
people learn there is more than one way to
view problems and solutions.
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This material is adapted from the
Center on the Developing Child’s
Focus on personally motivating Build on positive memories and
report, Building Core Capabilities
goals. small successes. for Life and the Washington
Adolescence is a time for finding one’s Adversity may cause youth to feel that Office of Superintendent of Public
place in the world; for forming a consistent they lack control over their lives. They may Instruction’s Understanding the
sense of self that will serve as a framework internalize negative self-talk or peer interac- Adolescent Brain series.
for making choices now and in the future. tions like bullying. Help them recall positive
Encourage youth to try new activities and memories (such as a time when they helped a For more information on the science
discover their passions. Support them in friend or finished a tough assignment) to see behind core life skills, what affects
mapping out steps for setting and reaching that even small actions make a difference. their development, and how
their goals—and for dealing with obstacles. practitioners can help, visit:
WHY? This gives youth a starting point for
WHY? This empowers young people to building up their sense of self, undoing nega- http://developingchild.harvard.edu
strengthen their self-identity, think long- tive internalizations, viewing challenges as
term, and practice goal-directed behavior. less threatening, and planning for the future.
developingchild.harvard.edu
How Stress Affects
Developing Core Life Skills
Some stress in life can be positive, but extreme, ongoing stress can
wreak havoc with young people’s health, behavior, and ability to
develop and practice their core life skills.
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developingchild.harvard.edu
5 Ways to Deliver Services Tips for Practitioners and
That Reduce Stress Program Leaders
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WHY? Optimizing the program environment WHY? Adolescent brains are more attuned to WHY? Supporting young people’s autonomy
gives youth the best chance to succeed and social acceptance and rejection than at any reduces the chance of activating their
avoids triggering any stress or fear. other period of development. Aiding them in emotional and threat response systems.
navigating social relationships helps them They’ll learn to trust you and build self-
learn how to respond to feedback. confidence.
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