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Abstract: This paper aims to discuss bullying newspapers. It becomes a hot issue discussed by
issues among primary school male pupils in Malaysian society. This shows just how urgent
Malaysia. Bullying among schoolchildren became actions by the relevant authorities need to ensure
a hot issues discussed by Malaysian society. that bullying issue does not continue to spread and
Bullying is the use of force, treat to abuse grow. Bullying is considered a form of violence. It
aggressively to dominate the weak repeatedly. By can also be an issue of violation of children right
adopting a qualitative approach, this study has which impact negatively on the bullied pupils
identified the possibility factors that contribute to emotional, social development and academic
bullying among 26 male pupils (aged 10) in a performance. This study discusses the problem of
primary school. The author tries to understand and bullying among primary school male
capture the type of bullying, duration and schoolchildren solely because boys are prone to
frequency and the characteristics of the bullies and bullying more than girls (Frosh et al, 2002, Dijkstra,
their victims. The results show that the victims were Lindenberg & Veenstra, 2007). This study also
bullied differently in school and why they were discusses the problems, possibilities, cause and
chosen as a target by their bullies. Different effects of bullying among primary school
perceptions and reasons are told between the schoolchildren. Bullying is no laughing matter.
bullies and their victims based on their experiences. Being bullied is a scary and hurtful event. Bullying
This study not just primary focuses on bullying in school can be controlled if appropriate
issues among male pupils solely; it also discusses preventive measures are taken seriously by the
the motives and causes of bully victimization. education policy makers, school, parents,
Lastly, this study proposes some suggestions schoolteachers, schoolchildren and the community.
according to the research findings and guidance All children are entitled for a safe school
for parents, school personnel, schoolteacher, environment is in order to enjoy healthy process of
schoolchildren and public to work hand in hand to teaching and learning. Lastly, this study is
combat bullying together. In a multi-cultured expected to enable schoolchildren to understand
society like Malaysia, the schools and communities and create awareness about bullying. The writer
have responsible as well as interconnected roles in also makes suggestions for future research which
shaping the next young generation of Malaysians will enhance comparability by moving forward a
who are united through the school system as it more effective comparative analysis in cross-
exists now without bullying issue. cultural comparison, respecting cultural diversity
and differences.
Keywords: Childhood bullying, bullying issues,
male pupils, primary school, victimization Purpose of Study
A study conducted shows that bullies may take place in the classrooms, and the boys being
have come from victims who have experienced more involved in bully acts more than the girls. In a
treatment violence or abuse (Loeber and Hay, 1997; gender comparison, boys naturally involve in direct
Verlinden, Herson and Thomas, 2000). Their action bullying methods, girls more prone to subtle
is aimed at bullying for revenge. Bullies also tend indirect strategies such as slander, spreading
to assume that themselves has been threatened and malicious rumors or gossip and implementing
in danger. They do not have responsibility and social isolation (Smith & Sharp, 1994). The same
respect for others (Twemlow, 2000). Family study showed that 53.2% involved were bullies,
background plays an important role in shaping the 79.4% were bullied (victims) either physically or
bullying trait. They use violence while solving psychologically.
problems and discipline their children. Children
who lacks of love and education will typically be a Various studies showed direct bullying seems
bully. The behaviors of the family members are to increase in primary school years, peak in junior
usually outrageous and extreme (O’Connell, Pepler high school years and declining in high school
and Craig, 1999). The presence of supporting peers years. Boys involve in bullying behavior and are
indirectly helped the bullies to retrieve power, also victims of bullies more frequently than girls.
popularity and status. Bullies are very popular and Direct physical bullying seems to decrease by age
famous among their circle of friends. Bullies and verbal abuse remains steady. School setting
indirectly reach awareness of the power and receive (urban, suburb or rural area), school size, racial
social support by their peers to bully the victims. In composition and gender do not seem to classify or
most situation of bullying, the peers who witness foretell the existence of bullying but it is quite
the act will stay silent and refuse to interfere. They contrast with the observation and findings in
assume if they interfere and tell others about the Sunshine School (Batsche & Knoff, 1994; Nolin,
bullying acts they might get caught into trouble and Davies, & Handler, 1995; Olweus, 1993; Whitney
becoming the bullied victims (O’Connell, Pepler & Smith, 1993). A crowded classroom, teachers
and Craig, 1999). late for their lesson and lack of teachers can
contribute to bullying behavior in the classroom for
(d) Social Settings and School Environment example, Sunshine School (pseudonym).
Individual men and women, and boys and girls Any kind of bully, either directly or indirectly
experience bullying in unique ways. All types of has a negative impact on the growth and
bullying may have a tremendous impact on targeted development on the bullies or their victims notably.
children. They may feel depressed, anxious, eat or Various studies prove that bullies tend to victimize
sleep less or more, have difficulty concentrating on those who are “easy” to target. The classic tactic,
school work, have trouble making friends, lie, steal, male pupils were seen more picking on smaller-
run away from home, avoiding school or even sized, vulnerable and weak classmates. Their
consider of suicidal (Besag, 2006; Yang, Kim, Shin, “status” in the classroom is secured. Anti- social,
Yoon, 2006; Smith, Cousins & Stewart, 2005; tough behavior is perceived as “cool” and “macho”
Brustein, Marrocco, Kleinman, Schonfeld & Gould, in school culture, which arises from the “social
2007). Children may not want to tell anyone if they cultural construction of manhood”. The
feel they deserve this type of treatment, they afraid schoolteachers especially need to be sensitive about
it would make the matter worst. (Smith, Cousins & bullying issues.
Stewart, 2005).
Theoretical Framework
Having a high percentage of children being
bullied at schools that reached 64%, Malaysia is The intricacy of bullying requires more than one
trying to prevent bullying with its different shapes theoretical lens in order to comprehend this
and types whether physical bullying, verbal occurrence thoroughly.
bullying, emotional bully, prejudice bullying,
cyberbullying and sexual bullying. Cyber and 1. Theories that based on individual
sexual bullying are more common in secondary factor when associate with bullying
school.
Theories that explains how bullying occur
According to a study that was done in several based on genetic, family issues, socio cultural,
schools in Malaysia, it was found that 93.5% of the physical, socio-emotional competence skills or
students in secondary schools were being bullied at psychological differences that encounters between
indirectly, while 68.2% admitted that they were the powerful children to oppress on the weaker
being bullied directly, and all of them agreed that children.
most of the bullying acts that happen in the schools
(a) Social Learning Theory
(bullying) as the outcome among many factors that The data were collected via semi-structured
comprises 4 levels such as the individual, the questions among 26 male pupils (aged 10), they
relationship, the community, and the societal. were all classmates. Interview has been proven to
be a useful tool to gather information when
(a) Individual level whereby personal researching to help support by existing research
background/ history or biological factors and real life experience. The author conducted the
influence how an individual behaves and qualitative interview method because it encourages
the tendency becoming a victim or a respondents to speak in their very own unique
violent perpetrator. experiences way to gain a better understanding of
(b) Personal relationships example family, them as a bully and bullying victims.
friends, peers and intimate partners maybe
influence by the risks of becoming a The principal investigator asked the
victim or a violent perpetrator. respondents to recall and tell about their
(c) Community social relationships context experiences for the past 60 days including bullying
occur in schools, neighborhoods and frequency. The principal investigator observed that
workplaces whereby violent take place. if someone (children) has been bullied any part of
(d) Societal factors determine whether their life within 60 days, they are likely to recall
violence is constrained or encouraged. and remember it clearly it. This strategy is to help
to reduce recall bias and it does allow the principal
Research Design investigator to differentiate quality and frequency
of bullying. Children who have been bullied or
Although there are a considerable amount of bullied few times, for example like have had a
research on bullying, but very little research has different experience than someone who was aimed
been carried out to investigate the process of several or many times. After the interviews were
becoming a school bullying victims and being a transliterated they were carefully read so that the
bully. In order to gain an insightful understanding specific data can be discussed coherently. All
of victims’ and their predators’ perspectives on participants were asked the similar questions for
their bullying experiences, there is a clear necessity easy comparison and analysis process. Pseudonyms
to conduct a qualitative studies. are used to protect the anonymity of the
participants in the study.
This study is expected to enable the
schoolchildren to understand and create awareness Due to the nature of study involving children,
about bullying. The information gathered to form when interviewing the respondents, the author
this study is through qualitative interviewing. The ought to consider the participant respondents,
study employs interview with 26 male pupils (aged always safeguard children rights, communicate
10) from the author’s pupils who came from research objectives clearly and lastly protect the
different cultural and socio-economic background. privacy, sensitivity and interest of the participants
(Spradley, 1997). Pseudonyms are used to protect
The study also attempts to reveal bullying the anonymity of the participants in the study.
issues in a Malaysia primary school. Sunshine Before the official interview process begun, the
school (pseudonym) is situated in the heart of city writer had a preliminary meeting with the
surrounded by an elite neighborhood being riddle participants and their parents in order to establish
with problems and issues, such as low academic trust and review critical considerations as a
achievements, poor discipline issues and even protection to the respondents. The study was
conflicts issues between schoolteachers and parents. conducted under the permission and approval of
headmaster and senior assistants.
The author spent 6 months by doing observe,
analysis, in-depth interview and record bullying Honestly is the main focus when working
behavior in her classroom. In order to support the children and parents. It is important to keep a high
writer's findings, information also obtained from level of privacy, confidentiality and flexibility
discipline school board meetings, school discipline throughout the interview process. Additional
record book noted by schoolteacher and school research from a variety children's background in
prefects. It shows, the boys were bullying and terms of culture and socio-economic, it would add
bullied most frequent in the classroom, especially another layer of understanding about bullying
during Physical Education and music lesson, toilets, among schoolchildren in Malaysia.
followed by recess time, on the way to school and
after schooling hours. Verbal abuse as the most
common type, classroom and toilets are the most
common locations.
Interview Outline The Bullies and their The Bullied Victims and
Characteristic their Characteristic
A set of open-ended questions were asked during (Adam, Brad, Carl, Dan, (Ian, Jack, Kim, Larry,
the interview between the bullies and the victims. Eric, Fred, Gary and Mike, Nick and Owen.)
Harris.)
The Bullies (a) Gets into physical or (a) Avoiding school or
verbal fights with certain places
(a) How do you like school? Tell me about school. other easily (b) Silent about what is
(b) Have you thought about how your actions or (b) Enjoys putting others happening at school
down (c) Frequent lost and
words could have hurt this person's feelings
(c) Has extra money or uneasy
emotional and physically? new belongings (d) Academic problems
(c) What makes you think you have the right to (d) Disobey school rules (e) Difficulty
say or do things like this to someone else? and authority concentrating
How would you feel if this person did or said (e) Has an attitude of (f) Low self-esteem
these things to you? superiority (g) Social isolation, few
(d) Have you considered that just because this (f) Quick to blame others or no friends
person is different from you or has different (g) Enjoys control over (h) Timid, depressed or
beliefs, it is OK to make fun of him or say others anxious
(h) Enjoy violence (i) Teacher’s pet
hurtful things?
(i) Physically strong with (j) Intelligent and
(e) What do you think your parents will say when athletic figures determined
I tell them what you have said/done to this (j) Show little concern for (k) Physical features
person? Will they be proud? others that attract attention
(k) Lack of moral and (l) Sexual orientation
The Victims empathy (m) Different cultural
belief
(a) How do you like school? Tell me about school.
(b) How many instances of bullying do you have This study provides one of the first qualitative
in a school year? How did the bully occur? interviews of bullying based on the perceptions and
(c) What did the bully say or do that got you upset? experience of the bullies and their victims. In this
How did you respond? Did you cry, run away, children’s discourse, the bullies were talking about
call them a name back, hit them or fight back? the reasons why did they bully, the talked about
(d) Were there any teachers around at the time? how “odd”, “weird”, annoying and peculiar their
Did they see, respond or help? If there were no victims were. The bullies also mentioned how did
teachers around, did you report to a teacher they separated the victims from other pupils and
what happened? What about your parent or “created” him as negatively as possible and how he
guardian? Did either or both of them do should be treated hostility by the others. The
anything to help you? victims also described as a sense of not fitting in
(e) Has the bully ever apologized? such as social excluding, as a result of being
different and bullied, often misunderstood by
Research Finding and Discussion
others and accepting the bullies said was true.
Schools are supposed to be a healthy learning
What exactly encourages the boys being a bully?
ground for every boys and girls. Childhood is
Why is it that a significant proportion of little boys
something to celebrate unfortunately not every
embrace violent forms of masculinity over others?
child has a pleasant childhood and majority
School bullying is so common that it can be
schoolchildren around the globe are suffered from
described as a normal feature of everyday life
bully. It is a huge phenomenal and ought to be
(Tyler, 2002).
conquered. Based on the interview, 7 out of 26
male pupils told the principal investigators they The most fundamental to achieve social setting
have been bullied at some point during school in some acceptable ways of “doing boy” or “be
hours. 8 out of 26 male pupils have admitted they boys” involved the features of hegemony
were always the bullies in order to protect masculinity identified by other researchers (Frosh
themselves and territories. The other 11 pupils, et al, 2002; Pepler, 1998) as being components of
they were neither the bullies nor the victims. Based “popularity” including being sporty, macho looking,
on the observation and interview, the names tough, cool, or a joker. Most male bullies are
(pseudonymous) and the characteristics of the physically strong, well-built and powerful. Adam
bullies and the victims have been identified. expressed that,
Table 1: Name and Characteristics of the Bullies and
Bullied Victims
“I never liked school and not good in make jokes and insulting our names like
studies. I disliked people tried to outshine calling us “Black” and sometimes “gay”
me like Ian. I tried to embarrass him and others who were the same race and
whenever I can. My parents were fine with ethnicity as us. During PE, Brad and Dan
me because I was able to defend myself.” would make comments while we were
changing in the toilet, implying that were
Bullying can begin at any age or younger even gays. They would say that were staring at
in primary school and some unknowingly with the people of the same sex while they were
approval of their parents. Ian elaborated by saying, dressing. We were not gays. We told our
situation to the school prefects and
“I liked school because I enjoyed all the discipline teacher but our voice never
school lessons. I was afraid to go to school heard. Sometimes, we even asked for
because Adam and Brad always teamed up dismissed for PE lesson. Our parents
to bully me. Whenever, I complained to advised us to ignore them and report those
teachers but they never listened or asked boys to the headmaster.”
me to ignore them just like my mother did.”
It seems hard to stop bullying because most
Respondents also recalled how the “taboo” bullies are able to cover up their tracks. Bullies
nature of gay links with femininity. Gay terms bully where people cannot see or hear
were used as an option for insulting any boy them. Bullies bully when teachers or adults are not
because they provided the ultimate and extreme aware and looking. The worst part, bullies act
insult. Meanwhile, gay terms were also used for discreetly and they attack when the victim is not
generalized abuse against those boys were under looking or notice. Brad expressed the reasons why
suspicion for being insufficiently masculine, for he bullied others.
their lack of conformity with “hegemonic
masculinity” such as being tough, disruptive, “I liked school because Dan was always
macho looking sporty or cool (Frosh et al, 2002; around to support me no matter what. I
Chambers et al, 2004). These boys included those never picked on Jack, Kim and Mike; they
who had geeky nerd appearance, wearing glasses or were overly sensitive and cry babies. My
braces, not sporty and like schoolwork or teacher’s parents would not care about me due to
pet. Although these boys (respondents) have not their busy schedules. They made good
been permanently labeled as “gay” they were money. I was always in my grandmother’s
regularly subjected to gay or femininity abuse house after school. She questioned nothing
(Frosh et al, 2002). about school.”
Respondents discussed how their behavior was Dan expressed his feelings about bullying. He
associated and typically conflated with femininity mentioned on the following quote.
which assumed weakness and inferiority in gay
men and in all women (Lee, 1986). As a result, it “I liked school because of Brad. I did not
comes as no surprise that such boys who mean to bully Jack, Kim and Mike but they
represented femininity were labeled as gay and were such an eye-sore. I called them gays
constantly bullied. Indicators of effeminacy because Brad said so. According to my
included “girlish” speech and mannerism, the parents, gays lost faith in religion, life and
playing of “girls” games, the displaying of “girlish” bad people. Sometimes, I felt sorry for
taste in music, arts, speech and mannerisms or even Brad because no one understood him.
the avoidance of attending PE lesson (Hearn and Each time, I would like to apologize to
Collinson, 1994). them especially Kim because he always
helped me on my English homework but
Gay calling was a major crisis in Sunshine Brad was always there to stop me.
School. Jack, Kim and Mike are often been Sometimes, he threatened not to friend with
labeling as gay by others classmates notably Brad me. I would choose Brad over them.”
and Dan. Based on the interview, Jack, Kim and
Mike shared the similar sentiment and stories. Children bully for many reasons. Some bully
According to them, because they feel insecure, unwanted and seeking
for attention. Picking on someone who seems
“We were bullied by other boys notably emotionally, mentally or physically weaker
Brad and Dan. Every day they picked on us provides a feeling of being more important, popular,
for our names including our parents’ or in control. In other cases, children bully because
names, race and skin color. They would they simply do not know that it is unacceptable to
pick on children who are different because of size, increase pupils’ social isolation because their peers
looks, gender, race, or religion. Some children who do not want to lose status or taking the risk being
bully at school and in settings with their peers are bullied by socializing with them. Being bullied
copying behavior that they see and learn from during childhood can lead to low self-esteem and
home. Children who are exposed to aggressive and emotional depression that can carry into adulthood
unkind interactions in the family often learn to treat (Olweus, 1993; Batsche & Knoff, 1994).
others the same way. Carl mentioned in the
following quote, Bullying based on differences often began
within the context of “rite of passage”. This is a
“I liked school because of football, one of very common experience and appeared in two
the best things in Sunshine School. I forms; bullying new boys and younger boys by
disliked weak and vulnerable children for more senior boys. Being new meant that they were
example Larry. He could not do sports. At subjected to scrutiny and suspicious. The bullying
first, I corrected and helped him. I gave up. of younger boys or new boys pointed out by
I started to feel loathe of it. Larry was a Poynting and Donaldson (2005) how new boys are
shame to the boys. Each time, he came targeted and received abusive treatment included
closer either talking or playing, I would servants for older and popular boys. Nick
walk away and some other boys too.” elaborated by saying,
Take for example this quote by Larry describing “When I first enrolled to Sunshine School
his bullying experience. I was treated with suspicion. I felt
awkward. I was speaking English all the
“I was never asked to be in school. My time. I was different to them. I used to like
parents were the one to put me in school. I school but not Sunshine School. I cried
told them countless times that I did not fit alone. Teachers just ignored me except my
in and pointless. They never listened. I class teacher. I had a great fear to be in
would rather to be safe at home. I did try school because of Eric and Fred. My
to make friends and play with other mother advised me to pay attention in
children but they boycotted me. Some of school and learn to hold my anger because
them even laughed at me cruelly especially bullies would walk away. She did not
Carl and Adam. Sometimes, Owen would understand the pain that I suffered inside. I
sit by me and offer me some snacks.” wanted those bullies to disappear.”
“I never liked school because some of my “I disliked school. School was completely
classmates were nasty, rough and violent. I a mess but I enjoyed the attention of
preferred to be alone but some boys just certain teachers. I enjoyed bullied Nick.
would not let me, especially Dan and Eric. Nick always got the attention from most
I complained to my teachers several times teachers because he was a new boy and
but they did not take my words seriously weak in studies. My class teacher always
luckily my class teacher did. There was one advised me not to bully other children but I
time, Dan and Eric teamed up to hit me. I could not help myself. My home was
defended myself and after that they always a mess. My mother barely at home
“disappeared”. Sometimes, I helped Larry and left us with my abuser and
because he was weak in studies, constantly unemployment father. It was fun to bully
absent no one would play or help him the weak children when they cried. I felt
whenever he got bullied. Some boys just happy, powerful and superior.”
stood there laughing or pretending none of
their business.” “How does domestic violence affect children
and young people’s behavior? How does this
Bullied victims tend to afraid to attend school behavior affect their social setting and adjustment
and consider school to be an unsafe, unhappy and such as the school environment, and how
dangerous ground. Bullying is a problem that effectively does this environment support this child
occurs in social contexts which teachers, parents or or young person?” These are two major questions
adults are generally unaware of it. The children are that lead to bullying factor. Gary expressed that,
either reluctant or unwilling to get involved;
perhaps do not know how to help (Charach, Pepler, “School was never a place for me. I did
& Ziegler, 1995). The act of being bullied tends to not know why my parents put me in school.
Most of the teachers disliked me and I felt they encounter someone who would not put up
misunderstood. I always seek for attention. with their nonsense, they will disappear like Dan
I liked to prey for new boys like Nick, weak and Brad.
and looked retarded. I was excited when he
cried. But, sometimes I befriended with him The 7 interviewed participants (bullied victims)
and Larry. It was amusing and hilarious.” have been through a great ordeal in school. Their
unfavorable childhood experience certainly have
The most effective strategy to deal with the had left a deep mark in their personality
bullies was by demonstrating toughness. Some development in later years especially Ian, Jack,
respondents also reflected that bullying others had Kim, Larry, Mike, Nick and Owen. The best way
provided them the opportunity to shift any negative for bullying to stop is to wait for the bullies to
focus onto others rather than themselves. At the mature like what expected from Nick and Owen.
same time, some respondents reflected on how they However, it takes time and there is no guarantee
felt regretful over their involvement with the that bullies will ever see the harm that they have
bullying of other boys and wished that they had caused. Even if they aware of it, they simply may
considered on their behavior and refused to join in not care. Be brave, ignore, be firm and clearly tell
at that time (Poynting and Donaldson, 2005). Eric the bullies to stop then walk away like Owen. The
expressed that he has witnessed bullying in school. next best course of action is stand up for oneself.
Take for example, this quote describing his initial The 8 interviewed bullies they recalled, they
experience: bullied because they wanted to be favored by their
peers and feared by other pupils without thinking
“I hated school that was the main reason about the consequences they might have caused to
why, no one would take interest in me others example Adam, Brad, Carl, Dan, Eric, Fred,
neither the teachers nor my parents. I was Gary and Harris. Children can be cruel to each
bullied at school since I was 8 years old other. Children are often targeted by their bullies
and to a certain extent I became a bit of a for various reasons. These children are likely needs
bully. I was not proud of it but I kept it help in learning such as managing anger,
such way to survive. I hoped the focus depression, frustration, or other negative emotions.
would be on those weak children. Everyone Professional counseling often can help them
in my classroom had a great fear seeing learning to deal with their feelings, curb their
me. I had no friends. Sometimes, I bullying, and improve their social skills. Bullying
befriended with Nick and Ian because they issues may be difficult to control if pupils and
were timid and gentle. Sometimes, I parents are not willing to co-operate with the
punched Adam and Brad for belittled them.” school but it can be achieved with a little awareness
about bullying from all parties. For every one case
This is expressed hereunder by Harris. which is reported thousands of other bullying cases
go unreported. Bullying issues ought to be
“I liked and enjoyed school especially the controlled before it grow to alarming rate. All
library instead seeing other children schoolchildren are entitled for conducive, happy
playing nastily during recess. I disliked and healthy learning environment.
noise and being disturbed. There was a lot
bullying that went on in school. I did not Conclusion and Suggestion
want to stand at the corner and let others
to bully me. I stood up for myself. I had my There is a growing awareness in Malaysia and
own territory to protect. Most of the time, I other parts of the world about the level and impact
hold my anger because I refused to get of bullying in school. Let us join hands together
involved with the others especially Brad and say, “Stand Up and Against Bullying!” Most
and Carl.” schools in Asia are always trying to cover up
bullying issues due to its Asian value and school
Not many children have a wonderful childhood. policies. When bullying occurs in school, it reflects
Many arrive to school feeling miserable, how poor school leadership is towards the
unwelcome and insecure. This often leaves them headmaster. This give teachers or headmasters a
feeling unwanted and has zero trust in the world good reason not to report bullying cases and let it
around them, for example Eric and Harris. The goes on without prevention. Through this research
writer feels that bullies who take the law into their the writer do hope more schools will implement a
hands and enjoying torturing or violence are lowest variety of “Bullying Prevention Awareness”
of the kind. There is no reason why one should programs and recognized it as part of human rights
tolerate this kind of abuse. The bullies have a movement to keep the children safe. Then, organize
tendency to throw their weight around but when a movement inviting international pupils, educators
or bullied victims to talk about their experience and treat other the way you want to be treated-
perspectives on bullying and how to stop it. We Kindness. By teaching your child that it is wrong to
need such voices to make it work because bullying ridicule differences (e.g., race, religion, appearance,
is a global issue. We would like to hear how people special needs, gender, socio-cultural, socio-
around the world confronting bullying issues in economic status) and try to instill a sense of
their daily lives. Bullying has caused enough empathy for those who are different.
anxiety, pain and suffering and it is time for
everyone to witness a culture change through open While the government and authorities work in a
communication, kindness and stop bullying before better plan to reduce bullying in school, on our end,
it is too late. Frankly, bullying is definitely not a perhaps it is time that we learn to stand up for
normal rite of passage of growing up. Most people ourselves, instead of waiting for others’ to help for
tend to “cover” the real issue of bullying. The instance, tell an adult or talk about it. Do not let the
blame is always on the victims. Bullying is a strong bullies to walk away. Adults need to come down to
risk factor that contributes to the later development their level of thinking to the children in order to
of mental health issues. treat and deal with bullying issue successfully. At
the same time, adults need to explain and convince
Teachers’ core business just not teaching, them that bullying is wrong before they enter
teachers ought to be a “crime fighter” too. Play kindergarten. The writer would like to suggest and
your role as an educationist; do not ever think that encourage educators as well as parents to focus on
the schoolchildren are talebearers or troublemakers childhood mental health as well as living wellness-
when the bullied children coming to seek for your zero bullying school environments. Zero tolerance
help. Teachers should not be ignorant about the of bullying ought to start from home. Bullying is
school surrounding. Think closely, “What if the killing our children. We have to save our children
bullied child is your own? Or “Your child is whether they are bullied or bullying others. They
bullying the others?” Would you be sitting there are both in pain.
watching and do nothing about it?” Teachers’
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