2

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 3

Contents
Introduction ...................................................................................................................... 5

Tip #1: Relaxation............................................................................................................ 6

Tip #2: Anticipation and Tension .................................................................................... 9

Tip #3: Communication .................................................................................................. 11

Tip #4: Patience & Persistence...................................................................................... 12

Tip #5: Awareness ......................................................................................................... 13

Tip #6: Oral Sex – Clitoral Circles.................................................................................. 14

Tip #7: Oral Sex – Horizontal Licks ............................................................................... 15

Tip #8: Oral Sex – Clitoral Suction Cup ......................................................................... 16

Tip #9: Combine Penetrative Fingering With Clitoral Licking ......................................... 17

Tip #10: Fingering - How To Find The G-Spot: Get Her Aroused FIRST..................... 18

Tip #11: Fingering – G-Spot Stimulation In The Straddle Position................................. 19

Tip #12: Fingering – The Finger Flutter ......................................................................... 20

Tip #13: Fingering: Come Here .................................................................................... 21

Tip #15: Fingering – Tapping the G-Spot ...................................................................... 22

Tip #14: Fingering – G-Spot Rub ................................................................................... 23

Tip #16: Fingering - Combining Penetrative Fingering with Clitoral Stroking ................. 24

Tip #17: Sex Positions – Knees Pulled To Chest .......................................................... 25

Tip #18: Sex Positions – Modified Missionary Position................................................. 26

Tip #19: Sex Position – Woman On Stomach ............................................................... 28

Tip #20: The “Magic Wand” ........................................................................................... 29

Tip #21: Sensory Deprivation ........................................................................................ 31

Tip #22: For WOMEN: Increase Your Orgasm Intensity by Strengthening Your PC
Muscles ......................................................................................................................... 32

Tip #23: For WOMEN: If You Can Orgasm By Yourself, You Can Orgasm During Sex 35

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 4

Tip #24: Erogenous Zone Amplification ......................................................................... 36

Tip #25: Setting the Stage for Her Next Orgasm and Getting Her to Want Sex With You
All The Time .................................................................................................................. 37

Conclusion…and What You Need to do Next ................................................................ 41

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 5

Introduction

My name is Lee, and I’m the author of the Female Orgasm Black Book.

But, what you have in your hands now are my 25 of my best tips, techniques and
tricks to bring about a female orgasm. Some of it is taken right from my book
(The Female Orgasm Black Book). Other techniques are totally new. You
probably won’t find them anywhere.

While I was compiling and writing these tips, I wanted to make sure that this list of
25 tips is better than 99% of some of the stuff you would pay money for.

What I want you to do is to take these tips, and try them out as soon as you can.
Try them out, and see what difference it makes to your love life!

Also, feel free to email this guide to anyone who you think will benefit from better
sex.

Lastly, if you haven’t signed up for my FREE Female Orgasm Black Book
newsletter, what are you waiting for? I’ll send you even MORE tips, tricks and
techniques to give women orgasms.

Just go here and tell me where to send your addition tips:

>> http://www.FemaleOrgasmBlackBook.com <<

Anyway, let’s get to the tips!

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 6

Tip #1: Relaxation

A woman has to be completely relaxed to have an orgasm.

If she has her mind on her job, self-conscious about how her body looks, trying to
have an orgasm, or whatever the case may be, she’s not going to be relaxed. She’ll
be tensed, and her body won’t allow her to release an orgasm.

Your job?

To help those troubles melt away and disappear (even if only temporarily) with
your words, touch, attitude and preparations. Your lover must be totally and
completely relaxed and free from tension.

The only tension she should be feeling is sexual tension!

An easy way to get someone relaxed is through massage:

The 3 Step Formula For Relaxation

The formula for relaxation that I always use is covered in 3 steps:

Step 1: Set the Stage

How to create a relaxation environment in your bedroom was covered in the last
chapter, so there’s no need to go over it again.

But, what you want to do is bring her into the bedroom for only a few
moments…and then…take her out of the room!

You’ll be building the anticipation for sex in her mind, and she’ll start getting
aroused.

Where are you going to take her next? See Step 2.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.
 7

Step 2: Shower (or Bath)

You’re both going to take a shower or a bath together. Personally I like a shower
best, because it’s faster than a bath and you can move into massaging quicker.
Sometimes I opt for a bath instead, but it really depends on how much stress I
sense my partner is in. If she’s not too stressed out, and is already excited for sex,
I’ll go for the shower. If she had a long and stressful day, I’ll set up a bath.

The goal here is two folds:

1. Relaxation - There’s nothing like a hot shower to get the both of you started
in a state of relaxation. Also, the shower (or bath) acts as a transition period
from the regular routines of everyday life to love making.

Try not to rush the shower or the bath. You want to take it slow and enjoy
each others’ company while you’re in there.

2. Cleanliness - Obviously, showering will eliminate sweat, dirt and odors

from both of your bodies.

But what amazes me is how often people engage in sexual activities without
cleaning up first!

I don’t know about you, but the last thing I want to see is toilet paper bits on
her anus while I’m about to eat her out. Or taste and/or smell urine residue
on her vagina. Yuck.

Also, if you’re doing this in the evening, she probably went to the toilet a few
times during the day. And if you know anything about sitting on the can,
sometimes, some of that toilet water splashes up…and…well, you get the idea.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 8

Step 3: Massage

Now, once you’ve cleaned up, head back into the bedroom. She’s ready for the
massage.

Note: Lay down a large towel on the bed before you start. You’ll be using oil
during the massage (you can use grape seed oil, baby oil, or specialty massage
oils), and you don’t want to get it on your bed sheets.

Also, later on when you’re fingering her and having sex, she might ejaculate, so
it’s a good idea to have a towel covering the bed sheets right away.

If you have no idea about how to give a massage, don’t worry about it. I’ll take
you through each step as we go alone.

Also, you don’t have to be a professional masseuse to give a relaxing massage.

With the basic massage techniques you’ll learn, and, more importantly, the
sequence of where to massage, you’ll get her relaxed and sexually aroused even if
you’ve never given a massage in your life!

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 9

Tip #2: Anticipation and Tension

Anticipation (otherwise known as “teasing” and “excitement”) is a powerful and

effective tool to use.

In order to multiply the effects of your sexual techniques, you’ll have to add
anticipation into the mix.

Anticipation will get her more aroused, give her a greater chance to have an
orgasm and focuses her mind on the physical pleasure she’s experiencing (and
about to experience).

And…while you’re building up anticipation, at the same time you’re cranking up

sexual tension as well.

The sexual tension will have to be released (in the form of an orgasm).

The key to building up anticipation is to focus on the areas surround the main
“target” before you actually hit the target.

For example, you can do this by rubbing her inner thighs, buttocks and hips before
actually touching her vagina. While you’re rubbing those body parts, she’s getting
wetter and wetter by the second, anticipating you to finally move onto her vagina.
At the same time, the tension is growing within her and at some point, it’ll have to
be released.

Another example is with oral sex. You can spend a minute licking the outer lips,
inner lips, kiss her inner thighs etc. And once every minute, flick your tongue on
her clitoris. But only once. This will drive her crazy, building that tension in her
pelvis, making her anticipate her clitoris being stimulated again. Do this right, and
she will be begging you to focus more on her clitoris, to release the tension you
have created.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 10

A note: when you’re building up the anticipation in her, it’s going to build up in
you as well! It’s going to be your job to maintain self control, and keep the
escalation at the right pace.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 11

Tip #3: Communication

Not every technique will work on every woman. One woman may prefer one
particular stroke, pressure or rhythm more than the next woman does.

To find out what really makes your woman tick, you’ve got to open the lines of
communication. You need to find out what she likes as you’re applying a
technique. That way, you can optimize your rhythm, speed, stroke etc. to match
what she likes best.

Aim for open verbal communication, but if your lover isn’t as brave speaking her
mind (especially when you’re face is buried between her thighs) you can opt for
more non-verbal communicative methods, such as squeezing hands or body
response.

Communicating well with your partner can make it much easier to bring her
pleasure, and ultimately, more and better orgasms.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 12

Tip #4: Patience & Persistence

Take your time. Generally speaking, for guys, there’s a natural tendency to get
right to the point, and move fast. Guys can be ready to have an orgasm in literally
minutes, but women on the other hand, will need more time.

Time to relax, time to get into the mood, time to build the tension, and time to
release that tension in the form of an orgasm.

Also, when you’re trying something new (such as some of the sex tips you’re about
to learn), you might not “get” them right away. I certainly didn’t. But over time,
by being patient and persistent, I figured out what worked and what didn’t.

Patience and persistence is a trait of any great lover, don’t forget that.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 13

Tip #5: Awareness

Pay attention to her and be aware of what she’s telling you.

What you want to develop is being acutely aware of what you're doing, and how
she is responding. You need to pay attention to whatever communications and
signals she’s giving, so you can adjust whatever it is you’re doing.

Knowing what feedback she’s giving you allows you to select the appropriate
response. But first…you have to pay attention and be aware of the feedback she’s
giving you!

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 14

Tip #6: Oral Sex – Clitoral Circles

Press your tongue on her clitoris, and use it to create tiny circles.

Alternatively, you can tease her clitoris by using your tongue to create circles
around the clitoris.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 15

Tip #7: Oral Sex

Sex – Horizontal Licks

Lick from left to right, and back. Alternatively, you can lick up and down.
Experiment with both, vary the speed and pressure until you find something that
works.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 16

Tip #8: Oral Sex – Clitoral Suction Cup

Pucker your lips around her clitoral head, and gently apply suction. This increases
the blood flow to the clitoris, and has the effect of making the clitoris even more
sensitive. You may even find that her clitoris will look larger because of the
suction.

While her clitoris is sucked into your mouth and you’re applying suction, try this:

Suck and Flick Combo

1. Gently suck her clitoris into your mouth

2. At the same time flick the tip of her clitoral head with your tongue.

Start off slow, and gradually build up speed. Also, vary the directions of your
tongue flicks.

To gauge what speeds/direction she likes, insert a well lubricated finger into her
vagina and feel for any vaginal contractions.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 17

Tip #9: Combine Penetrative Fingering With

Clitoral Licking

You can enhance the effects of oral sex by adding your fingers (take a look at the
tips below).

I find that the best position to do this is to have the woman lying on her back with
her legs spread, and the man positioned perpendicular to her (but this can change
depending on what technique you’re using).

The man’s head should rest on her mons pubis, allowing the tongue easy access to
the clitoris. In this position, the side of the tongue is naturally placed on the
clitoris.

Elbows should be on the bed supporting the man’s bodyweight.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 18

Tip #10: Fingering - How To Find The

The G-
G-Spot:
Spot:
Get Her Aroused FIRST

The G-spot swells up and gets bigger the more she’s aroused, so if you’re having
trouble finding it, chances are, she might not be aroused enough.

So what do you do? Before you insert your fingers, get her aroused through oral
sex first.

From this point on, you’ll feel her clitoris has become erect, see her inner lips will
redden in color and engorge with blood, and she’ll look like she’s more in the
“mood”.

The G-spot is located about one and a half to two inches up, on the anterior
(toward the front) wall of the vagina, at about 12 o’clock, or really anywhere
between 11:00 and 1:00.

As you begin your explorations, start with inserting your forefinger gently inside of
her, curving and hooking it behind the pubic bone, and then moving it forward, in
the “come-hither” motion.

Once you feel a small mound of spongy tissue that ranges in size from that of a
nickel and quarter - and having a rough texture different that the immediately
surrounding tissue - you’ve found it.

If you want to see a video showing how to find the G-spot, click on the link below:

http://www.FemaleOrgasmBlackBook.com/gspotvideo/gspotvideo.php

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 19

Tip #11: Fingering – G-Spot Stimulation In The

Straddle Position

In this position, she’s on her knees with her legs spread apart.

Now, the key to this position is to have her tilt her hips forward. This will make
the G-Spot much easier to reach.

If it’s more comfortable, she can place one or both hands behind her for support.

The best techniques for this position are the “Cum Here” and “tapping” techniques.
You’ll be pulling your fingers in toward your body, and to add more pressure and
intensity, you can use your arms to add a forward-backwards pumping motion
(don’t pump too hard though!)

Also, this position allows for face-to-face intimacy. You can kiss her, kiss her
neck, lick her ears and do other fun things to her erogenous zones.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 20

Tip #12: Fingering – The Finger Flutter

With the palms facing sideways, and the thumb pointing up, you’ll apply pressure
with the side of the index finger. Move your finger from left to right and “flutter”
her G-Spot.

The great thing about this technique is that you can use it in the 69 position (which,
when done traditionally, doesn’t normally allow for an ergonomic fingering
experience).

To enhance this technique even further, you can use the thumb on the same hand to
stimulate the clitoris. You can just place your thumb on her clitoris, and allow the
movement of the “fluttering” of your fingers to vibrate your thumb.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 21

Tip #13: Fingering: Come Here

Also known as the “come hither”, this motion is identical to the finger motions
when signaling someone to “come here”.

With your fingers extended inside of her vagina, apply pressure upwards and move
your fingers downward.

The motion is circular, so you don’t want to be rubbing your fingers forward and
backwards on her G-spot.

You’ll be making contact with the G-spot as you’re pulling in, but once you’re
moving to the back of the vagina, make as little contact with G-spot as possible.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 22

Tip #15
#15: Fingering – Tapping the G-Spot

This technique involves the “come here” motion with your fingers, combined with
a quick “up-and-down” motion with your hands

As you’re doing this, you’ll be “pumping” your arms up and down, and in effect
her body will start bouncing up and down as well.

To hold her in place, put your free hand just above her pubic bone, and push down
so she doesn’t bounce up too much.

I’ve found that 2 fingers works best. You can use your index and middle finger, or
your middle and ring finger.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 23

Tip #14
#14: Fingering – G-Spot Rub

This is a variation of the “come here” technique. Simply rub her G-Spot in a
forward and backwards motion. Be sure to keep the focus on the G-spot itself
(upward pressure), and not simply entering in and out with your fingers.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 24

Tip #16: Fingering - Combining Penetrative

Fingering with Clitoral Stroking

Make use of the thumb on you non-fingering hand to stimulate her clitoris.

I find it more easy to stimulate her clitoris with my thumb on my left hand. Maybe
this comes from years of playing videos games and my thumb (on my left hand) is
especially dexterous (it's the thumb on the left hand that is used on the directional
pad of a controller).

Place your hand on top of her mounds (pubic hair area) and your thumb facing
down towards her feet. Your thumb should be on her clitoris. From there,
incorporate your favorite fingering technique with your right hand, and use your
left thumb to stimulate her clitoris. Again, always be aware of what is working for
her!

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 25

Tip #17: Sex Positions – Knees Pulled To Chest

This position offers benefits that can only be enjoyed one at a time: intense g-spot
stimulation or deep, hard thrusting.

Have her place her knees on her chest. She can have her feet on your shoulders, or
dangling in the air. Make sure that her legs are close together, and not spread
apart.

When she places her knees on her chest, this lifts her pelvis upwards so that the
angle your penis is thrusting towards her vaginal ceiling (hitting her G-spot).

While you’re thrusting, it’s best that you have your upper body erect, and not
leaning forward. This will add a greater upwards pressure to her G-spot.

To further enhance this position, you can just place a pillow or a Liberator Wedge
under her buttocks to elevate her hips. With the Liberator Wedge, you can position
your body close to your partner’s and still effectively stimulate the G-spot, because
her hips are elevated so much.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 26

Tip #18: Sex Positions –

Modified Missionary Position

Get into missionary position. The next steps are all done while she is penetrated.

Place her ankles near your head (her feet should be dangling behind your neck).

Have her bring her knees to her chest, elevating her own pelvis. You can assist her
by lifting her pelvis.

Once there is enough room underneath her hips, draw your knees together under
her buttocks.

Her buttocks should now be resting on top of your lap. At the same time, you are
on your knees and she’s still penetrated.

Now as you're having sex, stimulate her clitoris with your fingers.

This position is great because the added elevation of her hips allows the penis to
thrust into the G-Spot, and the clitoris can be easily stimulated.

However, it might be uncomfortable on the guy's legs. To support yourself, reach

back with one or both hands, and place them on your ankles.

Added Tip: You can apply pressure just above the pubic bone (below her navel).
This will push her G-spot closer to your penis.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 27

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 28

Tip #19: Sex Position – Woman On Stomach

In this position, the woman is lying flat on her stomach. You want to position your
body so that your pelvis is nearly on top of hers. This will allow for your penis to
thrust downwards into the G-spot.

To enhance this position, the man or woman can reach under and stimulate the
clitoris during sex.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 29

Tip #20: The “Magic Wand”

No, it’s not a sex toy made by Hatachi. But, after trying this technique out, you
might think that your penis is a magic wand.
It is a technique that can result in simultaneous orgasms without much physical
effort.

But first…a word of warning.

Just like intercourse, it feels best without a condom. But make sure you take any
necessary precautions to prevent STDs etc. And because it feels really good, you
both may want to have sex right then and there. Be sure to be smart and use a
condom if you do choose to move into intercourse.

The idea is to use your penis on her clitoris.

The woman should be lying on her back, with her legs spread.

The man positions himself in between her legs, and sits upright. I find that sitting
on my knees works best.

VERY IMPORTANT: Put some lubrication (natural or synthetic) on the head of

your penis.

Now, place the head of your penis on her clitoris.

With her legs spread, tell her to masturbate you.

You want to make sure during all this time that the head of your penis is touching
her clitoris.

As she is doing this, you’ll feel good, and she’ll start to feel really good as well.
Before you know it, she may stop masturbating you, and use your penis as a “tool”
and stimulate herself!

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 30

It’s really great to watch.

If you want to help her out, you can try pressing your penis on her clitoris (gently)
and move it side-to-side, or up-and-down.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 31

Tip #21: Sensory Deprivation

Have your partner wear a blind fold and ear plugs.

Because her vision and hearing is blocked off, her sense of physical awareness and
sensitivity is heightened. Her sense of TOUCH will be magnified, so whatever
you do to her, she’ll feel it a lot more.

I find it best to use during the entire lovemaking process (from massage to orgasm)

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 32

Tip #22: For WOMEN: Increase Your Orgasm

Intensity by Strengthening Your PC Muscles

One of the main reasons why women have a hard time having an orgasm is
because of weak pubococcygeal (PC, or Pelvic Floor) muscles. These are the
muscles that surround vaginal opening, and are the same muscles a woman uses to
hold in her urine (guys have these muscles too).

When a woman has an orgasm, the PC muscles spasm. However, the problem
comes in when she has weak PC muscles; if there’s an object inside her vagina
(such as your fingers or penis), it’ll be hard for it to spasm at all.

Additionally, weak PC muscles can cause a reduction of sexual pleasure because

the vagina is loose.

On the other hand, if the PC muscles are strong, more blood will flow to the pelvic
region during arousal, it’ll be easier to have an orgasm, and the PC muscles will
contract more strongly. This leads to her having orgasms that last longer and feels
more intense.

On top of that, women with strong PC muscles can clamp down on the penis,
increasing sexual pleasure for both the man and woman, and sometimes develop
the ability to ejaculate!

How do you strengthen your PC muscles? By doing Pelvic Floor Exercises (also
known as “Kegel Exercises”).

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 33

Become More Orgasmic With Pelvic Floor Exercises!

These exercises target the PC (pubococcygeal) muscles and are a powerful way for
you to increase the tightness of your vaginal walls, improve continence, as well as
heightening your sexual awareness and response.

Pelvic Fitness in Minutes a Day

Working out your PC muscles can take as little as 5 minutes, three times a day.
And you get the hang of squeezing your PC muscles, you can do it discreetly just
about anywhere.

These exercises will give you a feel of what it’s like to squeeze your PC muscles.

Every time you go to the bathroom to pee, try to stop the flow of urine when you
are sitting on the toilet. If you can do it, you are using the right muscles. Urinate,
stop, urinate again, stop, and repeat.

Lie down and put your finger inside your vagina. Squeeze as if you were trying to
stop urine from coming out. If you feel tightness on your finger, you are squeezing
the right pelvic muscle.
Once you know what it feels like to squeeze the PC muscles, you can strengthen
them by squeezing the muscles you use to hold back your urine. Hold for two
seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day.

You can perform this exercise in your car, while watching TV, in the office…just
about anywhere…and no one will know!

Some Notes:

Try not to squeeze other muscles at the same time you’re contracting your PC
muscles.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 34

Be careful not to tighten your stomach, legs, or other muscles. Squeezing the
wrong muscles can put more pressure on your bladder control muscles. Just
squeeze the pelvic muscle. Don't hold your breath.

Repeat, but don't overdo it.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 35

Tip #23: For WOMEN: If You Can Orgasm By

Yourself, You Can
Can Orgasm During Sex

If you can already orgasm by yourself, you can orgasm during sex. If you’re not
having an orgasm during sex, it might be the case that you’re putting the
responsibility of your own orgasm on him.

This is a lot of pressure for one guy!

Listen, not all guys are skilled lovers. Some guys are still learning how to do basic
things in bed, while others simply care about their own pleasure.

But whatever the case may be, to have great sex, both people should be happy. To
orgasm, incorporate your own self pleasure during lovemaking.

You can also guide your man on where your hot buttons are and teach him to be a
better lover for you. Who knows, if you guide him to the point where he has
participated in releasing your orgasm, he might feel a sense of accomplishment.
This can lead him down the path of activity learning to become a better lover.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 36

Tip #24: Erogenous Zone Amplification

Whatever you’re doing during love making, you can amplify the effect and bring
her over the tipping point by hitting one of her "hot buttons" at the same time.

For example, if you know that kissing/licking her neck really arouses her, and
you're stimulating her clitoris, try doing it at the same time

The results are typically better than the sum of its parts

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 37

Tip #25: Setting the Stage for Her Next Orgasm

and Getting Her to Want
Sex With You All The Time

Physically, after a woman has an orgasm, her body is cooling down and returning
to her normal, un-aroused state.

Her breast size, clitoris, inner and outer lips return to normal size, and the reddish
“sex flush” is starting to go away…this is Resolution.

Psychologically she’s coming down to her normal mindset…but…it’s in her mind

where you “seal the deal” and guarantee that she’ll be wanting more of you in the
future.

Too many men get so caught up in the performance review of how many times
(and how hard) she came that they lose sight of one of the most critical phase of a
woman’s sexual response – Reflection.

And, for any of you that may believe otherwise – this isn’t an elective, its core
curriculum. Women crave and require it. And men that understand this, and take
advantage of it, have discovered a secret that we touched upon earlier in this book:

The pleasure and satisfaction during one sexual experience doesn’t just end after
the point of orgasm. Smart lovers know that it can be continued on and lead to the
seduction phase of your NEXT intimate encounter.

If, during the period after sex, the experience didn’t seem to offer her pleasure and
satisfaction, she may not even desire to give you the chance for a “rematch”…in
other words, if the sex wasn’t good for her both physically and psychologically,
there’s no reason for her to want to have sex next time around.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 38

To a woman, it’s during the space of time after you’ve cum that shows what you’re
all about – whether you’re considerate, compassionate, intimate or romantic, or if
you’re just a big selfish lug who, minutes after an orgasm, is already asleep and
snoring.

What Are My Options?

When it comes to your post-climax activities, you’ve got about three ready options,
each with their own consequences and rewards. Admittedly, each of these options
has their own time and place, but when it comes to deciding which option you’ll
choose to be your “norm”, consider carefully…

1. Rolling Over and Going to Sleep

A tempting option, I know – especially if you’ve spent the last hour heroically
tending to her sexual needs. But, before you roll over and sleep, you’d better weigh
your options…

Rewards: Well, you get some sleep, and some relaxation, but that’s about it. Sure,
there are times when it’s in order. After a real marathon, if you’re both spent, it can
be ideal. But even when you do go this route, try to snuggle up a bit (if only for a
few minutes) before you start really snoozing.

Consequences: When it comes to your lover, this is about the second worst route
you can go. You definitely do NOT want to make this your normal routine. If you
do, you’ll either lose her respect or her attentions.

2. Getting Up And Doing Something Else

Another option, though perhaps not as tempting as a good nap, is running off to
“seize the day” within moments of your orgasm. To be fair, this response is
associated with the way our chemicals and hormones react after we orgasm.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 39

Once we cum, we’re finally able to STOP thinking about sex and get back to the
more mundane things in life. And though it may help you get your goals
accomplished, she’ll more than likely be left less than pleased.

Rewards: The ego boost of making your lover cum, added to the satisfaction of
your own orgasm can be fantastic fuel to get out there and “Get ‘er done!” You’ll
have a little extra bounce to your step and your mood will be greatly improved, but
maybe not hers…

Consequences: Remember how I said that the last option, falling asleep, was the
second worst option? Well, as far as your lover is concerned, this one is THE worst
option.

Why? Because to some women, hopping right up, getting dressing and running off
can make them feel less like lovers and more like a mere “booty call.” Sure, if both
of you already know that you’ve got plans for the day, or you’re running late for an
appointment, you can let it slide. But, otherwise, for your sake, choose one of the
following two options.

3. After Play

Want your lover to stay madly and completely in love with you?

Then don’t scrimp when it comes to what you do AFTER sex!

To women, what you do after sex really shows her what you’re all about. The little
things give her the small indications about what kind of man you are (and what she
thinks you think about her).

Take the time for a little “after play” and enjoy your after-glow. You’d be amazed
what an extra fifteen minutes can accomplish, so don’t take this opportunity for
granted. So, get ready to snuggle up, share a few kisses and spend a little time
talking, smiling and touching together.

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 40

This allows you to stay “connected” and strength the emotional bonds that lead to a
healthy relationship – sexual, emotional and otherwise.

Tapping into this, and giving her the attention and respect she deserves means that
you’ll have the key to making her want (and want to give) more sex the next time
around.

Simply cuddling, talking, and “being” with her physically and emotionally after
love making…combined with the fact that she thinks you’re responsible for her
orgasms is like making little deposits in the “Desire” account.

The better she feels about her sexual experience with you this time, will create
more desire to be with you next time.

So remember that psychologically during this stage, you’ll want to reinforce the
positive sexual experience she just had, so when the cycle loops back into
“Desire”, she’ll be thinking of you more, be more attracted to you, and want sex
more often.

Not a bad deal for an extra 15 minutes of time, don’t you think?

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.

 41

Conclusion…and What You Need to do Next

I hope you enjoyed these tips! Now, what I want you to do next is to try them out
as soon as you can, and let me know how it worked for you

But I have to be honest here, the tips you just read are just appetizers. My main
course is my manual, The Female Orgasm Black Book.

I’ve written The Female Orgasm Black Book as an instructional guide for men
who are struggling to give women orgasms. I had a horrible experience where my
girlfriend at the time FAKED an orgasm on me…and long story short, I was sick
of being clueless about female sexuality, and through mind-numbing research and
“fingers-deep” trial and error, discovered a system that works to give women
orgasms every time. (You can read more about my story here)

The Female Orgasm Black Book explains a system on how to implement these
techniques during sex (along with many more techniques).

My system shows you why, when, what and how to use various sex techniques to
give women orgasms. It’s truly one of the most comprehensive and hands-on
guide to female orgasms out there.

And when you visit this webpage, you’ll see that I’ve made it easy for you to give
my Female Orgasm Black Book a test drive, so you can find out for yourself if
it’s right for you.

And if it is right for you, you’ll look back on this day as the day that changed
everything…and started you down the path to being the best lover she ever had.

Take care,

© FemaleOrgasmBlackbook.com, All Rights Reserved.