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Gender inequality:
There is a series of attitudes, behaviours and roles that boys and girls are
pressured to adopt (and enact) in the process of becoming men and women in our society.
Some of these are of course learned, and correspond to established stereotypes we
conform to as we become adults. As we will see in the rest of the unit, some of these
stereotypes are also at the root of violence against women.
Learning gender roles
• What does it mean to act ‘like a man’?
• What words or expectations come to mind? (e.g. men don’t cry; men are tough;
etc).
• What does it mean to act ‘like a woman’? What words or expectations do you think
of? (e.g. girls are polite; girls are neat and submissive; etc).
• Where do we learn these gender roles?
• Where else in society do we find these messages?
• What are some situations where you may be pressured to ‘act like a man’ or ‘be a
lady’?
• How might these stereotypes lead to violence?
Global gender inequality Gender inequality starts early and keeps women at a
disadvantage throughout their lives. In some countries, infant girls are less likely to survive
than infant boys because their parents favour the boys and neglect the girls – even though
biologically, infant girls should survive in greater numbers.
Girls are more likely to drop out of school and to receive less education than boys
because of discrimination, education expenses, and household duties.
In 1995, governments around the world signed the Beijing Platform For Action,
promising to take specific action to prevent discrimination against women. Yet today, more
than 40 countries have laws which discriminate against women and treat them as second-
class citizens. In many countries, women are subjected to violence, which the government
does nothing to stop because their laws approve practices like ’honour’ killings, (where a
woman is killed by a family member if she does something which is thought to bring shame
on the family), marital rape and wife beating.
In several countries laws make it more difficult for a woman to be independent
because they restrict women’s property, employment and citizenship rights.
- Out of 1.3 billion people in the world living in absolute poverty, over 70 per cent are
women. - At the present rate of progress, it will take 450 years before women reach
equality with men as senior managers.
- Women hold less than 5 per cent of the top positions in international organisations
like the United Nations and the European Union.
- Of the 150 million children in the world aged 6
-11 who do not attend school, over 90 million are girls. Of 876 million illiterate people
over 15 years in the world, two-thirds are women.
- Worldwide, women’s wages are 30-40 per cent lower than those of men doing
comparable work.
- Average hourly earnings for women working full-time are 18% lower than for men
working full-time in the UK, and for women working part-time, hourly earnings are 40%
lower.
- In 2005 there were 42,832 MPs in the world. 15.7 per cent are women. Only
around 6 per cent of government ministers worldwide are women.
- 500,000 women die each year from causes related to pregnancy and childbirth. -
In the 15-40 age range, 75 per cent more women die than men.
- Some 201 million women, most of them in developing countries, still have no
access to contraceptive services. Meeting their needs would prevent an estimated 23
million. - unplanned births, and 1.4 million infant deaths.
In small groups, read the information sheet Global Gender Inequality and indentify
which factors are a cause of gender inequality, which are a consequence of gender
inequality and which are both a cause and a consequence. Complete the table.
A man abuses his partner. After he hits her, he experiences self-directed guilt. He says,
"I'm sorry for hurting you." What he does not say is, "Because I might get caught." He then
rationalizes his behavior by saying that his partner is having an affair with someone. He
tells her "If you weren't such a worthless whore I wouldn't have to hit you." He then acts
contrite, reassuring her that he will not hurt her again. He then fantasizes and reflects on
past abuse and how he will hurt her again. He plans on telling her to go to the store to get
some groceries. What he withholds from her is that she has a certain amount of time to do
the shopping. When she is held up in traffic and is a few minutes late, he feels completely
justified in assaulting her because "you're having an affair with the store clerk." He has just
set her up.
Verbal Abuse
Verbal and emotional abuse happens a lot but we may not pay as much attention to
it or think it’s as bad as physical abuse.
All of these behaviors are designed to control someone, isolate them and lower their
self-esteem. Even if the person saying or doing them is joking, they are not okay and you
have the right to have your feelings taken seriously.
Think about the emotions you feel when you get jealous:
These emotions have nothing to do with how we feel about our partner or how much
we care about them. Jealousy is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. It’s
completely natural to feel jealous from time to time, but it’s important that it’s resolved with
healthy communication and not used to hurt or control your partner.
• What do you think are some reasons why, people find it difficult to leave
an abusive relationship?
Ending an abusive relationship is not like ending a healthy one. Your abusive
partner may not accept the break up or respect your boundaries. They may try to control
you through guilt trips, threats or insults. Just know that as long as YOU are ok with the
decision, it’s ok if your partner is not. If you're thinking of ending an abusive relationship
What are some tips you should consider?:
• If you don’t feel safe, don’t break up in person. It may seem cruel to break up
over the phone or by email but it may be the safest way.
• If you break up in person, do it in a public place. Have friends or your parents
wait nearby. Try to take a cell phone with you. Don’t try to explain your
reasons for ending the relationship more than once. There is nothing you can
say that will make your ex happy.
• Let your friends and parents know you are ending your relationship,
especially if you think your ex will come to your house or confront you when
you're alone.
• If your ex does come to your house when you’re alone, don’t go to the door.
Trust yourself. If you feel afraid, you probably have a good reason
There are warning signs that an intimate relationship may become abusive. Not all signs
appear in every abusive or potentially abusive relationship, and sometimes there are no
signs. The existence of one or several of these behaviors does not necessarily mean that
a relationship is abusive, but it may signal that the relationship is not healthy. Abusive
behaviors can occur in all spheres of a young person’s life: school, work, home,
community and online
• Extreme jealousy
• Possessiveness
• Frequent put-downs in person or online
• Making fun of the other person in front of friends or online
• Telling the other person what to do
• Explosive temper
• Verbal threats in person or through email or text message
• Preventing the other person from doing what they want to do
• Severe mood swings
• Making false accusations about the other person and/or people the
person spends time with face to face and online
• History of violence
• Isolating the other person from family and friends, both in real life
and online
• Encouraging the other person to block friends and family from friend
lists online
• Seeking fnancial control over the other person
• Questioning the other person about what they are doing, who they are
with, what they are wearing, etc.
• Calling, emailing, or texting the other person every few minutes or at un
reasonable hours to check up on their whereabouts and becoming angry
if they do not immediately respond
• Checking the other person’s cell phone or computer to see who they
have been communicating with (missed calls, emails, voicemail and
text messages)
• Constantly monitoring the other person through any other means
• Deleting any of the person’s friends, photos or messages on social
networks
• Altering online profles without consent
• Using passwords without permission
• Pressuring the other person to send nude photos