interact, negotiate, and create meanings while bringing in their varied cultural backgrounds (Ting-Toomey, 1999) For some scholars, intercultural communication pertains to communication among people from different nationalities (Gudykunst, 2003). Others look at intercultural communication as communication that is influenced by different ethnicities, religions, and sexual orientations. This facet of communication can also be seen as a bargained understanding of human experiences across diverse societies It refers to the sending and receiving of messages across languages and cultures. Developmental Model of Intercultural Sensitivity DMIS offers a structure that explores how people experience cultural differences. According to Bennett and Bennett (2004), it has six stages. These are the following: Stage 1: Denial. The individual does not recognize cultural differences. “All cities are the same; they all have tall buildings, fast food chains, and coffee shops.” Stage 2: Defense. The individual starts to recognize cultural differences and is intimidated by them, resulting in either a superior view on own culture or an unjustified high regard for the new one. “This culture does not view life the way we do; our culture is certainly better.” “Their ways are better than my own; I wish I were one of them.” Stage 3: Minimization. Although individuals see cultural differences, they bank more on the universality of ideas rather than on cultural differences. “Once we see through the cultural differences, we really are just the same!” Stage 4: Acceptance. The individual begins to appreciate important cultural differences in behaviors and eventually in values. “These people and I have different values and experiences, and I think we can learn from one another.” Stage 5: Adaptation. The individual is very open to world views when accepting new perspectives. “To address our issue, I have to adjust my approach to consider both my own and my counterpart’s background.” Stage 6: Integration. Individuals start to go beyond their own cultures and see themselves and their actions based on multifarious cultural viewpoints. “I can look at things from the perspective of various cultures.” Characteristics of Competent Intercultural Communicators World Bank (2010) identifies the following traits that define a competent intercultural communicator. 1. flexibility and the ability to tolerate high levels of uncertainty 2. reflectiveness or mindfulness 3. open-mindedness 4. sensitivity 5. adaptability 6. ability to engage in divergent thinking (or thinking creatively) and systems-level thinking (or thinking how each one in a system or organization influences each other) 7. politeness Refrain from showing bias when talking to someone by following the tips below. 1. Avoid stereotypes, i.e., generalizations about a certain group. 2. Challenge gender norms; avoid using “he” and “man” to refer to a general group of people. To remedy this, you may use plural pronouns or rewrite a sentence to avoid using pronouns. The use of his/her is also acceptable. 3. Do not talk down on younger people and the elderly. 4. Be sensitive to the religious practices of others. 5. Be polite at all times; do not belittle people you perceive to be on a lower social class than you.