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nonsupportive woikplae seem to prolong homo- pretty, kind of a mess”; “I was more masculine,
sexual identity development (1). more independent, more aggressive, more outdoor-
ish” (6).
Similar themes of childhood marginality are
Discussion echoed in the comments of gay males: “I had a
The various theoretic models and research used to keener interest in the arts”; “I couldn’t stand sports,
explain and desqibe the development of homosex- so naturally that made me different. A ball thrown
ual identities share a number of features (1,4). at me was like a bomb’; ‘1 wasn’t interested in lay-
Nearly all of the models view homosexual identity ing girls in the cornfields. It turned me off com-
formation as taking place against a backdrop of pletely “; “I just didn’t feel 1 was like other boys. I
stigma, which heavily influences identity develop- was very fond of pretty things like ribbons and flow-
ment and personal adjustment. Second, homosexual ers and music”; “I was called the sissy of the family.
identities are described as developing over a long I had been very pointedly told thei I was effeminate”
period of time and as involving a number of “growth (6).
points or changes” that may be ordered into a series Research by Bell, Weinberg and Hammersmith (6)
of stages (5). Third, homosexual identity develop revealed that homosexual males were two times
ment involves increasing acceptance of the label more likely than heterosexual controls to report feel-
“homosexual” as applied tc the self. Fourth, lesbi- ing “very much” or “somewhat” different from
ans and gays develop “increasingly personalized other boys during grade school. Lesbians were also
and frequent” social contacts with other homosex- more likely than heterosexual controls to feel “some-
uals over time (5). Fifth, homosexuals typically re- what” or “very much” different from other girls dur-
port an increased desire over time to disclose the ing grade school. Both the lesbians and the gay
homosexual identity to at least some nonhomosex- males typically attributed their feelings of difference
ual audiences. B&use I have discussed and criti- to gender-inappropriate or gender-neutral interests
cized homosexual identity development theory and or behaviors. Only a minority of the lesbians and
research elsewhere (4), discussion is confined here the gay males felt different because of same-sex at-
to a description of the four stages that make up my tractions or homosexual activities.
modek sensitization, identity confusion, identity dS- Although being different and set apart from same-
sumption, and commitment. sex age-mates is a persistent theme in the recollec-
tions of childhood experiences, Bell, Weinberg, and
Hammersmith (7) found that only a minority of gays
The Mod.4 and lesbians started to see themselves as sexually
different before age 12. Fewer still labeled this dif-
Stage 1: Sensitization
ference “homosexual” while children. The socially
The sensitization stage occurs prior to puberty. At created categories of homosexual, heterosexual, and
this time, most lesbians and gay males do not see bisexual hold little or no meaning for children. Chil-
homosexuality as personally relevant. However, gay dren who are “prehomosexuals” rarely if ever won-
males and lesbians typically have experiences during der “Am 1 a homosexual?,” or believe that
childhood that later serve as bases for seeing ho- homosexuality has anything to do with them per
mosexuality as personally relevant, and which lend sonally (8).
support to emerging perceptions of themselves as Because children and early adolescents rarely
possibly homosexual. Sensitization is characterized structure their experiences using the labels of ho-
by generalized feelings of marginahty, perceptions mosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual, it is clinically
of beiig different from same-sex peers. Slightly more useful to focus on the meanings the feelings
more than 70% of the homosexuals in the Bell, Wein- hold for young people and to assist them in inte-
berg, and Hammersmith sample (6), for example, grating these feelings psychologically. When clini-
reported feeling “somewhat” or “very much” dif- cians impose their own sexual categories upon
ferent from same-sex peers during childhood. youths by telling them, for example, “You’re not
The following comments illustrate the forms that really homosexual or bisexual, you just think you
childhood feelings of difference may assume for les- are,” or “You’re not really bisexual or homosexual,
bians: “I wasn’t interested in boys”; “I was more you’re only passing through a phase,” they do not
interested in the arts and in intellectualthings”; “I make the sexual feelings disappear. Instead, other-
felt different: unfeminine, ungraceful, not very imposed judgments invalidate the client’s experi-
March 1988
Table 1. Responses to Identity Confusion (Stage 2) Some adolescents inhibit homosexually associ-
ated behaviors or interests: “I tho
1. D&al: disavow homosexual feelings or actions
2. Repair seek counseling or a “cum”
interest in other &ls would go awa
3. Awidmce: shun situations or behavior that confirm desires attention to boys and concentrated more on
a. inhibit homosexually associated interests, behaviors feminine” (author’s files).
b. limit opposite-sex exposure to avoid discovery Other youths limit their exposure to the opposite
c. limit exposure to information about homosexuality
d. antihomosexual attitudes and actions
e. heterosexual irnmer&m as means of “cure”
f. escapism through drug use and abuse
4. Redefinition:behavior redefined along conventional lines
a. special case strategy (“I’d only do this with you”)
b. ambisexual strategy (“f guess I’m bisexual”)
c, temporary identity strategy (‘This is only a phase”)
d. situational strategy (“It was only experimentation’“) mation about homosexu
5. Acceptance:homoeroticism accepted, more information information may confirm
sought uality: “Your first lecture
Chly a minorityof
to self-define as ho
contact with one or
of same-sex sexua
sexual identity is a v
the homosexual
sexual is probably the most com- Internal indicators. The fusion of same-sex SW-
n strategy (23). Women and men uality and emotionality into a mea
one internal measure of a person’s c
homosexuality as a way of life. Persons of the spme
sex are redefined as legitimate sources of love and
romance as well as sexua
Same-sex romantic prefe
sexuals themselves as differen
sexuals from those who are
is also an extremely common eva- (35).
Anothe measure of
mosexuali y of life is re
March 1988 HOMOSFXJAL lDENTTy DEVELOPMENT 111
ings that homosexuals attach to the homosexual Table 2. Average Ages Adult Homosexuals Recall First
identity. The homosexual subculture encourages Encountering Homosexual Events
both lesbians and gay males to perceive the homo- Event Lesbians Gay males
sexual identity as an “essential” identity, a state of
Same-sex arousal (yr) 14-16 13
being and way of life, rather than merely a form of Same-sex sctivity (yr) 20 15
behavior or sexual orientation (30,35-37). Understand term “homosexual” (yr) 17-18 17
The degree of satisfaction with one’s sexual ori- Suspect self is homosexual (yr) 18 17
entation is a third internal indicator of ~ommitm~:: Homosexualself-definition (yr) 21-23 19-21”
Same-sex love relationship (yr) 22-23 21-24
(38). men Bell and Weinberg (15) asked their sam-
“Come 0uY’ to nonhomosexuals(yr) 28 23-28
ple of homosexuals if they would rem&n homosex-
‘Adolescent gay males recall having self-identified at “1 average
ual even if a magic pill would enable them to become age of 14.
heterosexual, 95% of the lesbians and 86% of the gay
males claimed they would not take the magic pill.
one-third confided in coworkers, and less than one-
Exfernnl indicators. An external indicator of the fifth claimed that their employers were aware of
successful synthesis of same-sex emotioqality and their homosexuality.
sexuality into a meaningful whole is a commitment Those lesbians who disclose their homosexual
to a same-sex love relationship, Lesbians begin identities to nongay friends begin to do so at an
same-gender love relationships between the average average age of 28 years (19); gay males disclose be-
ages of 22 and 23 years-a year or less after they tween the average ages of 23 and 28 years (18,19).
self-define as lesbian (15,19). Gay males typically Gay males who disclose their homosexual identities
enter their first love affairs at slightly older average to their parents do so at age 28 years, on average;
ages (between 21 and 24 years),’ roughly 2 to 5 years lesbians at an average age of 30 years (19). Those
after they self-define as hcmosexual(10,15,18). who come out in professional settings do so at even
Risclosure of the homosexual identity to hetero- later average ages-32 years for lesbians, 31 years
sexual audiences is a second ext&nal indicator of for gqy males (19). The average ages at which les-
commitment to homosexuality as a way of life. bians and gal’ males encounter the homosexual
“Coming out” involves disclosure to an expanding events (e.g., age of first same-sex attraction) asso-
series of audiences ranging from oneself, to other ciated with each stage of identity development are
homosexuals, to heterosexual friends and/or family, summariztid in Table 2.
to coworkers, to employers, on through to being A shift in stigma-management strategies is a third
publicly identified as homosexual by the media (25). external indication of commitment. Blending (4) and
Disclosure of the homosexual identity to nonho- covering (23) replace passing and group alignment
mosexual others typically occurs with increasing lev- as the most common strategies, with a minority opt-
elsbf commitment to homosexuality as a way of life. ing for conversion (23). People who blend act in a
So, health professionals should not expect adoles- gender-appropriate fashion and neither announce
cents to share their homosexual identities openly nor deny their homosexual identities to nonhomo-
with many nonhomosexu&. sexual others. They perceive their homosexuality as
Although homosexual identity development is irrelevant to the worlds of work and immediate fam-
characterized over time by an increasing desire to ily. Women and men whq cover are ready to admit
disclose the homosexual identity to nonhomosexual that they are homosexual (in many cases bec+st: it
audiences, few people disclose their homosexual is obvious or known about), but nonetheless take
identities to all of the people in their environments. great pains to keep their homosexuality from loom-
Instead, they fluctuate “back and forth in degrees ing large. They manage their homosexuality in ways
of openness, depending on personal, social, and meant to demonstrate that they are respectable, al-
professional factors” (39). Slightly more than half of though they may be homosexual.
Bell and Weinberg’s (15) respondents, for example, People who convert are openly homosexual and
came out to some or most siblings or close hetero- confront, rather than evade, the homosexual stigma.
sexual friends, and less than half disclosed the ho- Formally or informally, they attempt to inform the
mosexual identity to their parents. Even greater general public abut the special contributions ho-
discretion was exercised in disclosing the homosex- mosexuals have made to society in hopes of elimi-
ual identity to coworkers and employers. Only about nating oppression through political change (e.g.,
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