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Part 1
- Jesus Christ is introduced, “Behold the man!” His character
was His ultimate accomplishment
- What does moral mean to me? What is a definition I could
give to a young child?
- I am the transmitter of morality to my children. How am I
doing morally now?
- 3:13 – community standards that we all share, for the welfare of society, parents are
the transmitters of these standards to their kids. How we function in are
families determines whether are kids “get it” or not.
- Moses and the burning bush, “I am that I am, if everything
else was unstable or inconsistent there would be at least
one person that is consistent.”
- Deviance: a person knows what the standards are and
deviates from them.
- 7:10 if people know what is right, why don’t they do it? How does morality develop
over time? What are the measurements?
- Dr. Scoresby studied individuals who did highly moral
things and studied their lives to figure out what.
o This could be a reason why President Nelson has asked
YSA to read the biographies of the prophets and to
study the life of Christ
o Director of English Secret Service during WW2
- 12:14 recognize that the time is unique to raise children
o 1. Nature of relationship that children participate in are not as constant as
they used to be
o 2. Today society values don’t match values we teach in our homes, children
experience great contradiction between ideas taught at home and school,
institutions are not reliable
Children are often thrown into contradiction
circumstances where what they were told in one
environment is not the case in another (home,
school, church)
o 3. Shift in our values, they have become short term (grades vs. knowledge)
We are much more prone to talk to are children
about greats rather than knowledge
o 4. Talk of events, versus morality (marry in the temple, go on a mission,
versus helping them develop the morale needed
This is so so so so true! I want to be the parent
that helps my children develop the morals they
need!
“We want you to develop the skills and
conversion necessary to worthily serve a
full-time mission.”
It’s a process, not an event
- The family is a morale environment – there are rules, tasks, and relationships, and
emotional events
- “emotional events are so significant that anything learned in the family is more
memorable and valuable then learned anywhere else”
- Teaching Morality
o 1. Have a shared or agreed upon definition of morality:
o “morality needs to be easy for children to understand, make sense, and have
power or force for children to do something (act upon it)”
o Charity is high morality
o Definition: Any intention or act which helps someone (like charity),
immorality is any intention or act that harms someone.
When you ask most people what morality is they
will say something like “compliance to sex or
rules” What they are not seeing is that rules and
sexual relationships are established to help and
avoid hurting others.
o “Did you help anyone today?” – question to ask children
Do children know what the word help means?
Do children know what the word harm means?
Emotional, mental, and spiritual harm
o How do you get kids to choose what is moral?
o 26:47 when a child commits an immoral act parents commonly say, “You
know better than that.” No they don’t, they’ve heard better than that, that’s
why he is doing it
o What insures that someone acts on what he has been taught?
The context or the circumstance in which the behavior takes place is
the greatest control of human behavior
John the garbage is pilling up (in the
kitchen)
John the garbage is pilling up (at the dump)
Context and circumstance are the difference
o Moral circumstance
4 parts
child (agent) most reason, decide and act
child’s knowledge of rules and standards
child and his/her relationships with others
some tasks that have to be performed in that situation
Social conventions are not moral behavior, they
are social conventions
o know difference between what is moral (harm or help) and what is a social
convention
o Large Harmed or helped in
Sexual behavior
Money and property
Work and school
Self respect or self destruction (suicide, disorders)
Authority relationship
Friendships
Chemicals/drugs
o Children’s first concept of morality are learned from
theirs family orientation toward competence,
relationships with people, and knowledge of moral
standards
o A moral family environment leads to a moral person, some exceptions
A child with a learning disorder, at higher risk in terms of learning
moral behavior
o Kids develop a reaction range. Some are highly
reactive to incoming stimulation (vulnerable children)
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