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A few years ago, I was fortunate enough to attend a family reunion organized at the farm
where my grandmother grew up; much to her dismay, the party’s reception was held in what had
been the hayloft of the barn. It seemed absurd to her that we could be celebrating in a place she
only associated with days of painstaking hard work in stifling heat, the scent of manure, or dust
and plant fibres that cling to your skin. But as I ascended the wooden staircase, I was taken aback
by the beauty of the room: hearty laughter filled the air as adults passed around drinks and
greeted friendly faces. The Wisconsin heat and humidity might otherwise have been oppressive,
but the sides of the loft were open, with dried chamomile hanging in the windows - someone was
strumming a guitar, and to me, the light colored wood and sunlight filtering through high beams
were more reminiscent of a cathedral than a storehouse. Spinning to take it all in, I spotted my
grandmother across the room. Speaking with her sister, they both still seemed perturbed. I
resolved to tell her her what an amazing time I was having, but it was not until later that I
understood what they had both been feeling. Her concern, she explained, was that based on my
experiences that summer, I would hold an overly romanticized view of farm life. Admittedly, I
had fallen in love with the picturesque meadows and friendly, outdoor cats. I was more
impressed, however, by the fact that something she had worked so hard on and dedicated so
much of her life to had not been forgotten, and instead was converted into a place of joy and
Naturally, after that summer, I was indignant that I did not get a chance to complete a
family history project during my junior year, so I took matters into my own hands, and simply
began to ask my grandparents about their lives. My mother’s parents met when they were only
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matured, progressed in my education, and developed stronger opinions, I became acutely aware
of the different ideas and priorities that had motivated my grandparents and shaped the trajectory
of their lives. This ideological contrast developed parallel to the increasingly ubiquitous rhetoric
sociological schools of thought, and informal writing, all of which seemed to betray considerable
resentment between older adults and the generations currently coming of age. This experience
led me to ask the question: What are the societal impacts of conflict and misunderstanding
between generations?
In order to begin examining the effects of intergenerational conflict, one must understand
what a ‘generation gap’ is and how they come to be. In Generation Gap, a Sociological Study of
Inter-generational Conflicts, Ramaa Prasad notes that although the term’s popularity has not
made its meaning easier to pin down, it can be broadly defined as “the difference in value
priorities between two generations that receives the greatest amount of attention in sociological
analysis.” Differences arise because parents act as the primary agents of socialization, but there
comes a time when peer group influence is more dominant and parental values are replaced or
priorities change. Such a challenge to the status quo often precipitates conflict. Though the
predictor, of necessary change (Prasad). Perhaps the apparent inevitability of the transition
arises from the fact that, in general, young people are uniquely suited to bring about change.
They are both inclined and able to do so “for a number of actual, physiological reasons, as well
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as practical ones and cultural ones and psychological ones … To take risks, to avoid stability, to
mutate culture, to make things,” according to author and educator Hank Green. With this in
mind, generation gaps can be understood as a natural result of both individual development and
Likewise, the distinction between age groups and discussion of their relations is not a
recent development. Gordon Welty, of Ohio State University, examined the classical views on
this dynamic, including Aristotle’s assertion that “This relationship was the basis of natural
domination, as the elders 'naturally' ruled the younger -- a domination which he held no one
found disagreeable.” Though not all agreed that the division was necessarily hierarchical in
nature, [many] other social philosophers “recognized that the relationship between the
generations was complex and even contradictory,” (Welty). However, ‘generation gaps’ as we
understand them exist in part due to cultural changes not brought about until the 20th century.
For the better part of human history, people lived lives similar to their parents and grandparents,
and “society was not very mobile. Young people typically lived near their extended families,
worshiped in their childhood churches and often worked on the family farm or in a family
business” (Adcox). With increased urbanization and movement to the cities, and the advent of
television and movies, young people were exposed to cultural influences alien to their families.
In the 1950s, for example, new styles of music: artists like Elvis Presley and James Dean gained
popularity and were adored by teenagers, but abhorred by adults. In the following decades, a
broader rift emerged. Drastic differences between the perspectives of parents and children
stemmed from their respective formative experiences - coming of age during the Great
Depression and WWII as opposed to being raised in relative economic security, for example. The
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Vietnam War, the Civil Rights Movement, and other political upheaval exposed more serious
differences with far reaching effects (Brokaw). Though not every decade has been equally
tumultuous, for better or for worse, parents going forward could reliably expect to raise children
in a world entirely different from the one with which they had grown up.
gain from attempting to create distinct generational identities? John Quiggins, writing for the
New York Times, notes that although we can learn some things from imagining society in terms
of generations, it ultimately inhibits understanding by obscuring the individual factors that shape
Some may argue that the generation game, if intellectually vacuous, is basically
harmless. But dividing society by generation obscures the real and enduring lines
of race, class and gender. When, for example, baby boomers are blamed for
''ruining America,'' the argument lumps together Donald Trump and a 60-year-old
black woman who works for minimum wage cleaning one of his hotels. …or
white millennial college graduates: Yes, they're part of an age cohort that has
experienced worse economic conditions than graduates of the preceding
generation -- but that doesn't give us a particularly meaningful understanding of
their plight, given that they are still better off when it comes to income than the
average non-college-educated worker of any age (Quiggins.)
Likewise, author Audre Lorde argues in a 1980 essay on the history of Western opposition
politics, that ageism and the construction of a defined ‘generation gap’ are “important [social
tools] for a repressive society.” Their shared conjecture rests on the belief that drawing
difference which inhibits the formation of enduring alliances between marginalized groups. In
addition to serving as a distraction from more meaningful inequities, she posits, resentment
between age groups prevents the beneficial exchange of information. That is, “If the younger
members of a community view the older members as contemptible or suspect or excess, they will
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never be able to join hands and examine the living memories of the community… This gives rise
to a historical amnesia that keeps us working to invent the wheel every time we have to go to the
store for bread” (Lorde). Her observation suggests that in order to seek meaningful answers to
some of today’s most pressing challenges, young people should consider, and use to their mutual
There is also evidence to suggest that as Americans, we have a lot to learn from cultures
that have learned to emphasize reciprocal interdependence between generations in their efforts
to actualize sustainable and productive civic policies. Take, for instance a study published in the
Journal of Urban Economics. Researchers conducted a survey of data regarding support for
public school spending initiatives among voters of different age cohorts which found that support
for statewide school spending steadily declined with age, although older voters are more likely to
support local spending on schools than statewide initiatives (Brunner). The researchers outline
two possible explanations for the pattern, indicating that “the capitalization of local spending
into housing values and a [nominal] measure intergenerational altruism” are likely factors in
preserving some measure of support among older voters for local school spending. In either case,
the data reveals that a political and economic decisions can be heavily influenced by a lack of
empathy among separate age brackets. Similarly, when it comes to issues like climate change,
such short sightedness creates a debilitating political inertia (Grote), and when policy decisions
are made without regard for consequences that will only affect future generations, the
But just as older populations can be less willing to sacrifice for or invest in the future,
young people exhibit a concerning lack of empathy for or interest in aging community members.
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About the effects of this, Victoria Ryan, Director at Love Is the Answer, a Contra Costa County
based nonprofit that works with assisted living facilities to provide entertainment and enhance
patient care, explained that the majority of incoming volunteers in the sector are fulfilling a
court- appointed service requirement, and rarely maintain the engagement for a significant period
of time. This prevents them from forming relationships with the residents, undermining the
quality of the assistance and program outcomes. Moreover, assisted living facilities in the US are
characteristically underfunded, understaffed, and overcrowded. Ryan maintains that the sector
“suffers from [overcrowding] simply because it is operated for profit” but that “regulations
regarding spending per patient and staff member are rendered meaningless without dedicated
pattern. A study conducted in India by the Agewell Foundation found that 83% of elderly
citizens in the city of Delhi and the contiguous area were suffering from the effects of isolation;
44% were reported to have no interaction at all with family members or other groups (Chandra).
Much like young people can feel ignored by adults who hold more power, senior citizens face
Generational divides can also manifest themselves, and create tensions, within subgroups
of society. According to Mark Harris, author of "The Gay Generation Gap", cynicism is
prevalent among older gay men and women, who feel their their younger counterparts are
“profoundly ungrateful for the political and social gains we spent our own youth striving to
obtain for them.” His biggest wish for both halves of the gap? More communication about the
past and present. Especially because, as he comments in an interview with NPR correspondent
Guy Raz, “I don't think it's fair for people my age, for whom AIDS was … something that
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happened in the world and that we experienced in real time, to blame a younger generation for
experiencing it as history.” Additionally, Harris ventures that although a notable ‘generation gap’
within marginalized communities can cause them to appear fractured to outsiders, this
phenomenon can actually be an indicator of positive change: that the opportunity to argue
amongst themselves about seemingly negligible differences, is a privilege and a sign that the
For most Americans, however, the term ‘generation gap’ likely calls to mind images of a
family: disgruntled parents and aloof, cell-phone wielding teens seated around a table, perhaps
joined by a grandparent, prattling on about the good old days. Naturally, generational differences
Hanson MA., a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Walnut Creek, generation gaps
within the context of a family are exacerbated when communication is lacking: “... I often hear
teenagers say, for example, ‘well my parents just wouldn't get it’ or ‘they just don’t
understand.’” This, she feels, is indicative of a perception that it would be futile to try and
explain things to their parents, and vice versa. Alternately, Hanson notes that if you skip a
generation, as in the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, those involved might
exhibit more patience and tolerance. She attributes the difference to a greater inclination to try to
understand one another and curiosity about the others experiences, whereas with parents,
differing priorities come into play more often, creating significant discord. The subsequent
frustration arising from unassailable differences affects both parties - elders may feel neglected
and become more isolated, while offspring grow resentful and rebel against the strictures of
previous lifestyles. Over time, the pattern of disagreement has contributed to a rise in the number
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arrangements (Ruggles). While the shift in our dominant conceptualization family structures is
not inherently a bad thing, it speaks to the power that generational identities have had to motivate
our decisions.
Evidence suggests that that generation gaps are a natural and necessary part of society
unless culture is to remain stagnant. However, the wide rifts and acrimonious disputes we often
experience can be avoided if both sides seek to cooperate with open minds. As Mrs. Hanson
suggests, we should strive to “not have limiting opinions … In other words, if want to learn
from each other, we must learn to defend our perspectives without forgetting how to actually
listen.” Historians will also point out that knowledge gained through experience is irreplaceable,
and we would be remiss to continue disregarding lessons already learned by our predecessors.
There are also altruistic benefits to engaging with populations outside your constituent age
group, whether ensuring a brighter future for posterity, or alleviating feelings of isolation during
old age, or fostering solidarity among marginalized communities. Though each of those goals
presents a formidable challenge, I feel assured that relationships similar to the kind that I share
with my grandparents demonstrate that closing the gap between seniors and teenagers can help to
facilitate the exchange of valuable wisdom, strengthen community ties, and diminish ageism.
I felt especially drawn to this topic as the point of inquiry for my senior project because
as graduates, we dedicate a significant portion of our time to making plans; for most of us, we’ll
pursue goals driven by a desire to solve problems facing our world. The first piece of the puzzle
though, I believe, is understanding. As a lover of history, I spend a great deal of time thinking
about how the decisions made by our predecessors - from parents, to presidents, to distant
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ancestors - have shaped every aspect of the world we live in today. Though sometimes their
legacies are problematic, we must strive to reconcile the fact that while previous generations’
mistakes influence our day to day lives, in order to create a future we can be proud of, we must
also recognize when we have seen further by standing on the shoulders of giants, and learn from
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Mar. 2018
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Green, Hank. “Dear Young People, You Terrify Me.” YouTube. Captions by Isobelle Howell and
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Harriss, Mark. “‘Gay Generation Gap’ Emerges.” NPR. 28 June 2018.
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