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HW410 Stress: Critical Issues in


Management and Prevention

Stress
Management and
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Program Resource
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KA P L A N U N I V E R S I T Y

Stress Management and Prevention


Program Resource Guide

By

Sara Barry

Kaplan University

HW410: Stress: Critical Issues in Management and Prevention

12/14/2015
Total Points = 2
Table of Contents
UNIT 1 THE NATU RE OF STRESS

Information to Remember........................................................................3
Self-Assessment Exercises.......................................................................4
Journal Writing.........................................................................................6

UNIT 2 THE PHYSIO LOGY OF STRESS

Information to Remember........................................................................8
Self-Assessment Exercises.......................................................................9
Journal Writing.......................................................................................10

UNIT 3 PSYCHOLOGY OF STRESS

Information to Remember......................................................................14
Self-Assessment Exercises.....................................................................15
Journal Writing.......................................................................................17

UNIT 4 PERSONAL ITY TRAITS AND THE HUM AN SPIRITUAL ITY

Information to Remember......................................................................19
Self-Assessment Exercises.....................................................................20
Journal Writing.......................................................................................23

UNIT 5 DEAL ING WITH STRESS: COPING STRATE GIES

Information to Remember......................................................................26
Journal Writing.......................................................................................27

UNIT 6 REL AXATIO N TECHI QUES 1 : BREATHI NG , M EDITATI ON,

AND M ENTAL IM AGE RY

Information to Remember......................................................................29
Self-Assessment Exercises.....................................................................30
Journal Writing.......................................................................................32

UNIT 7 NUTRITI ON AND STRESS

Information to Remember......................................................................36
Self-Assessment Exercises.....................................................................37
UNIT 8 PHYSIC AL EXERCISE AND ACTIV ITY

Information to Remember......................................................................39
Self-Assessment Exercises.....................................................................40
Journal Writing.......................................................................................42

UNIT 9 APPLYING STRESS: CRITICAL ISSUES F OR M ANAGEM EN T

AND PREVE NTIO N TO YOUR PROF ESSI ONAL L IF E

Information to Remember......................................................................45

ADDITI ONAL INF ORM ATIO N

REF EREN CES


Place your final page numbers on the right hand side of this line.49 pages in total

Total Points = 8

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Unit

Unit 1: The Nature of Stress


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
When looking at the nature of stress, it must first be defined. Stress is the experience of a

perceived threat, whether real or imagined, to one’s mental, physical or spiritual well-being,

resulting in a series of physiological responses and adaptations (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Walter Cannon first coined the fight or flight response. This response describes the body’s

response to the arousal of a threat. Either the body prepares to attack or defend (fight), or it

prepares to run (flight). The two main hormones associated with this response are epinephrine

and norepinephrine (Seaward, 2015).

Particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3 sentences
per key learning point with a reference cited properly
There are three main types of stress. Eustress is known as good stress. This type of stress arises

in circumstances that make someone feel motivated and inspired. An example of this type of stress

could be falling in love. Neustress is described in relation to situations that are perceived as

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neither good nor bad. I like to remember this type of stress as neutral stress. The last type of stress

in distress. This is bad stress, or just simply stress. There are two types of this type of stress.

Acute stress is described as stress that comes on intensely and quickly but goes away in the same

manner. This stress doesn’t last long and the body is able to recover from it in a timely manner.

Once the threat is gone, the body returns to homeostasis. An example could be seeing a cop car in

your rear view mirror and realizing you are being pulled over. Chronic stress may not come on as

intensely, but it tends to linger for a certain period of time. An example of this is having financial

problems. All types or stress are very damaging to the mind, body and spirit. The effects can cause

long term effects such as illness, disease and even death. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

The four components of the wellness paradigm are; Mental well-being, Physical well-being,

Emotional well-being and Spiritual well-being (Seaward, 2015). The body identifies most

with a state of homeostasis or, complete balance. Believing that if all the components of the

wellness paradigm are being put into practice equally, we can achieve that which is required to

handle any stressful situations that come our way (Seaward, 2015).

Mental well-being- The ability to process, recall and communicate information

(Seaward, 2015).

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When we are stressed, the circuits in our brain that control thought processes don’t function as

properly and can cause and “overload” effect, making it hard for us to make sound decisions,

process them, recall them and communicate them (Seaward, 2015).

Physical well-being- Optimal function of our physiological systems. These may include

the cardiovascular, digestive and reproductive system (Seaward. 2015).

The body searches and functions best in a state of homeostasis. This particular state of balance

is said to create complete connection in the mind and body. Stress can throw this balance off

and after prolonged amount of time, can cause illness and disease (Seaward, 2015).

Emotional well-being- The ability to feel and express a full range of emotions and

control them, not be controlled by them (Seaward, 2015).

Anger and fear are common stressors. Often working together, they can cause stress and

anxiety and alter our brain chemistry and emotional circuits that help control this state of

imbalance. Prolonged alteration can cause mental paralysis, resulting in conditions such as

depression (Seaward, 2015).

Spiritual well-being- The state of mature higher consciousness stemmed from a

meaning relationship with yourself, others, a good value system and a meaningful

purpose in life (Seaward, 2015).

Stress and stressful situation can inhibit the ability for faith and growth. It can stop making us

want to believe in our hopes and our dreams. I can cause is to close doors to our future

spiritually and close our minds to a higher power and purpose. We will stop reaching for the stars

(Seaward, 2015).

It is important to note that all of these pieces need to work together. In my opinion, no one

piece is more valuable than the other because no piece can stand alone. They all need and rely

on each other to complete the paradigm of wellness. Completion is the ultimate goal. Completion

is health and happiness, physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.

I am a single mother. I work full time at a job that does not pay enough money. I have no family

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Here to help me with the emotional support I could use on a daily basis. My daughter has a

father, but he does not respect me as a mother, or as a person. On top of that, he and my

daughter struggle with their relationship all the time. I really have to try an rely on all aspects of

the paradigm to help me get through things such as being disrespected or ignored by him, as

well as having to give her to him when she doesn’t want to go.

I deal with a lot of physical reactions such as lack of sleep and digestive issues. I think these

issues are due in part to the emotional and mental stress this causes me on a daily basis. Even

though I experience physical, emotional and mental symptoms I have to believe that everything

will work out somehow, someway. I have to rely on my spiritual well-being. I know the

universe has a plan. All I have to do is believe and it will happen. I am heard, and my prayers

will be answered.

Creating balance is not easy, but there are moments that I feel totally at peace. Is that the

sound of hope or faith a saying I should still trust in the process? I don’t know but I hope and

believe so. Sometimes, that is all we need to know.

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited properly (Stahl & Goldstein,
2010). Total Points = 3
Situation Start Midway End
Money 9
My daughter’s struggles with her father (having to give 8
him time with her).
Having to receive help from my mother, financially. 8
Getting older 7
Not being able to balance my life. 7
Getting bad feedback from a guest at work 7
Not having enough time/energy in the day 7
Being a waitress forever 7

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Disappointing my daughter 8
Having a messy house 7

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Unit

Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Unit 2: The Physiology of Stress


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).
The autonomic nervous system is main up of the sympathetic (arousal) system and the

parasympathetic (relaxed) nervous system. Both are part of the central nervous system, and are

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responsible for the automatic or naturally occurring functions such as breathing and heart rate. Both

the sympathetic and parasympathetic systems are activated by the hypothalamus (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).
Serotonin and melatonin are not stress hormones however, they are associated with mood. Serotonin

is a neurotransmitter. Low levels of serotonin are associated with increased bouts of depression.

Melatonin is a hormone secreted in the brain associated with sleep, mood and several other aspects of

physiology and consciousness (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Neuroscience is the study of the structure and function of the nervous system. Neuroplasticity is the

brains ability to change and adapt to the way we think and feel. The brain is constantly being filtered, like

pictures on a phone. When the memory is full we have to delete or save some of the photos in a special

archive. The brain is needs to have space to continue to grow and evolve. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

Five diseases that occur when the nervous system is affected by


stress.
Bronchial Asthma is an illness produced by secretion of bronchial fluids that cause swelling of the

smooth muscle-tissue of a large pathway in the lungs called the bronchi. This swelling causes a

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choking effect and makes the individual fell as if they can’t breathe. These attacks often need

hospitalization, and can lead to death. Some studies have linked asthma attacks t anxiety, while

other have linked them to an over protective childhood (Seaward, 2015).

Tension Headaches are produced by contractions of the fore head, eyes, neck and jaw. Pain

associated with tension headaches is due to the increased stimulation of these muscles. Low

back pain occurs in a similar process (Seaward, 2015).

Migraine Headaches are a vascular headache. The name migraine means “half of the skull”. The

pain associated with migraines often occurs on the right or left side of the head, not both

(Seaward, 2015). Migraines are said to be caused by a rapid constriction followed by a rapid

dilation. This change in pressure. Combined with hormones, is said to be the cause of pain.

Symptoms can include flash of light, dizziness and nausea. Migraines actually don’t occur as a

result of a stressor, but hours later. Migraines are said to be caused by the inability to express

anger and frustration (Seaward, 2015).

Temporomandibular Joint Dysfunction, (TMJD) is an excessive contraction of the jaw muscle.

People are often unaware of this condition until seeing a dentist. Dentists can identify signs of

clenching and grinding of the teeth. Other symptoms may include popping sounds when

chewing, muscle pain, earaches and tension headaches. Like migraines, TMJD is associated with

the inability to express anger. Other causes of TMJD include excessive gum chewing, resting

one’s head in one’s hand and nail biting (Seaward, 2015).

Irritable Bowel Syndrome is characterized by repeated abdominal pain, cramps, diarrhea, nausea

and constipation, although symptoms vary from person to person, this stress related disorder is

commonly associated with anxiety and depression. One reason being that IBS is so closely

related to stress is that the hypothalamus, which controls the appetite, also deals with emotional

regulation as well (Seaward, 2015).

One disease that occurs when the immune system is affected by stress.

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Ulcers and Colitis (endogenous over reaction). Ulcers are known as holes in the stomach caused

by an imbalance in mucosa and digestive enzymes that help breakdown the foods that we eat.

This imbalance actually caused the stomach to begin to eat itself. This causes a hole, known as

an ulcer. Ulcers were one of the first five diseases associated with stress. These same principles

of inflammation causing ulcerations caused by stress, have also been related to colitis as well

(Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points = 3
How is stress or anxiety about people affecting your life?

As I have talked about recently, my daughter’s father probably causes me the most stress and

anxiety. I hate the way he treats her and me as well.

While he causes me negative stress, she is the light of my life and any stress that I get from her

is always, good stress.

I have no family here so that is often very stressful. It’s not so much the physical support I

crave, though I would love to have a built in baby sitter, it is the emotional support I crave. I

wish my mom or some other family member could come over, look me in the eyes and tell me I

am not alone, and everything will be alright.

I have realized recently that I surround myself with a lot of negative people. The people I work

with for example, act as if there is no solution to any problem and everything is doomed to fail.

This causes a lot of added stress because I feel like I have to the cheerleader of the group.

How is stress or anxiety about work affecting your life?

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I work as waitress in a restaurant. It is stressful dealing with guest complaints, especially when I

know they are going to be dissatisfied no matter what I do. Also, it is a very slow time of year,

and I am not making much money at all. On top of that, the lack of business gives me too much

time to think, stress and worry about a lot of other questions in the assignment. Lastly, I work

with very young people and I feel often that I have “out grown” my job. I want to work with

people my own age who are positive, happy and energetic.

How is stress or anxiety about the world affecting your life?

The world in my opinion is a mess. Between the fighting, natural disasters and the economy, it

seems to be falling apart. Everything is becoming more expensive, making the cost of living

higher than ever. I worry about not only how I am going to survive sometimes, but what is the

future going to look like for our children?

How is stress or anxiety about food and eating habits affecting your life?

Food causes me a lot of stress, both physically and mentally. It causes me stress physically,

because I have a lot of digestive issues. I have tried all sorts of elimination diets but nothing

seems to help enough to eliminate my symptoms. I call myself food intolerant. These issues

really get uncomfortable when I am in public, because people will ask me why I not eating the

nachos, I wish they would just let it go.

Food causes me stress and anxiety mentally because I am an emotional eater. I turn to food for

comfort. I find myself constantly thinking about food. I can go the entire day without eating

anything and then at night I can’t stop. Sometimes I don’t even remember what I have eaten

the next day. Food is definitely a big stressor for me. It is a love hate relationship for sure.

How is stress or anxiety about sleep and sleeplessness affecting your life?

Sleep for me is a struggle. I don’t have any trouble falling asleep. I am so tired by the end of the

day, I often fall asleep sitting up. If I can stay awake, I have a cup of chamomile tea and fall

right to sleep. It’s staying asleep that is the problem. Once I wake up the thoughts and lists

worries and anxieties come rushing into my head, I begin to obsess about them and just can’t

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turn them off. The next thing I know it is morning, and I have to get my daughter to school. I

can’t really remember the last time I had a good night’s sleep.

How is stress or anxiety about exercise or lack of physical activity affecting your life?

I try and make exercise a priority. I belong to a gym and I love running. I also take a cardio

dance class 2-3 times a week. The mental release is my biggest motivation. Exercise helps me

get through my day by giving me focus and energy. Also it relieves a lot of my stress and

anxiety about things happening, or not happening in my life. This release helps bring back into

focus the important things, like my beautiful daughter. Lastly, when I am exercising regularly, I

make better food choices and sleep better as well. Exercise is my therapy.

Summary

I have always thought about journaling. I have for a few specific events like my miscarriage, the

loss of my job and my relationship. All of these events happened very close together and were

hard to handle individually, yet alone together.

This assignment has helped me focus not only specific stressors in my life, but how they are

effecting my life, over all. I see that that I have a lot of issues to focus on and give attention to.

That’s just it, I am always focusing on others and not myself. Whether it’s my daughter, or my

whinny co-workers, I always put everyone else first. The only thing I really have to call my own

are my workouts. Maybe that’s why they are so important to me and give me so much

satisfaction.

I am always trying to lift everyone’s spirits and be the happy positive one. It’s exhausting and

very stressful. Sometimes, I feel disingenuous because I am acting happy and overjoyed, and I

don’t really feel that way at all. The scales are definitely tipped to one side right now and it’s not

Sara. I have to make myself more of a priority, so I can have strength to help me eliminate

some of my stress.

Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

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New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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Unit

Unit 3: Psychology of Stress


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).
Elizabeth Kubler Ross believed that there are 5 stages of grief: Denial, Anger, bargaining,

depression and finally acceptance. There is no time limit on how long we stay in any stage

and often we repeat stages before reaching acceptance (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).
Fears are often caused by a conditioned response rather than that of a particular occurrence

or event. There are two main types of fear, rational and irrational. Rational fears are those

that stem from overwhelming anxiety based on a false perception. Rational fears are those that

are useful and based on fact rather than perception. An example may be a fear of poisonous

snakes (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3 sentences
per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).

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Total Points = 9
Being a good listener is an important skill in communication. Being a good listener requires you

to really pay attention to what is being said. Some good ways to ensure that the speaker is being

heard include, making good eye contact, summarize content and provide feedback (Seaward,

2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

The Tibetan culture believes that stress is caused as a result of desires with strong attachments.

Though it is natural and quite common for us all to have positive desires (love, peace, happiness

etc.), this culture believes that sometimes the desires become unreasonable and the

expectations associated with them become negative. This is a result of the inner conflict between

the “Self” or the higher and true self and the “self” the false and ego driven self. This internal

conflict is what causes stress. By lowering expectations and conditions of desires, a balance can

be created, stress will be eliminated and inner peace can then be achieved (Seaward, 2105).

All of the theorists believe that stress is the result of a threat presented by internal or external

situations. Our mind then creates ways to help us deal with the stress. The strategies developed

are designed to help protect the mind from the pain and danger associated with the emotional

outcome of the event (Seaward, 2015).

Though some perspectives are more direct like Freud’s defense mechanisms designed to protect

the ego, or Kubler Ross’s stages of grief, they all believe that stress is caused by some

unresolved inner conflict (Seaward, 2015).

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Along with the common views in where and how stress originates, the concepts of self-

awareness and self- acceptance are a common ground can help us develop healthy and positive

ways to cope with the stressors in our lives. Coping strategies by using inner resources, are the

best way to eliminate stress and achieve inner peace (Seaward, 2015).

One way to resolve fear is the psychoanalytical approach. This approach focus on repressed or

suppressed memories of events that happened in out childhood (Seaward, 2015). An example

might be someone forgetting they were molested by their father. This mind, as we know is very

powerful, and can actually suppress the memory so we don’t have a recollection until the door is

unlocked, during psychotherapy sessions. This repression is said to be the cause of the anxiety

and fear (Seward, 2015).

A second option is behavioral therapy. This approach involves the individual engaging in

coping and relaxation techniques to help desensitize the individual to the stressor (Seaward,

2015). Further work involved systemic desensitization and exposer desensitization which

involved actually exposing the individual to the stressor in small amounts (Seaward, 2015).

The first way to improve communication skills is by using good eye contact. Good eye contact is

essential for good listening. By looking at someone’s eyes, you appear focused on what they are

saying. Wondering eyes suggest wondering thoughts. Also, good eye contact shows respect

(Seaward, 2015).

Another way is by having good body language. Such as crossing your legs away from the other

person. This suggests you are uninterested and even bothered by their company. Also crossing

your arms suggests that you are closed off and defensive. Body language is very important so

make sure your conveying an approachable and open message to the other person (Seaward,

2015).

The act of connecting with the other person is a fourth way to improve communication. Find

something in common. Finding common ground can help you to connect in a real and genuine

way. It is important though to stick to non-confrontational topics like sports, favorite hang outs

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and hobbies. Stay away from controversial topics such as, politics, gender equality and race

(Seaward, 2015).

A final way to improve communication is to stay focused. Have a particular goal or topic in

mind and discuss only things that pertain to that subject. Talking about too many things at once

can make you sound disorganized and unprepared. Also it is likely without out a specific focus,

the other person will become overwhelmed and disinterested in the conversation all together

(Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points = 3

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Unit Three Journal Writing Assignment : Complete the Journal

Assignment entitled: Five-Minute Mindful Breathing and

Bringing the Eight Attitudes of Mindfulness into Your Life.

Directions are found on pages 45 and 46 of the Mindfulness

workbook. Upon completion of this Assignment, you will

begin to understand the importance of making them a part of

your daily life. See what changes occur in relationships with

yourself and others around you. This should be a minimum

of one full page.

This mediation practice was a new experience for me. I found it difficult to relax and center my

mind. It kept wandering. It was a little like a game of tug of war in my head. One thing that I

found interesting however, was a physical reaction I felt.

I know that I carry a lot of stress with me on a daily basis. I have very little support here, as I

have talked about and, I often mentally feel like I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders.

During the mediation, I could actually feel the weight I carry on my shoulders. It was like

nothing I have ever experienced before. It felt as if someone was actually pushing on them.

Summary

Mediation can help you connect to your body and mind at the same time. I have always believed

that they are connected, and that if you are doing well for your body, you are doing well for your

mind. But what I am learning is that sometimes your body and mind, though very much

connected, experience very different reactions to stress. For example my mind says yes, I’m

stressed about various situations, but I can handle them. My body clearly says differently. I

could literally feel the weight on my shoulders, something my mind chooses not to share

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Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

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Unit

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Unit 4: Personality Traits and the Human


Spirituality
Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly keep
Learning to become assertive will help us to not engage in activities that we don’t want to,

therefore reducing our stress levels. One important key point when trying to execute assertive

behavior is to use I statements. This puts the focus on your opinion and thought rather than on

the other person involved in the conversation or even conflict. This is a good way to claim

ownership of your feelings. This helps keep the communication open and your voice heard,

without making the other person feel attacked or misunderstood (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3 sentences
per key learning point with a reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015).

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Human spirituality refers to having a connection with someone or something outside of immediate

connections such as one with the self, family and even close friends. Believing in a higher power.

The power of the universe for example, can broaden the belief system therefore creating a more

positive and optimistic view of the world as a whole (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
The Hopeless- Helpless personality is a stress prone personality. This personality type always

has a negative outlook on life. They have poor self-motivation and poor coping skills. They’re

pessimistic and resistant personality prevents them from accomplishing goals and moving

forward. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

Self-esteem and the role it plays in promoting and resolving stress.

Levels of self-esteem have a great impact on individuals despite the personality traits they might

possess. This being said, low self-esteem is commonly found in stress prone personalities and

higher self-esteem stress resistant personalities (Seaward, 2015). This is because a lot of stress

resistant personalities deal with using inner resources to resolve conflict. Self-esteem is

described as self-, actual self-image and ideal self-image. Where high self-esteem is the

harmony between the two, low self-esteem is the distance between the two (Seaward, 2015).

Self-esteem can really have an impact on an individual’s stress levels. People with low self-

esteem especially are more venerable and more easily influenced by other’s thought and

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opinions. They are often focused on self-image and have little self-confidence. This lack of belief

in themselves can make them feel inferior and powerless, adding a great deal of stress to their

lives (Seaward, 2015).

Relationships, values and meaningful purpose of life are all affected by stress.

Stress and stressful situations are a natural part of life. Having relationships both internally and

externally can help one feel connected with both themselves and the people outside of

themselves. Stress levels are often a factor of this connectedness and spiritual belief. Whether

the individual is leaning on their inner resources and power, designed to help cope with conflicts

that cause stress, or talking to their relative about a problem, or even praying to a higher power,

stress and overall health and wellness can improve just by this level of connection (Seaward,

2105).

An individual’s values are important to set standards for what they believe is right of them. It we

are living according to our values, we are connected to the honesty behind them (Seaward,

2015). If we are living a true life and honest life there is much less conflict and struggle,

therefore less stress. Authenticity is key (Seaward, 2015).

Believing there is a purpose for us all is the world can really add value and meaning to life.

Connecting with the universe can be a very powerful thing to experience. This added sense of

power can really help give confidence as well as peace to all of us. We are here for a reason and

we are going to believe in that purpose until the end of our journey. Really inspiring and moving

statements like that can help us keep moving forward in life, making us feel happier, confident

and much less stressed (Seaward, 2015).

Differences between attitudes, beliefs and values.

Attitudes are way an individual reacts to something. Like an attitude about religion and god. This

attitude may have come from various places. How we feel about something affects our attitude

toward it, which can be seen through our reaction or behavior (Seaward, 2015).

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A belief is something that we feel to be true. A belief can be formed in many different ways.

Some beliefs come from outside influences. Some beliefs can be formed from personal

experience. Beliefs often start out as opinions, meaning they are more surface level and can

often change. A belief can only be called as such when it is truly accepted and the individual is

willing to protect and defend it. It must be a part of one’s core belief system (Seaward, 2015).

Values are classified as peoples stable and long lasting beliefs of what is important to an

individual. Such as the value of an education. A lot can depend on this value. How did the

individual grow up? What education important? Was success achieved by other family members?

How we see the world and the things in it can really affect our values. Like a belief, a value is

established in the core of one’s self (Seaward, 2015).

Prochaska’s stages of change model.

If someone was making a decision to implement regular exercise into their life they would go

through various stages of change, to achieve this goal (Seaward, 2015).

The first stage is the contemplative stage. In this stage, the individual would see the benefits of

adding exercise into their daily routine, and be thinking about it, but not committing to the idea

quite yet. The though is still a little distant (Seaward, 2015).

The next stage is the determination stage. In this stage the individual would be ready to call on

willpower and turn the though into action. They would be ready to begin to implement exercise

into their lives (Seaward, 2015).

The third stage is the action stage. This stage shows the individual is committed and has begun

to set goals and exercise those goals toward exercise. Action is being taken toward desire of

change (Seaward, 2015).

The fourth is the maintenance stage. In this stage exercise has become a regular part of the

individual’s life and is executed regularly without reservations or fear of going back to not

exercise. It has become a natural response (Seaward, 2015).

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Even though the individual has adapted this change, relapse can occur. In this stage the

individual may take a few steps back. For example they might take a week off of exercise and

fall out of their regular routine, making it hard to go back. If this occurs it’s important to forgive

and do better the very next opportunity that arise. Relapse can be remedied as fast as in can

occur. We are all human.

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points

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FEAR: apprehension, anxiety, distress, edginess, jumpiness, nervousness, panic,

tenseness, uneasiness, worry, fright, feeling overwhelmed.

When performing the meditation I did notice that I was feeling tense and

anxious. I was having a really hard time concentrating and staying present and this

was making me feel a little overwhelmed.

CONFUSION: bewildered, uncertain, puzzled, mystified, perplexed, chaotic, foggy, or

unaware.

I was finding this practice made me feel a little uncertain. I was having a hard

time connecting my mind and body, so I wasn’t really sure I was performing the

meditation correctly.

ANGER: aggravation, agitation, annoyance, destructiveness, disgust, envy, frustration,

irritation, grouchiness, grumpiness, rage.

I was getting a little frustrated during the practice. I was having a really hard

time staying focused and present. I kept drifting off to other thoughts and that was

frustrating me.

SADNESS: alienation, anguish, despair, disappointment, gloom, grief, hopelessness,

insecurity, loneliness, misery, unhappiness, rejection.

I felt a little disappointed that I was having a hard time with the practice. Am I

just not capable of doing this correctly?

SHAME: guilt, embarrassment, humiliation, invalidation, regret, remorse, mortification.

I was not feeling any of these emotions during the practice.

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LOVE: affection, arousal, attraction, caring, compassion, desire, fondness, infatuation,

kindness, liking, longing, warmth, sympathy, sentimentality.

I was not feeling any of these during the practice.

JOY: amusement, bliss, contentment, eagerness, elation, enjoyment, enthusiasm,

excitement, exhilaration, hope, optimism, pleasure, satisfaction.

I was feeling some hope and optimism. I really like the idea of trying to really relax

and condition your body and mind to do this. I feel this would be very beneficial

in my life, especially in times of stress and anxiety.

Summary

Since starting this class I have really tried to focus on mind and body connection. I have noticed

lately at the gym I have been focusing on my mind so much and forgetting my body. Therefore,

I cannot move the next day.

Getting in touch with this concept through meditation is definitely a challenge for me. I have a

really hard time staying present. I could feel a lot of tension in my neck and a heaviness in my

chest, but it was hard to identify emotions at the same time. I think that I think too much during

the practice and forget to let go and allow everything to just be.

Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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Unit

Unit 5: Dealing with Stress: Coping Strategies


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Cognitive reframing refers to the concept of taking a negative situation and reprocessing it as a neutral

one, without denying the situation. For example if you lost your job, you can’t deny that but you can

say that it happened for a reason and a better one will come along. This thinking process will in turn

make you feel better and less stressed not necessarily about the present, but the future. (Seaward,

2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Laughter is really the best medicine. Laughter can lighten a situation and reduce stress. One great

way to assure you always have some type of positive influence to turn to is to have a Tickle

Notebook. Fill this book with jokes, love notes, favorite quotes and passages, good dreams etc.

basically anything that makes you feel happy. Then when negativity and stress present themselves

you have a great resource that will remind you that this too shall pass (Seaward, 2015).

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Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
It is important to prioritize your tasks. Often times procrastination which is avoiding task that need to

be accomplished, don’t get done because you are overwhelmed about all the tasks that need to be

accomplished. They are just lying there waiting for attention. The ABC order is a good way to

prioritize tasks. The A category is for the highest level of importance. These tasks can’t wait. The B

category holds the task that don’t need to be done immediately, but need to be done soon (almost now

category). The C category is for those tasks that can wait a little to be accomplished (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points = 3

During the Mindful Self –Inquiry meditation, I experienced many emotions and feelings.

I have been going through a lot of holiday drama with the father of my child, and have been

feeling really upset. I get stuck in my emotions because I can’t express them to the target audience,

him. We don’t talk, and that is really hard for me. I try and be strong and tell myself it doesn’t bother

me, but it does, a lot. I think this became present in the meditation. This lack of being able to express

my feelings and emotions goes back to my childhood.

When we used to visit my grandparents, as we were driving up the driveway my mom would turn

around and tell me not to say anything to my grandma about how she and my dad fought all of the

time, and how unhappy they were in their marriage.

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Though I didn’t make the connection right away, this lack of being able to communicate with my

ex triggers the events of the past. This is the source of all the tension and anxiety it causes me,

and why. These were feelings I was trying to resist, instead of letting be present and turning into

them, instead of running from them. Wow, that’s pretty powerful.

Summary

I found this practice the most interesting so far. I am learning so much about myself and my

connection to myself. I have begun to realize how much I listen to that little voice inside my

head that tells me I am stupid or fat. It’s interesting that I only hear negative things. Does

everyone else? The idea that our emotions are just fleeing thoughts that come and go and have

no real significance, is a concept I am still trying to digest. I have been trying to stay in the

present more often and really connect with my thoughts and sensations. I also begun to use the

RAIN concept when I feel something I am trying to resist. I like that one.

Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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Unit 6: Relaxation Techniques 1: Breathing,

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Unit

Meditation, and Mental Imagery


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Most people breathe from the thoracic cavity, or chest. Diaphragmatic Breathing focuses on

breathing from the lower stomach, instead of the chest. This form of breathing, also known as

belly breathing, is most common and promotes the most relaxation for the body.(Seaward,

2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Mediation is designed to calm and focus the mind, preventing sensory overload, or

overcrowding of thoughts and stimulations. Exclusive meditation involves one particular focus

such as a mantra or short positive phrase (I feel clam). Inclusive meditation invites many

thoughts as necessary to become present without judgment or attached meaning. (Seaward,

2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly

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By using mental imagery as a relaxation technique, a person is allowed an escape from a stressful

situation. Something like daydreaming intercepts the stress response by allowing the mind to

unwind. This then allows a person to be able to handle the stressor, upon returning. A good way

to fully experience this escape is to use all 5 senses during the experience. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

During times of stress, breathing pace increases. Shorter, tighter breaths are taken and often

people forget to exhale at all. This is known as “anxiety breathing”. This way of breathing, or not

breathing, puts a great deal of stress on the nervous system. This added stress secretes more

epinephrine in the body, causing an increase in heart rate and blood pressure. Learning to take

reducing stress levels (Seaward, 2015).

In a more relaxed state, the body’s metabolism decreases. This helps allow for deeper, slower

breaths. When pressure is taken off of the chest, sympathetic drive decreases. Parasympathetic

drive can then take over and override the sympathetic system, resulting in homeostasis

(Seaward, 2015).

Three steps are important to engage in diaphragmatic breathing

The first step is to assume a comfortable position. In the beginning, it is recommended that

you sit or lay down, eyes closed and place your hands on your lower abdomen to feel the rise

and fall of your breath. Once this technique is mastered, you can perform it anywhere, even in

times of stress. Some examples may include, standing at the post office, sitting in traffic, taking

an exam, or before a final exam (Seaward, 2015).

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The next step in this technique is concentration. It is recommended to be in a quiet place, with

little to no distractions. Even in this quiet environment, your mind may wonder. Should this

occur, just focus on your breath and bring it back to the present (Seaward, 2015).

While regular breathing is natural and requires little concentration, diaphragmatic breathing a

little more conscious. Also, breathing from the chest usually only uses the upper lobes of the

lungs. In diaphragmatic breathing, the upper, lower and middle lobes are all being used.

There are four phases that occur in this form of breathing. The concentration is focused on

keeping deep, slow comfortable breaths, promoting relaxation of both the body and mind

Phase I: Inhaling though the mouth, nose or lungs.

Phase II: A slight pause.

Phase III. Exhalation, release of air through same passage an inhalation first occurred.

Phase IV Another slight pause before repeating.

The last step of this process is visualization. You may want to visualize a cloud of air. When

you inhale you are inhaling clean, fresh and healthy air. When you exhale you visualize a dark

and stormy cloud pushing all the toxins, stressors and unhealthy things in your body out of it.

You can also try the alternate nostril method. To do this, hold one nostril and inhale through the

opposite and repeat, until breathing using this method becomes natural. Then switch the nostril

you inhale with and exhale with to the opposite and breathe out the same nostril. For example, if

you inhaled using your right nostril then exhale through the right as well, but inhale through

next time through the left, changing the pattern. This will help your mind to focus on this one

task, promoting relaxation and reducing stress (Seaward, 2015).

Systematic Desensitization is where a person uses there imagination to overcome anxiety of

certain situation. Such as with a fear of public speaking. First they would envision themselves

reading their speech at the podium. They would then visualize themselves at the podium with a

small audience of close friends. Finally they would visualize themselves do the speech in front of

a large audience, doing great and getting a standing ovation. Along with the visualization of the

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actual event, mental imagery of a tranquil place can also help during those moments of anxiety

and fear (Seaward, 2015).

When people are suffering a disease they are often told to visualize or create an inner body

image that helps them see the disease leaving their body. For example a child may visualized

that there is a Pac man figure inside of them and it is eating the cancer cells until they are all

gone and the child is healthy again. It is important to remember that not all images work for all

people so make sure your image created works for your needs, beliefs and thought process

(Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the guide resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points = 3

I think I am very aware of how I talk to myself. I use a lot of negative self-talk. I am

always trying to do what’s right or what other’s want in order to get their approval. I am also

constantly putting down my self-image. I will say things like “I’m fat” or I’m ugly” “My skin looks

terrible” “I will never get my life together”, “Maybe I’m not a good mom”, “Why did I do that”.

All of these words are very self-deprecating and will not only not help me move forward, they

will actually hold me back. That saying “You’re your own worst enemy”, that’s me. I don’t know

why I do it though? It’s a natural reaction, like a reflex.

Seeds of suffering?

If I stopped putting myself down before raising myself up my life would probably be

moving forward, instead of hitting bumps and even going backwards at times. True confidence

comes from within. I think that for most of my life I have always just felt like I was just “there”.

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I wasn’t special or unique, I had no talents or special ways to be recognized. I was just “there”.

Everyone always saw me as a person who had it together, I exuded confidence and I tried to

stand out in a lot of ways. But no one ever really noticed. So I lost my individuality along the

way. I became who everyone wanted me to be. I became a conformist. But the ironic thing is,

when you’re living your life to everyone else’s standards, you can never really meet your own.

Now at 35, I have come a long way but my negative self-talk goes back so far, that it will take

time and effort to redirect that negative attitude to a positive one. I always tell my daughter she

is beautiful inside and out, every day. But I also tell her we are all human, no one is perfect.

Day-to-day life feelings of resentment?

As I have spoken about before, I have a lot of conflict with the father of my child, Derrick.

I have tried to express the importance of us being able to just be civil to each other.

Communicate on a regular basis about our daughter and that’s all. He is constantly ignoring me,

doesn’t answer me, and hangs up the phone, if I get him to it. It’s very frustrating.

I have always been the type of person who believes there is a solution to any problem,

sometimes more than one. My daughter is getting older now, and I don’t want her to experience

the feelings of being torn between her parents. I know that all too well. So, I am determined to

make this happen.

I really try to understand where he is coming from. I know he works hard. He is a server like

myself and well, it’s not that lucrative. He also plays hard. I can imagine that takes more of a toll

on the body and mind at 39, than it did at 22. But, he sleeps until 1pm every day. He never

works on the days he has our daughter, which is nice for him. We live very different life styles. I

juggle 25 things in a day, and he just 1 maybe 2. We don’t parent the same at all either. We

have a nothing in common. Though I didn’t see this when we were together, I see it now. And

that’s ok. I understand we are different and I respect where he is coming from and accept the

fact that he lives for himself first and then others, if there is room. No surprises. I could probably

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write about this topic forever as it sits in my mind like tumor, but I won’t. I’m just saying I try

and open my mind to his side and who he is.

It was interesting during the loving-kindness meditation however, when we got to someone who

you have conflict with and I thought of him, I got tense, a little anger and frustration became

present and I had to take a deep breath. I realized in that moment that I am still very angry and

have a lot of work to do before I can completely forgive not only him, but myself.

Reflection on writing?

Negative self-talk is a normal part of my vocabulary. I think that a lot of the angst and

frustration I feel comes from the fact that other’s opinions matter to me too much. It’s like if I

put on an outfit to go out. I look in the mirror and think well I think look good but what will

others think? Then I start to scrutinize myself head to toe and start seeing things I didn’t see a

minute ago. I end up changing 3 times and often go back to the first out fit in the end, or

wishing I had. I’m a mess. Oh, there I go again with the negative-talk. I really want to work on

this.

I liked the meditation practice this week. I got to kind of climb into my head and see

what is going on. Often times we are just acting on whatever that little voice inside our head

says, but through meditation I can really examine what it is saying. I have found often times it

doesn’t even make sense. Like when it tells me to eat cake and then says “you’re such a fat idiot

for doing that”.

I want to continue opening my mind to my child’s father. I will continue working from my end.

However I also want to make the possibility of his words and actions not having any impact on

my life. I don’t want to feel angry, anxious and exhausted every time he does something that

shocks and amazes me by being so disrespectful or mean, because it shouldn’t anymore. That’s

just who he is. It has nothing to do with me, but I have hard time separating the two. I can only

control what I think, feel and do. I think I do a great job with the challenges I am given and I

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want to start having that reality come to the front of my mind, not the back where I can’t hear

or see it at all.

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Unit

References

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Unit 7: Nutrition and Stress


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
The relationship between nutrition, stress and the immune system can most easily be illustrated

by the four dominos. Domino 1: Stress tends to deplete nutrients in the body. Domino 2:

Current American lifestyles under stress don’t reinforce good eating habits. Comfort foods such

as junk foods are high in calorie but provide the body with very little nutrients (empty calories).

Nutrients lost, cannot be restored. Domino 3: Some foods like caffeine, processed sugar,

processed flour and salt, increase the sympathetic drive. Domino 4: Many foods consumed

contain toxins. It is best to buy organic and GMO free whenever possible. If any of these

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dominos fall there is increases risk of lasting effects to overall health. Some of these effects

include, illness, cancer and death. (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Not all vitamin supplements are created equal. In the act of processing they can be

synthesized, crystalized, freeze dried or in there whole form. Because of this particular

processing the vitamins are often altered from their original state. This alteration often times

makes it harder for the digestive system to absorb. It is best to look for a vitamin in its whole

form (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
It is important to eat a balanced diet. Good nutrition is important for both the body and the

mind. This should include the proper amount of lean proteins. Chicken and fish are

recommended over red meats, because red meat is high in saturated fat. Fruits and vegetables

are important too because they contain a lot of fiber. Fiber tricks the stomach into thinking it’s

satisfied, keeping us fuller longer, therefore consuming less calories. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Self-Assessment Exercise:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

Thought the sitting meditation was the most simple, I personally found it the most profound. I

also completed it in the evening, whereas, most of my practices, I have completed in the

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morning. It was truly a different experience. I felt during this practice I was trying to calm my

mind and with the others, I was actually trying to wake up my mind, very different feelings and

sensations for me.

During the holiday, I got to spend some much needed family time. I live alone here in Florida

with my daughter, and as I have talked about, lack emotional support. So it was really nice. We

went to Colorado where my sister got engaged! I got to be with my siblings and mom, it was

amazing. I felt so strong and engaged in every moment, fully. Totally present, in every moment.

After Colorado, my mom came back to Florida with me and my daughter, to spend some time as

well. It was truly a gift. She left this morning and I am sad. But, I figured after work would be a

good time to do this practice.

During the meditation I found myself very present. I was focused on my breath and just allowing

whatever emotions or feelings that came to the surface, to just come and then go. I found I felt

a lot of fatigue. My eyes felt heavy and I realized I had a slight headache. But I wasn’t attached

to any of it. It was just there. I also felt tears running down my face, but just tears. No other

emotions, or feelings were attached to them. I knew I was sad that my family was gone after an

amazing time, but I didn’t make put meaning behind that. This is the first time I have been able

to do this, during this course.

To be honest, I haven’t really been sure I was really getting anything out of this meditation

concept. Be after this particular practice, I know that I am. Even outside of scheduled practices,

throughout this course, I have learned to be more present. I remember my days more, and I

enjoy life as a whole. I don’t get caught up in the emotions as much. I literally tell myself…

“These are just emotions, let them come, acknowledge them and let them go”. I have also found

my anxiety is lower too. I really enjoy being more present in my life. Especially after such an

amazing time like I just had. I may have walked away thinking that I missed something, or

forgot to take in the moment. But, I know I didn’t.

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Reference

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

8
Unit

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Unit 8: Physical Exercise and Activity


Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
There are 6 main components of fitness: cardiovascular endurance is the ability of the heart

and lungs, and blood vessels to transport oxygenated blood to the working muscles for energy.

Muscular strength is the ability to maximum force against resistance (high weight, low reps).

Muscular endurance is the ability to perform repeat contractions over a certain period of time

(low weights, high reps). Flexibility is the ability to use a muscle through its entire range of

motion. Agility describes the ability to demonstrate coordination and other fine motor skills.

Power is defined as distance over time and balance is the ability to maintain equilibrium in

motion. (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly

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The FITT model involves steps used to improve physical fitness over time. Frequency is how

often the exercise is performed. Intensity is how hard you work to perform the exercise.

Physical challenge or stress placed on the body. Time is the length of time that the exercise is

performed and type is the type of exercise being done. (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Aerobic exercises such as swimming, running and hiking increase the heart rate at least to a

moderate level. Aerobic exercises is the flight in the fight or flight response, and its energy

resources are primarily fats. Aerobic exercise under this role is stimulated by fear and anxiety.

These emotions make a person literally want to run for the hills. (Seaward, 2015).

Reference

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Self-Assessment Exercises:
Provide a summary of the exercise to include in the resource guide with a
reference cited properly (Seaward, 2015). Total Points = 4

I am waitress and I work with many different types of people. I have to juggle managers, co-

workers and guests too. That adds up to a whole melting pot of opinions and personalities. One

way I try to view this juggling act is to separate my personal feelings from my professional

one’s. There is very little team work that goes on, morale is low and I think that a wellness

program would be a great idea for the company. With it being small, budget would also be low.

If I were to start a wellness program, I would want to implement ideas that would help better

the individual, as well as the team as a whole. I would want my employees to feel happy,

appreciated and valued for their efforts in the company. I would also want everyone to work as a

team to achieve both company, and personal goals.

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The first idea I would like implement is a free gym membership for all employees. So often I

hear people say that they want to join a gym but can’t because they don’t have the money. I

wouldn’t want my employees to face this barrier. Exercise is so important. Its benefits are

endless, both physically and mentally. I know for me personally, after a workout I feel like I can

handle any challenge that comes my way. The workplace can be a very stressful environment.

To give my employees these extra “wings” to help them throughout their day will increase

productivity as whole within the company. Endorphins everywhere!

In order to have this opportunity however, employees must attend the gym at least 8 times per

month. That is an average of twice a week, which I think is reasonable. Also the 3 people who

attend the gym at the end of each month, will receive a free massage.

My next idea is each morning for the employees to do a gratitude exercise. Each employees will

pick another employee to say one nice thing they appreciate and are grateful for about them. I

think that this will increase the level of appreciation in the company as a whole. It will make the

employees happier and therefore, less stressed.

Along with this idea, I would like to spend 15 min in the morning meeting just sharing with each

other about any stressor or problem they are having. So often people are coming into the

workplace with their outside problems. They then take these problems out on the other

employees. I think that taking some time to share some of these will help not only the

individual’s stress level, but the team as a whole because there will be more understanding and

compassion created through the sharing activity. Working with someone who is angry or

depressed really lowers the mood and morale as whole. Moods tend to be contagious.

My final idea in this program is a company kickball league. Our games will be Thursday evenings,

after work. Of course this day could be negotiated. I would want as many of my employees to be

able take part in this opportunity. I have actually seen this done through other companies and

has proven to be very successful. It would build team unity, new connections and friendships. It

would also help teach strategy and cooperation. I think this game would be perfect for this small

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company. It is low budget game. It also is a game where individual and team efforts are equally

important, just like in a restaurant. Along with these benefits, its great exercise and it’s a great

way to have fun! My mother used to always tell me that I needed an outlet. Something that

could be fun and take my away for the struggle and stress of everyday life. This activity could

really accomplish this very goal.

I really wanted to focus on things that would build both intrapersonal (with one’s self) and

interpersonal (with others) relationships. I feel that both are equally important in growth and

development of a successful company. I also feel that these ideas will help improve overall

health and wellness in the workplace, as well as outside.

References

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Journal Writing:
Place the entire journal within the resource guide with a reference cited
properly (Stahl & Goldstein, 2010). Total Points = 3

OPENNESS: When exhibiting this quality, you see a different perspective. Being

closed-off is a defense mechanism and a barrier to an open heart and mind.

Your perspective, though it may seem like the only one, is actually just one of

many.

EMPATHY: This quality is about putting yourself in the other person’s shoes. First by

acknowledging your own feelings, you can then acknowledge the feelings of the other person.

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This can be difficult as the views may be very different, it is important to recognize that we are

all human and want the same basic things, to be accepted, loved and feel secure.

COMPASSION: This quality is about support and understanding for the other person’s place in

themselves and the world. Often times we make judgements based on opinions rather than

facts. This person has more definitely endured some type of pain, sadness or disappointment in

their lives. Imagine what that must have been like for them. How would you comfort them?

LOVING-KINDNESS: This quality is about wishing the other person well. To wish them happiness,

safety and to be free from fear. Though this can be difficult with certain people, try and envision

them as someone who you have no past with. Or maybe someone who you love and admire in

your life. Changing the perception, can often change the outcome.

SYMPATHETIC JOY: This quality is about being happy for others achievements and

accomplishments. It is the opposite of envy and jealousy. Joy and appreciation are everywhere.

Imagine this person experiencing pure joy in a situation as well as the strength and courage it

has taken for them to overcome a challenge.

EQUANIMITY: This is a quality of wisdom. It kind of brings balance to interconnectedness of

relationships. We often judge people based on our perception of them. By looking with a more

open mind and a less judgmental one, we can tap into other people’s emotions and feelings. This

will create balance in relationships and avoid that one sided “attack” that is seen often.

Summary

I have recently decided to open the door to a relationship with my father. My parents divorced

when I was eleven and I never really had a relationship with my dad after that. He was around

bur only if it was convenient for him. My mom was always stressed. I can’t even imagine what is

must have been like raising three kids on her own. I am raising one and that is hard enough

For the purpose of this exercise I used this approach with my mom. She was just here and we

had a fight about my dad. She does not support the idea of us mending, or actually beginning,

some type of relationship, out of protection.

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When we began fighting I tried to see things from her side. I am a mom so I get what it is like to

want to protect your child from any harm. I told her I understand that she loves me and wants

to protect me, but I have made my decision.

I felt as though she was pulling me, towards her side. I wasn’t going. She pushed harder and

harder, unit I broke. I instantly felt mad and defensive toward my own thoughts, until I realized

something.

As she was talking and being emotional, I realized that she wasn’t really talking to me at all. She

was talking to my dad. She was saying how he never thanked her for raising three kids, he was

always horrible to her. Verbally abused her and even made her abort a pregnancy after all of us

were born. And she felt that he hasn’t stopped since. As I listened I started to feel less

defensive, less angry and I started to see her as a human, instead of a hero. I felt in that

moment, closer to her then I ever had. I reached over to her in silence, just hugged her and

thanked her for always being there. That was all she needed. It was a big breakthrough. One

that actually helped strengthen not only my relationship with my mom, but it helped me feel

more comfortable pursing a relationship with my dad without worry or guilt that my mother

wouldn’t love me anymore if I did.

References

Stahl, B., & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA:

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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Unit 9: Applying Stress: Critical Issues for

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Unit

Management and Prevention to your


Professional Life
Information to Remember:
Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
Avoidance is considered a negative quality however, stepping outside of the situation

temporarily, is said to help you gain a better perspective, and can be healthy. A great way to do

this is with a hobby. Hobbies increase self-esteem and self-awareness, which translates

throughout all aspects of life. (Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly
The power of forgiveness is important when trying to reduce stress. Harboring feelings of

resentment and anger can be toxic, both to the body and mind. Finding a way to forgive will

help treat both peace and tranquility in your life as a whole. You will feel better, inside and out.

(Seaward, 2015).

Key Learning Point: This key learning point should be information that you learned that was of
particular importance to you, your life, and your current or future profession. Must have 2 to 3
sentences per key learning point with a reference cited properly

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Faith is an optimistic attitude formed to cope with stress for which one perceives a connection

bigger then itself. A define source. To be able to call upon this source can be beneficial and

comforting in times of stress. Intercessory prayer is one method in which an individual uses

to call upon this higher power to help resolve the problem causing stress (Seaward, 2015).

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being.

Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett Learning.

Total Points = 9

Additional Information
Place additional information here important to your resource manual. This can come from the
Discussion Boards, Internet or the current curriculum. List at least one book, article, two websites,
video, PowerPoint Seminar presentation, Reading, or other material you want to include in your
resource guide. Identify your sources as primary or secondary sources.
Total Points = 5

Atwood, J. and Attwood, C (2008). The Passion Test, New York, New York: Plume Publishing.

This is a secondary source

Bernstein, G. (2013). May Cause Miracles, New York: Harmony Books

This is a secondary source.

Hay, L. (2013) You Can Heal Your Life, India: Hay House Publishing.

This is a secondary source

Imafidon, C. (2013). 13 Ways Emotionally Intelligent People Deal With Difficult People. Retrieved

From: http:// www.lifehck.org/articles

This a secondary source

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References
List the full cited references in proper format under this section. A

complete list of references should be included for your manual. Place

references in alphabetical order

Must use proper APA format and style; section counts for [15 pts]. See
samples below:

Atwood, J. and Attwood, C (2008). The Passion Test, New York, New York: Plume Publishing.

Bernstein, G. (2013). May Cause Miracles, New York: Harmony Books.

Hay, L. (2013) You Can Heal Your Life, India: Hay House Publishing.

Imafidon, C. (2013). 13 Ways Emotionally Intelligent People Deal With Difficult People. Retrieved

From: http:// www.lifehck.org/articles

Seaward, B. (2015). Managing stress: Principles and strategies for health and well-being (8th ed.).

Boston, MA: Jones and Bartlett Publishers.

Stahl, B. & Goldstein, E. (2010). A mindfulness-based stress reduction workbook. Oakland, CA: New

Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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