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Introduction
This is part of the research on which the gathered data from the respondents are
Age
Table 1
Age Frequency
Age f %
16 4 40
17 3 30
18 3 30
Total: 10 100
The table 1 shows the frequency of age wherein 40% of the respondents were pregnant
at the age of 16, 30% of the respondents at the age of 17 and also 30% of the
This table shows the different category of on why teenagers get pregnant an early age
Table 2
Causes of Teenage
f %
Pregnancy
Curiosity 3 30
Own will 3 30
Alcoholic Pleasure 2 20
No Choice 1 10
Sexually Abused 1 10
The table 2 shows the percentage and frequency of reasons. There are ten
respondents, 50% of them where curious, 20% of them found their belongingness of
each other, another 20% of the drown on alcoholic pleasure and lastly 10% was
stupidity.
Majority of the respondents were curious. The curiosity leads them to situation
that even they didn’t expect it to happen, because of their curiosity they let themselves
to explore things that can definitely change their future and by exploring that thing they
unexpectedly enter the early motherhood. Anand (2012) Curiosity is one of the
preventable reasons why teenagers get pregnant, according to him the reason of it is
the explosion of sex in the media has made teenagers more aware about it than their
parents and grandparents. One of the respondent stated "It was basically the curiosity
that bested me." As we all know teenagers now are more curious that our parents and
grandparents way back then. But that doesn’t mean that they were doing sex just
because of curiosity. The other respondent said "Maybe because of curiosity but at the
same time doing the thing that you want to do with the one I love. But more on
curiosity." Because of too much affection they explore the things that might change their
Their world change because of their own will to have sexual intercourse and get
pregnant. Many teenagers want to have sexual intercourse with their partner for their
needs but some teenagers do that thing because they want to have a baby in early
stage, they believe that having a family in early stage can stable their relationship.
(Prymface 2012) The reasons that teenage girls get pregnant are own will, just as they
are for older women. Some, particularly those who are 18 and 19, have made a
decision to have a baby because they are in a stable relationship and want to start a
family, as was the norm for this age group not so many decades ago. One of the
respondent said "Because me and boyfriend that time is legal on both sides and we
depend on it." Legal on both sides increase the risk of pregnancy. The situation they
depend on leads them to explore that thing. But one of the respondents believe that by
doing that thing for them to insure that their parents cannot do anything to separate
them, the respondent state "It was really our plan even though we are under aged. For
us to make sure our families won't do anything to separate us." The other respondent
said "We were drowned with too much pleasure that he forgot to pull out before
ejaculation." the pleasure itself leads them to unplanned situation which is the early
pregnancy.
One of the respondents stated, "Hanging out always with friends and webare under the
influence of alcohol that time." the influence of the alcohol can boost the pleasure of our
hormones. Hanging out with friends especially with boys, the sexual intercourse could
possibly happen. The other respondents have the same explanation she said, "Under
the influence of alcohol. Getting drunk for short." The alcohol itself has a big impact in
our body. Drink responsibly is advisable and must do. Alcoholic pleasure leads them to
unexpectedly enter the world of early mother hood. "LoveToKnow" (website) stated
Many teens experiment with drugs and alcohol. Drinking lowers a teen’s ability to
control her impulses, contributing to 75 percent of pregnancies that occur between the
ages 14 and 21. Approximately 91 percent of pregnant teens reported that although
they were drinking at the time, they did not originally plan to
and maturity. No choice is one of the reasons why teenagers get pregnant. Peer
That the inability to say “NO” is the number two reason that teens get involved in sexual
activity. It is difficult to say “NO” especially to someone we care about. Practicing refusal
skills can enable teens to have the self-confidence to effectively say “NO”. One of the
respondent said, "An initiation in joining a fraternity left me with no choice but to have
sexual intercourse with some of them." She want to be a part/member of that fraternity
so, she left with no choice to have sexual intercourse for her to be able to be part of that
group. The pressure she get when she want something to happen leads her to early
motherhood.
One of the main reason why teenagers involved in early pregnancy is the sexual
abuse. (R. Y. Langham, Ph.D., 2015) ABUSE OR RAPE -Teens can become pregnant
as a result of sexual abuse or rape. The Guttmacher Institute states that between 43
and 62 percent of teens acknowledge that they were impregnated by an adult male, and
two-thirds report that their babies' fathers are as old as 27. The only one respondent
who suffered trauma because she was rape by her neighborhood she only stated,
"Raped. I won’t go into details." the effects of it make her hate men. She suffer trauma
after that and unwanted pregnancy, she was so scared to the point that she didn’t
Effects
regarding the said survey questions, "when you got pregnant before, how does it affect
your studies?".
Table 3
Effects of Teenage f %
Pregnancy
Stopped Schooling 5 50
Can’t focus 1 10
Devastated 1 10
Inspired 1 10
It’s hard 1 10
Stressful 1 10
situation, 10% of them can't focus in their studies, 10% are devastated because of the
consequences they need to face , still there are 10% of the respondent who is inspired,
10% felt the situation so hard in adjusting, and lastly 10% of them are stress.
J. (2017) that education may be put on hold when a teen become pregnant. Some
pregnant teens may decide to leave school. According to our participant number 6, " My
pregnancy affected my studies a lot. I barely went to school every morning because of
dizziness , laziness, even thou I have enough sleep , I want to sleep more".
Having in such situation made them to can’t focus in their studies. The negativity,
the social alienation, and the financial distress can wreak havoc in anyone's life, let
alone that of a teen, who is isn't yet mature or strong enough to face the world (Saha R.,
2017). Participant number seven stated that, "It affects my studies a lot because I
Saha R. ( 2017) stated that Teenage Pregnancy is one of modern society's evils
Teenage Pregnancy a social stigma. And, it can have devastating effect on the teen’s
social life. Participant number four said, "Pretty devastated. He left me when I told him I
The situation may wreck havoc in their life, still they need to be strong and in the
process of healing they need to accept the consequences and make these lessons as
an inspiration. Watson et al (2017) stated that researchers have discovered that many
pregnant. One characteristic that plays a critical role in engaging struggling students is
motivation. According to participant number five , "It's great. I'm even happy with my
studies".
that home is always a safe haven. Irrelevant of what is happening outside the home, the
Chicago study found that if teens have a strong system they feel they can rely on within
their family. It was hard for the respondent to face their challenges without their parent
besides them to support. Participant number one stated, "It was pretty hard knowing I
only live in a boarding house, because my parents are rescinding in the province".
both as a student and as a mother. According to Bodeeb J, (2017) other who were
planning to attend college in the future may put off that experience after become
pregnant. They may decide to focus on the baby or getting married rather than pursuing
further education. According to participant number two, "Stressful to say the least.
teenage mom.
Table 4
Category 3 f %
Inspired 2 20
Pressured 2 20
All alone 1 10
Belongingness 1 10
Insecure 1 10
Responsible 1 10
Stressful 1 10
Traumatic 1 10
pressured, 10% of being all alone, 10% of belongingness, 10% of insecure, 10% of
20% of the respondents stated that they were inspired despite of the struggles
“It was inspiring but I got a lot of tension at the same time responsibilities rushed over
me.”
“It has great feeling on having a child that came really from yours. It’s overwhelming and
also my boyfriend didn’t left me so he is always on my side to help and guide me.”
Even though they have faced bigger responsibilities they still manage to be inspired.
According to Watt (2015) he said that on the whole the young mothers were very
positive about their experiences of motherhood. Although at times they described
hardships they had been through and the adaptations they had to make, overall they felt
Another 20% of the respondents said that they were pressured by their
“Hailing from an influential family, people have set their eyes on me. It felt terrorizing
Because we all know that people right now will just judge everything they will
see without thinking of it. According to Boehlke (2015) Teen mothers face daily
challenges and pressure as they struggle to take care of their child and find a way to be
the best parent they can. Because most teen mothers are still attending school or
college, finding the time and financial means to finish their education should be a high
Being teenage mom is not easy especially if they were left by the father of their
child. They felt all alone. Anonymous (2011) said that being a pregnant teen can be
stressful and overwhelming, but that doesn't mean you have to go through it alone. If
the father of your child isn't in the picture, find other supports to help you through this
process. Reach out to your family, your friends, and your community. Understand the
challenges of pregnancy in order to make more informed decisions about your baby.
Remember to take care and love yourself. Participant 4 said, “I was all alone with no
one to turn to but God. It was as if God planned it all along so that I can go back to
him.”
Belongingness is what some of the teenage mothers felt during the years of being a
teenage mom. Participant 6 even stated that “To have that sense of belongingness be filled
in, it made me overjoyed even though I didn't know who the father is. I thought of the
baby as a gift from God.” According to Kochrekar (2017) he stated that the other
requirement of teens to satisfy the sense of belonging, whether in their social circles or
among friends of their age groups. When your teenager experiences a lack of sense of
belonging, there is an increased risk that she will associate with individuals that will
Most of teenage moms experience being insecure most the time. According to
Bhatia (2015) one of huge factor that plays into this are the pregnancy hormones
estrogen and progesterone, which rise abruptly at the start of the pregnancy. This can
make the mom-to-be a bit touchy during the course of the pregnancy. Because of this,
she might feel plenty insecure about many things. Most often, her insecurity becomes
directed to the abrupt changes in her body during pregnancy. Participant 1 said that, “It
Being responsible is the most needed thing in becoming a teenage mom. A lot
responsibilities are at their shoulders are to be carried. According to (Pregnancy Birth &
Baby, 2016) being a parent can make it harder to get an education or find a job.
Juggling the responsibilities of being a parent with work, school and a social life can be
tiring. It can also be very difficult to get child care, and almost impossible to get
affordable child care. Participant 10 even stated that, “Being a teenage mom is a huge
responsibility. My experience as a teenage mom is not that easy to deal, looking after
doing nowadays.”
Anda et al., (2010) The rate of teenage pregnancy in our country has
pregnant teen. Participant 7 even stated that, “As a teenage mom I’m so
lucky to have a baby even though it’s stressful I can still manage to smile while I’m
looking to my daughter”.
Being raped is the worst experience as a teenage mom. They got traumatized.
Teenage moms are always haunted on their worst part of life. Participant 3 said, “The
memory is traumatizing. It really left a mark on my mind. I even got scared with a slight
touch from people.” According to Babbel (2013) Sexual abuse is a particularly sinister
type of trauma because of the shame it instills in the victim. With childhood sexual
abuse, victims are often too young to know how to express what is happening and seek
out help. When not properly treated, this can result in a lifetime of
PTSD, depression and anxiety.The trauma that results from sexual abuse is a syndrome
that affects not just the victim and their family, but all of our society. Because sexual
abuse, molestation and rape are such shame-filled concepts, our culture tends to
Cope Up Mechanisms
the participants regarding the said interview questions, how did you cope up with your
unplanned pregnancy?".
Table 5
Cope Up Mechanisms
Cope Up Mechanisms f %
Proper Guidance 4 40
Acceptance 3 20
Reading 2 20
Neglecting Criticisms 1 10
mother, 40% of the respondents said they cope up the situation through proper
guidance, 30% of them use the tool acceptance, 20% cope up their situation through
reading some articles, and Bible, 10% of the respondent choose to neglect criticism.
(2017; Mercer, 1995, 2004) a young nother in the early stages of Adolescence still
needs to be "mothered" by her own mother or a person in her life who acts as her
mother. According to participant seven, "I coped up when my mom tell me that
everything happens for a reason". Participant one said, "It was through Guidance with
Acceptance is a sign that you already embrace your situation and you are ready
to face it. Erikson and Piaget (2011) proposed developmental theories pertaining to
adolescent staged that lead to adulthood. Both researchers identified the adolescent
years as being a time when young individuals strive to meet the demands and complete
the task of Adolescence in order to emerge as young adults. Participant eight stated, "I
helped myself to cope up and convince that everything will be alright, because I need to
face the consequences of my decisions". Participant number six supported it she said, "
Reading helps you a lot in gaining knowledge in the things you want to know and
learn. According to Professor Kader Asmal (2017) suggested that the earlier the school
begins to teach children about sexuality, the better because they can be easily misled
by their peers if proper guidance regarding their sexuality is not given. Participant
number four stated, "Through reading the Bible, that made me calm and understood
Neglecting Criticism is the most essential tool in coping up. According to DeVito (2007)
parenting are important because this is how mothers perceive themselves and whom
they can depend on may influence the type of parent they become. Participant number
nine said, "It wasn't unplanned though but still I need to reject all the criticism that I
Advice/s or Preventions
pregnancy.
Table 6
Advice/s or Preventions
Advice/s or Preventions f %
Know your limitations. 5 50
Don’t trust too much. 1 10
Have no regrets. 1 10
Focus on studies. 1 10
Be responsible. 1 10
Trust yourself. 1 10
As presented on table 6, 50% of the respondents advised that teenagers must know
their limitation, 10% of being responsible, 10% of not trusting too much, 10% of having
Discussion
Table 6 shows the categorized preventions to avoid teenage pregnancy. 50% percent of
the respondents said that teenagers must know their limitation to avoid teenage
pregnancy. They stated, “Know your limits. As the saying goes, "curiosity killed the cat."
“You should know when and where to be carefree and have fun.” “Don't do things that
you're not sure of. Especially when it has consequences. Pray to God to remove the
temptations away.” “Stay away from the things that will harm you and always obey your
parents because they always know what’s the best for you.” “There’s nothing more I can
suggest but to never let them engage to sexual activities at a very young age and at the
wrong man, as it will surely lead them to early pregnancy.” Another one said that teens
must be responsible on their actions and said, “Be responsible of your decisions in life.
Never run away from it.” Trusting too much too can harms us she stated that, “Don't let
your guard down even to someone closest to you.” One respondent also stated that,
“Give your full trust only to yourself because at the end of the day, you only have you to
deal with.” Respondent 7 said that, “Have no regrets in life.” We all know that teenagers
have different priorities in life. One respondent she answered that, “Just focus on study.
Books first before boys because boys brings baby.” Other said that, “Stay away from the
things that will harm you and always obey your parents because they always know
what’s the best for you.” Being a teenage mom have bigger responsibilities in life. She
stated “Be responsible of your decisions in life. Never run away from it.”
Articles
Responsibility
(Pregnancy Birth & Baby, 2016) Being a parent can make it harder to get an education
or find a job. Juggling the responsibilities of being a parent with work, school and a
social life can be tiring. It can also be very difficult to get child care, and almost
impossible to get affordable child care. These difficulties can make it hard to cope
financially, and can make parents feel lonely and apart from their family and friends. On
the other hand, teenage parents can find they have all the energy in the world to keep
up with toddlers. They can also be better than older parents at dealing with the new
lifestyle of being a parent; they’re much better at dealing with little or no sleep, for
example. But young parents who are still physically developing while pregnant can
struggle with sustaining two growing bodies at once. Some teenage parents might feel
they’re so busy trying to cope with the rest of their life that they can’t give their children
enough attention. Because they might also have to worry about finishing their
education, working or finding a job, they might not feel as though they can enjoy their
Hayley Rose Horzepa (2017) said that trust is a difficult thing, especially when you’ve
fallen victim to a rape. After becoming a victim myself and eventually seeking therapy, I
couldn’t trust anyone, not even myself. Can you imagine the feeling of not being able to
trust yourself? I am still very mistrustful and fearful. To understand why, I would have to
revert back to the crime itself along with some common misconceptions. Since writing
about this publicly, many people, mainly men, have argued with me that rape is an act
that men cannot help executing because of their “natural” sexual drives and desires.
This misconception is also the reason why victim-blaming excuses often fly without
much questioning from others. “She was dressed like a slut,” “She is very promiscuous,”
and many many more excuses for rape crimes take the blame off the perpetrator and
place it on the victim. At one point, I too thought that rape was a sexually-motivated
crime. When it happened to me I was young, cute and totally disinterested in the
“friends” who raped me. I thought that maybe they had wanted me bad and knew they
couldn’t have me so they resorted to rape as it was the only way to “get” me. It made
sense in my head, at the time. This is, of course, wrong. Rape is not about sex. It is
about control. It is a crime like any other where something is taken without consent. If a
man walks into a bank with a gun, he uses the gun as a weapon to procure money from
the bank. Rape is similar. A rapist overpowers the victim by using sex as a weapon,
much like a gunman scares bank tellers into submission by waving around a firearm
Having No Regrets
Tara (2015) said that being pregnant at young age is scary and a lot to deal with. Nope I
refuse to believe it will be harder for me. Continue to go to school; that’s the only thing
that’s really gonna help you in the future. The better education, the more money you’ll
have. You have to really be focus on your grind nonstop. Forget what other people have
to say about you, things happen. No one is perfect. No need to live in the past because
you can’t change it so just really focus on making a better future for you and your child
because that’s all that matters. Just don’t give up and be a role model to your child. And
if anyone tells you you can’t do it, take that as motivation and prove them all wrong.”
“It’s okay. You will realize you have a strength you didn’t even know existed. And when
that bundle of joy arrives you will know and see it was all worth it.” “Don’t be afraid to
ask for help and take it when offered. You’re stronger and smarter than you may realize
and you will get through it. Plus we’re all here for you.” “Just stay strong. It’s gonna be
hard but it can only get better. Just don’t give up. It’s a lot of people out there that say
when you have a child at a young age you have ruined your life but that’s not true. You
can still focus on your dreams, only this time you will have to work a little harder for
them now, because you have a child that you have to take care of. It’s a lot of people
that have told me I wouldn’t be where I am today because of my son. Just don’t listen to
them; do what’s best for you and your child. That’s what’s kept me motivated. Keep
“Nothing to fear, but ‘fear’ itself. This is a test you can ace. Everything you need is inside
you. Ask for help when you need it, trust yourself. You got this. Piece of cake.”
“Trust yourself…and its okay to not have all the answers” (Tara, 2015).
Priorities
Phenrosales (2013) we are the driver of our own destiny. We are the one responsible for
our life, on what we are and what will we become. Teenagers today set goals in order to
gain success in the near future. “Success is measured by power, popularity, control,
achievement and winning. Having more and being more is success.” (Peirce, 2005)
Teenagers today seem very different than the old times. We prioritize things immediately
without thinking about it. Due to changes on our environment, the behaviors of
the people around them. “Acceptance is when you make the conscious decision to be at
peace about an event or person that perhaps previously you would have been
judgmental about, but no longer has the desire to be that way and so respect their
freedom of choice. Acceptance allows you to relinquish that nagging voice that
encourages you to reproach or doubt yourself and your decision making skills.”
(Elizabeth, 2010) We all want our life to flourish thus, we are preparing for our future. To
your inner self; without that, no amount of compensation can fully make you happy.”
(Willis & Garn, 2008) Teenage stage is the part wherein we set our objectives in life. It is
about being more serious than before. It is the period where we’ll choose the path we
are about to take. Our future depends on us, on how we are going to set our priorities.
Trust Yourself
Dr. Benjamin (2015) said that you know more than you think you do. Soon you're going
to have a baby. Maybe you have one already. You're happy and excited, but if you
haven't had much experience, you wonder whether you are going to know how to do a
good job. Lately you have been listening more carefully to your friends and relatives
when they talk about bringing up a child. You've begun to read articles by "experts" in
the magazines and newspapers. After the baby is born, the doctors and nurses will
begin to give you instructions too. Sometimes it sounds like a very complicated
business. You find out all the vitamins a baby needs and all the immunizations. One
mother tells you she couldn't live without disposable diapers; another swears by cloth
diapers. You hear that a baby is easily spoiled by being picked up too much, but also
that a baby should be held as much as possible. Some say that fairy tales make
children nervous, others that fairy tales are a wholesome outlet for children's fears.
Don't take too seriously all that the neighbors say. Don't be overawed by what the
experts say. Don't be afraid to trust your own common sense. Bringing up your child
won't be a complicated job if you take it easy, trust your own instincts, and share
concerns with your friends, family, and doctor or nurse practitioner. We know for a fact
that the natural loving care that kindly parents give their children is a hundred times
more important than their knowing how to make a diaper fit tight or just when to
introduce solid foods. Every time you pick your baby up--even if you do it a little
awkwardly at first -- every time you change her, bathe her, feed her, smile at her, she's
getting the feeling that she belongs to you and that you belong to her. Nobody else in
the world, no matter how skillful, can give that to her (Dr. Benjamin, 2015).
Chris (2015) said that adolescence is a time of establishing independence and finding
new limits. As teenagers leave childhood limitations behind and reach towards
adulthood they need help to moderate the rate of change. Boundaries are the means by
which parents control the rate of change; helping teens find a reasonable and balanced
approach to growing up. Allowing teens to take on more a little bit at a time rather than
allowing them to take on everything and getting overwhelmed in the process. Teenagers
need clear structures and guidelines (although they will never admit to it). Teens have
enough change to deal with in their lives, having parents clearly define the playing field
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