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The raped female body encompasses the sexual economy of desire that is denied in the
mythologization of the purity of one’s own ethnic, religious, and national gendered
subject. The inevitability of rape leaves woman with the “choice” of committing suicide so
that she can be accommodated within the narrative of the nation as a legitimate and
pure – albeit dead – citizen. Those who survive rape are refused entry into the domestic
space of the new narrative.
-- Sangeeta Ray1
INTRODUCTION
The creation of independent India and Pakistan in 1947 came at a heavy price.
The communal violence between Muslims, Hindus, and Sikhs led to the largest peacetime
observed, “Perhaps the most striking point about the historiography of Partition is that the
history of this violence has scarcely begun to be addressed.”3 The extent of the violence
Organization, argues that there were approximately 500,000 fatalities.4 Historians Ian
Talbot and Gurharpal Singh argue that the number is between 200,000 and two million.5
However, the price borne by women defies belief. For decades, the extent of the
horror remained unknown. Approximately 100,000 women were abducted, but only ten
1
Sangeeta Ray. En-gendering India, (Durham, NC: Duke University Press, 2000), 135.
Hereafter, En-gendering.
2 Ritu Menon, “No Woman’s Land” in Women Writers on Partition of Pakistan & India,
ed. Ritu Menon (Lahore, Pakistan: Vanguard Books, 2006), 2. Hereafter, Women Writers.
3 Gyanendra Pandey, “The Prose of Otherness” in Subaltern Studies VIII: Essays in
Honour of Ranajit Guha, eds. David Arnold and David Hardiman (Delhi, India: Oxford
University Press, 1994), 189. Hereafter, “Prose”.
4 G.D. Khosla, Stern Reckoning (1950), 299. Hereafter, Reckoning.
5
Ian Talbot and Gurharpal Singh, The Partition of India (Cambridge, UK: Cambridge
University Press, 2009), 62. Hereafter, Partition.
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percent were ever found.6 Women faced violence on three levels: (1) communal as
members of the “other” communities abducted, raped, and mutilated them; (2) familial as
they were “encouraged” to commit suicide or were murdered by family members in order
to protect the family’s honor; and (3) national as the new countries, particularly India,
forcibly “recovered” them, stripped them women of their citizen rights, and mandated
they abandon their “wrong” children. Even when women survivors told Partition stories
to their families, there were pauses in the narrative. As they began sharing their stories
with scholars, women did not reveal any sexual violence they personally experience.
The silence was so pervasive that scholars of the Partition ignored it in their work.7
Violence began in north India in 1946, following Direct Action Day. However
riots did not begin in the Punjab until March 1947. Ian Talbot and Gurharpal Singh list
Other Side of Silence (Durham, NC: Duke University Press, 2000); Veena Das, Life and
Words: Violence and the Descent into the Ordinary (Berkeley, CA: University of
California Press, 2007); Sukeshi Kamra, Bearing Witness: Partition, Independence, End
of the Raj (Calgary, Canada: University of Calgary Press, 2002); and Ritu Menon and
Kamla Bhasin, Borders & Boundaries: Women in India’s Partition (New Brunswick, NJ:
Rutgers University Press, 1998).
8 Partition, xvi-xvii
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It is important to note that violence continued unabated for several months, although
the province was under direct Governor’s rule.9 However, reductions in personnel in the
army by April 1947 left the India National Army (INA) incapable of dealing with
increased violence, “General Auchinleck felt strongly that this number [387,000] was too
small to carry out all the various duties of an army, especially internal security.”10 To
compound the problem of too few soldiers to provide internal security, the Punjab housed
large numbers of former veterans. Daniel P. Marston argues former Punjabi INA soldiers
were heavily involved in the violence.11 Marston asserts veterans trained the masses,
Violence lasted in the province until November 1947. Justice Khosla argues there are
1. A continuous procession of invading hordes from the west made it difficult for the
province to have a settled and stable Government for any length of time.
2. The Punjabi did not develop a peculiar indigenous culture.
3. Political instability and frequent infusion of fresh ideas made him singularly prone
to imitate and accept foreign notions about life and social behavior.
4. The birth and rise of the Sikh religion helped to promote the virile and unorthodox
spirit, native to the soil of this dry and vigorous land.
5. The Punjab has for long been the land of peasant proprietors, and a
comparatively even distribution of wealth resulting from this circumstance has
made for contentment and lack of interest in political affairs.
6. This indifference towards national aspirations often made politicians lose their
patience and accuse the Punjabis of impeding the progress of the country and
9 Reckoning, 89.
10 Daniel P. Marston, “The Indian Army, Partition, and the Punjab Boundary Force” in
War in History 2009, Vol 16, Issue 4, 481. Hereafter, “Army”.
11 Ibid, 483.
12 Ibid.
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being a drag on the rest of India. The British rulers kept a firm hold on this
strategic province and prevented the growth of political discontent.13
According to Khosla, the Punjabi developed a consciousness that differed from other
Indians. Due to unstable government, he lacked interest in political affairs outside his
province. He viewed himself as Punjabi, not Indian. He had a special relationship with
the land, which afforded him financial well being. When violence erupted, he fought to
Methodology
I limited the scope of my research in three ways. First, I focus specifically on the
Partition experiences of women, expressed in their own words.14 Second, I discuss the
violence in the Punjab between March and November 1947.15 Lastly, I concentrate on
first-hand accounts from Hindu and Sikh women.16 For a study of this kind, the
limitations of historical texts were immediately apparent. While the official texts
discussed political figures, events, and census numbers, few revealed the human side of
Partition. With the exception of G.D. Khosla, few scholars focused on how individuals
13 Ibid.
14 Few of the women used in this research were interested in politics before Partition. For
this reason, the political maneuvering that proceeded Partition and its causes are beyond
the scope of this project. For more information on these topics, I recommend Yasmin
Khan, The Great Partition: The Making of India and Pakistan (New Haven, CT: Yale
University Press, 2007); Narendra Singh Sarila, The Shadow of the Great Game: The
Untold Story of India’s Partition (London, UK: Constable, 2005); Ian Tablot and
Gurharpal Singh, The Partition of India (New York, NY: Cambridge University Press,
2009); Stanley Wolpert, Shameful Flight: The Last Years of the British Empire in India
(New York, NY: Oxford University Press, 2006); and Vazira Fazila-Yacoobali Zamindar,
The Long Partition and the Making of Modern South Asia: Refugees, Boundaries,
Histories (New York, NY: Columbia University Press, 2007).
15 Women were recovered until 1956.
16 This decision leads to a biased account. Muslim women experienced the same levels of
violence as Hindu and Sikh women. However, I could not get first-hand accounts from
Muslim women in English.
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suffered. In fact, scholars began collecting survivor testimonies only after the 1984
massacre of the Sikhs. Fortunately since 1990, several scholars published excellent
invisible to history. The aims of feminist historiography are simple: “to restore women to
history and to restore our history to women.”17 While the aims are simple, the process is
not. As feminist scholars try to “restore women to history,” we are faced with the
before the twentieth century, there are few documents written by women. Feminist
historians are turning to oral narratives more and more. Menon and Bhasin argue,
“Because women have used speech much more widely than the written word, oral history
practitioners have found in interviews and testimonies a rich vein to mine and to surface
what, so far, has been hidden from history.”18 The majority of my primary sources are
and newspaper articles. The oral narratives and newspaper accounts were compiled from
17 Ritu Menon and Kamla Bhasin, Borders & Boundaries: Women in India’s Partition
(New Brunswick, NJ: Rutgers University Press, 1998), 9. Hereafter, Boundaries.
18 Ibid, 14.
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I acknowledge the challenges in using oral narratives in historical writing. For Partition
narratives, there are a few specific challenges. First, There is no way to verify the
accuracy of the accounts.19 In some cases, the accounts directly conflict with
conventional history. Second, there is a forty or fifty year gap between the experiences
and the interview. There is no way to know if the women are remembering the
only the voices the above scholars include in their works. However, I do not believe
historians can recover the experiences of women without incorporating oral narratives.
Despite the challenges they present, oral history expands the amount of information to
which feminist scholars have access, “I do not want to argue here that oral narratives can
replace what we see as history, only that they can offer a different and extremely
a sketch of the lives of subaltern groups. Oral narratives allow subaltern historians to fill
in those sketches.
COMMUNAL VIOLENCE
For the South Asian man, the body of women was the foundation of the family’s
honor.22 As violence erupted in the Punjab, its men waged war against the women of their
enemy. They seized control of the “other” women, especially ones of reproductive age.
19 Urvashi Butalia, The Other Side of Silence (Durham, NC: Duke University Press,
2000), 10. Hereafter, Silence.
20 Ibid.
21 Ibid.
22 Partition, 62.
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In addition to seizing land, women’s bodies became another location when a soldier
could secure a foothold against his enemy. The foundation of the new states of India and
Social worker Kamla Patel argues men do not view women as human. She claims
If Punjabi men only value their wives as objects of sexual pleasure, the violence against
women makes sense. When the enemy abducted a man’s wife, the husband simply
replaced her with another woman. In order to restore his honor, he abducted his enemy’s
women as an act of revenge, “The transformation of the ‘other’ from a human being into
the enemy, a thing to be destroyed before it destroyed you, became the all-important
imperative.”25 Women became spoils of war. The damage men inflicted on women were
horrendous. Not only did they abduct women, they raped and mutilated them in
unspeakable ways.
23 Veena Das, Life and Words: Violence and the Descent of the Ordinary (Berkeley, CA:
University of California Press, 2007), 21. Hereafter, Life.
24 Kamla Patel, Torn from the Roots: a Partition memoir, trans. Uma Randeria (New
violence against Hindu and Sikhs in the Punjab. I should note this report was extremely
biased against the Muslim League. It argued the Muslim League used violence as a
means to advance its political agenda. It argued, “… there was a complete concert
between the Muslim League and the Muslim masses which followed its programme [sic]
and policy on the one hand, and Muslim officials and police on the other.”26 On March 7,
Besides those killed and wounded about 1,000 Hindus and Sikh women were
abducted, who were raped and dishonoured [sic] in a manner which would
shame anyone with the least trace of civilization or religion in him. Women were
raped in the presence of their husbands, brothers, fathers and sons. Later they
were distributed among the Muslims to be kept as concubines or were forcibly
married.27
Muslim men raped 1000 women in the presence of their families. That was not the end of
the trauma these women endured. After killing their male relatives, the men forced the
Shrimati Laj Wanti was twenty-three years old when she was abducted in August
1947. While fleeing with her family from Kamoke, a mob of Muslim men attacked her
train. Her husband was killed and her infant son was taken. She described her experience:
The women-folk were not butchered, but taken out and sorted. The elderly
women were later butchered while the younger ones were distributed.
I saw an old woman who cried for water being caught hold of by her feet by a
Muslim and flung twice on the ground and killed. The children were also similarly
murdered. All the valuables on the persons of the women were removed and
taken away by the mob.
26 Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee, Muslim League Attacks on Sikhs and Hindus in the
Punjab 1947 (New Dehli, India: Voice of India, 1950), 72. Hereafter, Muslim League.
27
Ibid, 80.
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Even clothes were torn in the effort to remove valuables. My son was also
snatched away in spite of my protests. I cannot say who took him away. I was
taken by one Abdul Ghani to his house. He was a tonga driver. I was kept in the
house for over a month and badly used. I went to other houses to look after my
son. I saw a large number of children but I was unable to find my son. During
these visits I also saw a large number of Hindu women in the houses of the
Muslim inhabitants of Kamoke. All of them complained that they were being very
badly used by their abductors.28
Older women were killed right away, because they were no longer of childbearing age.
Young women and girls were awarded to men, like chattel. Their valuables were
removed, along with their clothes. For the month she spent with her abductor, Shrimati
Laj Wanti admitted he treated her badly. However, she never said he raped her.
In 1992, Menon and Bhasin interviewed Bimla Bua. During their discussion, she
Then they caught hold of a beautiful 17 year old and her sister who wouldn’t let
go of her hand. They dragged them for a long distance and the girls kept calling
out, ‘Bachao, bachao …’ The kabailis were collecting all the Hindus and Sikhs in
a hideout, Bala Pir. The two girls were already there … Night fell, they kept
raping the women, then dumped them.30
Bua did not see the actual rape in the above account. She mentioned the men selected a
beautiful young woman. The woman’s sister would not let her go alone, so both women
were raped. While Bua does not say so, it was likely that multiple men raped the women.
After the men were sexually satisfied, they left the two women to die.
G.D. Khosla interviewed 1500 women as part of the Fact Finding Organization.
He reported several examples where multiple men raped women. In one account, he
claims:
Young women and girls were molested and carried away. Reason and decency
were completely banished by fanatical zeal; and young innocent girls were raped
in public. In one village the relations of a girl were made to stand around in a ring
while she was raped by several men in succession.31
Several men raped this young girl, one right after another. In another example, Khosla
stated,, “One of the kidnapped girls, relating her experience, said that she had been raped
in a most inhuman manner and passed on from man to man till [sic] she completely lost
all sense of feeling.”32 It is difficult to imagine how long it takes for a woman to lose all
sense of feeling.
Several themes emerge with the above accounts. First, women only revealed they
were raped anonymously. Second, they were raped in public. Third, often they were
raped in front of their families. And finally, they faced multiple aggressors.
Mutilation
Rape and abduction were not the only violations women faced. In addition, some
men mutilated their women. In The Muslim League’s Attack on Hindus and Sikhs 1947,
the committee reported, “Women’s breasts, noses and arms would he [sic] lopped off.
Sticks and pieces of iron would be thrust into their private parts. Sometimes the bellies of
pregnant women were ripped open and the unformed life in the womb thrown out.”33
Major P.H. James, an officer with the Punjab Boundary Force, was horrified by what the
savagery of the attacks he witnessed, “… women and children had their limbs hacked off
and their breasts amputated before being killed. Pregnant mothers were sliced open.”34
Assailants specifically targeted women’s genitalia. They removed breasts. They violated
women with inanimate objects. And they destroyed women’s ability to bear their
husband’s children.
31 Reckoning,145-146.
32 Ibid, 206.
33
Muslim League, 81.
34 Major P.H. James, qtd. in “Army”, 493.
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Attackers also forced women to bear permanent reminders of their torture. Anees
Qudwai worked as a social worker in Delhi between 1947 and 1949. In her memoirs, she
remembered:
The volunteers told me of many, many women who had had “Pakistan Zindabad”
tattooed on their foreheads and the names of numerous [rapists] cut into their
arms and breasts … [sic] Hundreds of Muslim girls were also brought to me, on
whose arms hoodlums had tattooed their names and even the date of their
crimes.35
These victims can never forget their ordeal, as their attackers branded them. Their rapists
were clearly proud of their actions, because they cut their names into the women’s flesh.
Every day these women wake up, they will be reminded of the men who violated them. In
case they ever forget, the date of their rape is carved upon their bodies. I wonder how
FAMILIAL VIOLENCE
As the violence escalated in the Punjab, more and more families relocated to the
country populated by their coreligionists. The abduction, rape, and mutilation of young
women were common knowledge, as rumor traveled as quickly as people. Yasmin Khan
argues, “The potency of rumour [sic] should not underestimated, and more recent
calamities in South Asia have continued to spark lethal rumours [sic] across the country
long after events have receded from the media’s purview ….”36 The rumors of mass
violence against women prompted men to encourage female suicide. When women
Suicide
In the Punjab, women who committed suicide during Partition are regarded as
martyrs. Their families applaud their sacrifice, as they recount their heroism. Das argues,
“By choosing violent death for themselves rather than submitting to sexual violence by
men of other communities, women are enshrined in these narratives as saviours [sic] of
family honour [sic] [emphasis added].”37 While it is clear that many women ended their
own lives, I do not believe it was an active choice. At best, women probably saw death as
a better alternative to rape and mutilation. At worst, male relatives probably coerced
The mass suicide of women in the village of Thoa Khalsa was widely publicized.
“The Stateman” is an English language newspaper, one of the earliest published in India.
The story of 90 women of the little village of Thoha [sic] Khalsa, Rawalpindi
District, who drowned themselves by jumping into a well during the recent
disturbances, has stirred the imagination of the Punjab.
They revived the Rajput tradition of self-immolation when their men-folk were no
longer to defend them. They also followed Mr. Gandhi’s advice to Indian women
that in certain circumstances even suicide was morally preferable to
submission.38
In the above account, its staff writer linked the mass suicide of women to a Rajput
three women survived. Basant Kaur was one of the survivors. In her interview with
Urvashi Butalia, she remembered the villagers were trapped in their houses for several
days. She stated the men of the village decided to kill all the girls. She claimed men
My husband, he killed his daughter, his niece, his sister, and a grandson. He
killed them with a kirpan [sword worn by Sikh men]. My jeth’s [brother-in-law] son
killed his mother, his wife, his daughter, and a grandson and granddaughter, all
with a pistol. And then, my jeth, he doused himself with kerosene and jumped
into a fire.39
Kaur admitted she was afraid. The Muslim mob was getting nearer and there seemed
little chance of escape. The men distributed opium to the surviving women, and then
pointed out the village well. Mata Lajjawanti, one of the female elders in the village, led
the procession of women to the well. Then, she jumped. The remainder of the women
Many girls were killed. Then Mata Lajjawanti, she had a well near her house, in a
sort of garden. Then all of us jumped into that, some hundred … [sic] eighty-four
… [sic] girls and boys. All of us. Even boys, not only children, but grown-up boys.
I also went in, I took my two children and then we jumped in – I had some jewelry
on me, things in my ears, on my wrists, and I had fourteen rupees on me. I took
all that and threw it in the well, and then I jumped in …40
Kaur was one of the last women to jump in the well. Since there were so many bodies in
the well, the people at the top survived. There simply was not enough water to drown
them all.
Menon and Bhasin interviewed Taran, a Sikh woman who survived Partition with
her sisters. They spent several days with her, as she recalled her experiences during 1947
and 1984. She explained how she felt when she learned her relatives wanted to kill all the
young women:
So we formed committees which met and discussed what to do. One day they
were talking about what to do with all the young girls in the community. We would
listen stealthily and overheard them saying that all of us should be locked up in a
room and burnt alive. Our own families were saying this – they had seen what
some Muslims had done to the women, raped and killed them. The ones who
escaped and came back were in such bad shape – disfigured, mistreated. They
felt it was better to kill their women than have them go through this.
39
Besant Kaur, “Interview” qtd. in Silence, 158.
40 Ibid, 158.
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Should I tell you what I felt when I heard this? I loved life, was in love with it. And
I saw death starring me in the face.41
Taran and her sisters knew death was stalking them. They heard descriptions of what
happened to women who were abducted. They understood their elders believed death was
preferable to rape and disfigurement. Despite it all, Taran still wanted to live. I find it
Men did not just coerce their female relations to commit suicide. To prevent their
abduction, men actually killed their women. Urvashi Butalia tells the story of
Prakashvanti’s story goes as follows: she and her husband and a small child
lived in Sheikupura. In 1947, she was some twenty years old … Prakashvanti’s
husband came to her and suggested he kill her, else, he told her, ‘they will
dishonour [sic] you’. She remembers little after that, except that she was hit by
her husband, and she lost consciousness.42
Prakashvanti was only twenty years old when her husband tried to kill her. He hit her and
left her for dead. She survived, because the Muslim attackers believed she was already
dead. When she regained consciousness, she found the dead bodies of her husband and
child. She was not angry with him. In fact, she tried to justify his decision to kill her,
“What could he do? He was alone.”43 Prakashvanti did not return to her natal family.
Besant Kaur also remembered how her male relatives killed their kinswomen.
Before the village women jumped into the well, her relatives killed several women:
Because they had killed the girls, his daughter, sister, grandchildren, with their
kirpans, and then my jeth’s son had a pistol and he killed his mother, his uncle …
[sic] then my nephew killed my husband with a pistol. He had a small daughter,
one-and-a-half years old, she also ate pistol shots.44
Kaur’s husband killed several members of her family with his kirpan. Her brother-in-law
killed other women with his pistol. Age was not a factor, as he killed his infant daughter.
After killing female relatives, her nephew shot her husband. The women who survived
The above descriptions defy imagination. The savagery of the perpetrators against
women remains difficult to explain. Women faced death from men of the “other”
community, as well as from their own families. Some women committed suicide,
although it was likely their male relations coerced them. Menon and Bhasin argue, “Each
one of the violent acts mentioned above has specific symbolic meaning and physical
marked by the assailant.”45 The only way to make sense of the violence is by equating
women’s bodies to enemy territory. With this perception, impregnating a woman forces
NATIONAL VIOLENCE
After surviving abduction, rape, and possible harm from their families, many
women were married off to a member of the “other” community. While some were
certainly mistreated, there were others who adapted to their new circumstances. They
were wives, members of their new community, and probably mothers. However, their
ordeal was not over. The governments of India and Pakistan refused to recognize these
44 Ibid, 160.
45 Boundaries, 43.
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marriages as valid. After the initial abductions in 1946, India and Pakistan refused to
decided to “recover” abducted persons and reunite them with their original families. They
formalized that agreement in 1949. India’s Abducted Persons (Recovery and Restoration)
(a) ‘abducted person’ means a male child under the age of sixteen years or a
female of whatever age who is, or immediately before the 1st day of March, 1947,
was a Muslim [Pakistan’s law stated Hindu or Sikh] and who, on or after that day
or before the first day of January, 1949, has become separated from his or her
family and is found to be living with or under control of any other individual or
family, and in the latter case includes a child born to any such female after the
said date47
Abducted women were deprived on their right to choose their destiny, because the Act
did not allow women to remain with their new families. Veena Das argues, “… an
alliance was forged between social work as a profession and the state as parens patriae,
making official kinship norms of purity and honour [sic] much more rigid by
transforming them into the law of the state.”48 Abducted women were no longer afforded
Recovery
Women did not always want to return to their families. They were forced to return
to their natal countries, regardless of their desires. While male citizens were able to
choose which country to live in, abducted women were not given that option. In fact, they
were deprived of many rights of citizenship. Their natal countries believed they knew
what was right for women, then forced them to acquiesce. Butalia argues, “… the woman
46 Silence, 142.
47 “Abducted Persons (Recovery and Restoration) act of 1949 (Act No. LXV of 1949)
qtd. in Boundaries, 261.
48 Critical Events, 67.
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as a person did not count, her wishes were of little consequences, she had no right to
resist, defy nor even to appeal, for the Act denied even that basic freedom.”49 They were
There were several reasons women might want to remain with their new families.
For example, their abductors often lied to women about the conditions in the other
After about a month [September] it was announced by beat of drum that the
Hindu Military had arrived and those of the inhabitants who had Hindu women
and children in their possession should produce them at the police station. On
this account, I and many other women (about 150) were produced at the police
station. During the period of a month, that I stayed in the house of Abdul Ghani
the members of his family and he always said that there was no food in India, the
relations of all Hindu women had been killed and no one was prepared to have
them back into their homes and that even Mahatma Gandhi said that there was
no food in India and therefore, no women or men who had been kept in Pakistan
should return to India. We were also told that all the girls who would go to India
would be made to stand in line and shot dead by the Indian Military because they
were not fit for being returned to Hindu society and Hindu society was not
prepared to take them back.51
Originally, Wanti wanted to remain with her abductor. She believed her family was dead
and she might starve in India. However, her abductor claimed the army would kill her as
soon as she entered the country. Why would she want to return?
There was a great deal of propaganda to ensure that the Hindu women who had
remained behind in Pakistan, were not sent back to India. They were told that
their relations were all dead. Even if they happened to be alive, they would not be
accepted by their families; that there was not enough food in India and a bucket
of water cost five rupees. They were being sent to India only to be handed over
to the Sikhs in the army. It was but natural that after hearing such propaganda,
women were scared and not ready to return to India.52
49 Silence, 151.
50 Critical Events, 71.
51 “Statement of Shrimati Laj Wanti” qtd in Muslim League, 261-262.
52 Roots, 139.
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The propaganda was very successful. It was hurtful to believe that their families would
shun them. Why would they return just to be re-victimized by members of the army?
Hindu and Sikh women did not want to go home, because they believed they were
polluted.53 Therefore, they feared their families would not accept them. Patel says, “To
counteract this fear, Mahatma Gandhi addressed the situation after his evening prayers on
Thousands of Hindu and Sikh girls have been abducted by the Muslims, and
Muslim women have been abducted by Hindus and Sikhs. Where are these
women at present? We have no clue as to where they are at the moment. Those
who have met at Lahore had decided that all abducted women – Hindus, Sikhs,
or Muslims, should be recovered. I have received a long list of Muslim women
who have been abducted from Kashmir and the State of Patiala. Many of them
belong to wealthy, good families. If these women are recovered, there should be
no problem in their being accepted by their families. However, it is very doubtful if
our Hindus and Sikhs will accept their abducted women and treat them with
respect. They may have been forced to marry someone, and may have even
converted to Islam, despite this, in my opinion they should not be regarded as
Muslims at all. I would be happy to keep these women with me and treat them
with respect. At heart they are pure. However, because they fell into the hands of
evil men, I would only have compassion for them, and would have no reason to
despise them. Society must gracefully accept them. And if people are not
prepared to accept them back into their families, then why take all this trouble to
recover them at all? If some crook had raped a woman, and as a result she
became pregnant, is that a reason for me to despise her? Not at all. I would
make her sit on my lap and look upon her as my own daughter.54
Gandhi claimed abducted women were not polluted, after all. Yes, they were sexually
violated. Yes, they were forced to marry. Yes, they had children with their abductors.Yes,
they were even forced to renounce their religion and convert. However, these women did
not choose to be abducted by evil men. Rather than condemning them, he encouraged
Hindus and Sikhs to have compassion. He argued these women were not polluted,
because they were pure of heart. As such, their families should be glad their daughters
returned home.
53 Roots, 173.
54 Mahatma Gandhi, “December 26, 1947” qtd. in Roots, xix-xx.
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In other cases, women were happy with their new situation. They did not want to
return, because they liked their new life. In these cases, social workers used force to
Some time in 1950 I was required to escort 21 Muslim women who had been
recovered to Pakistan. They did not want to return, but the Tribunal had decided
that they had to go. They were young, beautiful girls and had been taken by
Sardars. They were determined to stay back because they were very happy. We
had to use real force to compel them to go back. I was very unhappy with this
duty – they had already suffered so much and now we were forcing them to
return when they just didn’t want to go.55
One of the twenty-one women was so determined to stay with her new husband
that she confronted Mridula Sarabhai, the Chief Social Worker for the Recovery Effort:
You say that abduction is immoral and so you are trying to save us. Well, now it
is too late. One marries only once – willingly or by force. We are now married –
what are you going to do with us? Ask us to get married again? Is that not
immoral? What happened to our relatives when we were abducted? Where were
they? … [sic] You may do your worst if you insist, but remember, you can kill us,
but we will not go.56
In her conversation with Sarabhai, the woman challenged the law itself. She asked why
forcing a woman to abandon her husband was not immoral. She challenged her family’s
right to determine her future, when it failed to protect from being abducted in the first
place. She asked where the state was when she needed it. In her final words, she made it
Many people agreed with Thapar that forcing women to return to their natal
People asked: Why are these girls being tortured in this way? … [sic] What is the
advantage of uprooting them once again? If making them homeless again is not
idiocy, what is it? To take a woman who has become a respected housewife and
mother in her [new] home, and force her to return to her old home and [or] her
parents, is not charity but a crime. Forget this business: those [women] who are
left in Hindustan [India} and those left in Pakistan are happy where they are …57
These people also wanted women to have a choice. After being victimized, they argued
the state was torturing these women. Yes, some women may want to return home.
However, women should choose to return to their families. The state simply had no right
Women did not want to return to their original countries for a variety of reasons.
Their abductors lied to them. They were afraid of starving from lack of food, being killed
as soon as they crossed the border, being re-victimized by the army, and being rejected
by their families. Due to a belief in pollution, they believed society would ostracize them.
And some women were genuinely happy with their new families. However, women did
not have the right to choose their life under the law. The stated classified them as
abducted persons; therefore, they would return to their own country, by force if
necessary.
“Wrong” children
India and Pakistan decided how to deal with children born while women were
abducted, without considering the desires of the women themselves. For the state, these
children were conceived in sexual unions that were “wrong.” As citizens of the new
states, women had only one function: to bear legitimate children.58 Das argues, “The
involvement of the state in the process of recovering women shows that if men were to
become ineffective in the control they exercise as heads of families, thus producing
children from ‘wrong’ sexual unions, then the state itself would come to be deprived of
The problem of what was to be done with the children that were born during that
period or were yet to be born was bothering all of us. After much discussion, it
was decided the child would be considered a citizen of the country where it was
born and that the abducted women when they were rescued, should leave their
children behind with their fathers.60
Women were forced to abandon their children, in order to return to their natal countries.
The decision to abandon children was heartbreaking for women. Patel argues:
The poor unmarried mother did not like to be separated from her first child, but at
the same time, she could not tell her relations that she had a child. She would cry
till her eyes were swollen, and as long as she stayed in the camp, would not be
separated from the child even for a little while.61
For women who were pregnant, the government terminated the pregnancy.62 Abortion
was illegal in India, except in the case of abducted women. And again, women were not
allowed to refuse the termination of their pregnancies. After all, the social workers and
CONCLUSION
marking the termination of one regime and the inauguration of two new ones.”64 Memon
and Bhasin note it “marks a watershed as much in people’s consciousness as in the lives
of those who were uprooted and had to find themselves again.”65 And Ian Talbot and
59 Ibid, 33.
60 Roots, 144.
61 Ibid, 146-147.
62 Critical Events, 78.
63 Ibid, 74.
64 Gyanendra Pandey, Remembering Partition: Violence, Nationalism and History in
Gurharpal Singh believe, “… that the legacy of Partition still looms over contemporary
India and Pakistan.”66 Yet for its importance, historians did not study the human cost of
the tragedy until the 1980s. The silence covered the pain of loss. I believe it was too
painful for Indian and Pakistani scholars to face the Partition, so they left the work to
their children and grandchildren. For decades in between, literature filled the void.
Several excellent novels expressed the horrors experienced during Partition. I recommend
Khushwant Singh’s novel Train to Pakistan, Manju Kapur’s novel Difficult Daughters,
Bapsi Sidhwa’s novel Cracking India, and Sa’adat Hasan Manto’s short story Tassels.67
Following the 1984 massacre of the Sikhs in northern India, scholars began
investigating the human suffering during the Partition. Subaltern historian Gyanendra
Pandey argues that widespread violence cannot be separated from community. Rather, it
constitutes community, with its own language understood by both Indians and
Pakistanis.68 Urvashi Butalia, Veena Das, Ritu Menon, and Kamla Bhasin investigate
how Partition impacted women and children. During interviews with survivors in the
Historians now know women bore the marks of an undeclared civil war on their
bodies. As symbols of a family’s honor, women faced abduction, rape and mutilation
from members of the “other” community. They were often raped in public spaces, in
front of their families. They faced multiple rapists, who signed their names in flesh. As
rumors of the atrocities reached the population, their males encouraged them to commit
suicide. When they were unable to martyr themselves, their men murdered them. For
66 Partition, 180.
67 Cracking India inspired the 1999 movie by Deepa Mehta, Earth.
68 Remembering, 2.
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women who survived the wave of violence, their countries victimized them again. The
state made them “abducted persons.” “Abducted persons” did not have basic citizen
rights. They could not choose to remain with their new families. They could not appeal
their extradition. And if women gave birth to their abductor’s children, they were truly
unfortunate. The state mandated “wrong” children remain with their fathers, the very men
who violated their mothers. If a woman was pregnant when recovered, the state sent her
murder, and destroyed motherhood. Today, their states have not investigated their
suffering with a Truth Commission. Their stories do not appear within the “official”
histories of India or Pakistan. And there are no national memorials commemorating their
losses. For decades, female survivors lived in silence … a silence only broken during the
last years of their lives. Even with the new influx of scholarship over the past fifteen
years, there remains a dearth of information on this watershed event.69 Survivors will die
soon; their stories will die with them, lost to history forever. That will be the final injury
69 “Prose,” 189.
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