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How to talk to Girls

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The 5 Most Deadly Conversation Mistakes YOU

Probably Make With Women

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and What To Do About It

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Lets face it

If you want to create attraction in a woman you must possess the ability to talk.

You can know all the secret attraction building techniques in the world but if
you cant carry a conversation YOU GET NO WHERE. Dont worry, well discuss
some of those secret attraction building techniques in later emails that I will
send to you!

Right now I want to concentrate on the exact ways youre killing your
conversations probably without realizing it.

Mistake #1: Breaking the 90/10 Rule When Starting a

Conversation

Have you ever noticed that most conversations dont pick up steam until about
5-10 minutes in?

This is because when you start talking to someone new, especially somebody
you do not know yet, they are going to be just as cold inside their heads as you
were before you psyche yourself up making yourself ready to start that
conversation.

A conversation needs time to build conversation momentum.

The problem most guys face is that dont ever give their conversations a chance
to build that momentum.

Most guys expect to hit this conversation flow too quickly. And because of this
the opposite effect happens and their conversations just stall out.

Well you have to carry the conversation. Be prepared, in the first five or so
minutes, to carry the conversation by providing 90, or even sometimes 100,
percent of all the content until they get warmed up a little bit

How do you do that?

Keep talking!

Well the rule is very simple: Just keep talking.

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By taking control of the conversation right from the beginning, you allow her time
to warm up and shift her brain from receive mode rather than give mode.
In future lessons Im going to show you exactly what tools you need to be able to
do this but for now, just know you HAVE to be prepared to talk 90% of the time
for the first 5-10 minutes of your conversations.

Mistake #2: Not Recognizing the Signals a Woman is Giving To You

You have to recognize the signals that women are giving to you so you know
whether you have got the right kind of emotional intensity the right energy
and whether the topics you are talking about are actually even appropriate for
this point in the conversation.

How do you do that?

Well, you use your senses. Your eyes and your ears are your best friends. You
have got to watch peoples reactions and learn to be able to read them.

You have a good sense of when you are boring her, when she is excited and how
she is reacting to you. You just have to make sure you pay attention.

The rule of thumb is when you first start a conversation with someone or with a
group of people you want to have a little bit more energy than that group had
before you came in.

If you get to recognize where she is at in terms of her energy level, her
enthusiasm, her excitement, how her neurology is wired up and lit up, and you
can pitch your own energy level to be just slightly above that, you will be sure to
be a success wherever you go because you will not be too much and you will
not be too little.

Mistake #3: Not Assuming Rapport Right From the Beginning

For the longest time I could never understand why it took so long for me to
develop rapport with women while my friends seem to jump right into it

And then it hit me

I was waiting for rapport to happen naturally they were assuming it.

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When you are talking to a woman, even if its your first time talking to her talk to
her in the same laid back way you would talk to an old friend.

Most guys do the complete opposite they talk to a woman in a stiff, formal way
reserved for strangers. And this just makes it more apparent that you are a
STRANGER. And this puts her guard up. And this creates that uncomfortable
awkwardness that is devastating to a conversation.

By jumping right into rapport you create a more natural feeling conversation and
give her the feeling of knowing you forever.

Mistake #4: Going into Interview Mode

I know youve experienced it talking to a woman, and feeling like youre on a job
interview.
This is the dreaded interview mode.

This happens when you dont know what to talk about so to keep the
conversation going you ask questions like:

What do you do for a living?

What do you do for fun?
Where did you grow up?
Where do you live?
What kind of music do you like?

Its not the questions themselves that kill you the rapid firing of question after
question and the steady stream of fact based answers that destroy any sort of
chemistry.

A conversation is supposed to fun vibing back and forth its not supposed to feel
like a job interview.

Mistake #5: Letting her Lead the Conversation

Most guys are so unsure of themselves when talking to a woman that they look
for the woman to give them approval or permission before they take any lead
in the conversation.

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And this is DEAD wrong.

The minute a woman realizes youre looking to her to lead the conversation her
attraction instantly disappears.

Most guys let the woman lead the conversation because they are scared of
pissing her off or choosing the wrong topic

But here is the thing

Women will follow whatever tone you set for the conversation. If you set a fun,
flirty vibe she will follow.

And even if she isnt interested in the topic youve chose to discuss shell still
respect you a lot more for taking the initiative.

But, how do I have a better conversations with women?

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6 Tips to have a better conversation with women

Walking up to a beautiful woman out of nowhere and introducing yourself is one

of the hardest parts of being a man.

In fact, it takes so much out of you that, a lot of the time, you forget the next
important step of the conversation: Actually having something to talk about.

Luckily, if you follow these tips you wont have a problem maintaining a
conversation with a woman.

Tip #1: Non-Verbals are Important

More than anything else, non-verbal cues are what distinguish a good
conversation from a bad one.

If youve ever seen two people really hitting it off from across the bar, you can
tell theyre into each other right away. It doesnt matter if the actual discussion
theyre having is about quantum physics or a debate on the value of the Earnest
movies, the fact that theyre into each other is evident with how they move
together.

In the same way, when talking to a woman you want to make her feel
comfortable and project that youre a confident man. A great pickup artist once
told me that the correct way to approach any girl in a conversation is to have it in
your mind that shes already told you that shes going to sleep with you later that
night.

That way, in your head at least, there is absolutely no pressure. Since its going to
happen anyway (in your head, remember) you can talk about anything you want
and can be more comfortable.

However, talking in a comfortable pose (remember: non-verbals) can often lead

to that fantasy scenario actually coming true.

Tip #2: Talk about your passions

Mystery, one of the greates pick-up artists, has said it in the past: Enthusiasm
breeds enthusiasm.

So if you are passionate about something, dont be afraid to show it.

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Now, there is a fine line to take here you dont want to needlessly steer the
conversation into the direction of your passions all the time but if you happen
to start to talk about the stock market, and thats something youre truly
passionate about, dont be afraid to show it. Women are always looking for men
to show their emotions, and passion is one.

Tip #3: Playground mentality

Go into the conversation with a playground mentality, as in, feel free to tell
stupid jokes or give her strange high-fives here and there.

By using that 3rd grade humor, youll get her to feel comfortable in the
conversation, which is one of the most important parts. As long as you show her
youre a fun guy no need to keep a sourpuss on your face like some emo rock
star then shell be more apt to want to talk to you again down the line.

Tip #4: Dont ask too many questions

While women love to talk about themselves and the easiest way to do this is by
badgering them with a bunch of questions too much can lead to the
conversation feeling like an interrogation.

Instead, after shes answered an initial question, feel free to follow that up with a
statement.

For example, after you ask her if she has any pets, and she mentions she has
three cats, dont go right into the question about what their names are.

Once you found that out, theres not a whole lot of places to go with the
conversation.

Instead, say something like I heard that cat lovers are more inclined to be
independent than dog lovers which will open up the conversation a bit and get
her to talk about herself without her feelings like youre putting her under the hot
spotlight of the interrogation room.

Tip #5: Lengthen your answers

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When she asks a bit about yourself, try to lengthen the answer a bit instead of
just answering the question directly.

While theres a fine art of doing this you dont want to give too much away,
remember, as that will take away a lot of the mystery surrounding you it is
better to give a longer answer than a shorter one in most cases.

You need to remain a mystery to her!

For example, if she asks you what you like, a good answer is not to say I like
baseball.

Instead, answer like this: I like baseball because it reminds me of the time my
dad spent playing catch with me in the yard, building our father-son connection.

From there, the conversation can go into all sorts of places and youve also
shown your soft side by opening up a bit about your feelings. Win-win!

Tip #6: Use cold reads

The art of cold-reading is important.

In it, you use clues from either how shes standing, what shes wearing, or what
shes talking about to make correct assumptions about her.

Its going to take some practice, but generally speaking if youre getting a feeling
about a girl, youre going to be right about it.

For example, if she continues talking about a large amount of ex-boyfriends, tell
her that she seems like the type of girl who has a hard time settling down
because she craves too much excitement out of life.

Not only will you show her that youve been paying attention this whole time to
the conversation, but also now the conversation can once again be about her, a
topic no woman doesnt enjoy.

Now, you might be still wondering: What the heck should I be talking about in a
conversation with a woman I just met???

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7 Conversation Topics That Keep Her Attention, Charm Her, and
Attract Her

You can spend all the time you want on your looks, book reservations at the
perfect restaurant or find the best bar in the area, and make all of the money you
want, but when it comes to charming a woman, it all comes down to the
conversation.

Which is why its so frustrating when certain conversations seem to go nowhere,

only ending up with large moments of awkward silence before the two of you go
your separate ways. Have you ever experienced that?

And then you see this ugly guy leaving the bar with this very attractive girl, he
just met an hour ago. What is going on? Its all about the conversations you
have...

The problem is that you are focusing on the wrong topics of conversation.

Luckily, its an easy fix.

By utilizing the following conversation topics, youll be able to attract women by
turning good conversations into great conversations.

#1 When you were kids...

No matter how old you are, your childhood will always hold a special place in
your heart. By opening yourself up and letting the woman know what kind of
circumstances you come from, youll not only show her your emotional side, but
also give her a chance to relate.

By opening up the floor for conversation topics about childhood, she will have
her own experiences she will want to talk about, allowing her to shoulder a lot of
the conversation itself.

#2 What youre passionate about

This is the easiest topic to use for two reasons. First, it allows the woman to (once
again) see your emotional side, something that will only help win her over.

Second, it gives you a chance to talk about something you actually enjoy talking
about!

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This will make the conversation float easily, taking the weight off of it. In the same
way, after talking about your own passions, steer the conversation in the direction
of hers, asking her a lot of questions about what she enjoys doing.

Later on when she thinks about the conversation she had with you, shell
remember it being a lot of fun because she was talking about what she loves.

She will connect her positive emotions with you!

#3 The people surrounding you

Since this is a woman youve spent very little time with, you dont have a lot of
common experiences from which to draw from except the current experience
youre having.

Form a bond with her by discussing your surroundings, whether it be the type of
bar youre currently in, the food in the restaurant, or the people surrounding you.
One thing I love doing whenever Im talking with a woman is making up back
stories for the various strangers surrounding us.

This puts us in a collaborative mood and allows me to flex my creative side.

#4 Her ambitions

While talking about your current job and your past is all well and good, women
put a lot of stock into where the man is going.

But even more important than that is getting her to speak about her own future
ambitions. This will, once again, steer the conversation in her direction, letting her
talk about herself.

Also, it will boost the emotional state of the conversation, since no one can talk
about their own ambitions without getting a little bit excited about them. An
emotion she will, again, link with you.

#5 Her travels...

Travel is always a fun topic, but this is a part where its best to step back and let
her talk.

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While the places youve traveled could be great, and you could have so many
stories from your various adventures, too many of those and it looks like youre
trying too hard to impress her.

Instead, start the topic off about travel and then start inquiring about her own
stories. This will showcase her various passions, desires, world views, etc. which
you can call back later on in the conversation.

#6 Your life lessons...

While this isnt necessarily a topic, its important to shade all of your
conversations by asking yourself this question:

What lesson has this taught you?

By having this depth in every topic of conversation, you are not only showcasing
the depth of your own thought (again, something women enjoy finding in men),
but also once again spreading the branches of the conversation tree as far as
they can go.
Instead of just talking about this fight you got into in 5th grade (one topic) you can
talk about your various feelings that were going through your mind at the time
and the lessons youve learned from the fight (many topics). From there, the
conversation will expand on its own.

#7 ...your thoughts on pop culture or current events.

If worse comes to worse, use any thoughts you have on pop culture or current
events to keep the conversation from falling into any awkward silences.
However, dont use this conversation topic too often or else you will come off as
boring and with no depth. Avoid politics, religion or economics...

Coming back to our 5 conversation mistakes, from the beginning. Do you want to
know what the biggest mistake men make in regards to their conversations with
women?

Not getting help.

Would you believe that 10 years ago it was nearly impossible to find this sort of
information on improving your conversations with women? This meant that guys
were forced to either struggle forever, or figure it out on their own.

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However, you have no excuse as there is help available. Help that can change
your game almost overnight.

Even though it has been close to five years since I last struggled with this I still
know the pain you feel I had felt it for more than two thirds of my life. And I
dont wish that pain on anyone.

Now, I know that anytime, anywhere I can go out and talk to women and create
attraction.

This is what fueled to me to create a program about this. I asked 5 of the guys I
know who are the absolute best at talking to women to join me on this program
to help create that change in you a lot quicker than it took me.

Its jam packed with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for creating the
right mindset for talking to a woman, getting in the zone, making her laugh,
creating rapport, keeping a conversation flowing naturally, overcoming shit
tests, dealing with guys who might be overshadowing you, and most
importantly, creating attraction as you talk to her

This is arguably the most comprehensive conversation training you will ever
receive. There is no way you can listen to this program and not come away with
at least a dozen tips that will change the way you communicate with women
nearly immediately.

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