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Not long, and Kroesik arrived at the town square with his
escort. The area was filled with curious tribesmen and
women, who desperately wanted to catch a glimpse of the
rumored outsiders. The elder reached the crowd and
shouted orders, untranslatable to the common tongue.
Instantly, the villagers formed a path for the elder and
placed two fingers against their chest with a raised thumb,
to pay respects towards Kroesik, as he walked the path
towards the intruders. He wanted to keep his calm, and
tried to avoid the worried looks that burned his back on his
walk towards the center. Three men, softly shaking in fear,
were standing stiffly in the middle of the crowd of curious
eyes, while Kroesik's daughter, Silmida, was studying them
closely. These white men differed from everything the
village had ever witnessed. Their skin was lighter than the
sandy, creamy skin of the occupants of this village. Their
clothes seemed weird also, full of pockets and metal parts.
Something that the villagers, dressed in leafs and pelts,
had never seen before. The elder closes in on the intruders
and stared them in the eye, one after another.
"Not bad for a first scouting trip, huh dad?" Silmida brags
proudly in their language while sniffing the neck of one of
the intruders.
The woman squinted her eyes and tilted her head slightly
to the side. The visitor then pretended to eat from the cup,
igniting a smile on the woman's face, who then repeated
the word "Eating.", and nodded at him excitedly.
"We will have food now. I hope you are hungry, friends."
He declares and sways his arm towards the men and
women carrying humongous plates full of meat, fruits, and
vegetables.
The other two then steer their eyes toward Kroesik, clearly
worried that he may have offended the elder.
"Then why would you kill helpless animals, if you can get
by without doing so?" The man asks, with a poorly hidden
frustration in his voice.
When morning came, the three men had left the village
with hasty goodbyes, promising to return soon with the
rest of their explorer's guild. True to their word, they
returned within few moons with a horde of inquisitive
minds, eager to learn more about the isolated tribe of
Trinbamna. Everyone was getting along, trading items from
their worlds and showing interest in learning each other's
language. Everyone except Kroesik. For he was too busy
worrying the decision he made.
The old leader was leaning on his knee with water dripping
from his face when he hears a heated argument nearby. He
quickly gets to his feet and hurries to the scene. A young
man and a woman were yelling at each other with arms
flailing around, like casting curses upon each other.
"But you were yelling at each other and calling each other
names. Why would you ever, willingly, be mean towards a
person you love?"
The wife is about to open her mouth, but the husband
raises his finger to silence her and turns to the elder with a
question. " I believe our ways in this subject are quite
different. May I ask you, that how do couples in Trinbamna
solve problems together?"
The old chief studies the young couple for a moment and
proceeds to explain a thing, he never thought he would
have to teach to a grown person. "We are human, so we
solve problems with our tongue, language. We all do not
see eye to eye on everything, and for this, we have a
tradition. Every new year, we can challenge our enemies to
a duel, where we curse them with loud words and even
fight them with fists if necessary. But after all that, we all
eat and drink together, for the grudges need to be left in
the past year, and we need to step into a new year with
only friends." The elder squints his eyes while he looks at
the couple. "But to see married people doing this is
something new for me. For us, love is when you care for
someone so deeply, that you value their well-being like you
would value your own, or maybe even more. So why would
you insult the person who should be the most important to
you? Why is your body even allowing you to form such
negativity towards a person with such importance? Are
you sure you really love each other?" Kroesik shoots the
questions, with a grave need for explanation.
Kroesik stares him dead in the eye. "You talk about arguing
like it is a sport to you. Solving problems is what people
should be doing. Never is a good moment for argument.
An argument is the evil twin of problem-solving, where
you forget the actual problem, and focus on inflicting
emotional pain upon others. Children argue, for they
cannot control their emotions enough to keep their calm
and focus on the words they are being told. Children only
wait until the other person is done talking, just so that is
now their turn to completely ignore the other ones words,
and it is finally their turn to scream nonsense, where the
other person will only pick the words which they can use
against the other. Never even coming close to solving the
problem which started the whole conversation." He
finishes with a deep stare at the couple. "Now, good
people, tell me what you were fighting about." The elder
sees that the couple is not agreeing with him, but he burns
for answers on the subject.
"He likes to spend more time with his friends, rather than
with me, which makes me feel ignored and not valued as I
think I deserve." The woman is quick to begin explaining.
"Pffft, please, when I make time for us, you are always too
tired, or have other plans! After weeks of constant
nagging, you finally get your way, then you won't even do
anything with me." The husband defends himself
"Stop stop." Kroesik waves his hands and urges a stop for
the argument. "What is this? You are only comparing the
amounts of mistreatment you are giving each other. You
are not trying to solve anything, you are just racing to see
who treats each other worse!" He states with a slightly
raised voice, smothered in frustration.
The wife suddenly grabs her husband by the arm and drags
him away from the scene. "I won't be judged by him." Are
the last whispered words the chief hears from the couple
as their backs shrank away from sight.
"I worry, yes, but not without a reason I assure you." The
elder replies while leaning his chin in his fists. "I have tried
to hold a conversation about subjects that I do not
understand, but all I do is anger your people."
The old chief was sitting on the side of the road next to the
river and reading a book about the common language. The
sun was about to go down, making his old eyes unable to
see the text clearly any longer. He slams the book shut and
notices a man with a weird smile coming his way.
Frank lets out a mocking laugh. "No Crock, that's not the
case! We live in a house which is the size of that corn field
right there, we have servants to keep the house clean and
prepare dinner for us, and a separate house in the hills
where we can go away from it all every now and then." He
corrects the old chief with his back straightened up from
pride.
Kroesik is getting frustrated with himself, and his inability
to understand the weird ways of these outsiders, time
after another.
"Sure you can, but how much time did you spend to get
into a situation like that? How much did you have to
sacrifice for wealth? I believe you spent many years in
schools, and even more years working late to prove your
worth. Because you chose to spend time on achieving
wealth, you sacrificed the time you could've spent with
your family, which I believe didn't need all that material
you bought them, as much as they needed your presence
in their lives."
Once more the Elder is left alone with his thoughts, after a
conversation that left an outsider upset.
Then why is the first option the most common one? Does
it feel safer to do it because others do it too? Or just
because you don't have to paint the path yourself?
The elder tosses a log in the fire before them and sinks into
his thoughts.
Terry shakes his head and pushes his lips tightly together.
"I have told you many times, dear friend, that you worry
too much. Everything is just new for your people, hence
the excitement about everything from our world."
The long, hot summer was finally reaching its end. Like
they did every year in the village of Trinbamna, this year
also they celebrated the past summer, and gave thanks for
the fruit it bore. This years celebration was held in the
freshly erected town hall, which was mainly used for
selling mementos and snacks for the tourists. Kroesik was
sitting with the children at the edge of the dance floor,
where adults were dancing to the rhythms of the tribal
drums and Terry playing an acoustic guitar. The elder found
himself spending more and more time with the youth
nowadays, for he felt that they weren't so petrified inside
an intellectual box as the adults of the outside seemed to
be. Kroesik was looking around the room where he felt
alone with his forced smile, for the others were hardly
containing their joy with their dance and laughter.
The elder noticed this dark haired girl with a thick layer of
makeup, browsing her phone and taking pictures of
herself. But her kind smile occupied her face only when
she was taking a picture, and right after, she seemed like
the saddest and suppressed girl on the planet. This was
not the first time Kroesik had seen this girl in the village,
and previous times also, her behavior was the same. It
seemed like she was trying to convince her smartphone,
that everything is better than it actually is. With a loud
sigh, Kroesik stood up and began walking towards this
weird behaving girl, reminding himself about his decision
of not to lose hope on understanding these people from
the big world.
"Hello there young lady, mind if I sit with you for a while?"
The elder approached the girl with a kind smile.
The girl before him lifted her face from her phone and
greeted Kroesik with a wide grin, and tapped the stool next
to her. Kroesik sat down and nodded at her phone.
"But after that, they both let go of each other and laid
down on different sides of the blanket, and spent the next
hour just operating their smartphones, completely
ignoring each others company. They ate some of the food
which could be eaten without preparing, for they were too
busy with their phones. After about an hour, the man
snapped at the woman, bluntly stating that they should
leave before it gets dark. The woman was too busy smiling
at her device, that without replying, she just got up and
began packing the leftover foods with the phone still in her
hand."
"Me?!" She snaps and points her chest with her finger,
"I actually meant you, as in you people, but yes, why do
you do it?"
Why wouldn't she hear the words that Kroesik spoke? She
didn't just ignore them, but it truly felt like she did not
even register what he had to say. For a long time, it
seemed like the elder could not find the right words to
represent his suggestions he had for the outsiders, or the
words he chose, had a different meaning in the world
outside. But as time passed, his skills in the common
tongue were improving, and he seldom had to stumble
with his words anymore. All this time he was busy with
filling the gaps in his knowledge too, for he was certain
that he needed help on understanding the views and
habits of the people of outside, to further advance his
intelligence. He did all this, and not one outsider is willing
to even register what he has to say. In this village, ego is
something that children are being taught how to handle,
for they are unable to question themselves at a young age.
But like growing out of diapers, the kids are taught respect
and self-criticism, to encourage them to find fault within
themselves first.
The girl raises her eyebrow and huffs quietly, weirded out
by the chief, and dives back into the world of social media.
"Hey, Dad! She shrieks ecstatic, hand locked into the man
she was spending a lot of time recently.
"That we are gonna move into the big world together and
get married! To a big city where we can live like these
wonderful people, Chase our dreams and work hard to
achieve them! Isn't that right, baby?" Silmida ends her
announcement with a loud kiss on her new fiance. "And
nothing you say can stop us, Dad!" She adds and winks her
eye.
It was like these words blew out the last flickering flame in
the eyes of our troubled elder, as he heard these words
coming from the sunshine of his heart. His little
hummingbird, blessing from the earth to a childless family.
Kroesik and his partner had trouble conceiving a child for
many years. Her wishes still sometimes echo in his mind.
"Then that is how it shall be." and walks past them without
looking back.
Serenity.