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Eyebrow (EB): There are no jobs

Side of the Eye (SE): Im looking for something that doesnt exist

Under the Eye (UE): Its pointless

Under the Nose (UN): Its depressing

Chin (CH): I feel so depressed with this job search

Collar Bone (CB): And its so stressful

Under the Arm (UA): I feel so anxious

Top of the Head (TH): I keep trying but its impossible

EB: Theres nothing out there for me

SE: There are no jobs

UE: There are no jobs for me

UN: There are jobs for other people

CH: But there are no jobs for me

CB: There are jobs for other people

UA: They find jobs, but not me

TH: I feel so jealous that they make it look so easy

EB: Still, at least if people I know have found jobs

SE: Then maybe there might be a job for me

UE: Its possible theres a job for me

UN: if there are jobs for them

CH: I know it feels like there are no jobs for me right now

CB: but I know that other people have found them

UA: It still feels impossible for me to find a job

TH: but Im choosing to be open to the possibility that there might be


EB: Im choosing to open up a little

SE: Im choosing to be open to new possibilities

UE: Im choosing to appreciate my own gifts and talents

UN: and let them flow out from my heart

CH: Im choosing to bless those other people

CB: who have shown me that there are jobs out there

UA: Im choosing to bless everyone who has a job right now

TH: Including me!

arol: Start on the Karate Chop Spot:

Even though I don't know how I'm going to find the right job, I choose to believe in guidance.

Even though I hate having a boss, and I don't want to get a job, I choose to accept who I am and how
I feel.

Even though I resent working for someone else, I want to work for myself, I deeply and completely
accept all these complicated feelings.

Eyebrow: I don't know how I'm going to find the right job.

Side of Eye: I need a job right now!

Under Eye: I hate having a boss.

Under Nose: I resent having a boss.

Chin: I want to make money with my artwork.


Collarbone: I'm quite talented.

Under Arm: I wonder why they don't see it.

Head: I have to get a job.

Eyebrow: I'm awfully scared about it.

Side of Eye: What if I could get a job?

Under Eye: And still do my artwork...

Nose: And get paid for both.

Chin: I might even find a good boss.

Collarbone: I might even do well.

Under Arm: I love feeling relaxed about it.

Head: I choose to feel relaxed and peaceful about work.

Carol: Take a deep breath. What's happening, a lot was happening in your voice,but what did you
notice about your issues?

Jon: I am definitely more relaxed about the "slave" issue, but I still feel doubtful about how much
work it's going to take. I'm not going to have any time left for me. It seems as if the only way to
make money is to totally cut off from self-expression. (Please notice that Jon has now changed
aspects.)
Carol: Go again to the Karate Chop Point:

Even though I'm convinced I can't make money unless I'm running myself into the ground, I choose
to accept who I am.

Even though I haven't found a way to make money unless I'm cutting off my self-expression, I choose
to be open to new possibilities.

Even though I doubt how I'm going to do it, I have decided to have some faith about it.

Eyebrow: I still resent having a boss.

Side of Eye: I need more time.

Under Eye: The doubts are getting in my way.

Nose: What if I found the perfect job?

Chin: It's not here now.

Collarbone: But it could show up tomorrow.

Under Arm: I choose to feel there's plenty of time.

Head: I choose to believe the right job is there for me.

Carol: Take a deep breath. What's coming up now?


Jon: I feel an impending rush to get work --- out of money, knowing my landlord isn't going to give
up. (Jon has changed aspects again.)

Eyebrow: This remaining anxiety.

Side of Eye: The truth is I need a job.

Under Eye: I can feel the urgency.

Nose: I feel the anger about it.

Chin: I feel anxious.

Collarbone: I need to pay the rent.

Under Arm: I feel anxious.

Head: The anxiety is blocking me.

Eyebrow: What if I could calm myself down?

Side of Eye: And still acknowledge the anxiety...

Under Eye: I want to see clearly.

Nose: I want to feel calm about it.


Chin: I want to be clear.

Collarbone: I choose to be clear and peaceful.

Under Arm: I choose to be clear and peaceful.

Head: I love feeling so peaceful.

Carol: Take a deep breath...what happened?

Jon: A lot of movement this time, my anxiety is down to a "2."

Carol: I would keep tapping on the anxiety, and on the conviction you've got about the trap you're in
--- that if you do your art, you can't make money, and that if you get a real job, you can't do your
art....and keep tapping for the rest of the call and when you get the recording of the class. (All
teleclass participants receive a link to a downloadable version of the taped teleclass. This allows
them to "borrow benefits" weeks and months after the call.)

Five weeks later, I received this letter:

Subject: Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

Dear Carol:

Since taking your "Attracting Abundance Teleclass" in December,my life has completely turned
around! 180-degrees! I am so excited to report this to you. My name is Jon and I was one of the
callers you worked personally with on the evening of December 12th. My problem, briefly, was
stated as "feeling enslaved to every job (no time for myself for recognition of my talents), not
wanting to work, resistance to authority (bosses), and anxiety about extant debts and bills."
A real 'snorl' of issues that has plagued me for many years. Until now! I just kept tapping, tapping,
tapping (3x/day on average) on the negative, the exaggerated negatives, positive affirmations, and
treating every issue to employment, blocks to abundance, etc. that I could possibly conceive of in
the moment or through other resources (your attracting abundance lessons from your book, an on-
going journal of issues that I was recording, etc.).

One very positive affirmation that I was utilizing was:

"Jon attracts the right situations and/or occupations for his highest good to joyfully generate
financial independence and abundance."

Free Advanced EFT Script

The Pain-Body

The pain-body is a very useful concept that has been introduced by spiritual teacher and author
Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now, A New Earth). It is the accumulation of emotional pain that we
have stored in our mind and bodies.

This pain-body is a negative energy field, an invisible entity in its own right, and it has certain
characteristics:

> It has two modes of being: dormant and active

> Anything can trigger it to become active, especially if it resonates with a pain pattern from our
past (abandonment, rejection, not good enough)

> Like any other entity, the pain body wants to survive. It feeds on more pain, and it wants you to
identify with it completely.

> It loves drama. The more soap opera the better.

EFT is very helpful on your quest to detach from the pain-body, to let go of THE STORY, and (as Tolle
would phrase it) return to the only place of personal power: the present moment. We all would love
to achieve that but how? I believe that EFT is the missing link between these two poles.
From the EFT point of view, tapping on the pain-body is a gentle, effective Tearless Trauma
Technique: It takes off the edge when delving into the specifics of your emotional pain would be
too intense. You always can (and should) get more specific at a later point. With the concept of the
pain-body we can stay global and work with a real enough thing at the same time.

Tapping on the Pain-Body

If you do not know how to tap (do EFT), go first to What is EFT

First, tune in to your general feeling of emotional (and/or physical) pain, and put your discomfort on
a scale 0 to 10. 0 is no pain at all, and 10 is extreme. Write this number down.

Start tapping on the KARATE CHOP point (side of the hand), and say out loud:

Even though I have this dense, very active pain-body,

I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I have the belief that I am my pain-body,

I reject this ridiculous notion.

Even though my pain-body creates constant agony,

the time for healing is now.

Now tap on the following points while saying out loud:

Eyebrow: This dense pain-body

Side of eye: This constant negative thinking


Under eye: Overwhelmed with painful emotions

Nose: My pain is who I am

Chin: This identification with my pain-body

Collarbone: I lose my identity if I let go of my story

Under arm: This accumulation of old pain

Top of head: My pain-body loves to feed on more pain

Eyebrow: My deep pain is justified, it is who I am

Side of eye: I have a right to my victimhood

Under eye: I don't want to let go of my pain

Nose: This hungry pain-body

Chin: I am my thoughts and my emotions

Collarbone: I am my mind and my stories

Under arm: I have the right to be unhappy


Top of head: This dense pain-body

Take a deep breath.

Now, rate your global pain again on our scale 0 to 10.

If the intensity went down (or up) use Even though I STILL have/am/do (adjust the grammar) as the
new set-up phrase and go though the tapping sequence again. Repeat this process until you feel
profound relief (an emotional shift), or as often as it feels right.

If your intensity did not budge at all (or the level gets stuck during the follow-up rounds) you have
to get more specific. Also, drink a glass of pure water.

If you were flooded with memories, thoughts, emotions, or body sensations while you were tapping,
you already got more specific.

Since these scripts cannot be as personal as a private session, you have to adjust parts of them to
your needs. The following sequence is a guideline, please fill in the blanks and extend it. There is no
right or wrong when it comes to tapping. Often, out of the greatest mental and emotional mess, a
gem (or a whole treasure chest) evolves. Trust the process.

Sometimes, you will release an issue in a jiffy. At other times, you have to do major excavation work.

KARATE CHOP:

Even though I feel this . (strong emotion like fear, anger, hurt), I deeply and completely love and
accept myself.

Even though I feel this emotion in my (body part like heart, solar plexus, shoulders), I allow my body
to relax now.
Even though I have this memory of (give it a title like Forgotten in the grocery store, When Dad
yelled at me in front of my friends), I choose to feel safe now.

Eyebrow: This (emotion)

Side of eye: This discomfort/pain in my (body part)

Under eye: This memory of (title of memory)

Nose: This old pain stuck in my body and energy system

Chin: I can never get over that, and you cant make me

Collarbone: It hurts too much

Under arm: Its not safe to let go of my agony

Top of head: Who would I be without my pain-body?

Continue with the specifics of your feelings, body sensations, beliefs, and memories.

What does this current event or feeling remind you of?

When did you feel like that for the first time?

What exactly happened? Narrate the story.

What is it that bothers you the most of the whole situation?


Did the discomfort/pain in your body shift? Where is it now?

What are your exact feelings? Did they change?

Did another memory pop up?

What couldnt you say or express as a child?

Continue to dig and follow the trail of your memories, thoughts, emotions, and body sensations.
Talk it out, make notes, and tap until you get relief.

If you feel warm or dead tired, sigh, yawn, or get bored with the whole thing those are good signs!
Your energy is shifting.

Now you are ready for the last round:

KARATE CHOP:

Even though I feel lost, unsafe, and out of place everywhere,

I deeply and completely love and accept myself

Even though I dont belong anywhere and it hurts so much,

I honor and respect myself

Even though I have never felt safe when I was a child,

I allow myself to feel safe now.


Eyebrow: I let those old, painful beliefs and feelings go now, they don't serve me anymore

Side of eye: I am stepping back from my pain-body

Under eye: I give myself permission to let go of my pain

Nose: I know that I am much more than my pain-body

Chin: I choose Being

Collarbone: I choose Presence

Under arm: I know who I truly am

Top of the head: I am at peace NOW

Eyebrow: I transform my pain-body into higher consciousness

Side of eye: I choose to believe the wiser part of me

Under eye: I choose to step out of my pain-body

Nose: I let it be easy

Chin: It takes no time at all, it happens NOW

Collarbone: My painful emotions are not who I am


Under arm: I am Soul, I am Presence

Top of the head: I am free to be me.

Take a deep breath. Good work!

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