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txts 2 attract sex

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he girl who just sees you as a friend. The girl in your
social circle. The girl who got away. What do all those
girls have in common (aside from you not being able
to sleep with them)?

Theyre all examples of girls you need to renegotiate the

terms of your relationship with. Forgive me for using legal jar-
gon, but its appropriate in this context. Just like when one
person wants to renegotiate a contract with another person,
the same holds true for you.

Renegotiating the terms of a relationship with a woman be-

gins with changing your communication pattern with her. The
foundation of any relationship is communication, and so if you
tweak that then you can alter how she perceives you...

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Create an Event that Puts You
In the Drivers Seat

T
he first step in altering how she perceives is by get-
ting her emotional (per the Keylock Sequence).
However, you also should have some forward mo-
mentum in your text, which means you should AL-
READY be progressing things forward.

This makes sense since you already know her, so the standard
Keylock Sequence (which is intended for new girls) might
be overkill in your situation. For me, heres how I love to kick-
off The Magnetic Effect:

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Notice nothing in that text rocks the boat too much. I pur-
posely call her girl to keep it somewhat flirtybut not too
much. Also, by suggesting she and I make a party pact Im
assuming that were going to a party together (even though I
NEVER mentioned a party before).

Most likely her response will either be confused or curious.

Shell either say, What party? or Okaywhat is it? or pos-
sibly even, Do you have the right person? No matter how she
responds its crucial that you DONT tell her what the party
pact isyou simply want to keep her in suspense. Thus, you
CAN text something like:

All Im trying to do is be playful and a little flirty. Im not looking

to set off any alarms or do anything too bold. A little humor
and suggestiveness goes a long way in these situations! Usu-
ally shell respond to this with something like, lol okay? or
sounds fun!

Heres where you want to ramp up your assertiveness. Much

of the reason you dont like the terms of your relationship
with this girl is because you lacked assertiveness in the first

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place. Therefore, its VERY IMPORTANT you slowly habituate

her into seeing you as the leader. Therefore, NO MATTER HOW
she responds to your text, you need to playfully disagree with
her! Something along the lines of this:

Even though it may look like Im just joking about a party

pact, Im really doing something very specific: getting her
accustomed to following my lead. Notice how I lead the con-
versation in a very subtle and fun way. Telling her were go-
ing to create a party pact, then telling her how Im going to
reveal said pact, and then telling her I was kidding. Its all
about changing direction, and having her try and keep up.

Now, you dont need to text women about a party pact,

though you should text something that sets you up to dictate
the direction of communication (an event). Put yourself in
a position to lead! Get her in the habit of following YOU. Its
your pace, your terms.

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Cards on the Table

W
ait a day or two after your flirty exchange.
Even though you may want to text her dur-
ing that time, fight the temptation. Itll be
good for you to develop some patience and
look at the bigger picture.

Once some time has passed, its time to establish the new pa-
rameters of your relationship. Please note: she probably will
NOT go for these parameters. The point isnt to tell her you
like heryou simply want to make her AWARE of the new
parameters.

As with everything you do in text game, make sure to keep it

playful and borderline joking. This will keep things from getting
awkward or weird. Usually Ill begin the interaction by throw-

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ing out a holding pattern text (from Magnetic Messaging).

For example:

I like this text because its a quirky day-in-the-life-style Hold-

ing Pattern message, but also serves another crucial purpose:
it foreshadows what youre going to say next (without coming
out and saying it). As long as she responds, use what she says
next to keep the momentum going. HOWEVER, if she does
NOT respond, DO NOTHING.

Remember: this text is testing the waters. Youre halfway

hitting on her by saying you saw someone who looked like
her, and made you say damn! This leaves you with plenty
of plausible deniability if shes not into the idea of you hitting
on her. To be honest though, if she doesnt respond then you

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probably need to do more in-person work with her before at-

tempting this Magnetic Effect pattern.

If she DOES respond though, youre sitting real pretty. Since

you sort of already hit on her, now its time to ACTUALLY
hit on her! Usually Ill begin by riffing off her response to my
thought I saw you on a bike text. Even if she says something
as simple as lol! Ill use that to complement her and then go
right into one of my favorite texts for throwing my cards on
the table. Heres how:

See how that works? Youre being boldyet humorous. Its

the PERFECT way to throw your cards on the table. Now, re-
member what I said earlier: youre not looking for her to jump
all over this, or even respond. In fact, chances are: she wont!

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The reason youre doing this isnt to sweep her off her feet
yet. Youre establishing the NEW parameters of your relation-
ship. She may even write back, What?! I dont think of you in
that way! or something else negative. Doesnt matter. The
idea has been planted in her head!

The inception has begun

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Throw her a Curve

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ow that youve made your intentions clear, give
her a day to let the idea sink in. Dont wait too long
because you want to keep the momentum going
in your favor. Though, you also want to keep her
on her toes. Keep her guessing. Thats why its
such a perfect time to thrown her a curve.

Now whatever youre thinking Im going to tell you to do,

youre wrong! Probably you think throwing a curve means
trying to get her jealous or playing hard to get suddenly. But
keep in mind: thats exactly what shes thinking, too!

Thus, if you threw her a curve in the traditional sense, then

it would be too transparent, obvious, and thus ineffective. You
need to think strategicallyyou need to think how can I do

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something shes NEVER expect?

Heres how I do it:

Wait about 15 minutes, and then:

Basically you want to accidently send her a text that isnt

bragging or weird. Its just sort of funny and random. Thatll
throw her the perfect curve thatll get her head spinning!

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Complete the Cycle

N
ow wait a FEW days! Dont rush this last piece
or else all the good work youve already put in will
be for naught! Be patient here and resist the urge
to text her. If she texts you in this time, respond
with pure minimalism (unless of course it seems
like shes coming onto youobviously use your judgment!).

After a few days has passed, its time to complete the cy-
cle and release the tension you created with your create an
event text. Most important, its time to set up a meeting be-
tween you and your girl that will put you in a one-on-one situ-
ation with her.

Heres how I do it:

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Boom. From there, if she accepts, youre now on different foot-

ing with her. She now knows your intentions. If she agrees,
then youre in a position to renegotiate the terms of your
relationship. Of course, this is only a start, and you need to
STEP UP when you get her out and make a move.

Good luck! And be sure to email me with any success stories!

rob@datehottergirls.com yo!

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