Love is an estate of conscience.

Why people feel the need to have their fellow humans? Why "having"
is packaged in a package beautifully colored that says "I love you"?

Possessivity closely linked to the ignorance. Here is what way. What

do you do when you try to have another person? What do you do when
you are trying to put over your partner ? You are clinging to her.
Don't you like you read, did I? This is the reality. You are
clinging to the other, trying to transform itself into a personal
best because you do not know who you are.

If only you knew what you treasure your inside, not even try you
think to are supremely able to control or to dominate another
person. But you don't know who you are. Do you think you are a poor
beggar who found himself overnight with something valuable. This
something you with his teeth. Has become your possession. He did not
give it the way. You are clinging desperately because this
relationship that makes you feel a little bit better. This is love,
in your opinion. It is obviously an illusion. Love does not take the
hostages. Not connecting people from the base of the seat, him
muttering: "You are so important to me. You cherish so much".

To love means to share. When the love he offered the other what you
have better. He did not give you what you do. Give him what you
have. What could prove to be satisfactory to him/her. Or not. This
is another problem. The important thing is that when you really love
her, give you what you have to offer and do not ask for nothing in
exchange. Of course, you get if she offer you. It would be mad to
refuse. But do not pretend to be. Love does not oblige anyone to do
nothing. In this sense love is freedom. This is a clear criterion
after which you know if you love or not someone.

If you love a person respect freedom. More than that. If you can
help to extend its freedom. Sustained with your love, your beloved
becomes a person in the free. It shall be extended in several
directions, he disclosed the new aspects of the personality, learn
to protect their makes appropriate, transform what is the coarse.
You do not love for that you need each other. You are not a beggar.
You are an Emperor! The problem is to take something, but to give
something. I repeat: maybe and the other has something to make you a
present. Two people that provide mutual something of joy, qualities,
energy or their time, without asking for nothing in exchange.
Anything else is not a relationship of love real.

The meeting is of two beggars, from time to time can give something
and free of charge. How many relations are the royal priesthood? The
relations which must not be subtly infiltrated the demons of
possesed, jealousy or control are few. Can you the revolt of the
statement. You are also includes on you. But you have a harmonious
relationship. His wife is faithful. Your husband is your true. You
are not informed. The demons are long hidden by blind alleys of
unconscious, waiting for a favorable situation. My assumption is
this: If you have not changed your confronted with a situation in
which your partner to be attracted by someone else, are almost
certainly you are not exceeded your possessivity.

And there is one more criterion after which you can recognize the
true love. True love does not lead to suffering. No matter how you
suffer from "love". True love does not simply never suffering. Only
happiness. When you really love you give on the outside. You are
full of the energy of love and a share with someone. Is very simple.
Love has appeared in you and you flows to someone else.
This is why they are not asking for nothing in exchange. Therefore
there is no possessed. If at toward that flows through your love
shall reject it, this does not represent any kind of problem for
you. There is no suffering. You are just like a jet of water in the
path which has appeared an obstacle. You will cease to flow? Oh,
walk by slightly to the left or to the right and that.s all. You
will continue to flow. To love.

At this point I want to make a statement. There are people whose

love has been rejected and who have decided not to run. Some of them
have hide in the monastery, imagine that if they were unable to love
another man, they will be able to love God. Others were hide in
themselves. They have tried or trying to block the love. But as Love
which do not express is the birth to monsters inside! The energy
that does not follows its natural course is transformed into the
opposite them. A water of which the flow is blocked you know what
becomes? A swamp. I do not believe that you would like to have a
swamp inside you.

Love which leads to the pain isn.t real. It is a illusory love. You
suffer now (he/she has left) and you think you loved. My dear, may
not have loved. Only you can have imagined that! It is one of the
most beautiful things human beings and cannot imagine. And the
people do not hesitate at all. If you were to be loved, You now have
the be concerned to be better off where it went, to be satisfied
with his choice. If he began another relationship, your desire would
be like him to be happy.

True Love cares about the joy of the other. Love the delirium she
cared about EGO. Retain this criterion: If your love you has led to
the suffering, has been a love in large part to the angry. Love
creates the freedom and joy. If you feel that you have failed in
love, please don't accuse the love of this. Be as lucid as you can
and see which is the responsibility of yours. Perhaps you had
certain expectations. Certain pretensions. Applications that you did
not tell them never expressed. Desires that you were in unconscious.
All this you belong. Have no connection with the subject of love. Do
you remember? Love is the devotion, sharing.

In love there are no victims. They exists only in the fight. If you
sit now and cry, this is the sign that you loved me? It is the sign
that you have lost the fight. Do you think that I have no pity you?
In a way, you are right. I have no pity for the illusions of yours.
It is as if you were sleeping, I look a little cold water on his
face. Wake up to reality! If you continue to have dreams about you
loved, you will never experience true love. If he has gone or if she
abandont, this does not only shows that they need something else.
What you had to offer was not what he/she wanted. Why should be
angry for this? Do you mind someone looking for a specific address
and threatened by mistake to you?

And if we still has come and you have spent little time together,
you look to restrain yourself by force? And then you call it "love"?
Love is not avaricious glint or calculated. "May will remain if I
promise this or that I give him something." I tell you: it is better
not to remain! If it remains so that you give him something in
exchange, he does not remain for you, but for that something. Your
relationship can be studied in Economic Sciences. For something like
that is to be paid to the tax to the state.If you right now a
relationship and say "I love you", I invite you to observe very
carefully. In order that this sublime "I love you" may contain the
following 2 viruses:
I belong to you ..i am yours
You belong to me... i have you
If it is your case, of the urgent need of drugs. These medications
I've tightly under the name of awareness. Find out what you want to
become the property of someone or why do you want to have someone.
What disturbs you to such an extent to yourself? Clearly do not you
feel happy and fulfilled with yourself and you need someone to
distract the attention of thy being. Are you afraid to sit face to
face with yourself. You find refuge in a relationship which posted
noble label of love.

And a creature who leave possessed becomes an object. Possessivity

is the expression of fear and fear is born out of ignorance. When
you feel accomplished and happy, you love in a natural way, in the
same way that you breathe. Love is a sort of breath your soul
freely. You have not only managed to be uncommonly saying: "Get
away." This is my air." in the same way you are so awkward thinking
that the other belongs to you and that you cannot survive without
him. You live and still very well, if you have enough patience for
you to identify and transform possesivity. No, I have not wrong.
Possessivity can be converted. A great possessive is, on the vice
versa, a great lover.

To possess is attract with the share. Knowing how to realize this

transformation is one of the highest human capabilities. If you live
possessivity till the end, without deny or to take back, it starts
to turn. Her energy begins to climb, inside your being. Will not
become immediately love, but it will ascend instantly on the second
floor emotionally. You can stop the One floor down, in the area of
the proper provisions. "Lord, I could not have been more stupid than
that?" You amuse yourself on your account. Your Freedom has
increased. If you get to laugh at your own stupidity, you made a
great leap.

These things seem simple when you read in a book. To work with you!
Possessivity and her sister, jealousy paralyze the love. Take care
of that little! To take you to the monastery is very simple. You are
not only cost train. But to love and not to be possessive, to love
and not to be jealous, this is a splendid way to live.