CHAMBER 2: SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS

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In the game of Love it is said the most exciting thing about it is the THRILL
OF THE CHASE--I'VE GOT TO HAVE IT.

WHY?

THE REWARD-THE PRIZE-GRATIFICATION . . . BEHAVIORS BASED

UPON CONDITIONS

The first neuro-chemical commander is: DOPAMINE

Dopamine is our REWARD circuitry AND the more we crave something or
the stronger our desire to possess a thing increases our dopamine levels
significantly. Addictions are linked to dopamine and for most of us--WE
ARE ADDICTED TO LOVE OR IS IT LUST—MAYBE IT’S THE BIO-
CHEMICALS THAT OUR ANCESTORS HAVE ENGINEERED OUR
BIOLOGICAL TEMPLE SYSTEMS TO RELEASE. What we don’t know is
actually ruling US—biologically. When our dopamine levels drop
because our mates no longer are pleasing to us, so does our desire for that
so called special someone and if it continues to drop then we will more than
likely--FALL OUT OF LOVE AND END THE RELATIONSHIP.

Soon we could find ourselves singing a Teddy Pendergrass song,

I think I betta’ let it go. Looks

like anotha’ love…T.K.O.
Dopamine is also a bonding agent from the mammalian circuitry within
us that allows for parenting and living in groups.

Below is a list of recognized behavioral patterns associated with those

addictions...and remember dopamine isn't a bad thing, we just have to
learn how to control our desires.

Dopamine Levels

Excess Deficient "Normal"

Addictions Addictions Healthy bonding
Feelings of well-being,
Anxiety Depression
satisfaction
Anhedonia - no pleasure, world looks Pleasure, reward in
Compulsions
colorless accomplishing tasks
Sexual fetishes Lack of ambition and drive Healthy libido
Sexual addiction Inability to "love" Good feelings toward others
Unhealthy risk-
Low libido Motivated
taking
Gambling Erectile dysfunction Healthy risk taking
Compulsive
No remorse about personal behavior Sound choices
activities
Aggression ADD Realistic expectations
Psychosis Social anxiety disorder Maternal/Paternal love
Schizophrenia Sleep disturbances, "restless legs" ---

What is dopamine’s greatest reward?

= ORGASM!!!
“BEWARE OF EXPLICIT LYRICS!”

Orgasm is the term we use to describe the ultimate HIGH that a full
injection of dopamine gives us when we reach that peak, sexually. We
truly take to the SKY ON A NATURAL HIGH and this starts us on the
potential road of becoming a SEX ADDICT in search of that ultimate high
that we get from these large amounts of the BIO-CHEMICAL DOPAMINE
RELEASED 'GASMICALLY INTO OUR BLOODSTREAM.

After that high wears off, we are soon in search of it again even in normal
or so called healthy relationships and this can affect any relationship if that
ultimate high becomes stagnant. This is leads to sexual experiments. Thus,
we have the different sexual positions. It addresses the need to try
something different and see if that ultimate high can be taken to even
greater HEIGHTS.

LOVE HANGOVER . . .

Many sexologists have termed this phase as "POST-SEXUAL SATIATION

HANGOVER."

OH, The HIGHS and LOWS of love or only being compatible when it’s TIME
FOR SOME GREAT SEX. Some relationships seemingly last for awhile simply
because the DOPAMINE EXCHANGE between these persons keeps them
bonding over and over again even though they are totally incompatible as
MATES.

Dopamine must be kept in check or it becomes like a run-away

locomotive within us.

So, what assisting bio-chemical helps to stop or at least slow this run-away
locomotive down—PROLACTIN.

We owe our ancestors so much. They designed our temple systems with
counteracting agents that I call, "MA'ATIAN WARRIORS."
The diagram below shows us this sacred dance that goes on between
dopamine and prolactin in what is labeled as the "PASSION CYCLE."
THE PASSION CYCLE
Dopamine- RED / Prolactin- BLUE

Immediately after orgasm that lingering surge of “something” that persons

experience is nothing more than a bio-chemical released dose of
PROLACTIN. The after effects of this bio-chemically released M.W.
(Ma’atian Warrior) causes most men to fall asleep. Whereas in most women
this M.W. (Ma’atian Warrior) reacts euphorically and takes a few days to
wear off before the desire to sleep takes over. Scientists know how long
prolactin last in laboratory rats which is about two weeks. They of course
would love to discover just how long Prolactin last within the human
biological temple system.
Don’t forget about the “Passion Cycle” where PROLACTIN AND DOPAMINE
are engaged in a HIGH AND LOW cycle. What this means is when the
dopamine levels are high the prolactin levels will be low and vice
versa. Songs have been written describing this cycle as a “LOVE HANG-
OVER.” Science describes it as the P.O.H. (POST-ORGASM HANGOVER)

Couples should check for these symptoms for persistent high levels of
prolactin when complaining about certain things within their relationship
during consistent and extended periods of time.

1) WEIGHT GAIN
2) MOOD CHANGES
3) DESIRE FOR FREQUENT SEX DROPS (ASSOCIATED WITH THE LIBIDO
IN BOTH GENDERS)
4) DEPRESSION
5) HEADACHES
6) FOR MEN IMPOTENCY
7) MENOPAUSAL SYMPTOMS

NOTE: SEXOLOGISTS HAVE NOTICED THAT WHEN THERE IS AN EXCESSIVE

AMOUNT OF PROLACTIN WITHIN THE FEMALE TEMPLE SYSTEM, THEY TEND
TO SHOW CHARACTERISTICS OF BEING HOSTILE WITH INCREASED
MOMENTS EXPERIENCED AS ANXIETY ATTACKS.

Also keep in mind that scientists are trying to gage the effects of what
happens to humans sexually when long prolactin levels remain high in the
temple system for more than two weeks. They are trying to figure out what
can make and keep sex great between the periods when couples experience
those times when what was good sexually this week isn’t next week.

Ever think about why SEX for some is so good after an ARGUMENT?

The answer is bio-chemical—DOPAMINE/PROLACTIN

The
other important area that couples must be aware of is how these BIO
CHEMICALS can have a reoccurring affect on relationships . . . WANTING
SPACE, EASILY AGITATED WITH EACH OTHER FOR NO APPARENT REASON—
THE ILLUSION OF BEING SO IN LOVE SLOWLY FADES AWAY.

Here again, we must revisit the NEURO CHEMICAL EFFECTS OF STRESS IN

THE BRAIN THAT EFFECTS US SEXUALLY.

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stress (strĕs)

noun

1. An applied force or system of forces that tends to strain or deform a body.

2. The resisting force set up in a body as a result of an externally applied force.
3. A physical or psychological stimulus that can produce mental tension or physiological
reactions that may lead to illness.

The American Heritage® Medical Dictionary Copyright © 2010 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
Publishing Company. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company
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Prolactin is also linked to STRESS.

Ever wonder why there are times when we all feel like a caged monkey or
some wild animal longing to be free and when things seem hopeless, despair
sets in and we just feel like “GIVING IN AND GIVING UP?”

First, we feel like running away from everything or we become very hostile
and will also fight anyone at any signs of miscommunication or challenging
looks. Some may experience this as wanting to spread their wings and fly
away when feeling pinned down by life. Secondly, after awhile (the flight or
fight responses drop-the SNS, i.e., SYMPATHETIC NERVOUS SYSTEM
activates these responses) when things appear as though they will never
change and despair soon takes over, we then feel like GIVING UP. (prolactin
bio-chemical increases--http://www.fi.edu/learn/brain/stress.html)

The next time these emotions creep in, we must be aware of the fact that
our Prolactin level has increased.

So far, it is scientifically documented that orgasm once experienced sexually

will cause dopamine levels to decrease while allowing prolactin levels to
increase. As these two bio-chemicals dance with each other in our temple
systems, the way we behave and the way we feel towards each other in our
relationships changes drastically during a two week period of time.
Sometimes it could be for the worst if we don’t engage in sex with that same
person for the next two weeks.

However, more than likely couples don’t wait for that two week period to
end before they experience that locomotive thrill again and again and
AGAIN. The more sex we have -WITHOUT BREAKS IN BETWEEN- lessens
the opportunities for our BRAINS TO EXPERIENCE A BALANCED STATE OF
HARMONY BETWEEN THESE TWO MA’ATIAN WARRIORS.

Usually, when our temple systems urge for that HIGH isn’t soon satisfied
addictively, we will seek out other artificial means to fulfill our DOPAMINE
ADDICTION (YOU CAN HEAR THE WORD—DOPE at the beginning of this bio-
chemical—drugs of all kinds including alcohol).

Therefore, it appears that one of the advantages of RETAINING ONE’S

VIRGINITY IS A WELL BALANCED DOPAMINE LEVEL WITHIN ONE’S BIO-
TEMPLE SYSTEM (BODY) that aides experiencing greater ease possessing a
cheerful, enthusiastic and optimistic attitude for the simple activities in life.
CHAMBER 3: BIO ENERGY AND SEX

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The BIO ENERGIES of the POST SEXUAL SATIATION EFFECT-commonly
known as “LOVE’S HANGOVER”, continues to engage our hormones and
neuro chemicals in such a manner that scientists noticed that in male rats
who are sexually-satiated need 15 days to acquire their full desire for sex
again. Can this be the case within the human male species as well and if so
is there a way to get them back into the MOOD FOR SEX (lagging libido)
before the 15 day recovery period ends?

The link of commonality within all male species is

TESTOSTERONE as is the commonality within all female
species is ESTROGEN. Therefore, something is bound to
happen to these two hormones receptively when
experiencing multiple orgasms and becoming sexually
satiated. The something that is experienced within the temple system is a
REDUCTION IN BOTH OF THESE HORMONES CAN AND WILL DECREASE THE
DESIRE FOR SEX. The reward circuitry (DOPAMINE) that we talked about in
Chamber 2 when satisfied temporarily hibernates. These neuro-chemicals
along with these two hormones that have receptors hibernate on the nerve
cells. The fewer the receptors that are present to receive the reward of
orgasm de-sensitizes the remaining circulating testosterone and estrogen,
which in turns decreases the releasing of dopamine into the bloodstream.

When this happens, IRRITABILITY and ANGER are usually the emotions
associated with decreased and desensitized hormonal levels of testosterone
and estrogen.

The other neuro-chemicals once released that increase within the reward
circuitry of the dopamine switch board line is SEROTONIN and ENDORPHIN
(HAPPY NEURO-CHEMICALS in a particular part of the limbic brain aides in
decreasing dopamine and increasing prolactin alternatively). In order to
have a healthy bond in a relationship, the levels of dopamine must be well
balanced.

SHOCKINGLY, monogamy isn’t something that is virtually natural amongst

MAMMALS and HUMANS. Scientific studies involving mammals are proving
that there are no mammals that are sexually monogamous and only a few
are socially monogamous when it involves raising their litter together.

Our ancestors programmed our neuro-mating chemistry to accomplish two

things.

1) Bonding in a CO-PARENT SOCIETY.

2) SEPARATION CIRCUITRY used for detaching from our primary mate in
order to acquire a secondary mate.

The latter usually happens when relationships when the thrill of LOVE OR
LUST is lacking in our primary monogamous relationships. Anytime we
experience a sense of growing apart or incompatability, our neuro-mating
circuitry influences us to go out and conquer new territories (extra marital
affairs as they are socially called or one acquires the label of being
promiscuous)—sort of speaking.

All species is programmed to REPRODUCE ITSELF and when reproduction

stops a new purpose for that species must be made.

When we are dealing with a hangover or any imbalancement, our brain

naturally begins to seek solutions in order to restore BIOLOGICAL BALANCE.
This is also the case that many relationships experience when disharmony
erupts while dealing with the effects of the highs and lows of ORGASMS.
If orgasms are natural some scientists think that it may be natural for
relationship partners to suddenly find each other unattractive and quickly
end the relationship as well.

The other way to re-activate a lagging libido in any species is to introduce a

new, receptive and eager to mate male or female into the equation. This
may or may not be the answer to the relationship disharmony, however, it
will certainly entice the sexually-satiated species to ride dopamine’s roller
coaster again.

Relationships that have experienced post orgasm hangover are dealing with
what is known as the “COOLIDGE EFFECT”—NO DOPAMINE SURGE—LOSS
OF SEXUAL INTEREST MOST OFTEN HAPPENS WITH OUR PRIMARY MATES.
Our brain soon tells us that there is no REWARD waiting for us if we have
sex with our same old, familiar sexual partners who don’t look for new ways
to excite us, SEXUALLY.

What we are truly dealing with is the reason that sex comes into play within
the design of reproducing life forms, not just for PLEASURABLE RECREATION
OR THE WAY WE THINK WE EXPERIENCE THE EXPRESSION OF PHYSICAL
LOVE TOWARDS ONE ANOTHER.

Now that recreational sex is global the SACREDNESS OF SEX HAS BEEN
LOST and only in certain cultures is the sacredness of sex still practiced.

However, as humankind strives to regain its harmony with life itself—The

desires to relearn the healing aspects of this ancient science are significantly
increasing.

As long as our mammalian brain can experience the rewards of what an

orgasm delivers, it will never understand that too much of a good thing can
become harmful to one’s biological temple system and this sets us up to
experience ADDICTIVE CYCLES such as drugs, etc., coupled with behaviors
that keeps us on a constant QUEST for that next DOPAMINE HIGH.

How can we escape this seemingly never ending cycle of that adrenaline
rush for an orgasmic injection of dopamine? (adrenaline is one of the other
neuro-chemicals that’s apart of the super switch board’s circuitry of
incoming and out going frequencies from our brain, it causes our hearts to
beat faster when we think we are in love and when we are ultimately having
sex lovingly and/or lustfully)
 The Ma’atian Judge that shows up to restore balance is known as

“OXYTOCIN, the CUDDLE OR BONDING HORMONE.”

Oxytocin is related to those butterfly feelings and the warm fuzzy feelings
that we experience in our relationships. It is associated with being the
“unconditional love” hormone that helps us to want to be generously
nurturing in our expressions of affections towards our mates.

In the female body its function induces labor contractions and milk
secretions. Our ancestors added this feature for women so that they would
bond with their children for life on an evolutionary scale. It also serves to
bond us with our mates long enough to produce a child and help that child to
grow up if the relationship can survive the post orgasm hangover.

Oxytocin also acts as a bonding agent in friendships. This doesn’t mean that
friends should become sexual partners. Yet, we all often desire a certain
type of friendship with our lovers as well. We need the balancing magnetism
between oxytocin and dopamine within the reward circuitry to operate at
perfect levels in order to experiencing lasting and loving relationships. If
these neuro chemicals are blocked in mothers, they will ignore their children.

As the pendulum swings back and forth emotionally within relationships,

levels of dopamine, prolactin, and oxytocin can reek havoc in our love
relationships because if either one of these neuro chemicals decrease when
they shouldn’t, our emotions will be affected. Remember, a decrease in
dopamine interferes with feeling loving. Oxytocin levels then become
desensitized which in turn affects our ability to bond on deeper levels.

The ancient and sacred order of Hat Har other important role in the sexual
rites was to teach its practitioners how to abstain from over sexual satiation
while still enjoying the reproduction rites of sex initially. Even though much
of humanity has strayed from the sacred rite of sex and its initial purpose,
the focus is returning to engaging in the HEALING ARTS (SCIENCES) OF
SEX.
Our ancestors overstood the importance of the link between evidences of the
increase of oxytocin during extended periods of time when an abundance of
affection was demonstrated and shared by couples. They obviously noticed
how the receptivity of increased oxytocin in the bloodstream seemed to keep
other neuro chemical levels balanced. What is being suggested here is that
humanity, especially the Nu Afrikan must incorporate more moments of
affection in our relationships in order to tame the effects of the highs and
lows of recreational sex driven by the overloading our temple systems with
dopamine.

Oxytocin in non-addictive and it helps to maintain those warm fuzzy

emotions between couples as it continues to deepen, and strengthen the
bond in relationships as well. Oxytocin is the glue and thus the statement
often voiced within enduring relationships is “WE’RE STUCK TOGETHER LIKE
GLUE.”

Scientists are now calling them researchers and these researchers have
recorded that when a sexually promiscuous rodents brain was injected with
oxytocin, they seemed to prefer their familiar mate more so than the
unfamiliar partner, thus activating the Reward Circuitry of dopamine again to
the anticipating or enjoying the familiarity of their common mate—
FAMILIARITY BREEDS BLISS.

So what are the health benefits of these neuro chemicals that are
periodically released within our sacred temple systems?

We will discuss that in Chamber 4: SEX AND HEALTH

The State of Black

Relationships