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Checking how the roots are being watered & if the weeds are cropping up (following core spiritual
practices & regulations)? .............................................................................................................................. 22
Using System of Reporting for Vigilance ....................................................................................................... 23
Teaching by Personal example ...................................................................................................................... 23
Aim 6: Proper method of offering and receiving correction ............................................................................. 24
Right Attitude for Offering Correction ......................................................................................................... 25
Correction isnt synonymous with finding fault or becoming angry ......................................................... 25
Focusing more on the Service side of devotees while tolerating shortcomings: No one comes perfect .... 25
Right Authority for Correction ..................................................................................................................... 26
Ethical Authority: One should follow oneself first before asking others ................................................... 26
Spiritual Authority: Relationship of love & trust is a precondition .......................................................... 27
Managerial Authority: Considering the domain of ones influence ........................................................... 27
Right Action for Offering Correction ............................................................................................................ 28
Tactful & friendly demeanour: Mend it without breaking it .................................................................... 28
Forgive the wrongdoer, allow them to start afresh.................................................................................... 30
Prevention is better than cure: Place systems to check deviations ............................................................ 31
Receiving Correction in proper spirit ........................................................................................................... 31
Aim 7: Averting/ resurrecting situations of Vaishnava Aparadha ..................................................................... 33
Adjust misunderstandings on the basis of common connection to Krishna ................................................. 35
Being humble enough to beg forgiveness immediately and earnestly ........................................................... 35
Holding oneself accountable even for offense committed by ones subordinates and begging forgiveness ... 36
Clarify the situation by proper communication ............................................................................................ 36
Aim 8: Importance of Confidentiality for Leaders ............................................................................................ 37
Confidential plans can be disturbed or misused if revealed prematurely...................................................... 38
Personal & institutional information could be sensitive and therefore kept confidential............................. 38
Some instructions are meant for a particular time, place and audience and cant be circulated as a general
rule................................................................................................................................................................ 39
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Aims of the Vaishnava Sadachar Course
1. To create awareness amongst participants about the importance of following proper
Vaishnava sadachar, especially as leader of a community
2. To help participants understand the broad scope & meaning of Vaishnava Sadachar with
respect to dealings at different levels.
3. To help participants understand the role of time, place and circumstances in determining proper
application of Vaishnava Sadachar
4. To help participants understand ways to discharge ones role as a manager of getting things
done but in a harmonious Vaishnava way
5. To help participants understand ways to diagnose deficient Vaishnava Sadachar standards in a
community and take appropriate measures for improvement
6. To help the participants understand the proper method of offering and receiving correction in
a Vaishnava way
7. To help participants understand ways to avert/ resurrect situations of Vaishnava Aparadha
8. To help participants understand the importance of confidentiality as an element of proper
Vaishnava Sadachar of a leader
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offering and receiving correction in a Vaishnava way
7. To help participants understand ways to avert/ resurrect 30 30
situations of Vaishnava Aparadha
8. To help participants understand the importance of 20 30
confidentiality as an element of proper Vaishnava Sadachar of a
leader
TOTAL 240 260 mins
mins
tathpi bhakta-svabhva-maryd-rakaa
"My dear Santana, although you are the deliverer of the entire universe and although even the
demigods and great saints are purified by touching you, it is the characteristic of a devotee to observe
and to protect the Vaiava etiquette. Maintenance of the Vaiava etiquette is the ornament of a
devotee."
Srila Prabhupada in his teachings several times emphasizes Vaishnava Sadachar in leadership
context:
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Leadership means setting
example: Masses follow
example of leader
A communitys expansion is
unsustainable without
Vaishnava Sadachar
BG 3.21
yad yad acarati sresthas tat tad evetaro janah
Whatever action a great man performs, common men follow. And whatever standards he sets by
exemplary acts, all the world pursues.
PURPORT
People in general always require a leader who can teach the public by practical behavior. A leader
cannot teach the public to stop smoking if he himself smokes. Lord Caitanya said that a teacher
should behave properly before he begins teaching. One who teaches in that way is called acarya, or
the ideal teacher. Therefore, a teacher must follow the principles of sastra (scripture) to teach the
common man. The teacher cannot manufacture rules against the principles of revealed scriptures.
The revealed scriptures, like Manu-samhita and similar others, are considered the standard books to
be followed by human society. Thus the leader's teaching should be based on the principles of such
standard sastras. One who desires to improve himself must follow the standard rules as they are
practiced by the great teachers. The Srimad-Bhagavatam also affirms that one should follow in the
footsteps of great devotees, and that is the way of progress on the path of spiritual realization. The
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king or the executive head of a state, the father and the school teacher are all considered to be
natural leaders of the innocent people in general. All such natural leaders have a great
responsibility to their dependents; therefore they must be conversant with standard books of
moral and spiritual codes.
Some behave very well but do not preach the cult of Ka consciousness, whereas others preach but
do not behave properly.
You simultaneously perform both activities in relation to the Holy Name by your personal behavior
and by your preaching. Therefore you are the most advanced devotee in the world.
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ruined now and he is practically finished, as the government will not grant him a passport to
leave India. So we shall always be careful to avoid any kind of jeopardizing our high standing in
the society by some foolish and small act of illegal stealing.
CASE STUDY
In the following sections from Srimad Bhagavatam, a contrast is shown in terms of how the
observance or neglect of Vaishnava Sadachar by a leader affects the advancement of the community.
#1 A community where leader followed Vaishnav Sadachar: Rantideva ~ All of Rantidevas followers
also became pure devotee
SB 9.21.7
Thereafter, having divided the remaining food with his relatives, Rantideva was just about to eat his own
share when a dra guest arrived. Seeing the dra in relationship with the Supreme Personality of
Godhead, King Rantideva gave him also a share of the food.
SB 9.21.18
tat-prasagnubhvena rantidevnuvartina
TRANSLATION
All those who followed the principles of King Rantideva were totally favored by his mercy and became
pure devotees, attached to the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Nryaa. Thus they all became the best
of yogis.
#2 A community where leader failed to follow Vaishnav Sadachar: Indra failing to respect Brhaspati
SB 6.7.7-9
Fanned by yak-tail whisks and served with all the paraphernalia of a great king, Indra was sitting with
his wife, acdev, who occupied half the throne, when the great sage Bhaspati appeared in that assembly.
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Bhaspati, the best of the sages, was the spiritual master of Indra and the demigods and was respected by
the demigods and demons alike. Nevertheless, although Indra saw his spiritual master before him, he
did not rise from his own seat or offer a seat to his spiritual master, nor did Indra offer him a
respectful welcome. Indra did nothing to show him respect.
Bhaspati knew everything that would happen in the future. Seeing Indra's transgression of etiquette, he
completely understood that Indra was puffed up by his material opulence. Although able to curse Indra, he
did not do so. Instead, he left the assembly and in silence returned to his home.
SB 6.7.23
Brahmaji said: Because of your misbehavior toward Bhaspati, you have been defeated by the demons.
My dear demigods, since the demons were weak, having been defeated by you several times, how else
could you, who were so advanced in opulence, be defeated by them?
These two pastimes show that a leaders observance of VS influences the advancement of the whole
society they are leading.
In context of ISKCON communities today, what factors do you think lead to this dynamics
between leaders behavior and advancement of followers? You could share an experience in your
own life as a leader or a follower where you witnessed this dynamics in action.
Also reflect on some of the factors which can make observance of seemingly simple and common
sense principles of Vaishnava Sadachar complex, especially when one is in a leadership position.
A devotee sees everyone and everything in connection with Krishna. Vaishnava Sadachar is the
befitting expression of ones respect and acknowledgement of Krishnas presence in everyone and
everything that one comes across through ones thoughts, words and actions. Consequently
expression of Vaishnava Sadachar takes different forms based on the degree of manifestation of
Krishna or His energy in the object or person. In the following sections we will learn from Srila
Prabhupadas words what is the ideal conduct of a devotee, especially a leader, in dealing with
different classes of people one comes across in course of ones service:
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<> Dealings with devotees of different levels of advancement or calibers
anukroa gudhamt
na tpair abhibhyate
Every man should act like this: when he meets a person more qualified than himself, he should be
very pleased; when he meets someone less qualified than himself, he should be compassionate
toward him; and when he meets someone equal to himself, he should make friendship with him. In
this way one is never affected by the threefold miseries of this material world.
SB 3.4.26 Purport
To be well versed in the transcendental science necessitates awareness of the techniques of spiritual
science. Uddhava, being well aware of all these technicalities of transcendental science advised
Vidura to approach Maitreya i to receive transcendental knowledge. Vidura wanted to accept
Uddhava as his spiritual master, but Uddhava did not accept the post because Vidura was as old as
Uddhava's father and therefore Uddhava could not accept him as his disciple, especially when
Maitreya was present nearby. The rule is that in the presence of a higher personality one should not
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be very eager to impart instructions, even if one is competent and well versed. So Uddhava decided
to send an elderly person like Vidura to Maitreya, another elderly person.
Prabhupda: Yes.
Prabhupda: Yes.
Prabhupda: Yes. Therefore we say prabhu. Prabhu means "You are my master. Please order me.
What can I do for you?" That should be the attitude. [break] ..."Guru dsa Prabhu, please come here
and brush my shoes." (laughter) What kind of prabhu? He should say, "Guru dsa Prabhu, can I
brush your shoes?" That is real Vaiava, not that "Guru dsa Prabhu, come here and brush my
shoes."
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Dealing with Wealth & Opposite Sex
Direct them towards Krishnas service otherwise they can corrupt one towards sense gratification
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Dealing with people of other faiths
Being Assertive about the Truth but at the same time Accommodative to recognize similarities
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parents instructions, but at the same time you should be very careful in dealing with them. If you
object to their instruction and let them know it, then they will feel sorry, sad.
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CASE STUDY
In a setup like ISKCON which has a flux of social and spiritual hierarchies, sometimes it becomes
difficult to maintain the sanctity of all levels of hierarchy. Please consider the following situation and
reflect on what would be a good course of action:
You are Temple President of ISKCON Mombasa. One of the devotees in the temple is Dhananjaya
Prabhu, who is a godbrother of your spiritual master. Dhananjaya Prabhu is a big-time fund
collector. You personally have great respect for Dhananjaya Prabhus dedication in performing this
service. However, his recent aggressive fund raising stint at an elite club of the city has led to anti-
preaching amongst members of the club. The club has consequently approached the city council
with a complaint against ISKCON for harassing people and has written a furious letter to you as
well. This has added to the already growing dissatisfaction amongst other fund collectors who
consider Dhananjaya Prabhus strategies to be intrusive and thus unsustainable. How would you
communicate and harmonize these three parties who are involved in this issue? Especially how will
you influence the behavior of Dhananjaya Prabhu who is worshipable for you, being godbrother of
your spiritual master?
Considerations of time, place and circumstances are very important in the particular application of
the timeless Paramapara traditions and principles in the modern context. Srila Prabhupada
extensively dealt with such unique situations where he had to administer the timeless Vedic
principles to a completely unfamiliar audience. Srila Prabhupada gives instructions at various levels
on this issue:
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Sentiments of people should not be hurt
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alms. So there is no financial difficulty at all; but I do not know what to do in your country. There
are so many laws. We have to adjust things to the circumstances.
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thinking of how to spread this Sankirtana Movement by applying our basic principles according
to time and place, and I especially want that my students enter into the schools and colleges and
present our Krishna philosophy and sell our books.
CASE STUDY
SB 8.23.2
Bali Mahrja said: What a wonderful effect there is in even attempting to offer respectful obeisances to
You! I merely endeavored to offer You obeisances, but nonetheless the attempt was as successful as those
of pure devotees. The causeless mercy You have shown to me, a fallen demon, was never achieved even by
the demigods or the leaders of the various planets.
PURPORT
When Vmanadeva appeared before Bali Mahrja, Bali Mahrja immediately wanted to offer Him
respectful obeisances, but he was unable to do so because of the presence of ukrcrya and other
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demoniac associates. The Lord is so merciful, however, that although Bali Mahrja did not actually offer
obeisances but only endeavored to do so within his mind, the Supreme Personality of Godhead blessed him
with more mercy than even the demigods could ever expect Thus the Lord is known as bhva-grh
janrdana because He takes the essence of one's devotional mentality.
This pastime shows that a preacher of KC is sensitive to his surroundings in his observance of Vaishnava
Sadachar. Because Bali Maharaj didnt offer full obeisances associates were demoniac and wouldnt have
appreciated such a behavior on his part. However when it came to surrendering to the Lord, he rejected
the advice of Sukracarya and other demons.
Now as a leader of the Krishna consciousness movement in the 21st century, where people have lost touch
with basic etiquette of human life what to speak of Vedic or Vaishnava life, how will you adapt the rules
and regulations in such a way that the principles are intact and only the details are adjusted. You could
discuss also in terms of:
Management in a Vaishnava community sound like an oxymoron. Yet being part of a worldwide
institution, it is imperative that we organize things nicely so as to ensure that:
<> The standards of individual spiritual life set by Srila Prabhupada are maintained,
<> Temple programs and deity worship program is carried out properly
<> Books are being printed and distribute in more and more numbers
<> Devotees are maintained nicely at all levels: spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically,
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<> And many more
The challenge is how to do management without being implosive/ insensitive/ oppressive/ offensive
etc. Srila Prabhupada gives powerful techniques and mood in which this could be done a
harmonious Vaishnava way:
Fanning spirit of
spontaneous sacrifice for
Krishna
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Art of being tactful and at the same time respectful
I think that the troubles you describe in your letter are due simply to misunderstanding. Do not
worry because next week Garry shall return to you and Krishna will certainly help you in your
endeavors. Jivananda shall remain with the Sankirtana Party and similarly Harsarani shall stay with
him in Los Angeles.
We must always remember that the leader in charge of a temple must learn to successfully deal
with the other persons there. No one is working as a paid servant so if the dealings are not
friendly everyone will decide to leave. The leader of the temple must try always to be sober and
tolerant and at the same time manage everything nicely. Please continue to try and cultivate this
talent and I know you will be given all intelligence to do this.
CASE STUDY
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Please carefully read the following passage regarding the conflict between Jai Vijay and the 4
Kumaras:
SB 3.15.31-33
When the Kumras, although by far the fittest persons, were thus forbidden entrance by the two chief
doorkeepers of r Hari while other divinities looked on, their eyes suddenly turned red because of anger
due to their great eagerness to see their most beloved master, r Hari, the Personality of Godhead.
The sages said: Who are these two persons who have developed such a discordant mentality even though
they are posted in the service of the Lord in the highest position and are expected to have developed the
same qualities as the Lord? How are these two persons living in Vaikuha? Where is the possibility of an
enemy's coming into this kingdom of God? The Supreme Personality of Godhead has no enemy. Who could
be envious of Him? Probably these two persons are imposters; therefore they suspect others to be like
themselves.
In the Vaikuha world there is complete harmony between the residents and the Supreme Personality of
Godhead, just as there is complete harmony within space between the big and the small skies. Why then is
there a seed of fear in this field of harmony? These two persons are dressed like inhabitants of Vaikuha,
but wherefrom can their disharmony come into existence?
It is evident from the above passage that both the parties- Kumaras and Jai-Vijay, had good
intentions of performing devotional service to Lord Vishnu. However there was a conflict and
cursing despite all good intentions. Reflect on why there was a conflict between Kumaras and Jai-
Vijay. What alternate sequence of events could have avoided such an impasse?
It is not hard to think of similar delicate situations (ranging from managing queue of Prasadam to
appointing devotees to positions of responsibility) which a leader in the Krishna consciousness
movement has to face where observance of ones duties leads to discontentment of some of the
devotees/ leaders. Think of some situations where you have personally been involved as i) authority,
ii) subject & iii) neutral witness. What difference do you see in the pattern of your thought process
and response behavior in these three situations? What lessons can be drawn from this?
Srila Prabhupada was always personally travelling and scrutinizing whether the devotees are
following the spiritual program and standards of conduct given by him. As ISKCON expanded, he
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delegated this task of vigilance to the GBC but still he would collect reports from the GBC of the
functioning of the temples in their zones. Following are some methods promoted by Srila
Prabhupada:
Checking compliance of
core spiritual practices &
regulations?
Checking how the roots are being watered & if the weeds are cropping up
(following core spiritual practices & regulations)?
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Brahmin families, but how long it shall go on? It is very easy thing.); (2). Chanting 16 rounds daily.
(I don't think everyone is following these principles.); (3) Temple worship, which should be
performed rigidly between four and ten a.m.)
I find that the devotees are still sleeping up to six, seven o'clock. So in the GBC Agenda I do not find
any such programs for reforming our past bad habits. So kindly as President of Hamburg center you
try to observe yourself all the regulative principles and see all the members are following.
Jayatrtha: We have kind of a system outlined in here, how reports can be done. Its a technical thing,
but...
Prabhupda: But they have that everyone is chanting sixteen rounds, everyone is following the
principles, so much money received, so much money deposited in the bank.And general
reporting: Yes, everyone is chanting, or He is not chanting in spite of warning, like that.
CASE STUDY
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You are visiting a temple for 3 days on your official annual visit as the Zonal Supervisor of the
temple. The temple president has arranged a series of meetings for you with the life members, senior
temple managers and congregation leaders.
What are the questions that you would need to ask in order to assure yourself that the standards
of Vaishnava Sadachar are in place?
What other areas would you need to inspect to ensure the same?
There is a difference between criticism and correction. A devotee realizes that criticizing a Vaiava
pollutes the heart and impedes spiritual advancement.
In the following sections we will see the right attitude, authority and action for offering correction in
Srila Prabhupadas words.
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Right Attitude for Offering Correction
SP letter to Patita Uddhraa (December 12, 1974) : A humble devotee does not find fault
A devotee-one who is humble-doesn't fault-find. So in your letter you are not finding fault with
anyone. So you are good Vaiava. You do not find fault with anyone. This is the qualification. We
should always think ourselves humble and meek. This you must know. So we all have to cooperate
amongst ourselves, otherwise what will people think if we ourselves fight with one another? A
devotee is always ideal in behavior."
SP letter to Gaurasundara (August 26, 1972) : The Defect Lies Within You
If there is some incident and I claim that no one is cooperating with me or no one will work with
me, that is MY defect, NOT THEIRS. The Vaiava devotee must think like this. We should not find
fault with others and criticise and go away. That is not the Vaiava way. Better we should always be
willing to offer all respect to others and consider them as our superiors always.
Focusing more on the Service side of devotees while tolerating shortcomings: No one comes
perfect
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SP letter to Tamla Ka (August 23, 1973)
I have received one complaint from an Indian devotee at Mayapur, Prabharupa Das Brahmacary, that
he is maltreated by our American devotees. Kindly inquire into this matter and do the needful.
Either Indian of foreign whoever joins us they are not under any obligation, our only tie is Love of
Godhead. It should be our definite policy that nobody is ill treated that he may go away. We recruit a
person to join us after spending gallons of blood. Everyone comes for reformation, you cannot
expect everyone to be perfect, rather it is our duty to make everyone perfect as far as possible. So
we shall be very much cautious and careful in this connection.
Ethical Authority: One should follow oneself first before asking others
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Letter to Name withheld-- 17 December, 1972
Our business is to raise ourselves to the highest status of life as preachers of Krsna's message, and
one should behave himself rigidly, then he should instruct others. Two things: Be himself
exemplary, then teach others to be exemplary. If one has not come to that high standard, he
cannot judge or criticize others. There is one saying from Bible: 'Judge not, lest ye be judged.' So
how we can preach unless we are able to make judgements? That will not be possible. Only those
who are above suspicion can judge others. One must himself act in such a way that he is always
above suspicion. Then he can judge, then he can preach. But now you have no power to instruct.
One who is not following himself, how he can instruct others?
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observed in the temple may be referred to him, and he is quite reasonable, and will handle the
matter with the respective devotees.
In regards to your question about how the relationship between a sannyasi and the temple president
should be, my hope is that you will all be able to cooperate together. The temple president is in
charge and the sannyasi should not contradict the instructions. Although if he does see something
wrong or if he sees a fault or defect he should bring it out directly to the temple president. And
then work it out in a Krsna conscious way. Not that he will try to over-ride the temple presidents
authority. I want that you all work together cooperatively. Please continue your programs there
with great enthusiasm and try to strictly follow all of my regulations without any deviation. Keep
yourself always fixed in Krsnas service.
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not drive him away, that will be the discredit to all of you leaders. But if there is great difficulty, he
may come and live with me here in Los Angeles for the time being, I have no objection. But he has
done very nicely in Sydney up to the present time, so if you can utilize his experience and talents
there, that is the best plan.
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son, he should be treated as friend because if you chastise when he is grown up then he will break
up- that is also another risk. So our request is that instead of chastising, with folded hands I
request you, don't you become hippies again by growing hair. Keep your head cleansed at least
once in a month. That is my request. Neither I can chastise you, I am an old man and you are young
men. (Srila Prabhupada instructed this transcript to be sent to all Temples for implementation of regular
shaving)
Our business is to raise ourselves to the highest status of life as preachers of Krsna's message, and
one should behave himself rigidly, then he should instruct others. Two things: Be himself
exemplary, then teach others to be exemplary. If one has not come to that high standard, he cannot
judge or criticize others. There is one saying from Bible: 'Judge not, lest ye be judged.' So how we
can preach unless we are able to make judgements? That will not be possible. Only those who are
above suspicion can judge others. One must himself act in such a way that he is always above
suspicion. Then he can judge, then he can preach. But now you have no power to instruct. One who
is not following himself, how he can instruct others?
If you are repentant, that's all right. You have got your wife, so if you are sexually inclined
therefore you should always be with your wife. You are repenting, so Krsna will excuse you. But
never do this again. Rather you should stop sex-life altogether, make this your austerity. Do not
eat nicely, chant always sixteen rounds, and pray to Krsna to excuse you for your great offense.
You are one of the senior devotees, therefore if you behave like that then the whole Society will be at
risk. By their nature, gestures, dress, women are lustythat is their habit. In the Srimad-Bhagavatam
it is stated that when a woman comes to serve you, you must be very careful, especially for sannyasis
and brahmacaries."
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ACBS
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chastise your, the son or disciple, he'll improve, and if you say, 'Oh, you are all right,' then he'll
degrade." Tasmt putra ca iya ca tayet na tu lalayet: "Therefore you always chastise your son
and disciple. Never flat..." What is called?
Jaydvaita: Flatter.
CASE STUDY 1
Please read the following passage from the 10th Canto 89th Chapter of Srimad Bhagavatam where
Brahma, Vishnu and Siva respond differently to the offense committed by Bhrgu Muni towards them:
SB 10.89.3-12
3 - To test how well Lord Brahm was situated in the mode of goodness, Bhgu failed to bow down to him
or glorify him with prayers. The lord became angry at him, inflamed into fury by his own passion.
4 - Though anger toward his son was now rising within his heart, Lord Brahm was able to subdue it by
applying his intelligence, in the same way that fire is extinguished by its own product, water.
5 - Bhgu then went to Mount Kailsa. There Lord iva stood up and happily came forward to embrace his
brother.
6-7 - But Bhgu refused his embrace, telling him, "You are a deviant heretic." At this Lord iva became
angry, and his eyes burned ferociously. He raised his trident and was about to kill Bhgu when Goddess
Dev fell at his feet and spoke some words to pacify him. Bhgu then left that place and went to Vaikuha,
where Lord Janrdana resides.
8-9 - There he went up to the Supreme Lord, who was lying with His head on the lap of His consort, r,
and kicked Him on the chest. The Lord then rose, along with Goddess Lakm, as a sign of respect. Coming
down from His bedstead, that supreme goal of all pure devotees bowed His head to the floor before the sage
and told him, 'Welcome, brhmaa. Please sit in this chair and rest awhile. Kindly forgive us, dear
master, for not noticing your arrival.
10-11 - "Please purify Me, My realm and the realms of the universal rulers devoted to Me by giving us the
water that has washed your feet. This holy water is indeed what makes all places of pilgrimage sacred.
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Today, my lord, I have become the exclusive shelter of the goddess of fortune, Lakm; she will consent to
reside on My chest because your foot has rid it of sins."
12 - ukadeva Gosvm said: Bhgu felt satisfied and delighted to hear the solemn words spoken by Lord
Vaikuha. Overwhelmed with devotional ecstasy, he remained silent, his eyes brimming with tears.
Take a few minutes to reflect on the stimulus created amongst the three lords of the universe by
the improper behavior of Bhrgu Muni. Please also reflect on the response of Bhrgu Muni to the 3
stimuli. From this what lessons can be drawn about the proper method of offering correction
Also please think of a situation where you were agitated by an improper behavior of some devotee
and could not control the urge to immediately correct without proper contemplation. Similarly think
of a situation where your feedback for correction was backed by proper mood, contemplation and
planning. What difference can you see in terms of:
~ The way the other devotee received your feedback- did he resurrect himself?
~ Effect on your relationship with the devotee- did it cause some repulsion later on?
CASE STUDY 2
Shri Chaitanya Mahaprabhu corrected Keshava Kashmiri and Vallabha Bhatt in two contrasting
ways. Please refer to CC Adi 16 and CC Antya 7. Mahaprabhu ensured that Keshava Kashmiri was
corrected without being humiliated in front of the general public whereas Vallabha Bhatt was
publicly disregarded by Mahaprabhu and thus neglected by all devotees in general. What do you
think caused a difference in approach in these two cases? What lessons could you apply in your role
as a leader from this?
Caitanya Mahprabhu has warned very severely: tra madhye vaiava apardha ht matta. Vaiava-
apardha is the greatest offense compared to mad elephant. Lecture on NOD -- November 6, 1972,
Vndvana
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Srila Prabhupada time and again requested his followers to be cautious of this mad elephant offense
that can destroy the thriving garden of devotional service.
Youll find in Bhakti-rasamrta-sindhu, it is stated somewhere, that if, if a devotee is coming, then
another devotee who is engaged in worship of the Deity may stop Deity worship for the time being
and should go immediately to receive the devotee. So Krsna also says, mad-bhakta-puja abhyadhika.
Krsna is satisfied more when a devotee worships his devotee. Krsna says, If one is worshiping Me
and one is worshiping My devotee, then the person who is worshiping the devotee, hes more
important than the person who is worshiping Krsna.
So when one is advanced, he can see the importance of devotees. Advanced devotee never
disobeys or disrespect another devotee. Disrespect to another devotee is a great offense. Vaisnava
aparadha. Vaisnava aparadha is very serious offense. Therefore we teach to address amongst the
devotees, PRABHU, PRABHU, Such and such PRABHU. This should not be simply spoken by the
lips. It should be realized. Everyone should think other devotee as his prabhu, master. Not that he
should try to become master. Trinad api sunicena taror api sahisnuna amanina manadena. NOD
Lecture, Vrndavana 10/23/72
Following are some of the ways given by Srila Prabhupada to avert and resurrecting situations of
Vaishnava aparadha:
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Adjust misunderstandings on the basis of common connection to Krishna
Devotee: Durvs.
Prabhupda: Durvs. Durvs Muni offended Vaiava, and immediately sudarana-cakra came to
kill Durvs. Vaiava-apardha is never tolerated by Ka. Just like the Pavas, they were
Vaiavas, and the Duryodhana and company, they were so-called Vaiava. Actually they were not
Vaiava. So they insulted. They put to trouble so many ways. They banished them in the jungle.
They insulted their wife and so many ways by clique. So Ka could not tolerate that. So therefore
the Battle of Kuruketra.
So Vaiava is kind. Arjuna, he said, "My dear Ka, whatever they have done, that doesn't matter. I
cannot kill my family men. Please excuse." So just see. Arjuna is kind because he is Vaiava. But
Ka cannot tolerate. Ka said, "You must kill them. That is My order. You must kill them."
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Holding oneself accountable even for offense committed by ones subordinates and
begging forgiveness
CASE STUDY
You were recently appointed as temple president of a major ISKCON temple. You were seen by the
GBC as more competent that another devotee who had been serving as the president for past several
years. The previous president had developed a congregation of pious Gujarati and Telugu families
around 10 years back but currently was not proving to be very effective in keeping up with the needs
of preaching to the new generation. Your appointment has brought in a gush of fresh energy and
enthusiasm in the whole project. By Krishnas grace and your able management the temple has
started rapidly growing so much so that within 3 months you have acquired a big land in a prime
location of the city for building a grand new temple.
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However you dont find the previous president as enthusiastic as before. You have tried to involve
him in all major decisions and even offered him to head the construction of the new temple but he is
not participating and is withdrawing himself from active temple services. It seems that he has a
feeling of injustice in the way in which his cherished service was taken away from him. You have
heard reports about the ex-president complaining that you were always ambitious to take big posts
in the temple. He has also been complaining that the innovative strategies employed by you are
diluting the message and Srila Prabhupada would never approve of such tactics. On your attempts to
establish dialogue with him he responds in a cynical and cold manner, showing distrust in both you
and the GBC. Being relatively junior, you fear alienating a senior leader of the congregation which
might reflect in the allegiance of the old congregation developed by this leader.
Confidentiality is an essential etiquette for a Leader as he/ she has access to a lot of individual and
institutional sensitive information. A leader needs to make extra efforts that not only should he leak
out the information but also any devisive elements arent able to sneak the confidential information
out. Srila Prabhupada gives several reasons why every piece of information that comes under the
nose of a leader need not be dispersed to public:
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Confidential plans can be disturbed or misused if revealed
prematurely
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Some instructions are meant for a particular time, place and audience and cant be
circulated as a general rule
Letter to: Jayadvaita : August 15, 1974 - confidential instruction should not be generalized
In answer to your question about the meaning of Viswa Vaishnava Raja Sabha, it is: International
Society of Vaishnavas.
The part about BS. giving permission to distribute meat is to be omitted because this was a very
confidential instruction. It should not be misinterpreted so that preachers can do anything to spread
K. C., even sense gratification: This is how Shaymasundar is presently doing.
Comment of Satsvarupa M. on SP letter to him - June 13, 1968 confidential instructions are not
always meant to be applied generally
I always had the urge to observe Prabhupdas activities and share them in writing with devotees. I
also used to photocopy his letters and send them to other centers. This was curtailed, however, when
Prabhupda indicated that some of his letters were confidential; their instructions were not always
meant to be applied generally.
CASE STUDY 1
Please carefully read the following excerpt from the 10th Canto of Srimad Bhagavatam,
SB 10.5.23
My dear brother Nanda Mahrja, at an advanced age you had no son at all and were hopeless of having
one. Therefore, that you now have a son is a sign of great fortune.
PURPORT
At an advanced age one generally cannot beget a male child. If by chance one does beget a child at this
age, the child is generally female. Thus Vasudeva indirectly asked Nanda Mahrja whether he had
actually begotten a male child or a female child. Vasudeva knew that Yaod had given birth to a female
child, whom he had stolen and replaced with a male child. This was a great mystery, and Vasudeva
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wanted to determine whether this mystery was already known to Nanda Mahrja. On inquiring,
however, he was confident that the mystery of Ka's birth and His being placed in the care of Yaod
was still hidden. There was no danger, since Kasa at least could not learn what had already happened.
SB 10.5.29
Nanda Mahrja said: Alas, King Kasa killed so many of your children, born of Devak. And your one
daughter, the youngest child of all, entered the heavenly planets.
PURPORT
When Vasudeva understood from Nanda Mahrja that the mystery of Ka's birth and His having
been exchanged with Yaod's daughter was yet undisclosed, he was happy that things were going on
nicely. By saying that Vasudeva's daughter, his youngest child, had gone to the heavenly planets, Nanda
Mahrja indicated that he did not know that this daughter was born of Yaod and that Vasudeva had
exchanged her with Ka. Thus the doubts of Vasudeva were dispelled.
In the above passage we see that in order to protect Krishnas interests, Vasudeva is keeping the
glorious appearance of Krishna in the prison and subsequent exchange of Krishna with girl-child of
Nanda secret from the whole world including his dear friend Nanda Maharaj.
Please enumerate situations in administration of ISKCON management where you might need to
keep certain information guarded even from devotees, for safeguarding interests of Krishnas
mission. Amongst the situations you have enlisted, can you think of some people whom you would
give full information of the situation? How would you ensure proliferation of the information from
those whom you have taken in confidence?
In attempts to keep things secret even from devotees there is risk of being accused as unfriendly or
arrogant by some of the devotees. What do you think is the best way of dealing with such
accusations?
CASE STUDY 2
Please carefully read the following verse from the 4th Canto of Srimad Bhagavatam,
SB 4.16.10
The reciters glorified Prthu Maharaj: No one will be able to understand the policies the King will follow.
His activities will also be very confidential, and it will not be possible for anyone to know how he will
make every activity successful. His treasury will always remain unknown to everyone. He will be the
reservoir of unlimited glories and good qualities, and his position will be maintained and covered just as
Varua, the deity of the seas, is covered all around by water.
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In the above passage we see that a King keeps the critical information secret from even his
subjects. The Kings policies, activities and treasury are all concealed from general public. However a
leader also needs to be transparent in order to earn the faith of the people, especially in this age of
hypocrisy and corruption. How would you reconcile these two needs of confidentiality and
transparency?
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