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Intimacy with Christ
(Adapted for use in small groups for
Fellowship Saturday Night)
Come to ME.
Jesus
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Acknowledgements
Inearly2001,asmallgroupofmenmadeacommitmenttobegina
spiritualjourneytogetherandtoassisteachotherinagrowingintimacywith
God.Theinitialpurposeofthisgroupwastogrowintheirunderstandingof
GodandtomoreclearlyunderstandHiscallontheirlife.Thesemenmet
togetherforalmostayear,astheyencouragedoneanother intheprogressionof
theirdiscipleship.Afterthecompletionoftheirtimetogether,thesemenwereso
takenbytheirownpersonalintimacywithChristthathaddevelopedoverthe
courseoftheyear,theydecidedtocommittogetherforamutualmission tohelp
othersintheBodyofChristfindthisintimacytheyhaddiscovered.
Asaresult,TheInfluencerdiscipleshipministrywasestablished. Atthe
heartofthisministry isaprocessofdiscipleshipcalled TheJourney. Morethan
justacurriculum,TheJourneyisaroadmapthatsmallgroupscanusetotakean
individualjourneyofspiritualintimacytogether.
FellowshipNWAisdeeplyindebtedtoTheInfluencersministryandRocky
Flemingfor givingususeofthematerialtheydeveloped.Godhasusedthemen
inthisministry,andthematerialtheyhavedeveloped,togivehundredsof
believersavisiontowalkwiththeKingmorecloselyand bused in His
Kingdom. Maytheirfruitfulnesscontinuetomultiplyahundredfoldstill!
ThefollowingcommunitygroupmaterialistakenfromTheJourney.We
havetakentwoofthethreesegmentsofthatmaterialtouseinaFall /Spring
format.OurhopeisthatitgivesyouafreshvisionofabidingwithJesusinyour
dailylife.Ifthiscommunitygroupyear whetsyourappetiteforadeeperand
fullerexperienceofGod,thenwewouldheartilyrecommendyougothroughthe
full,oneyeardiscipleshipprocesswithan InfluencerGroup. Tofindouthowto
dothis,contactyourcommunitypastor.
MayGodsfavorbeonyouasyoubeginthejourney.
FellowshipSaturdayNightCommunityMinistry
Formoreinformationon TheInfluencersministry,contact:
www.influencers.org
4798762854
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CONTENTS
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Introduction
Beforewe begin,someperspectiveoftheoveralljourneymightbehelpful.
NowlettheJourneybegin!
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Enlightened
OVERVIEW
What are the mile markers on your journey to knowing Christ more
intimately?
When did it begin? When did it become more intimate? Where are you
now?
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Where were headed this fall
Letsfaceit.A commonproblem intheBodyofChristis thatwethinkthatweknowGod, and/or
wearecontentwithwhatweknow.However, knowingGodisalifejourneyandajourney
towardLIFE.Weneverarrivewesimplykeepdiscoveringandenjoying.LookathowtheApostle
Pauldescribeshisjourney.
Whatismore,Iconsidereverythingalosscomparedtothesurpassinggreatness
ofknowingChristJesusmyLord,forwhosesakeIhavelostallthings.Iconsider
themrubbish,that ImaygainChristandbefoundinhim,nothavinga
righteousnessofmyownthatcomesfromthelaw,butthatwhichisthroughfaithin
Christ therighteousnessthatcomesfromGodandisbyfaith.Iwanttoknow
Christandthepowerofhisresurrection andthefellowshipofsharinginhis
sufferings,becominglikehiminhisdeath,andso,somehow,toattaintothe
resurrectionfromthedead.NotthatIhavealreadyobtainedallthis,orhave
alreadybeenmadeperfect,butIpressontotakeholdofthatforwhichChrist
Jesustookholdofme.Brothers,Idonotconsidermyselfyettohavetakenholdof
it.ButonethingIdo:Forgettingwhatisbehindandstrainingtowardwhatis
ahead,IpressontowardthegoaltowintheprizeforwhichGodhascalledme
heavenwardinChristJesus.
Phil 3:814 NIV
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Session 1
What was your general impression of the story? What touched your
heart?
Describe the different places in the story. Where in your journey are you
now?
Describe the different people in the story. Who best represents you now?
Mentor Influencer
How much thought have you given to the role that the Great Deceiver or
the hideous creatures have played in your journey? See 1Peter 5:8.
The words Personal Abandonment and Absolute Trust are written over
the door to the Inner Chamber. Why do you think they are there and what
do they mean?
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ChristisourBestFriend.IprayGodw/allmyheart...thatIwillbewearyof
everythingelsebutconversationandcommunionwithHim. Friendshipisbest
maintained and keptupbyfrequentvisits.
John Owens, Puritan preacher
ThinkofyourCGmeetingasgivingachildagood,strongspinonamerrygoround. Thethrillthat
childexperiencescomesaftertheinitialpush.Then,everysooften,yougivethemerrygoround
anotherpushtokeepthemomentumgoing.Every2weeks,wemeetasagrouptogiveour
spiritualjourneys an extrapushformomentum.Buttherealthrillistheridethathappensafterthis!
OurindividualtimeswithGodwillmakeourgroupmeetingsamomentumgiverforourselfandthe
othermembersofourgroup.Inarealsense, our quiet times are not just for our own benefit!
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How to enjoy your time alone with God
Eightypercentofsuccessisshowingup.
WoodyAllen
Devotionalwriter,HenriNouwen,seemstoagreewithWoodyAllenwhenherecommendsthatwe
justneedtoshowuparriveatourappointedtimeandplaceandjustlettheSpiritlead. Most
ofus,however,needabitmorestructure.Especiallyintheearlystagesofourspiritualjourney.
Thereareanumberofmethodsthathavebeendevelopedtohelpfacilitateameaningfultimewith
God.Werenotprescribingonerotemethod.
LisaPrier,amemberofFellowship,hasdevelopedasimple,yetprofound,methodforhearingGod
speakandenjoyinganintimatetimeofcommunicationwithHim.ThemethodiscalledPRRP.
Pray
Read
Reflect
Pray
Reflect Meditateonthisscripture.WhatisGodsayingtoyou?Whatappliestoyourlife?
Writedownversesthatstandouttoyouandwhytheydo.
Pray Again,talktoGodaboutwhatHejustsaidtoyou.ThankHimforwhatHetaughtyou.Ask
forHishelpandstrengthtoapplywhatHeshowedyou. Rewriteoneofthescripturesintheform
ofaprayertoHimpersonalizingitasyouwouldwithanintimatefriend.
Whetheryouusethisoranothermethod,thegoalisspendtimegettingtoknowJesusintimately.
Remember,thisrelationshipismoreofajourneythanadestination.Asyouregularlyspendtime
withHim,youwilldiscoverthatyouareenjoyingareal,personal,andpracticalrelationshipwith
God.YouwillrealizethatyouknowHimandHeknowsyou(John10:34,14).
Lord,teachme tolisten.Thetimesarenoisyandmyearsarewearywiththe
thousandraucoussoundswhichcontinuouslyassaultthem.Givemethespiritof
theboySamuelwhenhesaidtoThee,Speak,forThyservantislistening.Let
mehearTheespeakinginmyheart.LetmegetusedtothesoundofThyvoice,
thatitstonesmaybefamiliarwhenthesoundsofearthdieawayandtheonly
soundwillbethemusicofThyspeakingvoice.Amen.
A.W. Tozer, ThePursuitofGod
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Session 2
God Knows
In your journal, describe how God knows you. What are the words that
David uses to help us understand this truth?
Focus on verses 1318. What does God feel toward you even with this
knowledge?
What response does this raise in your heart? Write it in your journal.
Read verses 2324. Write it out in a personalized prayer, asking this all
knowing God to search you thoroughly and lead you well.
Look at the verses on the following pages that list the names and
descriptions of God. Which ones jump out at you? Come to Community
Group prepared to share which one does and why.
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For another Quiet Time this week
Think about the weaknesses that haunt you. Meditate on how much Jesus
personally knows about that weakness.
Now, reflect on His desire for you to draw near to Him. He wanted this
intimacy enough to make it possible at great cost to Himself.
What is the assurance that God gives you as you draw near to Him?
Describe all the actions you are supposed to take because of that
assurance.
What role does Community Group play in us being able to draw near?
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Names, Titles & Descriptions of God
(NIV translation)
FATHER Godofpeace1Thes5:23
GodofretributionJer51:56
AfaithfulGodDeut32:4 GodofthelivingMatt22:32
AforgivingGodNeh9:17 GodofthespiritNum16:22
AfortressofsalvationPs28:8 GodoftruthPs31:5
AgloriouscrownIsa28:5 GodourFatherCol1:2
AjealousandavengingGodNah1:2 GodourstrengthPs18:2
AMasterinheavenCol4:1 GodoverallthekingdomDan4:17
ArefugeforhispeopleJoel3:16 GodtheFatherCol3:17
ArefugefortheoppressedPs9:9 GodwhoavengesmePs18:47,94:1
ArefugeforthepoorIsa25:4 Godwhorelentsfromsendingcalamity
AsanctuaryIsa8:14 Joel2:13
AshadefromtheheatIsa25:4 GreatandawesomeGodDeut7:21
AshelterfromthestormIsa25:4 GreatandpowerfulGodJer32:18
AsourceofstrengthIsa28:6 Great,mighty,awesomeGodDeut10:17
AstrongholdintimesoftroublePs9:9 HewhoblotsouttransgressionsIsa43:25
AneverpresenthelpintroublePs46:1 HewhocomfortsyouIsa66:13
ArchitectandbuilderHeb11:10 HewhoformstheheartsofallPs33:15
BuilderofeverythingHeb3:4 HewhoraisedChristfromthedead
CommanderoftheLord'sarmyJosh5:14 Rom8:11
CreatorofheavenandearthGen14:19 HewhorevealshisthoughtstomanAmos
DefenderofwidowsPs68:5 4:13
EternalKingJer10:10 HelperofthefatherlessPs10:14
FatherIsa9:6,63:16,Matt5:16 Himwhoisabletodomorethanallweask
Fatherofcompassion2Cor1:3 orimagineEph3:20
FatherofourspiritsHeb12:9 Himwhoisabletokeepyoufromfalling
FatheroftheheavenlylightsJas1:17 Jude24
FathertothefatherlessPs68:5 Himwhoisreadytojudgethelivingandthe
GodGen1:2 dead2Tim4:1
GodAlmighty(ElShaddai)Gen17:1 HolyFatherJohn17:11
GodandFatherofJesusChrist1Pet1:3 HolyOneRev16:5
GodMostHighGen14:1822 HolyOneamongyouHos11:9
GodmyMakerJob35:10 IAMWHOIAMEx3:14
GodmyRockPs42:9 JealousEx20:5
GodmySaviorPs18:46,27:9 JudgeofalltheearthGen18:25
GodmystrongholdPs144:2,2Sam22:3 KingofgloryPs24:710
GodofAbraham,Isaac,JacobEx3:16 KingofheavenDan4:37
Godofallcomfort2Cor1:3 LivingandtrueGod1Thes1:9
GodofallmankindJer32:27 LordAlmighty2Cor6:18
GodofgloryPs29:3 LordGodAlmightyRev4:816:7,21:22
GodofGodDeut10:17,Ps136:2 LordisPeaceJudges6:24
Godofgrace1Peter5:10 LordMostHighPs.7:17
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LordismyBannerEx.17:15 TheeverlastingGodIsa40:28
LordmyRockPs.28:1 TheexaltedGodMic6:6
LordofalltheearthMic4:13Zech4:14 ThefaithfulGodDeut7:9
LordofkingsDan2:47 Thegardener(husbandman)John15:1
LordourGodDeut1:6,10 ThegloriousfatherEph1:17
LordourMakerPs95:6 ThegloryofIsraelMic1:15
LordourshieldPs33:20 TheGodwhosavesmePs88:1
LordwhohealsyouEx15:26 TheGodwhoseesmeGen16:13
LordwhoisthereEzek48:35 ThegreatkingaboveallgodsPs95:3
LordwhomakesyouholyHeb2:11 ThejustandmightyoneJob34:17
LordwhostrikestheblowEzek7:9 ThelivingfatherJohn6:57
LordwillprovideGen22:14 Themajesticglory2Pet1:17
Love1John4:8 ThemajestyinheavenHeb1:3
MakerofallthingsEccl11:5Jer10:16 TheonewhosustainsmePs54:4
MostHighGen14:1822 TheonlyGodJude1:25
MyadvocateJob16:19 ThepotterJer18:6
MycomforterinsorrowJer8:18 TherockinwhomItakerefugePs18:2
MyconfidencePs71:5 ThespringoflivingwaterJer2:13
MyhelperPs118:7Heb136 ThestrengthofmyheartPs.73:26
MyhidingplacePs32:7 ThetrueGod1Thess1:9
MyhopePs25:5,21
MylightPs27:1
MymightyrockPs62:7
MyrefugeintimesoftroublePs59:16 SON(JESUS)
MysongEx15:2
MystrongdelivererPs140:7 ANazareneMatt2:23Mark14:67
Mysupport2Sam22:19 AllCol3:11
Onetobefeared1Chron16:25 AlphaandomegaRev1:8
OnlywiseGodRom16:27 AnointedoneActs4:26Ps2:2
OurdwellingplacePs90:1 ApostleandhighpriestHeb3:1
Ourjudge1Sam24:15 AuthorandperfectororourfaithHeb12:2
OurlawgiverIsa33:22 AuthoroflifeActs3:15
Ourleader2Chron13:12 AuthoroftheirsalvationHeb2:10
OurmightyoneIsa33:21 BranchoftheLordIsa4:2
OurredeemerIsa47:463:16 BreadofGodJohn6:33
OurrefugeandstrengthPs46:1 BreadoflifeJohn6:48
RighteousfatherJohn17:25 BridegroomLuke5:3435
RockofoursalvationPs.95:1 ChiefcornerstoneEph2:20
ShepherdPs23:1 Chiefshepherd1Pet5:4
SovereignLordActs4:24 Chosenandpreciouscornerstone
ThealmightyGen49:25Ruth1:20 1Pet2:6
ThecompassionateandgraciousGod ChristJesusmyLordPhil3:8
Ex34:6 ChristJesusourhope1Tim1:1
TheeternalGodGen21:33 ChristofGodLuke9:20
TheconsumingfireIsa33:14 ConsolationofIsraelLuke2:25
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CrownofsplendorIsa62:3 JesusChristourSaviorTitus3:6
Eternallife1John5:20 JesusofNazarethMark1:24Matt26:71
FaithfulandtrueRev19:11 JudgeofthelivingandthedeadActs10:42
FaithfulandtruewitnessRev3:14 KINGOFKINGSRev19:16
FirsttorisefromthedeadActs26:23 KingoftheagesRev15:3
FirstbornfromamongthedeadCol.1:18 LambofGodJohn1:291:36
FirstbornoverallcreationCol.1:15 LightforrevelationtotheGentiles
Firstfruitsofthosewhohavefallenasleep Luke2:32
1Cor15:20 LightofmenJohn1:4
FragrantofferingandsacrificetoGod LightoftheworldJohn8:12
Eph5:2 Livingbreadthatcamedownfromheaven
Friendoftaxcollectorsandsinners John6:51
Matt11:19 LordandSaviorJesusChrist2Pet3:18
GodoverallRom9:5 Lord(Kurios)Josh3:11,13
GodssonJohn11:4 Lordofglory1Cor2:8
GreathighpriestHeb4:14 LORDOFLORDSRev19:16
GreatlightMatt4:16 Lordofpeace2Thess3:16
GreatshepherdofthesheepHeb13:20 LordoftheharvestMatt9:38
GuaranteeofabettercovenantHeb7:22 LordoftheSabbathMatt12:8
Hewhocomesdownfromheavenandgives Lord(Rabboni)John20:16
lifetotheworldJohn6:33 ManaccreditedbyGodActs2:22
Hewhosearchesheartsandminds ManofsorrowsIsa53:3
Rev2:23 MasterLuke8:249:33Col4:1
Headofeveryman1Cor11:3 MediatorofanewcovenantHeb9:1512:24
Headofthebody,thechurchCol1:18 MercifulandfaithfulhighpriestHeb2:17
HeadofthechurchEph5:23 MessengerofthecovenantMal3:1
Headovereverypowerandauthority MessiahJohn1:41
Col2:10 MorningstarRev2:28
HeirofallthingsHeb1:2 MyfriendJer3:4
Himwhodiedandcametolifeagain MyintercessorJob16:20
Rev2:8 OnewhomakesmenholyHeb2:11
Himwholovesusandhasfreedusfromour OnewhospeakstotheFatherinour
sinsRev1:5 defense1John2:1
Hisoneandonlyson1John4:9 OnewhowillruleovernationsRom15:12
HolyandrighteousoneActs3:14 OurgloriousLordJesusChristJas2:1
HolyoneofGodJohn6:69 OurGodandSaviorJesusChrist2Pet1:1
HolyservantJesusActs4:27,30 OuronlysovereignandLordJude1:4
HopeofIsraelJer17:13 OurPassoverlamb1Cor5:7
HornofsalvationLuke1:69 OurpeaceEph2:14
ImageoftheinvisibleGodCol1:15 Ourrighteousness,holinessandredemption
Immanuel(Godwithus)Matt1:23 1Cor1:30
Indescribablegift2Cor9:15 PhysicianLuke4:23
JesusMatt1:21 PrinceandsaviorActs5:31
JesusChristJohn1:17 PrinceofpeaceIsa9:6
JesusChristourLordRom1:45:21 PriceofprincesDan8:25
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PrinceofthehostsDan8:11 HOLYSPIRIT
Ransomforallmen1Tim2:6
RefinerandpurifierMal3:3 Adeposit(earnest)2Cor5:5
ResurrectionandthelifeJohn11:25 AnothercounselorJohn14:16,26
Righteousjudge2Tim4:8 BreathofthealmightyJob32:8
RighteousoneActs3:147:52 HolyOne1John2:20
Rocketernal(rockofages)Isa26:4 HolySpiritJohn1:33
RulerofGodscreationRev3:14 HolySpiritofGodEph4:30
RulerofthekingsoftheearthRev1:5 Seal2Cor1:22
SavioroftheworldJohn4:42 SpiritofChrist1Pet1:11
Secondman1Cor15:47 SpiritofcounselandofpowerIsa11:2
Shepherdofsouls1Pet2:25 Spiritoffaith2Cor4:13
SonofmanJohn3:13145:276:27 SpiritoffireIsa4:4
SonoftheblessedoneMark14:61 Spiritofglory1Pet4:14
SonofthelivingGodMatt16:16 Spiritofgrace&supplicationZech12:10
SonoftheMostHighGodLuke8:28 SpiritofhisSonGal4:6
SourceofeternalsalvationHeb5:9 SpiritofholinessRom1:4
SurefoundationIsa33:6 SpiritofJesusChristPhil1:19
TeacherMatt23:10 SpiritofjudgmentIsa4:4
Theamen2Cor1:20 SpiritofjusticeIsa28:6
ThebeginningandtheendRev21:6 SpiritoflifeRom8:2
ThebrightmorningstarRev22:16 SpiritofourGod1Cor6:11
TheexactrepresentationofGodHeb1:3 Spiritofsonship(adoption)Rom8:15
ThefirstandthelastRev1:17 SpiritofthelivingGod2Cor3:3
Thegate(door)John10:7,9 SpiritoftheLordIsa63:14Luke4:18
ThegoodshepherdJohn10:11 SpiritofthesovereignLordIsa61:1
TheheadEph4:15Col2:19 SpiritoftruthJohn14:171John4:6
ThelastAdam1Cor15:45 Spiritofwisdom&understandingIsa11:2
ThelifeJohn14:6 Spiritofwisdom &revelationEph1:17
ThelivingoneRev1:18 ThegiftActs2:3810:45
Thelivingstone1Pet2:4 ThepromisedHolySpiritActs2:33
ThelordourrighteousnessJer23:6 ThesamegiftActs11:17
Themanfromheaven1Cor15:49 VoiceofthealmightyEzek1:24
ThemanChristJesus1Tim2:5 VoiceoftheLordHag1:12Isa30:31
ThemostholyDan9:24
TheoneandonlyJohn1:14,18
TheonlyGodoursaviorJude1:25
TheradianceofGodsgloryHeb1:3
TherisingofthesunIsa59:19
Thestonethebuildersrejected1Pet2:7
Thetestimonygiveninitspropertime
1Tim2:6
ThetruelightJohn1:9
ThetruevineJohn15:1
ThetruthJohn14:6
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Session 3
GOD CARES
TheLordismyShepherdIshallnotwant.IamcompletelysatisfiedwithHis
managementofmylife.Why?BecauseHeisthesheepmantowhom notroubleis
toogreatasHecaresforHisflock.Heistherancherwhoisoutstandingbecauseof
HisfondnessforsheepwholovesthemfortheirownsakeaswellasHispersonal
pleasureinthem.Hewill,ifnecessary,beon thejob24hoursadaytoseethatthey
areproperly providedforineverydetail.Aboveall,HeisveryjealousofHisnameand
highreputationasTheGoodShepherd.
HeistheownerwhodelightsinHisflock.ForHimthereis nogreaterreward,no
deepersatisfaction,thanthat ofseeingHissheepcontented,wellfed,safe,and
flourishingunderHiscare.ThisisindeedHisverylife.HegivesallHehastoit.He
literallylaysHimselfoutforthosewho areHis.Fromearlydawntolateatnightthis
utterlyselflessShepherdisalerttothe welfare ofHisflock.
Phillip Keller, AShepherdsLookatthe23rd Psalm
Now,thinkabouthowmuchmoretheLordknowsaboutyourconcern.Andhowmuchmore
concernedforyourwelfareHe has.
JesusrevealsHimselftousasaShepherd.Meditateonthemetaphor.Writesomephrases
describing therelationshipbetweenasheepandashepherd.
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Read the verses describing Jesus as a Shepherd.
Good John 10:11,14 One John 10:16 Chief 1 Peter 5:4
Gentle Isaiah 40:11 Great Heb 13:20 Great Divider Matt.
25:3134
Are there any of these characteristics that are going on right now in your
life?
Of those characteristics of the Good Shepherd, how would you like for
Jesus to minister to your specific needs right now? Do you need protection?
Assurance? Feeding? Watering? Wisdom? Leadership and direction?
Help with a problem? Comfort and encouragement?
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Look at your list of concerns in your journal. Take each of those concerns to
the Lord in prayer. Entrust these needs to Him. Ask for His wisdom to know
what to do about them. Ask for patience to wait for His solution.
Observe the closeness of the relationship between the Shepherd and the
sheep. How is this relationship described?
What does John 10 tell us about the lengths Jesus will go for His sheep?
How does it specifically describe Jesus care for us?
Reflect on your list of concerns that you recorded in your journal. Reflect on
the great lengths Jesus will go to care for you. How has the Shepherd dealt
with those concerns? How has He dealt with you?
Hemakesmeliedown.IntheChristianslifethereisnosubstituteforthekeen
awarenessthatmyShepherdisnearby.ThereisnothinglikeChristspresenceto
dispelthefear,thepanic,andtheterroroftheunknown.
Phillip Keller, ShepherdsLookatthe23rd Psalm
Write a prayer of thanksgiving for the Shepherds presence & care in your
life. Record this prayer in your journal.
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Session 4
GOD IS WILLING
If you were really convinced that God knows, cares, and is willing to interact
with your life, then what would be some of the results that you would
experience?
Manytimes,ChristiansdonothaveahardtimebelievingthatGodknowsthemoreventhatGod
caresforthem.ButtobelievethatGodiswillingHeWANTStointeractwithmeandrelatetome,
becomesaharderstepoffaith.SomebelievethatGodwantstorelatecloselywithothers,butHes
notquite as willingtodosoforthem.
Look back at John 10:10. Read the verses in their context. Why did Jesus
come and how does this relate to His willingness?
Read Luke 13:3135. What does Jesus agony say about His willingness to
engage us?
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Read Isaiah 1:18. Notice who initiates intimate relationship. Notice who has
broken it and disengaged. What response does this insight produce in you?
IntheBible,Godalwaysinitiateswithman.HemakesthefirstmoveinallrelationshipwithHim.
Remember,welove,becauseHefirstlovedus(1John4:19).ThiswillinginitiativeiscalledGRACE.
GraceisthedefiningcharacteristicofourrelationshipwithJesus.
Weweresavedbygrace.
Wearesustainedbygrace.
Wearesanctified(grown)bygrace.
Wewillfinishthejourneybygrace.
MansjobistorespondtoGodsgrace.ThisresponseiscalledFAITH.Ephesians2:89tellsuswe
aresavedbygrace.Thissalvationexperienceismorethanjustgoingtoheaven.Jesussaid,This
iseternallife,thatyoumayKNOWMe(John17:3). SalvationlifeincludesintimatelyknowingJesus
inourdailylifenow.
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For your Community Group this week
IfGodisfullofgraceandsowillingtointeractwithus,thenwhydoesitsometimesseemlikeweare
juststuck.OurChristianexperiencefeelsstuck.Ourmarriagesarestuck.Ourproblemsare stuck.
Ourjoyisstuck.OurFillintheblankyouknowwhatitfeelslikeattimes.
Read these passages and take note of some of the barriers to Gods
willingness:
Matt 13:5458
Mark 6:46
Mark 9:1624
Hebrews 11:16
Luke 18:18
James 1:58,4:3
Psalm 66:1819
Proverbs 15:29
How would you summarize the role of practical faith in Gods work in our
lives?
What are other barriers that block Gods willingness to engage intimately
with us?
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Father,IwanttoknowYou!Butmycowardheartfearstogiveupitstoys.Ican
notpartwiththemwithoutinwardbleeding,andIdonottrytohidefromYouthe
terroroftheparting.Icometrembling,butIdocome.Pleaserootfrommyheart
allthosethingswhichIhavecherishedsolong, andwhichhavebecomeavery
partofmylivingself,sothatYoumayenteranddwelltherewithouta rival.
OGod,IhavetastedYourgoodness,andithasbothsatisfiedme,andmademe
thirstyformore.Iampainfullyconsciousofmyneedoffurthergrace.Iam
ashamedofmylackofdesire.OGod,TriuneGod,IwanttoknowYou!Ilongto
befilledwithalonging.Ithirsttobemadethirstystill.
ShowMeYourglory,IprayYou,sothatImayknowYouindeed.Begininmercy
anewworkoflovewithinme.Saytomysoul,Riseup,Mylove,Myfairone,and
comeaway.ThengivemegracetoriseandfollowYoufromthismistylowland
whereIhavewanderedsolong.
InJesusName.Amen.
A.W. Tozer, ThePursuitofGod
3 storiesthe lost sheep, lost coin, and lost son. Write in your journal what
you see about the heart of God. Where have you seen His willingness to
search for you when you have been lost?
Is it hard to picture God being JOYFUL about finding you? If so, why?
What does this tell you about Gods willingness to relate to you intimately?
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Session 5
GOD IS ABLE
Why is it so critical that we really embrace this truth? What happens when
we dont fully grasp Gods allsufficient and absolute power?
IfwehavefaithatallitmustbefaithinAlmightyGodwhenHehassaidathing,
HewillperformitwehavetoremainsteadfastlyobedienttoHim.
OswaldChambers
Iprayalsothattheeyesofyourheartmaybeenlightenedinorderthatyoumay
knowthehopetowhichhehascalledyou,therichesofhisgloriousinheritancein
thesaints,andhisincomparablygreatpowerforuswhobelieve.Thatpowerislike
theworkingofhismightystrength,whichheexertedinChristwhenheraisedhim
fromthedeadandseatedhimathisrighthandintheheavenlyrealms,farabove
allruleandauthority,poweranddominion,andeverytitlethatcanbegiven,not
onlyinthepresentagebutalsointheonetocome.
Eph 1:1821 NIV
Underline key words showing how Paul describes the power of God? Who is
this power for? Where else has God demonstrated this kind of power? For
how long is this power of God effective?
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Think of an impossible circumstance you went through before, or one you
are walking through right now. How have/did you see Gods power on
display?
Gods power is for you! What practical response does believing this
produce?
RememberthewordswrittenoverthedoorwaytotheInnerChamber.Allwhoenterthepresenceof
Godmustcomethrough Personal Abandonment and Absolute Trust.
Why is this kind of Christian walk so difficult for us? To what degree are you
experiencing personal abandonment and absolute trust? Has this
changed since you began the community group a few months ago? How so?
ReflectbackontheessentialcharacteristicsofGodthatmakeintimacywithHimpossibleGod
knows,God cares,Godis willing,Godis able.
If we are to continue in our journey of intimacy with God, why must we grow
in our faith and experience of these 4 characteristics?
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What areas of life are you having a hard time abandoning? Trusting?
Read through the following passages on Gods power. Write your thoughts
or responses in your journal.
Ephesians 3:1421
2 Corinthians 4:710
Philippians 2:1213
2 Peter 1:34
2 Corinthians 2:1416
OGodandFather,Irepentofmysinfulpreoccupationwithvisiblethings.The
worldhasbecometoomuchwithme.ThouhastbeenhereandIknewitnot.I
havebeenblindtoThypresence.OpenmyeyesthatImaybehold Theeinand
aroundme.ForChristssake.Amen.
A.W. Tozer, ThePursuitofGod
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Session 6
An Extended Time with Jesus Together
(An Evening of Communion & Prayer)
Inthisnextcommunitygroupmeeting,wewilltakeanextendedtimetobewithGod.Toprepareforit
spiritually,makethisaweekofreflection. Makeitapointtorisealittleearliereachmorningandtake
inthestillwaterthatGod hasforyou.
Letyourquiettimebejustthat.Practicelistening.Takeinthequietness.ItissaidthatGodspeaks
withastillsmallvoice,andweareoftentoohurriedtohearHim.GiveHimachancetospeaktoyou.
Afterall,Heknowsyou,caresforyou,andiswillingandabletocommunicatewithyou.
A.C.T. S.isagoodprayerpatterntostartwithwhenyouarereadytopray.
(C)onfession comecleanbeforeGodandconfessanywrongsthatyouareawareofand
thatneedHisforgiveness.
(T)hanksgiving overflowwithgratitude.ThinkofhowblessedyoutrulyareandthankHim.
Startwithyour2handsclosed.ThenthankHimfor10specificthingsasyouopenyour
fingerscomingtoaplaceofgrateful, openhandedsurrenderbeforeHim.
Thiskindofstatementsaysatonaboutwhatwebelieveaboutprayerandprayingtogether.Begin
nowtoaskGodtomeetwithyouandyourgroupinaspecialway.ThankHimfortheprivilegeof
beingabletocometothebuffettableofHispresenceasagroup.AskHimforaheartthatsays:
IcantwaitforCommunityGroupthisweek.Weresobusyandtired.Weneed
somerealrefreshment.Weneedtopraytogether.Iwouldntmissit.
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For your community group this week
Read ThePrayerCottageandtheSecretGarden. Instoryform,itwillgiveyouapatternforhow
youcanspendextendedtimewithGod.
OurFatherwhoartinheaven,hallowedbeThyName.
BeginbyworshippingHimforwhoHeis.
ThyKingdomcome,Thywillbedone,onearthasitisinheaven.
Acknowledgefull surrendertoHisreigninyourlife.AskHimtoruleineveryarea yourwork,your
home,yourplay,yourmind,youremotions,yourdeeds,andyourwords.
Giveusthisdayourdailybread.
LiftyourneedsbeforeHim.
Forgiveusourdebts,asweforgiveourdebtors.
ConfessyourwrongsandreceiveHisforgiveness.Forgivethewrongsdonetoyou.
Leadusnotintotemptation,anddeliverusfromtheevilone.
Prayforspiritualguidance,strength,andprotectionforyourself,yourfamily,andyourchurchfamily/
communitygroup.
ForThineisthekingdom,thepower,andtheglorynowandforever.Amen.
WorshipHimforwhatHedoes!
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Suggested Schedule and Format
for
Extended Prayer Session
TheWestminsterCatechism saysthat ThechiefpurposeofmanistoglorifyGodandtoenjoyHim
forever.IftherewereachiefpurposeofourextendedtimewithGodtodayitwouldbefor youto
enjoy Him. He invites you to enjoy Him!
OtasteandseethattheLordisgood.
How blessedisthemanwhotakesrefugeinHim.(Ps34:8).
LetthisbeatimeforyouandtheLordtoenjoyeachother asyoudedicatethistimeforthatpurpose.
Belowisasuggestedformatfortheevening.
First 15 minutes
o Gather, dispense anymaterial, anddisperse.
OGod,quickentolifeeverypowerwithinme,thatImaylayholdoneternalthings.
OpenmyeyesthatImayseegivemeacutespiritualperceptionenablemeto
tasteTheeandknowthatThouartgood.Makeheavenmorerealtomethanany
earthlythinghaseverbeen.Amen.
A.W. Tozer, ThePursuitofGod
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The Prayer Cottage
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Grace Room This is a place where we pause, rest and reflect on Gods great mercy and
grace. In this room, our hearts are prepared with thankfulness and the perspective we need to go
further. Start your prayer journey with the Lord here first. Dont rush this time. Soak in it
awhile before going further. Think about the wonderful things your Savior has done for you.
Were any of those blessings a result of your deserving it or was it because of His unconditional
love? Stay in this room and reflect on the blessings in your life until a spirit of thankfulness
begins to emerge. Its OK if it takes awhile; for it is necessary to get the right perspective about
Gods love for you. Take a moment to jot down the things that came to your mind.
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The Prayer Cottage
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Examination Room This is where we ask God to examine us and show our sin,
disobedience or areas in our lives that are not pleasing to Him. In the story there was a
particular sin that was not obvious, and the Lord had to reveal it. If you are conscious of sin in
your life, *repent and be forgiven. If you are not aware of anything, ask God to reveal anything
that you are blind to. Ask Him to open up those dirty closets in your life and reveal to you areas
that are displeasing to Him. This time could be painful, but it is necessary. After your time feels
complete in this room, move to the next area.
*Note, in the story, repent means to be in agreement with God about a sin in your life. Dont
rush through the, Im sorry stage. It needs to be heartfelt and sometimes painful, but it will be
good to get it out in the open. This is where we ask God to help us overcome the temptation to
repeat it. After youve addressed those issues that you need to take to the Lord, write down any
revelations that were revealed to you in the Examination Room.
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The Prayer Cottage
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Courtyard - When we repent of our sins, God is faithful to forgive us and cleanse us from
all unrighteousness. This is the area of the cottage where you receive His cleansing. Take
whatever time you need during this time to bask in His forgiveness. When God forgives us our
sins, He remembers them no more. You do the same. Take a symbolic bath to wash away the
effects of your sin, and let it end here. Dont keep beating yourself up over a particular sin that
God has forgiven you. Deal with it as God has. Claim it as forgiven and move on without
taking it with you. Many people are debilitated in their spiritual growth because they wont
receive the forgiveness God has for them. Therefore, take the fresh, clean robe of being in right
standing with God and put it on. This represents the new life of a repented, forgiven and
washed clean child of God. You will need to remember this time as you move further into the
Garden. Make note of the forgiveness and fresh life God has given to you.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Intercession Bench Are there people for whom you want to seek Gods help? Take each
of these people to the Lord, and ask that He bless them. If you are aware of any specific needs
they have, ask God to show you what you may do, as an extension of His hand, in helping with
that need. Write in the following space things that were revealed to you that you might do, as
an instrument in Gods hand, for the people you have just prayed for. If you do not know
specific needs that they have, just take their name and what comes to your mind about them to
our Savior. He delights in your prayers for other people. He knows their needs. He may
choose to reveal to you something you can help Him with on their behalf.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Perspective Place - Do you need perspective about an irregular person in your life?
Clearly voice your exasperation to the Lord, and try to listen to His advice as to how He would
deal with that person(s). Do you need to give grace to this person? Would it help to know that
when you give this person unconditional love and acceptance you are worshipping God?
Rather than trying to ask God to change the person, consider asking God to change your
thinking about the person and look at this person with His compassion.
After you have spent time taking these people to the Lord and seeking His perspective, is there a
particular thought idea or action that comes to your mind that you think He is telling you to do
concerning this person? Write your answer in the following space.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Meditation Rock - Read 2 Peter 1:3-4. What does He promise you in this passage? Do
you need some special wisdom or understanding? Spend some time in this part of your prayer
journey and look for promises in His word that deal with your need. Ask Jesus for insight and
see if He is ready to discuss the answers with you. Gods word gives us timeless guidelines that
deal with your needs. When you do find a promise that speaks to your need, record your
thoughts in the following space.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
Valley of Abundance - What needs do you have that need to be clearly articulated to our
Savior? Philippians 4:19 promises that all of your needs will be supplied from Gods glorious
riches. Read this promise. Think about it. Were talking about the King of the Universe
meeting your needs according to His ability and resources! Can you exceed that resource? Do
you believe that this promise applies to you? Remember the definition of faith given to us in
Hebrews 11:1? What is faith? It is the confident assurance that what we hope for is going to
happen. It is the evidence of things we cannot see. Take a little time, and think about these
promises and then take those needs to your Lord and Savior. After you have done this write
down some special assurances that have been given to you at this time.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
The Shadow of Death - Read Habakkuk 3: 17-19. What special thing are you going through
that God is asking you to trust Him with? Is there something that is frightening you? Is your
logic getting in the way? Is your fear robbing your joy, your rest, your peace? Then this is
where you take a step on your High Places. This is where you commit your fear to the Lord
and ask for His assurance. This is where you step out in faith and trust Him to keep you steady.
This is where you give to God this thing that is frightening you and face it with Him. Psalm 37:
23-24 reads, The steps of the godly are directed by the Lord. He delights in every detail of
their lives. Though they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord holds them by hand.
By the way, if you have a problem considering yourself godly, think of your time in the
Courtyard. Remember the cleansing and forgiveness you received. You were asked to make
special note of it. Remember, the forgiveness found in Christ Jesus makes you in right
standing with God. Right standing with God is called righteousness in the Bible.
Righteousness is another word for godly. So you see, Gods complete forgiveness of your
sins causes Him to consider you godly, and the above verse applies to you. He is holding you
by your hand right now. He will not let you fall. You might be seeing some things that would
indicate some frightening and impossible conditions as it was with Habakkuk. But the
Sovereign King of the universe, Who can do all things, holds your hand and will not let you
stumble. Believe this and claim it.
After you have committed to trust God with those fearful things that you are dealing with, write
any thoughts of assurance and instructions that you feel the Lord is impressing on you to step
out in.
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The Sacred Garden
(from The Influencers Study Guide)
Restoration Pool - Are you tired and weary? Has your lifes journey taken its toll on you? Do
you need to be ministered to in a special way that even you do not know what would be
required? Well consider this: He who created you knows all your needs. He knows just what
you need, and this is the place to find it. This is where you just rest in His presence. Form a
mental picture of a lamb resting in the shadow of his shepherd. Its a hot day in the desert.
There is a pool of water, but there is no shade. The lamb places his body in the shadow of his
shepherd and rests. Think of the relief the lamb feels to find shade from the hot sun. Think of
the relief that he feels because he is so close to his shepherd that he doesnt have to fear one
thing. With that picture in mind, go to your Bible and read Psalm 91. Put yourself in the
promise found in this passage. Lay down by Restoration Pool and in the shadow of the
Almighty God, and let Him restore you. Take all the time you need. After youve spent this
time resting at the Restoration Pool, consider writing any reflections from this time.
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