CHAPTER III

KEY WORDS IN A SCENARIO

Restless
Nervousness is a feeling of anxiety, not peace, always worried, edgy, anxious, and
haunted by feelings of discomfort. Andi felt uneasy because he worried about the Y's
life (Andy's brother) who first became a student of faculty of medicine. Y's behavior
changed since entered medical school, the Y has been affected in a negative
association. In the scenario mentioned that Andy entered medical school registered
by their parents and may not be willing Andi itself, it becomes anxiety when Andi
Andi can not afford to be that just like their parents want and even fall as Y.
The solution is Andi should be able to think mature and realistic, and learn from the
experience of Y in order not to fall into a negative association.
New Environment
Environment is a medium of socialization to humans, all of which affect the
character, thoughts, and behavior. A person's character is formed from the
neighborhood. In everyday environments there are different classes, backgrounds
and diverse customs. And this is one of the factors that influence the lifestyle
changes Y.
The solution is Y and Andi should be able to choose the spheres of influence, both in
their lives. And can fortify ourselves to find an environment that is less good.
Status
Status as a student has changed the mindset of Y, because he thinks a student is an
adult, free to do something to be desired. But something goes wrong understanding.
Y should understand that the student is one who has matured in the mind, become
role models for younger siblings. And student is one who has been considered
capable of independent, either for themselves or others.
Y solution is well understood and will mature student status, to be able to be a good
example for Andi.
Lifestyle Changes
Lifestyle changes are the changes in habits and behaviors that occur because the
environment is affected, residence and association. Y has turned into someone who
is not good. Y has been influenced by his friends karenya Y is not able to fortify
themselves. Therefore, Andi continued concerns over the fate of college Y and
worried when he went to such an environment at the new campus.
The solution is Andi have possessed a strong personality that are not easily affected
as Y.
Association
Social interaction is a process performed by individuals with individuals or with
groups of individuals. Association has a great influence in shaping an individual's
personality, because the association will reflect one's personality. Intercourse is
divided into two, namely the association of positive affect and negative affect social
life. Positive association may be cooperation between individuals or groups to do
positive things. While the negative association is more directed to promiscuity, it is
to be avoided, especially for teenagers who are still searching for his identity as the Y
(older brother Andy).
In this scenario Y negative effect on relationships in this scenario where Y is affected
by his friends so that Y is more inclined to behave like a negative, pleasure-loving,
life-style luxury, come party the night world, and likes to get drunk.
The solution is to stay away from friends and the environment that behave
negatively and do not easily seduced by the flattery of his friends to do negative
things, as well as self-control to be able to fortify themselves say no to negative
friends.
Responsibility
Responsibility is an act which is very important in everyday life, without the
responsibility of all would be chaotic and uncontrollable. People who do not have a
sense of responsibility it will be applicable indifferent and do not care. Y is less sense
of responsibility, so the college menyababkan messed up because he did not feel to
have something that is able to control all his or her behavior.
The solution is Y must be responsible for the college by way of utilizing well and not
waste any given their parents. And Andipun must learn and realize their
responsibilities as a student.
Grade
Performance Index is a number that indicates student achievement or progress.
Grade or collectively, the IP is used to measure student learning outcomes. IP Y does
not qualify, so Y is not retrievable meet the following credits.
The solution is that Y can fix the IP in order to meet the following credits. If Y Y IP
continues to fall then maybe Y will be a long time or it could finish its work on the
Drop Out of the campus.
Parental Supervision
 Parental supervision is required on each child, for Parents to control her every action.
The solution is in the case of Andi and Y, their Parents must provide good supervision in
order that occurs in Y does not occur on Andi.

CHAPTER V
DISCUSSION
1. What happened to the Y (older brother Andy)?
Y is a 5th semester medical students, who live far from their parents. Y has failed to
perform his duties as a student. Grade Y is bad, so he can not meet the credits. Y can not
take advantage of what has been given by his parents. Every night the Y just get drunk,
party the night world with his friends. Y has been entered in the wrong crowd.
2. What is the anxiety Andi?
Andi felt uneasy because he worried about the Y's life (Andy's brother) who first became a
student of faculty of medicine. Y's behavior changed since entered medical school, the Y
has been affected in a negative association. In the scenario mentioned that Andy entered
medical school registered by their parents and may not be willing Andi itself, it becomes
anxiety when Andi Andi can not afford to be that just like their parents want and even fall as
Y.
3. What are the changes that happen to students?
Changes that happen to a student is a change in the heavier responsibility of the
responsibility as a student. Student is one who has been considered capable of
independent, either for themselves or others. Students should be able to charge well above
tasks should he live, like for example: study well in order to get a good grade, hanging out
with good friends in order not to fall on negative things and tarnish the good name of the
parent, can manage your time well so that all activities can be scheduled.
4. How to shield yourself from negative association?
Various ways can be done to fortify themselves, among others:
Associate with good friends who are devout worship
because friends and the environment is very influential in our behavior and
relationships. Friends with a good friend then we will become good people, make friends
with a smoker, we can also become a smoker. Tetepi it all depends on each person, for a
firm establishment of the influence of any kind will not undermine the principle, but for
someone who is weak in the opinion it will be easily swept away.
Good time management, between playing, learning and worship
a student should be able to divide their time well. When it's time to play, learn, and
worship must be well regulated. Because then the time will be put to good use and not
wasted to play alone.
Fill your free time with positive activities, like exercise or reading a book
leisure time should be used with positive activities, used for relaxation or a break after
doing the activities. Utilizing the free time to read, exercise or sleep for a while have a
good effect on health than used to dissipate or rah-rah.
Do not try something negative, like cigarettes, booze, drugs or free sex
when it has tried these things then it would be like to try again again and again to
become a habit. A habit is an activity carried out by trying to do and then frequently
until it becomes a habit. To that end, avoid the things that hurt like that before the fall
and go too deep.
5. Ways to adapt well?
Adaptation is the way how does one overcome the pressure of the surrounding environment
to survive. Where in any adaptation there is a wide range of characters of people and
different environments. To be prepared is to be able to organize themselves into a strong
and resilient individual to an environment that is not good. Various ways of adaptation
include:
o Prepare to receive the new environment
o Selection environment and friends that can bring a positive impact
o Choosing a good neighborhood and convenient
o Be nice and friendly to others
o Not arrogant or flashy

6. Tips for effective learning

How to study effectively is a factor that mendukuang Andi or sister to be unaffected
negative things. Because by learning to effectively eat mind would be focused to pursue
good performance rather than looking busy by hanging out with friends that bring negative
impact carry only novelty. Effective ways of learning include:
a. Choose the right time
 b. The atmosphere is calm
c. A comfortable place
d. Little by little
e. Creating summary
f. Form a study group
Applying sisitem good learning and regularly with friends who have the same vision and
mission and good impact and will avoid the wrong crowd.
7. How to build confidence as the basis for a stable personality, strong and steadfast
penderian?
Confidence is part of the subconscious and is not affected by rational argument. Self-
confidence is an important aspect in building a strong personality and firm stance. Here are
tips to build self-confidence:
o Eliminate the negative influence
The man who all his life received a negative stimulus will have a relatively low
confidence levels. Negative stimuli may come from a family environment, community
environment, work environment or school environment. The solution is to join a group of
people who are positive.
o Recognition and awards
Recognition and appreciation of others to the existence, actions, or our
accomplishments, would greatly increase confidence. Perform recognition terdahap
yourself first, any small thing to admit and give awards.
o Praise
As with recognition, praise percya can also increase a sense of self.
o Pamper yourself
Indulge this need, because then we will be able to feel as a human being is valuable and
can be appreciated other people.
o Think well of themselves
This car is the easiest to increase our confidence, because it can be done anytime and
anywhere.
o Get used to being positive
Begin to be positive of yourself by doing the kehidupansehari-day. Make sure the
memory we just keep a positive event. Always do right and show that we do have
confidence.