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0 Introduction
Self-esteem is the confidence and belief on ones own abilities, qualities and
judgements.
For example, when comes to make my career choice, I have to know my standards
and abilities to cope with the course. When I know my abilities and my standards, I
oneself as competent to cope with life's challenges and being worthy of happiness.
For example, I have the confidence and idea of being psychologist. However, I need
to have the knowledge about psychology and have skills and experience by applying
psychologist.
sense of his or her value or worth, or the extent to which a person values, approves
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For example, Even though Yuna, a Malaysian singer was first not known for her
talents in Malaysia, she still has the confidence and self esteem to be a international
singer. She went to US and begin her career there. Today, she had collaborated
many famous artists like usher and owl city and was known internationally especially
in the US.
Self-esteem is important because it affects nearly every part of ones live. Without
self-esteem, one is not able to trust others, family and work which gives a great
impact to ones successes and happiness in life. The only way for one to have
strength and flexibility to take charge of ones live and grow from mistakes without
having trust in your own abilities and the belief that one can make their goals into
reality. Believing in yourself is difficult at times especially when you are facing failure.
However, it only will give you benefits. Successful person like Thomas Edison, Steve
Jobs, Martin Luther King Jr, Walt Disney have that confidence in themselves that
allow them to get up again and again through their failing experiences while in the
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Here are 2 habits that increase ones belief in oneself.
Firstly, count your successes. It is natural for us to counts our losses more than our
wins. To build your own belief in yourself, you have to change that. The wins counted
can be small or big, past or present. By doing this, you can fill yourself up with joy
and satisfaction in your work. This also can build up the motivation to take risks in
Next, speak positivity into your life. By speaking positivity into life, you are actually
reconditioning your mind to not have negative and discouraging thoughts. A simple
I can do this can build up strength to get up whenever you are discourage or facing
a failure.
A few issues can be found in believing in yourself. The issues are listing your lost
instead of your accomplishments, never done something nice for somebody, break
the esteem of others, being in the bubble, think negativity, made no progress toward
2.1 Issue
The issue that occurs most when comes to believing yourself the most is making no
work right away, I watched TV. Thus, this shows that Im not making progress in
Making no progress towards your goal shows that there is no purpose in your life.
Setting a goal is easy but to work on it is everything. It takes time, energy, and effort.
That is where excuses come. Excuses are usually made to defend or justify oneself
when there is no progress made in reaching your goals. Thus, this is a very bad
habit.
In reality, excuses can simply sabotage your success. In a way, you are showing
others that you are not willing to take responsibilities. Hence, others will lose their
trust and have a bad impression of you. At the same time, you will lose the respect
having too many goals. Sometimes having too many goals can be too overwhelming.
In recent study from the University of Toronto, when having too many goals, you
have more tendency to spend time in prioritizing your goals instead of working and
achieving them. Due to having too many plates on your table, you eventually not
only ending up not achieving anything but also give up. Giving up in this case will
oneself, usually involves negative personality trait of that person. Constant unhealthy
self-criticism will only keep you locked in negativity and increases your unhappiness
and dissatisfaction in your life, which is dangerous. This is because constant self-
Besides that, having too many goals can lead one person keep changing goals.
Again, changing your goals will not make them easier; instead it will only waste your
time.
In order to effectively achieve your goals, it is recommend to limit your goals. This
way, you can focus on the quality of the goals instead of the quantities of it in
building your self-esteem. It is also recommended to stick to your goals and most
Furthermore, setting the wrong goals also delays your progress in achieving your
goals. In most occasions, a person usually set his/her goals based on the opinions or
influences of others more than themselves. This is because the goals that are set
does not bring interest and motivation to them. To set your goals, you must first know
yourself and understand what youre abilities and capabilities. This way, the goals
To overcome this issue, one should have a clear picture of what one wants to
achieve. In other words, have a specific idea of what you want to achieve. This way,
you can give focus on that goal and start working towards it.
Besides, one also can spend time visualizing their success. It is healthy to visualize
yourself achieving your goal as a part of gaining a clear picture about your goal. It is
best to visualise as detail as possible and take time to write it down in significant
detail. This helps whenever you feel discourage in process of achieving your goal.
Moreover, associate immense pleasure with achieving your goals is natural when
you visualize your success. Consider the feelings you have when you succeed and
how would you celebrate your success. It is best to make the satisfaction of your
success as deep as possible. This way, it is easy for you to take risks and take
2.2 Examples
Base on the points stated in the issue about excuses, there is an example can be
given. Based on my real life experiences, I used to give excuses like I lost my book
whenever I didnt finish my homework during early high school. This gives a very bad
impression of me and the teacher would not bother me in class and prefer paying
attention to responsible students, who would finish her work and hand her work on
time. As time goes by, I got used to giving excuses and procrastinate. At the end of
the day, I didnt do well in that subject for my exam. This proved that giving excuses
Next, I would like to give an example on the point given about having too many
goals. Based on my experience, having too many goals is very stressful. There is a
swimming and plays the violin. Every week my schedule will be packed as I took
lessons and classes for each of these desired goals. I also wouldnt have time to
finish my school homework because of the busy schedule. Due to stress, I decided
to quit the lessons and classes one at a time, changing my goals. But in the end, I
quit all of the lessons and did not achieve my goals. Hence, this shows that it is not
Moreover, there is a example can be given based on the point stated in the issues
about setting the wrong goals and knowing your abilities. It was few years ago, I
decided to join science stream and wanted to work in a science related field because
of the high recommendations from teachers, family and friends without knowing my
capabilities in coping the subjects. During those years, I struggled and fill with
regrets. This is why it is important to know yourself first before choosing a goal.
Also, an example can be given for the point stated about having a clear picture of
what one wants to achieve and visualize one own success. The example of having a
clear picture of what you want can be seen through the career of Dato Lee Chong
Wei. When entering the Olympics, he have a clear idea of what he wants which is
giving Malaysia her first goal. He was determined and participated in the Olympics 3
times. Today, Dato Lee Chong Wei is the world number 1 badminton player.
In visualizing one own success, we can set Thomas Edison as an example. Even
though he failed multiple times in his experiment, he was able to visualize his
success in inventing incandescent light bulb and finally, have a breakthrough and
Lastly, when comes to associate immense pleasure with achieving your goal, we can
set Walt Disney as an example. He have visualise his success when he first created
mickey mouse. Even when things does not turn up well, Disney still continue on with
his dreams and today he has an empire and was known for many animation series
and movies.
University of Basel
Data came from the Young Adults section of the National Longitudinal Survey of
increase more slowly in young adulthood. Women and men did not differ in their self-
and Whites, but the self-esteem of Hispanics subsequently increased more strongly,
so that at age 30 Blacks and Hispanics had higher self-esteem than Whites. At each
individuals. Moreover, at each age, high sense of mastery, low risk taking, and better
health predicted higher self-esteem. Finally, the results suggest that normative
increase in self-esteem.
personality traits
Low self-esteem in adolescence and young adulthood is a risk factor for negative
outcomes in important life domains. For example, Trzesniewski et al. (2006) found
that low self-esteem during adolescence predicts poorer mental and physical health,
worse economic well-being, and higher levels of criminal activity in young adulthood.
Similarly, other studies found that low self-esteem prospectively predicts antisocial
Trzesniewski, Robins, Moffitt, & Caspi, 2005; McGee & Williams, 2000; Orth, Robins,
& Roberts, 2008). Research findings thus suggest that the development of self-
However, the normative pattern of self-esteem development and the factors that
affect it are still unclear. In the present study, we therefore aimed to clarify the
(Cairns, McWhirter, Duffy, & Barry, 1990; Huang, 2010; Labouvie, Pandina, White, &
Johnson, 1990; McMullin & Cairney, 2004; Moksnes, Moljord, Espnes, & Byrne,
2010; Robins et al., 2002; Roeser & Eccles, 1998; Twenge & Campbell, 2001; Young
& Mroczek, 2003); however, in some studies the gender difference was small (Kling,
Hyde, Showers, & Buswell, 1999; Quatman, Sampson, Robinson, & Watson, 2001)
studies reported higher self-esteem for men in young adulthood (McMullin & Cairney,
2004; Robins et al., 2002; Twenge & Campbell, 2001), although in some studies the
gender difference was small (Orth et al., 2010; Robins, Hendin, & Trzesniewski,
2006).
Ethnicity
With regard to ethnicity, the available evidence suggests that Blacks have higher
2000; Robins et al., 2002; Twenge & Crocker, 2002). However, there are
that Whites have higher self-esteem than Hispanics do in adolescence and young
adulthood (Bachman et al., 2010; Carlson, Uppal, & Prosser, 2000; Twenge &
Crocker, 2002), whereas Birndorf, Ryan, Auinger, and Aten (2005) found that,
than Whites did (for male adolescents, the difference was nonsignificant).
Big Five Personality Traits
Although prior research examined correlations between selfesteem and the Big Five
personality traits, no previous study tested for the effects of the Big Five on self-
correlated with each of the Big Five personality traits: Individuals with high self-
and open to experience (Robins, Hendin, & Trzesniewski, 2001; Robins, Tracy,
Trzesniewski, Potter, & Gosling, 2001; Watson, Suls, & Haig, 2002). Therefore, it is
possible that the Big Five factors also explain individual differences in the
development of self-esteem.
Sense of Mastery
Sense of mastery is defined as the extent to which people see themselves as having
control over the forces that affect their lives (Pearlin, Menaghan, Lieberman, &
Mullan, 1981) and is related to the construct of self-efficacy (Bandura, 1977; Gecas,
1989). There has been a long debate on the relation between self-esteem and self-
efficacy (e.g., Chen, Gully, & Eden, 2004; Judge, Erez, Bono, & Thoresen, 2002).
Lightsey, Burke, Ervin, Henderson, and Yee (2006) found support for the hypothesis
that self-efficacy prospectively predicts self-esteem but not, vice versa, that self-
self-efficacy and sense of mastery, we expected that sense of mastery would predict
self-esteem development.
Risk Taking
Another possible moderator of self-esteem development is risk taking. The available
evidence suggests that risk taking increases during adolescence and then decreases
during young adulthood (Boyer, 2006; Leather, 2009; Michael & Ben-Zur, 2007).
Wild, Flisher, Bhana, and Lombard (2004) examined the relation between self-
esteem and risk behaviors related to substance use, bullying, suicidality, and
sexuality and found a complex pattern of results. Self-esteem in the family and
school domain was negatively linked to risk behaviors, whereas self-esteem in the
peer domain was positively linked to risk behaviors in both male and female
adolescents. Moreover, low body image was associated with risk behaviors in female
Income
individuals perception of his or her relational value and thereby influence self-
esteem (Leary & Baumeister, 2000). At present, few studies have systematically
from a large sample, McMullin and Cairney (2004) found that income had
significant effects in midlife and old age but not in adolescence and young adulthood.
Additional evidence accrues from studies on the relation between self-esteem and
socioeconomic status (SES), for which income is one of the key indicators. A meta-
analysis found that SES accounts for small but significant differences in
overcome the challenges in life. It is also important when it comes to reaching your
goal and ambitions. It is revealed that having no progress in achieving ones goal
Throughout this assignment and the support example given, I come to know that bad
habits sometimes blocked us from achieving our goal without us realising it. Also, I
learn that it is important to know myself. Knowing myself allow me to discover the
nature of myself, what Im naturally good at and not good at ; and use it as a
advantage for me to become the best version of myself. I learn that quality is
important than quantities when setting my own goals. It helps me to actually start
working towards my goal. Besides, I learn to have a specific goal and to visualise my
In short, the element: believing in yourself gives great focus in building self-esteem
and not making any progress in achieving your goals is the most relatable issue in
noticing.
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4.0 Appendix