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Segundo, tiene que ser honesto con Dios. Tiene que decir Dios as es como me
siento! Y tiene que desahogarse, sacarlo todo de adentro. Dios puede soportarlo.
Dios sabe que est herido porque l vio cuando lo hirieron. Y l sufri con usted.
Dios no se va a sorprender cuando usted le cuente sobre el dolor y la vergenza en
su vida. No lo va a sorprender. El ya sabe. A l le importa y ya lo ama. Dios slo
quiere que sea honesto con l porque sabe que ser una catarsis o un desahogo el
dejar salir sus heridas a flote.
Lo tercero que tiene que hacer es ser honesto al menos con una persona en la que
confe. Dgale a alguien de carne y hueso. Hay algo sanador en revelar sus
sentimientos a otra persona. La Biblia dice en Job 18:4Job 18:4
Primero, tiene que orar y decir: Dios, sanaras mis recuerdos? Esas cosa que me
duelen, esas heridas en mi corazn. Todava me duelen. Sanaras mis memorias
para empezar el proceso?
Segundo, tiene que llenar su mente con la Palabra de Dios, la Biblia. Entre ms
llene su mente con ese libro, ms empezar a borrar los viejos cassettes y la
verdades de Dios llenarn su mente. Tiene que tener una Biblia para construir su
vida sobre la Verdad y reemplazar todas las mentiras. Usted llenar su mente con
estas cosas al memorizar versculos, estudiar y leer.
Y la tercera cosa que debe hacer es creer la verdad sobre usted. Cul es su
verdad? Qu es lo que Dios ha dicho sobre usted? A travs de lo que Cristo hizo
por nosotros Dios decidi hacernos santos ante sus ojos, sin un slo defecto
estamos frente a l cubierto por Su amor. Sin un slo defecto es as como Dios
lo mira una vez que ha cruzado la lnea y ha entregado su vida a Cristo. Sin un slo
defecto. l borra todo lo que ha hecho mal la culpa, los arrepentimientos, la
vergenza, el dolor lo borra y dice Vamos a empezar de nuevo. Y yo le pregunto:
Realmente no tiene defectos? La respuesta es nopero por el amor de Cristo y
su sacrificio, Dios lo ve sin defectos. Esa es la buena noticia.
Los siclogos han comprobado repetidas veces que la manera en la que uno se ve
la auto estima y la auto valoracin que una persona tenga est determinada por
la manera en que las personas ms importantes de su vida piensan. As que quiero
sugerirles que convierta a Jesucristo en la persona ms importante de su vida. l le
va a decir la verdad mientras que todos los dems le van a mentir. As que tiene
que decidir: Va a escuchar a los mentirosos (que le dijeron que usted no vala
nada) o va a escuchar a Jesucristo? Recuerdan lo que Jesucristo dijo? La Biblia
dice que cuando usted est con Cristo es valioso, aceptado tal cual es, es amado,
perdonado, capaz y que Dios puede utilizarlo. Eso es lo que Dios dice de usted.
Repito la pregunta: A quin va a escuchar? A quin le va a creer? Va a creer en
la mentira que le dijeron? Va a creer en lo que otro nio le dijo durante el recreo?
Va a creen en lo que una persona imperfecta y pecadora dijo?
O va a creer en lo que Dios dice sobre usted?
Es su decisin. Tiene que reemplazar los cassettes de su cerebro con las Verdades
de Dios. Es un proceso hacerlo pero tiene que empezarlo.
4. Si quiere ser sanado de sus heridas ocultas tiene que CONCENTRARSE EN EL
FUTURO
Deje de enfocarse en su pasado y enfquese en los planes que Dios tiene para su
futuro.
Este es uno de los problemas con las terapias que existen hoy en da. Hay muchas
terapias que se concentran en sanar recuerdos y hacer regresiones hacia su
pasado. Si el consejero no es cristiano y si no est basando su terapia en los
principios de la Palabra de Dios, salga corriendo! Si est recibiendo terapia que no
es bblica y basada en Dios, va a terminar peor de lo que empez. Puedo darle
cientos de ejemplos de personas que tuvieron un pasado doloroso, fueron a un
consejero secular y siguieron las enseanzas de Freud en vez de las de Dios y que
hoy en da estn peor que ayer. Huya de eso! Lo que ese tipo de terapia hace es
enfocarse tanto en su pasado que queda atrapado en el y no puede seguir con el
presente y mucho menos con el futuro. Se quedar atrapado ah!
Tiene que reenfocarse en el futuro. Hay tres pasos para hacerlo. Todos estn en
Job 11:13-16Job 11:13-16
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13 Si t dispones tu corazn, y tiendes hacia Dios las manos; 14 si alguna
iniquidad hay en tus manos, pero la apartas de ti, y no consientes que more en tu
casa la injusticia, 15 entonces levantars tu rostro limpio de mancha, sers fuerte y
nada temers. 16 Olvidars tu miseria, o te acordars de ella como de aguas que
pasaron. (NVI)
Pero si le entregas tu *corazn y hacia l extiendes las manos, si te apartas del
pecado que has cometido y en tu morada no das cabida al mal, entonces podrs
llevar la frente en alto y mantenerte firme y libre de temor. Ciertamente olvidars tus
pesares, o los recordars como el agua que pas. Job 11: 13Job 11: 13
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13 Si t dispones tu corazn, y tiendes hacia Dios las manos; 16
Primero dice si le entregas tu corazn. Entrguele su corazn y el deseo que tiene
de vengarse de aquellos que lo lastimaron. Perdnelos ya sea que lo merezcan o
no. Usted debe hacer lo correcto aunque ellos no lo hagan. Tal vez est pensando
Pero Pastor, no tengo ganas de hacer y yo le digo No importa! Hgalo! Es lo
correcto y es la nica manera en que va a curar sus heridas. Entregue su corazn.
Haga lo correcto que es perdonar.
Segundo dice hacia l extiendes las manos. Tiene que pedirle a Cristo que venga
a su vida y tiene que pedirle que empiece a sanar sus heridas ocultas y tiene que
pedirle que le muestre lo positivo dentro de lo negativo que le ha sucedido. Si
quiere sanar sus heridas, tiene que dejar de enfocarse en su dolor y empezar a
enfocarse en su Sanador. Deje de pensar y obsesionarse con su dolor y las
Las personas con heridas profundas hacen cualquier cosa para evitar sentir dolor.
Se drogan. Se embriagan. Toman pastillas. Tienen relaciones sexuales con
personas que no conocen. Hacen cualquier cosa para tratar de detener el dolor.
Cmo puede hallar alivio? Con el sexo? Con las drogas? Con el alcohol?
Con la pornografa? Saben cmo pueden hallar alivio? Con Jess.
El mundo solo le puede ofrecer analgsicos temporales. Y el problema de los alivios
temporales es que: uno, el alivio no dura mucho tiempo, dos, dos son adictivos,
tres, nunca solucionan un problema. Y cuando usted deje de utilizar esos
Salmos 147: 3
Last week I told you that in the Bible, God different Hebrew names according to the
benefits we receive from Him is given One is in Exodus 15:. "I am Jehovah Rapha"
which means "I am the God who heals" . The Bible says:
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Psalm 147: 147 3 Salmos:
3
There are people who are tired all the time and one of the causes of constant fatigue
is because you are using all their energy in holding grudges, resentment, guilt and
anguish over his past. It used so much energy into those things you have no energy
for the present, so tired all the time.
The Bible says it is emotionally draining wounds save:
"When I kept silent my sin, my body wasted away through my groaning all day."
Psalms 32: 3Salmos 32: 3
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3 When I kept silent, my bones grew old through my groaning all day, (NIV)
We live in a sinful world and people abuse others in surprising ways. How do you
respond to abuse?
Some respond forgetting about it. "If I do not know, I will forget this period."
Some try to outrun them: drink heavily, take drugs or have sex with people who do
not know.
Some try to blame others.
Some try to cover up their abuse. For some reason they feel guilty. They think it's
their fault. They do not want anyone to know, so they hide and that's like a bottle of
coke that have shaken - is about to explode and one day it will come out the top.
None of these answers work. The first thing to do is to be honest about their pain,
fear, anger, resentment and bitterness over what people did to him, about how he
was abandoned, abused, ridiculed and shame he felt. You disclose their pain. You
have to be honest.
Honestly with whom? With three different people:
First, you must be honest with yourself. You have to say, "It hurts! I'm embarrassed
by this and it still hurts. "
Second, you must be honest with God. Have to say "God this is how I feel!" And it
must vent, get it all inside. God can take it. God knows he's hurt because he saw
when he was wounded. And He suffered with you. God is not going to be surprised
when you tell you about the pain and shame in your life. It will not surprise. Ya
know. He cares and I love him.God only wants to be honest with him because he
knows it will be a catharsis or relief to leave out his wounds afloat.
The third thing you need to do is to be honest at least one person you trust. Tell
someone of flesh and blood. There is something healing to reveal his feelings to
another person.The Bible says in Job 18: 4Job 18: 4
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4 For you, that you crumble in anger, is it abandoned the ground because of you, or
they will be removed from its place the rocks? "Only you're hurting yourself with your
anger."When hidden, it is hurting. If you do not have to rely on, we have leaders with
whom you can talk. He has to get that wound in his heart. It will never be well until
he reveals his wounds.
2. let go of resentment TO THOSE WHO HAVE HURT
How can it be free?
You can not improve while keep resentments. For your own sake, you have to forget
about revenge. You want to heal? Do you want revenge or who would hurt? It does
not have enough energy to do both. You can not do both. You will have to decide
what you want to do.
I'll tell you a secret: The revenge on someone will not cure your pain. Some have
done. Some have made it "pay" to the person who hurt them and know that this did
not solve the problem because they still feel pain. There is only one way to make the
pain in his heart when someone has hurt you and that is through ...
Forgiveness. And you can say "But do not deserve to be forgiven!" He's right. I did
not say they deserved. Undeserving but neither you deserved to be forgiven and
God forgave him. I'm not saying I forgive because they deserve it. I tell them I
forgive them for their own good. You can not get your life while still living in the
past. As long as you keep resentments, it is stalled. That person still controls his life
in the present but hasbeen out of his life for years.
Time magazine had an article that said "Must be all forgiven?" The headline read:
"Let go of resentment can be beneficial to your health. Studies indicate the creation
of a new science of redemption based on grace. " They believe they have
discovered something new but it is something that the Bible has taught for more
than two thousand years. You can not keep a grudge and enjoy life. You have to let
it go. Have to let go of that desire for revenge or "make them pay" for what he
did. Not because they deserve it but because you want to take your life.
"Repay no one evil for evil Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If possible,
as much as depends on you, live at peace with all men. Not you avenge them my
beloved, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written, "Vengeance is mine, I will
repay, saith the Lord" Rom. 12: 17-19 (KJV 1995)
The reason we do not act properly is because we forget this. We forget that God
sees all the damage they have done to us. When we forget God saw hurt us, we
believe we can resolve the matter on our own but we can not. God says "I will adjust
the accounts." Let Jesus adjustment accounts. Trust God to waive the debt. God
saw what was happening. He saw the damage they did, and He will do justice at the
appropriate time. So you have to make a decision: Either life trying to settle
accounts or let God do what is passed.
"You well know how many times I cried." Psalms 58.6b (BLS)
Do you know that God has scored each of the tears spilled, how many times has
been abused, the times he has suffered injustice, prejudice, pain and rejection? God
has a record of her tears and one day will settle accounts because He is the God of
justice. Nothing has gone unnoticed by his eyes. None of your aches.
The reason still holds resentment is because subconsciously think that if you forget
the offense, hurt those who are away with it - have won. Saving you believe that
resentment is going to hurt but it's not true, you are only hurting. Do not worry, the
damage they did will not be forgotten. God will call to mind. And if God will
remember all the damage that has been done to stop thinking about it and wasting
energy with those thoughts.
Jesus understands what it is to abuse. "When Jesus suffered, He did not threaten to
make them pay for their abuse. He left everything in God's hands. " Jesus had six
wounds before dying. A wound in the head, another in the face, on the back for the
lashes, hands, feet and side where he nailed the spear. But the deepest wound of
Jesus was the one who kept inside - that of betrayal. Jesus knew abuse, rejection,
hatred, injustice. Jesus could destroy them in an instant but instead of doing so,
raised his hands and said, "Father forgive them for they know not what they do".
Why you should forgive those who hurt? First, because God has forgiven. Secondly
because it will need to forgive him much more in the future. And thirdly because that
is the only way we will be able to heal. There is no other way. You have to let go of
his desire for revenge.
"Make sure no one misses the grace of God; that no bitter root grows up to cause
trouble and defile many "Hebrews 12:15 (NIV)
Resentment poisons all around him. When you are bitter, it hurts innocent people
and prolong the pain because not release the person who has offended you start to
like him or her."I'll never be like my father ..." saying this is focusing on what you do
not want to be and what you resist persists. It will become a bitter person.
Did you know that the bitterness can pass from one generation to know? Some of
you had a bitter parents and inherited resentment toward life and toward the
circumstances. If you do not break the chain, will pass to their children. Someone
has to stop the misery and can only do reveal the pain and release those who have
hurt you.
3. If you want to heal must replace their memories with the truths of God
How can you heal? With an antiseptic?
Your brain is like a tape recorder. He recorded each of the experiences you have
had through their five senses: all that has smelled, what he has seen, which has
touched, what you heard and what has proved - it's all there. Everything that people
have said. Your brain is an amazing writer. He has recorded everything: good or
bad, right and wrong, true and false. But here's a problem: your brain does not
distinguish between things that are true and which are false. When you were a child
told a couple of things that were not true and believed. And if he believed in them,
he acted as you indicated.
Some still live today with faulty information. When your life based on faulty
information throughout their life have a defeatist style. You will build a life full of
failures and pain. Some, during his childhood, listened to their parents or other
authority figures tell them: "You stupid ... you're ugly ... never going to do anything
with your life ... I am ashamed to call you my son ... You're awkward ... you stupid ...
Why why can not you be smart as your brother / a "The things they told him," you
are useless "- that is recorded in your brain and some have 20, 30, 40, 50 or 60
years and continue listening to that recording and they wonder why they do things
that make them fail. They have habits and actions that lead to failure and those
should be replaced by God's truths.
"Do not be conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your
mind. That you may prove what the will of God, good and acceptable and perfect.
" Romans 12.2 (NIV)
How does God change? How do we transform? Changing the way we think. And
how is that done?
First, you must pray and say, "God, you sanaras my memories? Those things that
hurt me, those wounds in my heart. Still hurt. Sanaras my memories to begin the
process?
Second, you must fill your mind with God's Word, the Bible. The more you fill your
mind with this book, the more you begin to erase the old cassettes and truths of God
fill your mind. You must have a Bible to build their lives on truth and replace all
lies. You will fill your mind with these things to memorize verses, study and read.
And the third thing to do is to believe the truth about you. What is your truth? What
God has said about you? "Through what Christ did for us God decided to make us
holy in his sight, without a single flaw we face covered by His love." Without a single
default - that is how God looks after it has crossed the line and gave his life to
Christ. Without a single defect. He erases everything that has gone wrong - guilt,
regret, shame, pain - delete it and says "Let's start again." And I asked: "You really
do not have defects" The answer is no ... but for the love of Christ and his sacrifice,
God sees it flawlessly. That's the good news.
Psychologists have proven repeatedly that the way in which one is - self-esteem and
self-worth that a person has - is determined by the way the most important people in
your life think. So I want to suggest that Jesus Christ becomes the most important
person in his life. He is going to tell the truth while all others will go to lie. So you
have to decide: Are you going to listen to the liars (who told you worthless) or will
listen to Jesus Christ? Remember what Jesus said? The Bible says that when you
are with Christ is valuable, it accepted as it is, is loved, forgiven, able and God can
use. That's what God says about you.
I repeat the question: Who will listen? Who you gonna believe? Will you believe the
lie they told you? Will you believe what another child told him during recess? Will
you believe what imperfect and sinful person said?
Or are you going to believe what God says about you?
It's your choice. You must replace cassettes of his brain with the truths of God. It is a
process but do have to start it.
4. If you want to be healed of their hidden wounds have to focus on the future
Stop focusing on the past and focus on the plans God has for their future.
This is one of the problems with therapies that exist today. There are many therapies
that focus on healing memories and regressing into his past. If the counselor is not
Christian and if you are not basing its therapy on the principles of the Word of God,
runs out! If you are receiving therapy that is unbiblical and based in God, you will
end up worse than they started. I can give you hundreds of examples of people who
had a painful past, they went to a secular counselor and followed the teachings of
Freud instead of God and today are worse than yesterday. Flee from it! What makes
this type of therapy is to focus both its past remains trapped and can not continue
with the present, much less the future. It will be stuck there!
You have to refocus on the future. There are three steps to do so. All are in Job 11:
13-16Job 11: 13-16
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13 "If thou wilt prepare your heart, and you tend to God's hands; 14 If iniquity is in
your hands, but turn away from you, not aware that dwell in your injustice, 15 then
lift up your face without spot, be steadfast and shall not fear. 16 You will forget your
misery, and you will remember it as waters that pass. (NIV)
"Yet if you devote your heart and to him and stretch out your hands, if you turn away
from sin you have committed and your dwelling allow no evil, then you can bring the
head up and stay strong and free of fear. Certainly you forget your troubles, or
remember how the water happened. " Job 11: 13Job 11: 13
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13 "If thou wilt prepare your heart, and you tend to God's hands; - 16
First he says, "if you give your heart". Give your heart and your desire to get back at
those who hurt. Forgive whether they deserve it or not. You should do the right thing
even if they do not. You may be thinking, "But Pastor, I do not want to do" and I say
"No matter! Do it! "It is the right and only way you will heal their wounds. Surrender
your heart. Do the right thing is to forgive.
Second he says "to him and stretch out your hands." You must ask Christ to come
into your life and you have to ask you begin to heal your hidden wounds and have to
ask to see the positive in the negative that has happened. If you want to heal your
wounds, you have to stop focusing on your pain and begin to focus on your
Healer. Stop thinking and obsessed with their pain and people who hurt him. Start to
focus on Jesus Christ is the one who can heal - Jehovah Rapha "The God who
heals you." He is the answer, nobody else.
The third thing to do is "Facing the world ... again." Do not remove the world. Do not
get locked in a closet. Continue living. Stop saying "I am a victim." Start to say "I'm
not a victim!" Look ahead.
Follow these steps and see what happens. "Then your problems will disappear from
your memory. As waters that have passed and they are not remembered. " Will not
you feel?Would not you like your problems disappear from your memory? Then take
these steps. Remember that you can forget if it refocuses. The past does not forget
to say "I'm going to forget." If you say "I'm going to forget" that means you are
thinking about it all the time. It will not work. Must refocus on Jesus Christ, His plan,
His purpose in your life and then you will be so engaged and so busy with God will
not have time to think about the past.
The past is not your future. That already happened. It does not get stuck in the past
because it has the power of God through Christ to come out of it. You may be a new
person.Your past is not the future.
You are not tied to the past unless you hold grudges. You have to take these steps Reveal your hidden wound, Release those who have hurt you, replace cassettes of
his brain with the truths of God, Reenfquese in the future. You will now be able to
do what Proverbs 4.35 (ESV).
"Let your eyes look forward and look your eyes on what is in front of you." Proverbs
4.35 (ESV)
You will never get better on their own. If I could and would have done ... and can
not. You need other people. You need support. You need a support group and the
best place to find it that's in the church.
People with deep wounds do anything to avoid pain. They take drugs. They get
drunk. They take pills. They have sex with people who do not know. They do
anything to try to stop the pain.
How do you find relief? With sex? With drugs? With alcohol? With pornography? You
know how they can find relief? With Jesus.
The world can offer only temporary pain relievers. And the problem of temporary
relief is that: one, the relief does not last long, two, two are addictive, three, never
solve a problem.And when you stop using those painkillers, though he will be alone,
ashamed, bitter, angry and feeling worthless. Stop looking for quick relief. That does
not work. Give your life to Christ. "I am the God who heals." Boyfriend that you have
is not the solution. The bride who is not the answer. That bad habit you have is not
the solution. Jehovah Rafa is the answer.
How do you know when it has been healed? He knows when he begins to share the
cure with others. It not truly healed until it reaches the fifth step.
5. Help others
If you have not reached this step in the process of healing from God it is because it
is not yet healed. You have to redeem his pain. You have to use their experiences to
help others.This is called a ministry. God wants us to help each other. He can use
his pain to something good.
The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 1
"Who comforts us in all our troubles so that with the comfort we have received from
God, we too can comfort those who suffer." 2 Cor. 1: 4 (NIV)
Do you have a large wound on his life? You can start over. It's possible!
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ he is a new creation. The old has gone, the new
has come! "2 Cor. 5:17 (NIV)
God says, "Forget the past. Let new cassette into the recorder. "
Some have accepted Christ but have not revealed the hidden wound, has not
released those who have offended, has not replaced the lies they told the Truth of
God and still lives in a past life when God has already given the power of a new
life. Take the freedom that God offers you today.
No matter who you are.
No matter where you've been
No matter what the scar
No matter what sin
No matter how fell
On the road
There is healing for your life ... To