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Kirk Douglas
turning 100
As I write this,
December 9
KIRK
DOUGLASs 100th
birthday is a week
away, and God willing,
hell celebrate it with
family and friends. Here
are some things about
Douglas unlikely to be in
most birthday celebration articles. Born Issur
Danielovitch, the son of a
ragman, Douglas had a
remarkable run of quality
hit movies from the late
1940s through the
mid-60s. Less well
known is that he was the
producer, as well as the
star, of two great movies:
Spartacus and Paths
of Glory. He hired a
virtually unknown
STANLEY KUBRICK to
direct those films. He
also hired blacklisted
writer Dalton Trumbo to
write Spartacus and
gave him screen credit
a mortal blow to the
blacklist.
Douglas starred in
the first Hollywood film
made in Israel (The Juggler, 1953). This story
of a Holocaust survivor
starts dour, but ultimately its a hopeful look at
the then-new country. A
near death experience
in 1991 started the intellectual process that led
Kirk to embrace rigor-
Kirk Douglas
Anne Buydens
Michael Douglas
Robert Clary
Natalie Portman
Max Casella
to attend a survivors
convention. ROBERT
CLARY, now a mere 90
years old, plays himself.
Clary was liberated from
Buchenwald in 1945,
when he was 14. Hes
best known for playing
French prisoner LeBeau
on Hogans Heroes.
The feature film
Jackie, starring
NATALIE PORTMAN, 35, as Jackie
Kennedy, opened in
limited release last
Friday. It will open in
most cities sometime
this month. The film
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Jackies distinctive voice
a mixture of a New
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school diction, and a
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has voiced, calling it unforgiveable, and said that the
president-elect has nominated some women who are to
the right of Attila the Hun.
This doesnt buy him out of the horrible things he has
said and allegedly done, or the homophobic and antiLGBTQ stance of Michael Pence. Were really dealing with
human rights and civil rights, he said, pointing to the
South Carolina decision threatening voting rights. And
theres no way to think that it will get better, with the
Supreme Court judges hes been threatening to appoint.
I never thought Roe v. Wade would be in jeopardy. They
want to send women back to alleyways and use coat
hangers for abortions. How could that have happened?
Thats why I signed the petition.
Rabbi Rebecca Sirbu of Teaneck, the director of
Rabbis Without Borders at Clal The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, speaks,
writes, and blogs on a variety of issues related to religion in America today. She said signed the document
because I am very concerned about some of the ideas
President-elect Trump proposed during his campaign,
specifically the ideas of having all Muslim immigrants
register, and the deportation of immigrants. In addition, I am concerned that Trumps rhetoric about Mexicans, Muslims, women, and other minority groups
will lead to legislation that will restrict the rights of
minority groups. Discrimination against one group
will lead to discrimination against other groups.
Therefore, protecting everyones human rights is crucially important.
Concern for others is equally important to Rabbi Paul
Jacobson of Temple Avodat Shalom in River Edge. I
signed the petition because as a congregational leader,
We have to continually
act upon and speak
about our beliefs and
encourage the
protection of
all human rights and
civil liberties.
as a Jew, as a man, as a husband, as a father, as a human
being who cares for and is concerned for other human
beings, I have an obligation to do anything and everything that I possibly can to identify and combat any form
of injustice that I encounter in the world whether that
is through my own spoken voice, written word, other
acts of advocacy, other congregational initiatives, or
by encouraging other people to act, he said. I think
that signing the petition is only a first step. We have to
continually act upon and speak about our beliefs and
encourage the protection of all human rights and civil
liberties. Signing the petition is simply a gesture of
reminding myself and others that I will not be silent.
Other local clergy members who have signed the petition so far include rabbis Lawrence Troster of Teaneck,
now serving a congregation in the Philadelphia area;
Debra Hachen of Beth El in Jersey City; Julia Andelman of
Teaneck, the director of community engagement at the
Jewish Theological Seminary; Jacob Lieberman of Reconstructionist Congregation Beth Israel in Ridgewood; Joel
Pitkowsky of Congregation Beth Sholom in Teaneck,
Meeka Simerly of Beth Tikvah in Wayne, and Cantor
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in Light Up the Night. At right,
Zalmen Mlotek at KulturFestNYC in
Central Park this summer.
in Nazi Europe. It wasnt easy to find.
Our first step is to try to find the music,
Mr. Mlotek said. Its in libraries and archives
all over the world, mainly in almost unreadable chicken scratch, handwritten on the fly.
Only a small selection was published, in the
1920s and on. We started a project to look for
this material.
Although much of the music is American,
much of it is European, and a lot of those
orchestrations were saved and hidden during
the war by the Paper Brigade, he said. The
Nazis collected and saved some Jewish literature, including music, planning to display it
in its planned (but never executed) Museum
of Extinct Races. In a last-ditch attempt to
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save the material, some Jewish intellectuals smuggled it out, under the watch of the
Gestapo, and buried them in milk canisters.
Thousands of documents were retrieved after
the war.
In many cases the melodies had been
preserved, at least in listeners and singers
hearts, heads, and ears, but the orchestrations were lost. In some cases we are presenting for the first time music that hasnt
been heard as it was intended to be heard
since then, Mr. Mlotek said. The material
was retrieved in the 1950s, but it has been sitting in archives. We have found these pieces
and painstakingly recreated them and put
them in a form that can be used today.
It is a big musicological/archeological
project, but there is gold in there. Every time
we see something, its another impetus to
continue our work.
Once the orchestration is recovered, next is
the question of scripts to go with them. They
never were put together or catalogued, Mr.
Mlotek said. When you rent, say, Fiddler on
the Roof, you get everything, but a general
archive of this work never was put together.
But by using the resources of YIVO, the UCLA
Library, and the Milken Foundation, we are
starting to put this archive together.
Once the Folksbiene basically, thats Mr.
Mlotek and assistant artistic director and my
right hand, Motl Didner have done that
work, they had to cast the five singers they
need for the performances theyre planning
for New Years Day. We have a tremendous
pool of talent, performers from the Golden
Bride and people who auditioned, Mr.
Mlotek said. We are not teaching them this
new material. They are not Yiddish-speakers,
so they learn it phonetically, but its not all
rote. Theyre learning what it means.
Its so exciting to hear these songs from
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script, costumes, and staging. Instead, it will
be songs from various productions, played by
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of gun violence, including those slaughtered at the Pulse Nightclub in Orlando,
Fla., the Bergen County Brady Chapter
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Prevent Gun Violence) is taking part in a
nationwide memorial.
On Wednesday, December 14, the
community is invited to the interfaith
memorial against gun violence at the
Central Unitarian Church in Paramus,
156 Forest Ave., at 7:30 p.m.
Speakers will include Representativeelect Josh Gottheimer (D-5th Dist.), New
Jersey state Senator Loretta Weinberg,
Anthony Cureton of the NAACP, and
Bergen Bradys Dwight Panozzo. Religious leaders, including the churchs
Rev. David Horst and Rabbi Jacob Lieberman of Temple Israel in Ridgewood, also
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If you listen to Keith Ellison today,
and you see his statements, hes
more of a Zionist than Herzl, and
Ben-Gurion and Begin combined,
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Words matter. Actions matter more,
Saban said, a baffled Liberman looking
on. Keith Ellison would be a disaster for
the relationship between the Jewish community and the Democratic Party. Now
Ive said what Ive had to say.
Sabans broadside farther reaching,
in calling him an anti-Semite, than even
some of Ellisons conservative critics is
significant because of the moguls relationship to the DNC.
Saban is better known as a leading
backer of Hillary Clinton, the Democratic
presidential nominee defeated last month
by Donald Trump, but he also has been a
major donor to the party. In 2002, he paid
$7 million toward the building of the thennew DNC headquarters here.
Ellison has rallied progressive groups
to his defense, including within the Jewish community.
It is time to retire the playbook that
aims to silence any American official seeking high office who has dared to criticize
certain Israeli government policies, said
a statement Friday from J Street, which
noted it was not endorsing Ellison for the
DNC spot.
The liberal Jewish Middle East policy groups statement came out before
Sabans outcry.
Even before the results are known, the
DNC contest is fraying ties between the
Jewish organizational establishment and
the party, which already were stretched
taut by last years contentious battle
between the Israeli and American governments over the Iran deal and years of tensions under President Barack Obama over
Israels settlement policies. Ellison said
this weekend that he may leave Congress
if he wins, a key demand of some of the
grassroots officials who vote for the chairman, and a sign of how serious his bid is.
Ellison has come under fire in part
because of his youth, which was spent as
an activist with the Nation of Islam and
defending some black nationalists who
had hostile relationships with the Jewish
community.
Running for Congress in 2006, he wrote
a letter apologizing for those associations
to the Minneapolis Jewish community. He
since has enjoyed friendly relations with
his states Jews.
Ellison went further last Friday in an
op-ed for the Washington Post in berating
his younger self for those ties.
These men organize by sowing hatred
and division, including anti-Semitism,
homophobia and a chauvinistic model
of manhood, he said. I should have listened more and talked less.
Since his election to Congress, however, he also has become a sharp critic
of some Israeli actions that have earned
him both alliances among liberal Jewish
groups like J Street, and wariness from
mainstream pro-Israel groups. He spearheaded a 2009 letter urging the Obama
administration to press Israel to loosen
restrictions on the Gaza Strip, which the
If you go back
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his speeches, the
ways he voted,
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seven million people. The ADL said that
disqualified him.
The National Jewish Democratic Council said in a statement on Friday, before
Sabans comments, that the accusations
that [Ellison] is somehow anti-Semitic are
false, reprehensible and shameful. It also
said his record on Israel was mixed,
notable for a group with a mission of lauding Democratic incumbents, and said it
strongly disagreed with his 2014 vote on
Iron Dome.
Ellison countered that his 2010 remark
had been taken out of context and noted
that the Investigative Projects founder is
Steven Emerson, who was featured in the
Southern Poverty Law Centers recently
released guide to anti-Muslim extremists.
In his talk to the fundraisers, Ellison displayed a degree of nuance in his views on
Israel and the Jewish community. He held
up Jewish lobbying for Israel as a model
that Muslims should emulate, and admonished his audience when it apparently
recoiled after Ellison said he had met with
activists at the annual American Israel Public Affairs Committee conference.
The lawmaker said he has a moral
and legal obligation to meet with all
his constituents.
I want to hear what everybody has
to say. Right? he told the group. And I
want you to know that the level of organization that they display is considerable. Ellison also said that this is not
to say that I dont want the U.S. to be
friends with Israel.
But he also indulged tropes about
Israel and Jews that would likely irk
many in the pro-Israel community and
has not raised in his meetings with Jews.
In the recorded remarks, he said
Israel treats the United States as a cash
machine, demanding funding without
being responsive to American needs.
Were Americans, right? We cant
allow another country to treat us like
were their ATM. Right? And so we ought
to stand up as Americans, Ellison said.
He also depicted Jews as uncritical,
saying that Israel has mobilized its diaspora in America to do its bidding. Ellison depicted himself as putting Israel
supporters who questioned Obamas
anti-settlement policies on the spot.
That is the policy of my president,
and I want to know if youre with the
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nationalist appeal
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TEL AVIV Stephen Bannon recently
called Breitbart News the most proIsrael site in the United States of
America.
That will not change as Bannon leaves
the far-right news website for the White
House, according to Breitbarts Jerusalem bureau chief.
Saying he shares a worldview with
Bannon, President-elect Donald Trumps
chief White House strategist, Aaron Klein
plans to expand the Israel operation,
which staunchly backs the Jewish states
political right wing. There is talk of moving into the Hebrew-language market.
Were here to counter the total bias
of the mainstream media in coverage of
Israel, Klein, 38, said in an interview at
his two-story apartment near this citys
beach. We write for the American audience, a Western audience obviously at this
point. I think a huge segment of Israelis
also has an appetite for an outlet that isnt
controlled by the leftist media mafia.
Founded in 2007 by the late conservative publisher Andrew Breitbart, who
was Jewish, the site grew in prominence
during the presidential campaign as
one of Trumps most reliable champions. When Bannon, who ran Breitbart
after its founders death in 2012, became
Trumps campaign manager and then
top White House aide, the sites reputation deserved or not as a gathering place for the white supremacist and
often anti-Semitic alt-right became fodder for national debate.
Bannons defenders say that Breitbarts fiercely pro-Israel stance refutes
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the alt-right were so significant, it would
be something that Id know more about.
The general readerships interest in
Israel coverage, Klein said, is proof that
the alt-right is a fringe element. In Kleins
view, Breitbart readers are nationalists,
who admire how Israel copes under difficult circumstances, especially under
Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu.
There are themes here in Israel that
I believe really resonate with the nationalist audience in America. Like borders.
I mean thats something Israel excels at
defining. I think Bibi is a role model for
America, he said, using Netanyahus
nickname. Americans in general see
him as one of their heroes, one of the
most respected world leaders, somebody who has in the past and even now
stood up to enemies of Israel, stood up
in many ways to the Obama administration, sort of an anti-establishment figure
in a way.
Readers are right to see common
threats to the United States and Israel,
Klein said. The Jewish state, he said, is
under attack by Islamic extremists as
well as by American liberal elites, like the
mainstream news media, social justice
activists and the Obama administration.
Israel is the canary in the minefield
for kind of what happens when youre
surrounded by enemies, when your
enemies are emboldened, he said. So
now the threats are, you know, on Israels borders. Threats that Obama himself
helped to create. Hillary as well.
These supposedly shared threats,
more than events in Israel, are the focus
of Breitbart Jerusalems coverage, which
is mostly aggregated from other news
sources and written in a straight-ahead
style that contrasts with the rest of the
website. The message is largely in Kleins
editorial selection and framing.
Last week, the only posts on the landing page that did not name a Muslim or
liberal threat were about Israel buying
fighter jets from the United States and
the recently subdued wildfires that had
raged across Israel. (The page is branded
with an Israeli flag-styled Breitbart logo.)
The website previously had played up the
role of Arab arsonists in the fires, even
blaring the headline FIRE INTIFADA in
red capital letters at the top of the page.
Police said that it was still unclear what
role terrorism played in the fires.
Many of Breitbart Jerusalems posts
make explicit how both the United
States and Israel are threatened. The
top story that afternoon was about how
the car-ramming and stabbing attack at
Ohio State University two days earlier,
claimed by the Islamic State, resembled
Palestinian terrorism in Israel.
Klein travels between the United
States and Israel as part of his job. In
addition to heading Breitbart Jerusalem, he is the websites senior investigative reporter focusing on the United
States. Kleins most recent investigativestyle stories for Breitbart targeted Marc
Elias, the lawyer who is representing
Hillary Clintons presidential campaign
in a recount of votes in Wisconsin, and
Anti-Defamation League CEO Jonathan
Greenblatt, who had just condemned
Bannons White House appointment.
The stories linked both men to projects
supported by financier and liberal megadonor George Soros, an association presumed to be damning in itself.
Both men are Jewish, as is Soros. Such
reporting, which elicits openly antiSemitic comments, has fed accusations
that Breitbart promotes anti-Semitism.
Andrew Breitbart despised racism.
Truly despised it, Ben Shapiro, a former Breitbart editor-at-large, wrote this
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with [technology editor Milo] Yiannopoulos pushing white ethno-nationalism as a
legitimate response to political correctness, and the comment section turning
into a cesspool for white supremacist
meme-makers.
Attorney Alan Dershowitz, an ardent
defender of Israel, wrote in the Israeli daily
Haaretz that he found no evidence Bannon
is anti-Semitic, but nevertheless said Bannon and Breitbart News have made bigoted statements about Muslims, women
and others.
Bigotry against any group should be
disqualifying for high office, Dershowitz
said.
Klein like many of Breitbarts staffers,
including the authors of the two articles
most frequently cited as evidence that Breitbart is anti-Semitic is Jewish. He grew
up attending modern Orthodox schools
and graduated from Yeshiva University
before moving to Israel in 2005.
Bannon, in an interview this month with
the Wall Street Journal, pointed to the Jews
on Breitbarts staff and to Breitbart Jerusalem to refute allegations that he is personally anti-Semitic.
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he famous American author of Fear of Fly- than done but so amazingly rewarding. God gave
ing, Erica Jong, who is an acquaintance
each of us an infinite supply of dignity that we can
of mine, wrote a noted book called Fear
sprinkle on others, like confetti thrown on a bride
of Fifty. It details how we Americans fret
and groom at their wedding. By simply being attenabout aging. We live in the ultimate ageist society, tive to people, by valuing their opinions, by expresswhere youth is glorified and age is treated as a mis- ing gratitude, we make others feel like they matter.
erable disease.
There is nothing they wish for more. Most of what
Perhaps we should consider the alternative.
we do in life is an attempt to make us feel like we
To age is to live. Not to age is to be purged of that
matter. So if you crave it so much, grant that same
greatest blessing: life itself.
gift to others as well. Part of this is giving compliments. Ive always been confused by compliments.
Moreover, to age is to gain wisdom.
Theyre free. Theyre so easy to offer. So why are we
And what have I learned in my half century on this
so stingy with them? Watch as you give someone a
earth, which has gone by in such a flicker in the week
compliment. They come to life in an
of my 50th birthday? Im not just pontificating here. The Talmud says that at
instant. Make it sincere. Everyone has
50 a person has reached the age to give
something to praise. Find it and offer it.
counsel. So allow me to offer my own
4. Never fear. That doesnt mean we
sage advice:
should live carelessly. But there is a difference between living in fear and liv1. Sins of omission are much greater
ing out of a sense of caution. While fear
than sins of commission.
is a hysterical response to an imagined
There can be no doubt that I regret
threat, caution is a calculated reaction
the bad things Ive done. I wish I had
to a real danger.
never committed them. But far worse
Rabbi
5. Learn to forgive. This lesson arguare the good things that I have not done.
Shmuley
ably is the hardest of all. We all feel
Relationships, for example, sometimes
Boteach
wronged by others and forgiving is
are undone by a sin in the relationship.
the most unnatural act. Why overlook
But much more often relationships die
the harm done to us by others, espethe sin of neglect. I have seen many
cially if they havent yet taken responsibility for what
men and women bounce back from mistakes. But
I have seen far more people slowly lose their vital- theyve done? Because nursing grudges makes us old
ity and passion for life because they lack purpose
before our time, even if were far younger than 50.
and have not found a great cause to which to commit
6. Your job as a parent is to make your children
themselves.
always feel valued. Its not to get them into Harvard.
2. A man or woman is defined not by the quan- Its not to inspire them to launch an internet startup.
tity in their bank accounts but by the quality of their
Stop thinking that your objective as a parent is to
relationships. Sounds simple, I know. But its a tru- make your child a success. I have seen so many
ism we trample on every single day. Our society
children, successful on paper, who still are empty on
uses money as a commodity to use to purchase self- the inside because they were never made to feel like
esteem. The net result is that men and women spend
they were valuable intrinsically. The job of a parent
their lives in acts of accumulation, as if in millennia
is to validate their children not through their doing
of human history we have not advanced from being
but through their being. I love you because you are.
hunter-gatherers. But the greatest problem in the
There is nothing you can do that will ever make me
world today, and the one first identified in the Bible
love you more, and there is nothing you can do that
as the mother of all human challenges, is loneliness. will ever make me love you less.
All the money and status in the world will not make
7. Live for the Jewish people. OK, this lesson
you feel appreciated unconditionally for something
sounds like its for Jews, but its not. The message
you feel is intrinsic to your being. So cultivate and
is live for your nation, live for your country, live for
never neglect core relationships.
your people. Live for a cause larger than yourself.
3. Confer dignity on all whom you meet. By this I
Only when we connect with something eternal is our
mean, try to make others feel important. Easier said
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cannot remember a
time when there was as
much anxiety following
a presidential election
as we have been experiencing
this past month.
We have seen protests and
read about recriminations.
We heard that the Canadian
Rabbi Dr.
immigration website crashed
David J. Fine
after the election results were
tallied. None of us are prophets and can say with certainty
what the future will or will not bring. But I do believe
that a certain optimism in the future is the stalwart position of the person of faith. I also believe, deeply believe,
in the stability and goodness of our country.
As a congregational rabbi I am cognizant, and have
been very conscious throughout the election season, of
what my role is not. That is, while I can and do speak for
issues and values, it has not been nor is it now my role
to endorse individual politicians.
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are the most stable of nations. Our long-serving constitution is marked by a separation of powers that could
not be more different than the parliamentary system
that Hitler inherited in Germany. Our Congress stands
as a branch of government independent from the executive. While we are well familiar with the liabilities of
this system through the long history of logjam between
Congress and the White House, we need to recognize
that it serves as a hurricane wall to protect us against
an unchecked executive. Indeed, our Constitution was
crafted by the Founders with that specifically in mind.
Hitler was an avowed anti-Semite. President-Elect
Trumps most trusted advisors are his Jewish daughter
and son-in-law.
One out of four American Jews voted for Trump.
The proportions were more or less consistent with
Jewish votes in every election, give or take a few percentage points. Three quarters of Jews vote Democrat
and one quarter Republican. (We are traditional that
way.)
While I do not want to get involved in the political analysis of the statements and positions of the
president-elect, I do urge us to keep historical perspective. This was a difficult election, which unleashed
very dangerous fears and hatreds within the fabric of
the American people. I look to President-Elect Trump
to lead the nation beyond the election. As President
George H. W. Bush wrote in the letter he left in the Oval
Office for President Bill Clinton: You will be our president. Your success now is our countrys success. I am
rooting hard for you.
The only formal oath I have taken in my life was for
my first job after graduating high school. I signed up to
be a census worker, and as any federal employee must
do, I raised my right hand and swore to defend the
Constitution of the United States. Donald Trump will
take that oath on January 20th. We are linked through
that bond.
David J. Fine is the rabbi of Temple Israel and Jewish
Community Center of Ridgewood, holds a doctorate in
modern European history, and is an adjunct professor of
Jewish law at the Abraham Geiger and Zacharias Frankel
colleges at the University of Potsdam in Germany.
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Thirdly, while it is not the same threat as intermarriage, rabbinically sanctioned same-sex marriages are
wrong. To sanction said marriage is to sanction samesex intimacy. To sanction same sex intimacy is comparable to abolishing the dietary laws or the Sabbath. The
only halachic justifiable lifestyle for the gay or lesbian is
to abstain from intimate relations. The two rabbis have
opted for political correctness over Jewish law. While
gays and lesbians should not be excluded from the Jewish life in the same way non-observant are not excluded,
nobody should be allowed to rewrite thousands of years
of Jewish law.
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JOANNE PALMER
ts been a long time since its made
sense to have two Jewish Family Services operating in the densely populated but geographically fairly small
area thats home to the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey.
The federation itself is the result of
a merger the 2003 move that brought together
two smaller groups, one centered around Fair
Lawn and Wayne, the other to its east, in Bergen
County, with its headquarters in Paramus. That
merger was both necessary and important for the
communitys future; at times it was somewhat
bumpy, as such a melding of fiercely independent organizations with shared goals but separate
histories inevitably are. But now, more
than a decade later, all the agencies that
both federations funded are under the
federations aegis. The last two to come
together the Jewish Family Service of
North Jersey (thats the one in Fair Lawn
and Wayne) and the Jewish Family Service of Bergen and North Hudson (the Teaneck one) have
agreed to join under a slightly new name.
Starting on January 1, the community will be
able to get the services it needs from the Jewish
Family and Childrens Services of Northern New
Jersey. It will retain all three offices and all the services both precursor agencies offered.
In some cases, both agencies offered strikingly
similar services.
Take, for example, Caf Europa.
Its a program for Holocaust survivors, all of
whom are fairly old by now, and some of whom
are very old. They suffered unimaginably when
they were young; for decades many of them got
by in this country without ever talking about what
happened to them, except perhaps if screaming
nightmares count.
Some of them were financially successful, and
others were not. Some built very full lives. All
were haunted by the past.
Now, through funding contributed in part
through the Conference on Material Claims
Against Germany and the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey, both the Jewish Family Service of Bergen and North
Hudson and the Jewish Family Service of
North Jersey welcome those survivors to
Caf Europa. There, they can talk to each
other with the sort of understanding that
no one else can share; they can also meet
their friends, eat lunch, relax, listen to
music, and even sing along.
So when we went to the other JFS Caf
Europa last month, we saw that we both
were doing the exact same program, Allyn
Michaelson of Fair Lawn, the president of
the North Jersey JFS, said. Theyre eating
the same food from the same caterer, its
almost exactly the same entertainment,
and theyre even singing the same songs.
And about between a third and a half of
the people were the same people who had
been at ours.
But now, she said, on December 20,
we will do a joint Chanukah party, and we
expect about 150 survivors. For them, its
Riders of all ages at the starting line of the Wheels-for-Meals Ride to Fight Hunger.
Susan Greenbaum looks on as JFS presidents Shira Feuerstein, center, and Allyn
Michaelson sign the agreement to join their two agencies to create the Jewish
Family and Childrens Services of Northern New Jersey.
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From left, Leon and Goldita Veiser and Marta Felberbaum and Olga Jaeger meet for lunch, entertainment, and understanding at Caf Europa, a program that both JFS agencies offer.
Moshe Strakhman has developed a strong bond with Dennis Gralla, who brings
him and his wife food through Kosher Meals on Wheels.
In fact, the
agencies work
for anyone
who calls them;
they specialize
in the Jewish
community but
are in no way
confined there.
lightly. For a community mental health
service to behave this way she said.
The North Jersey JFS had a grant that
allowed them to put social workers in synagogues and schools; now both JFSs can
use that grant, she said. And we have a
program we call school-based services.
Basically we do afterschool care in four
public schools lower schools and middle schools in Fort Lee, Cliffside Park, Fairview, and Palisades Park for children
whose parents are working.
This work helps support our agency
its done using government grants
and it generates a lot of mental health
service work, she said. We are doing a
lot of psychotherapy for these kids and
their parents.
These arent Jewish kids, Ms. Greenbaum said. In fact, the agencies work for
anyone who calls them; they specialize in
the Jewish community but are in no way
confined there. We serve everybody, and
we receive county funding for a lot of our
senior services, she said. Our philosophy
is that by serving everybody, we are able to
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it will be able to direct it.
She remembers beginning her volunteer
work delivering meals on wheels. I had
one woman who always had me sit with
her for 10 minutes or so, because I was her
only contact to the outside world that day,
she said. She would talk to her family on
the phone, but no one lived nearby. I went
about once a week; other people went
other days, and I assume she did that with
all of them.
Sit down for a few minutes, rest your
feet, shed tell me. I know youve been
running around.
I knew that she was looking forward to
people walking through the door with a
meal and a smile.
JFS adapts to whats needed in the community, she said. Every month the food
pantry seems to be serving more people.
You think that there isnt a need for it in
Bergen County but there is.
And the breadth of our service grows
constantly. We have Re-Launch, to help
people get back in the work force, helping
them with resumes and interview skills. I
personally have had friends who used that
service and found it really valuable.
We offer mental health counseling, family counseling, bereavement
offer a total safety net for the Jewish community. We can be robust in what we do.
Allyn Michaelson is excited about the
merger, and glad that she could oversee it
from her agencys side. Everyone in the
federation catchment area should have
equal access to our services, she said.
Our hope is that the new agency will
make one plus one equal three.
Its wrong to think that there are no real
needs in the Jewish community of Bergen,
Passaic, and Hudson counties, she said.
Unemployment, illness, or emotional setback can strike anywhere. Anyone of any
age could wake up and need our services,
she said. Thats why both agencies have
used the tag line Were here when you
need us.
Our expectation is that the new
agency will exceed the excellence both
agencies have provided for over 70 years
and continue to be the safety net for our
community.
Shira Feuerstein is looking forward to
working with the combined board and
helping to support this new, larger social
service agency, she said.
The guesswork about who to call will
end, she said. We plan to have one central number, and the person who answers
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n 1 A large contingent of hockey fans joined Areyvut at a
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n 6 The heBREWS a group of Temple Emanu-El of Closter members who live in Manhattan
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n 8 Rabbi David Fine of Temple Israel & JCC in Ridgewood, center, is shown with his family;
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DIFFICULTY LEVEL: MANAGEABLE
Across
1. Fred Wilpon (MLB)
5. Joseph has a (long) one with
his brothers
9. Fragrant wood used in the Temple
14. New Israeli
15. Paulas American Idol cojudge DioGuardi
16. Holy Land bank
17. Mark Cuban (NBA)
19. Undercover (like a Mossad agent),
for short
20. Apple pie option that would also
work on hot babka
21. Meas. when making challah
23. ___ and Ktiv
24. What Trump might end for
Syrian rebels
25. Julia Louis-Dreyfus HBO show
26. Like 59-Down
27. Ramallah grp.
30. Lovato who claims to have
Jewish ancestry
32. Conference foe of 70-Across &
57-Down
34. Broadcasts (The Goldbergs)
36. ___ il tas (Ladino Chanukah song)
37. Radio psychologist Westheimer
41. What an Israeli heat wave will eventually do
43. Currency abbr. in Israel
45. Coppola who directed Scarlett
Johansson in Lost in Translation
46. Shabbat prayer
48. ___ Yisrael (Moshav)
50. Sefer read on Yom Kippur
51. Had some kreplach
52. Jewish actress Jennifer
54. Allenby and Yefet in Tel Aviv: Abbr.
55. Quick punch from Tyson or Baer
58. Regrets, like Antiochus IV for
oppressing the Jews
60. Old French coin, worth a few agorot
62. Simian opponent of 55-Down
63. A mean Amin
64. Like G-d
68. Lenny Solomon shlocked his Rock
Me Amadeus
70. Dan & Gary Gilbert (NBA)
72. Coastal town south of Haifa
73. 4-Down in English
74. Sneaker brand or Israeli storage company
75. Observes Shabbat
76. The Gershwins It ____
Necessarily So
77. Micky Arison (NBA)
Down
1. N.Y.C. locale where Chagalls
hung around
2. Plane that might have a sky-high
minyan
3. Israeli footwear brand
4. Bedtime prayer
5. Spun out (unlikely Arad road occurrence)
6. Tempo (of Torah reading)
7. Tablet holder
8. Sample sufganiyot
9. Steve Balmer (NBA)
10. Dark time for Keats or Lazarus
11. Henry Samueli (NHL)
12. Early rabbi
13. Like one who very strictly keeps halacha
18. Rage that might have been displayed
by Barry Bonds or Ryan Braun
22. Sondheims ___ in the Clowns
25. Zygi & Mark Wilf (NFL)
27. Lulav provider
28. In ___ of (wine, use grape juice)
29. Shabbat leftovers?
31. Adam, e.g.
33. 2004 Brad Pitt- Orlando Bloom film
35. Shushan
38. Ships in several Spielberg films:
Abbr.
39. Krusty the Klowns green hair, e.g.
40. Shira of Shtisel
42. Robert Kraft (NFL)
44. Former title for Rabbi Sacks
47. Clash between Judah and Israel, e.g.
49. Boot up the Dell again
53. Singer Sharabi
55. Foe of Scott Weingers Aladdin
56. Taper off, like the end of a simcha
57. Jerry Reinsdorf (NBA)
59. See 26-Across
61. Ill-fated husband of Bathsheba
64. Singers ___ and Jaron
65. Wolfs Party of Five costar Campbell
66. Any solo from Salome
67. Exam before Cardozo, for short
69. Future staff at Ramah: Abbr.
71. OU preceders?
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deli dinner follows the
movie. East 304 Midland
Ave. Dinner reservations,
(201) 262-7691.
Elon Altman
Chanukah fun in
Closter: Temple Emanu-
Family Chanukah
program in New
Milford: Solomon
Eli Lebowicz
DEC.
10
Friday
DECEMBER 9
Nursery school open
house in Tenafly:
The Leonard and Syril
Rubin Nursery School
at the Kaplen JCC on
the Palisades has an
open house, 9:30 a.m.;
the next one is set for
January 13. 411 E. Clinton
Ave. (201) 408-1436 or
eyurowitz@jccotp.org.
Saturday
DECEMBER 10
Sunday
DECEMBER 11
Academies at Gerrard
Berman Day School hold
a havdalah drum circle
with a performance by
Musical IQ. Crafts, and
snacks, 6:15 p.m. 45
Spruce St. (201) 337-1111,
ext. 208, or Wblom@ssnj.
org.
Fundraiser for
Holocaust education:
The Northern New Jersey
Holocaust Memorial and
Education Committee
Holiday boutique in
Tenafly: The Early
Childhood Parent
Association at Temple
Sinai of Bergen County
holds a boutique,
9:30 a.m.2:30 p.m.,
to benefit the early
childhood center here.
Items include jewelry,
accessories, womens and
childrens apparel, books,
skincare, and gifts. 1
Engle St . (201) 568-6867.
Breaking down
stereotypes: Allison
Josephs, founder/
director of Jew in the
City, which works to
break down stereotypes
about religious Jews,
talks about Project
Makom at Congregation
Beth Aaron in
Teaneck, 8:15 p.m. 950
Queen Anne Road.
(201) 836-6210.
Monday
DECEMBER 12
Poetry reading in
Teaneck: Awardwinning poet Yehoshua
November celebrates
the publication of his
new book of poems,
Two Worlds Exist, in
a conversation with
Sandee Brawarsky
at Congregation
Beth Sholom, 11 a.m.
Refreshments. 354
Maitland Ave.
(201) 833-2620.
Film in Paramus:
The JCC of Paramus/
Congregation Beth
Tikvah shows The
Butler, with Forest
Whitaker and Oprah
Winfrey, 3 p.m. Optional
Wednesday
DECEMBER 14
Dealing with the
holidays: Temple
Emanuel of the Pascack
Valley in Woodcliff Lake
continues its Keruv
series with a discussion,
The Holidays in All
Our Families: How We
Deal!, led by Rabbi
Leanna Moritt, at the
shul, 7:30 p.m. The
program was developed
by the Federation of
Jewish Mens Clubs to
help couples, parents,
extended families, and
synagogues deal with
interfaith relationships
and marriage. 87
Overlook Drive.
(201) 391-0801 or keruv@
tepv.org.
Debbie Slevin
Thursday
Author in Wayne:
DECEMBER 15
Parkinsons support:
The Jewish Home
Family launches a
support group for
people with a diagnosis
of Parkinsons Disease,
their families, and
caregivers, at the Jewish
Home at Rockleigh,
10:30 a.m. Jerry Ratner,
who heads a successful
Parkinsons support
group in Haworth, will
lead; it will meet the
third Thursday of every
month. A representative
of the Michael J.
Fox Foundation for
Parkinsons Research will
be at the kickoff session.
(201) 784-1414, ext.
5538, or parkinsons@
jewishhomefamily.org.
Facts on American
presidents: The Bergen
County YJCC Senior
Lunch program meets
to learn interesting facts
about our presidents with
Dr. James Kane at Temple
Beth Or in Washington
Township, 10:30 a.m.
Kosher lunch at noon
followed by mah jongg,
canasta, and dominoes.
56 Ridgewood Road.
(201) 666-6610, ext. 2.
Calendar
Torah on Tap: The Glen
Rock Jewish Center
continues its Torah
on Tap series with a
meeting at the Greek
Taverna, 8 p.m. 175
Rock Road, Glen Rock.
(201) 652-6624, or
office@grjc.org.
Friday
DECEMBER 16
Chanukah discussion:
The Bergen County YJCC
Senior Lunch program
meets to learn about
Chanukah with Rabbi
Bob Mark of the Clifton
Jewish Center at Temple
Beth Or in Washington
Township, noon. Kosher
lunch. 56 Ridgewood
Road. (201) 666-6610.
Shabbat in Wayne:
Temple Beth Tikvah has
Chanukah dinner and
services, 6 p.m. Childrens
crafts. 950 Preakness
Ave. Reservations,
(973) 595-6565.
Shabbat in Woodcliff
Lake: Temple Emanuel of
the Pascack Valley has a
Chanukah family service,
7 p.m., with Rabbi Loren
Monosov, Cantor Alan
Sokoloff, Cantor emeritus
Mark Biddelman, the
TEPV Swingin Singers,
and the fourth-grade
class. 87 Overlook Drive.
(201) 391-0801 or www.
tepv.org.
Shabbat in Emerson:
The Mens Club of
Congregation Bnai
Israel hosts its annual
Chanukah dinner,
Saturday
DECEMBER 17
Shabbat in Closter:
Temple Emanu-El of
Closter welcomes
scholar-in-residence, Maj.
Gen. (Res.) Meir KlifiAmir, national director/
CEO of Friends of Israel
Defense Forces, who will
discuss Challenges and
Opportunities for Israel
Today, 9 a.m. Dessert
reception follows.
180 Piermont Road.
(201) 750-9997.
Shabbat in Ridgewood:
Temple Israel & JCC
in Ridgewood holds
its annual National
Gun Violence
Prevention Shabbat, in
commemoration of the
fourth anniversary of
the Newtown shooting.
During 9 a.m. services,
Sarah Nanus, founder
of the Bergen County
chapter of Moms
Demand Action for Gun
Sense in America, will
talk about gun violence
and the need for public
involvement. Kiddush
lunch follows. 475 Grove
St. (201) 444-9320 or
www.synagogue.org.
Jewish inclusiveness:
Temple Emeth of
Teanecks Viewpoints
Committee screens
Nicole Oppers film Off
and Running, the story
of an African-American
girl adopted by a
Jewish lesbian family,
2:30 p.m. Viewpoints, a
shul committee that was
formed to celebrate the
diversity of the Jewish
community, includes
programs that highlight
the interfaith, interracial,
and LGBT communities.
1666 Windsor Road.
(201) 833-1322.
Chanukah in Hoboken:
Ammi/My People
Jews By Choice holds
a pre-Chanukah dinner
and Havdalah at the
United Synagogue of
Hoboken, 5 p.m. The
group is for people
who have completed
an introduction to
Judaism course and
are looking for the next
step. Discussions by
USH rabbinic intern
Lindsey Healey-Pollack
and Rabbi Robert
Scheinberg. 115 Park Ave.
(201) 659-4000 or office@
hobokensynagogue.org.
Comedy in Paramus:
The JCC of Paramus/
Congregation Beth
Tikvah hosts a comedy
night starring Robin
Sunday
DECEMBER 18
Chanukah in Woodcliff
Lake: Join members
of Temple Emanuel
of the Pascack Valley
for a pre-Chanukah
celebration featuring
the Bossy Frog Band,
10 a.m. 87 Overlook Ave.
(201) 391-0801 or email
Margie@tepv.org
Chanukah at Home
Depot: Chabad of
Upper Passaic County
partners with Home
Depot in Riverdale for
a Chanukah menorah
workshop, 10-11:30 a.m.
Build a wooden menorah,
get a workers apron
and Chanukah treats.
The Home Depot, 106
Route 23, Riverdale.
(201) 696-7609 or
JewishHighlands.org.
Monday
DECEMBER 19
Making our lives
more meaningful:
Rabbi Lazer Gurkow
discusses Planting
Seeds of Happiness
in the Fertile Soil of
Life How Can We
Make Our Lives Deeper
and More Meaningful?
at a farbrengen at
Lubavitch on the
Palisades, 7:30 p.m.
Traditional dinner. 11
Harold St., Tenafly.
www.chabadlubavitch.
org/19kislev or
(201) 871-1152.
Singles
Thursday
DECEMBER 15
Widows and widowers
meet in Glen Rock:
Movin On, a monthly
luncheon group for
widows and widowers,
meets at the Glen Rock
Jewish Center, 12:30 p.m.
682 Harristown Road.
$5 for lunch. Next
date, January 15.
(201) 652-6624 or email
Binny, arbgr@aol.com.
Sunday
DECEMBER 18
Seniors meet in
Blauvelt: Singles 65+
of the JCC Rockland
meet for lunch at the
Blauvelt Coach Diner,
noon. 587 Route 303.
Individual checks. Gene,
(845) 356-5525.
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Chanukah in Wyckoff:
Temple Beth Rishon
offers Chanukah Fun
Day with food, drinks,
and activities, including
magic, laser tag, game
truck, and arts and crafts,
11 a.m.1:30 p.m. 585
Russell Ave. Refreshments.
(201) 891-4466 or
bethrishon.org.
Chanukah in Paramus
at ShopRite: Christina
Kamilaris, the registered
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My fathers story
teaches that life
is about all of
us, not one of us.
We need to
esteem others
much more
than ourselves.
CHRIS EDMONDS
Now that his fathers wartime stories are known, Chris said his life has
been turned upside down. The Jewish
Foundation for the Righteous, an organization that identifies non-Jewish rescuers of Holocaust survivors and pays
tribute to their courage, honored Roddies memory on November 28 with the
Yehi Ohr Award during the foundations
annual dinner at the New York City Public Library.
Roddie already had been recognized by
Yad Vashemthe state of Israels official
Holocaust memorial and research instituteas Righteous Among the Nations,
the Israeli name for non-Jewish saviors of
Jews during the Holocaust.
For Chris, there initially was an element of mystery to his fathers writings. He could only guess what the faded
ticks in the margins of the diary entries
referred to. Jewish friends moved out,
Dogs, Before the Commander, Scottish Chaplain, read several of the startling, undated notes.
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to give an equal status to all trends within the religion,
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anti-Zionists that Judaism is a religion and not a nation.
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are endangering our sovereignty itself.
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education and womens rights, how its tech sector is
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Chanukah
Grateful for great wine
GABRIEL GELLER
Not long ago, hundreds of millions of American citizens
celebrated the national holiday of Thanksgiving. On that
very day, those who celebrate it express their gratitude
for all the good they have in life. The believers thank God,
others thank their family or their friends.
Personally, I consider that every day is Thanksgiving,
as we thank God many times a day for all the good in our
lives, in which every single detail matters. Judaism offers
us a way of life that is not a routine; on the contrary it is
a constant renewal of our commitment to God through
mitzvot and blessings which are the concrete expression
of our gratefulness for Gods goodness towards us.
The Kiddush is made on wine, and while I do enjoy a
glass of good wine almost every night with my dinner, the
wines that I choose for Shabbat are usually extra special.
As well, I often think about the fact that until only a few
years ago, the selection of quality kosher wines was rather
restrained, and that is an understatement. When I pour
myself a glass of wine, I try to remember how blessed our
generation is for being able to enjoy such a wonderful and
diverse collection of wines!
There is a wine that I was truly thrilled to drink recently,
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particular. The Kayoumi vineyard is situated in the upper
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