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AUTHOR
EVERY TIME...
and have him beg
for
more!
NAURA HAYDEN
and keep him faithful forever!
andOnly Book
That Tells You Exactly How
The
First
HOW TO
for
more!
by NAURA HAYDEN
When Naura
to
etc.
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unfaithful?
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#15.
to
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you?
is
your favorite
way
of love-
making?
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#44.
think
man can be
happily
How
#52.
Would you
control of your
Women
wanted
at the
to
will
be, too.
is the first and only book that tells you exactly how
keep the sex so exciting that your marriage will last
This
will
to
body?
lifetime.
Dear Reader,
In 1982,
HOW
my book
EVERY TIME
TO SATISFY A WOMAN
in
ten
and
weeks
on the
pened.
thing hap-
It
Cut
selling
to
to 1990.
can bring
it
me
still
thought
it
so that more
wonder
if I
marriages?"
So
1992
I
it
was on
New
it
weeks
for sixty-two
list
and
two countries
in
which
again and
New
later
on
its
York
not ever
bestseller
list),
the
early
in
By
lists in
I
it
Australia and
promoted
write
Germany,
it.
HOW
TO SATISFY A
thought
say,
was
that
would be
so easy
was a
it
Satisfying a man,
silly.
joke. "All a
little
man
used
to
has to do
is
why
It
for a
woman
HOW
WOMAN
TO SATISFY A
successful, but
men were
was so
incredibly
ing forth.
in
my
head. "If
many men
went on
is
getting divorces?"
Then
why
are so
for
weeks
with
many
to
man
'
for
any
works!
April 1999
HOW TO SATISFY
A MAN
EVERY TIME
NAURA HAYDEN
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To Love, which
is
which
Good
is
which
Love
is
which
Good
is
which
Love
is
which
Good
is
which
Love
is
Good
Author's Note
is
other.
faithful,
This
a marriage manual.
Foreword
Women
cheat.
There
is
sex.
Men don't cheat because someone else is better-looking. Men don't cheat because someone else is younger.
A man
becomes
We've all heard often enough that men don't understand women, but I think it's much more universal that
women
and
It's difficult
It is
is to
for us to
sexual excitement
of his ego.
is
an extension
Foreword
emotional, spiritual, and physical selves revolve around
appendage.
this
Not
sex organ
is
he
his
is
definitely
over his
life.
Penis power to a
And
we have
man
is
much more
Of
course your
love
it
before.
him because
you married him, and even though you may not often
tell
him
or
show
that
And when he
if
you pay
attention
feels loved
and sexually
satisfied, the
is
to take
an amphetamine
end of a
Norman
Mailer, Mrs.
F.
Ken-
II,
Ted Ken-
Foreword
Mick
we
all felt
them
(if
husbands.
An
it
affair is
once
and
in a while.
that's
which
new body.
Every
why men
man wants
all
If
to "fall in love",
risk everything to
have an
affair
is
man
excited.
It
It
may
overwhelming depression
in a
without
it,
life
man's
life,
to
that
But
become
his wife
So he
Sex with
did.
if
mad
had
(or
Foreword
become
at
many
there are so
this
book
in a marriage is
is
why
why
I've written
Introduction
Anthony Quinn's
actor, but
he was a
more than
to have,
for years.
that,
and always
He was
married in
children.
set
had several
wardrobe
assistant,
And
their
child (he has thirteen kids to date!), this one with his
it,
Introduction
was a
He came up
Iolanda
one part of
great solution
live in
New
their
York,
affair
someone
else
to
most of us is
It's
be together forever.
He
fault.
much
Iolanda
that they'd
is
believe his
all
over
young woman
it's
teach,
and love
is
is that
Introduction
is
an active
through
It's
state,
its
same
the
its
best advantage.
You
it
you
heard to
to
really love
CD
you
as if
you
rants
and
sively wait
cafe or a
radio. If
someone maybe
till
new
recipe.
if
you about a
you love
terrific
to read,
you
And
tells
your bed.
You
is
Now
can
love has
kiss,
many
You can
is
sex.
Sex
is
a driving force, a
understood
moment
hug, you
expression of love
life
expressions.
this
women
trated, angry,
many
mothers
a hell on earth.
if
their husbands),
terrible
and
My
We
frus-
wouldn't have so
Introduction
it
was
way
for
much
of
my
life.
loving, but
was so
afraid
She
told
me
died that she had never had any pleasure in sex. She
said she
No
who
matter
woman
do
anything to
well.
We
all
she'll get
know
up early
woman's
to
make
them
pack
she'll
go without to make
Now we
all
so
it
keeps out
all feeling.
it.
Certainly
women, but
there
are
neurotic,
sick
and disturbed
We don'
they need us at
on a constant
all
we know
basis.
we do
Introduction
it
because
many
of
always,
Many
if ever,
of us
make
make it
to
make
love),
is
love (actually
exciting.
We
all
we need
is
to
do
don't
him "do
his
keep him
to
bored
have
my
we
passivity,
lie
ally
we
is
it
bored), and
by
rote, is
it's
pretty
more than
to
make
I'm
period,
to
Obviously,
if
she
minutes
the
first
part,
etc.,
her headaches,
would disappear
there in
Ah, but
We
And
that's
were
all
if
thrilled to
my
meant
to
10
Introduction
bodies. That's
for pleasure.
woman
literally
and never
clitoris is
If a
moment
when
she's got
him panting
more
be in a position
who
woman
If a
really
her).
And
that's
make
love.
last,
husband and/or
she'd be wise to
love
is
still
cement
that
keeps that
woman
amount
cal,
of
when
TNT
or no
And
H-bomb
Most
11
Introduction
may
day many more young women
work
his wife.
Not
true. It
with younger
women.
Look
Prince Charles
at
who
And
ker-Bowles.
younger
woman
bilt's aunt,
son,
Vander-
who was
forty,
but with
taste;
she dressed
Edward
for
him
to
What
attracts a
sensational,
and
man
if his
is
woman who
thinks he's
woman
at
work
treats
him
like
man
really needs to
know and
wife truly loves him above all and will do anything and
12
Introduction
everything to
and
A wife
if
don't care
or forty years,
if
it is
to
much
two years
woman
to
do
for
to learn
what
to
I state it
Why Men
Easily
So
and So
day of his
life.
It
(although that
is
the ultimate
"high"
who
for a male),
turns
it
him on
can
that
Some men
sublimate their
sexual
energies
into
But the
What seems
anatomy and
being.
I
am
ment
to a diabetic's
need for
insulin. If
you give a
14
and he
healthy. If
is
coma.
don
And
if
is
for a healthy
like
it
to
it's
orgasm, so
don't
coma.
is
attention
no wonder he'd
it's
But
it.
controlled
Having an orgasm
this planet
is
healthy.
on
controlled
is
if
boredom
sex,
mean boredom
When
a man's mate
is
too sure of
him and
fails to
as simple as that.
together for
is
women
is
males
if
don't realize
you
just expect
how
him
many
it
in,
pump away,
with no windows.
would be a
treat,
In a recent
Now when
room
but otherwise
BOR-RING!
Why Men
ton, D.C., research
showed
75
that
men want
All
because
it is
comes so
If
Most want
easily to them.
"UP"
And
also
it
And
that's
makes them
feel
men do
for a
often.
in!).
women had
difficult
it
so good and so
kicking
sex.
we would
seek sex as
it's
very
ways
The
difference
or hands
is
is that
your
knees, your
your stomach
it
for us,
priority
we many
list.
Almost
cure,
new
having a good
list
figure,
new
mani-
16
Now men
women
be
all
want more or
less the
same things
of the
at the top
list,
as
Sex would
and
To
that
man
drive a
exciting,
first
When
bed (assuming
is
constantly
Many
demeaning
to
man just
woman
should
it
has to be always
mutual pleasure. But when a wife really loves her husband, look at the great pleasure she would feel giving
her beloved
much needed
is its
own
reward!
And
If
look
at other aspects
at 4:59:59, or if
you take
lots
of
life,
your focus
is
particularly work.
of personal calls on
company
time,
do you
working
woman
office to finish a
late in
her
And
if
Why Men
a
woman
running her
is
17
own
want
her
to,
way
be loyal
How
but she
that
when
more
likely to
to her business.
is this
your husband?
him,
knows
is it
different
If
is
him
important to
thirty
minutes
When my book, HOW TO SATISFY A WOMAN EVERY TIME ...and have her beg
comes
my title (which
is
amusing
to
me, but
humor!)
The
really
amusing part is
that the
booksellers
that
And when
if that
was
saw
that, I started
their experience.
Many
asking
said yes,
heteros, there
18
everyone
how
who
is
looking
definitely consider
supported myself,
bought
someone
cares for
myself a feminist
I've always
understand
world.
this to coexist
happily in a male/female
power of sex
expression of love)
in a marriage, but
is.
in marriage.
two
first
'The
different couples
was a
story in
Screenwriter:
the
Not
most successful
who was
Basic
He has
Instinct,
written
starring
many
left
Why Men
see a lot of things that she should have seen and could
When
have seen."
Naomi
place in a car,
her to
sit
the three of
talking to you,"
Naomi
Is
it
buy a
would love
on you."
it
and so blind
'He likes
'
would be so naive
left Geri,
moved
in with
Naomi
is
her.
demon." As
see
it,
she's not a
demon,
The second
had been
if
satisfying.
Fred Astaire,
some of
many
etc.)
and then
the greatest
etc.),
Hollywood
became a producer of
later
Turtle,
star (Little
Roberts,
Sabrina Fair,
Shop around
the
etc.),
and a
Corner with
HOW TO SATISFY A MAN EVERY TIME
20
Jimmy
Stewart,
They had
Back
kids, her
husband flying
that
he was
deliberately left
and do a
to go,
book,
'
'Basically,
As
long, that
is,
as
know I'm
cared about."
While
his wife
went
to England,
he took another
alone?),
and when
time
all
six
months
his wife
things the
thinking of or
Hawks, who
He
him
Why Men
He
divorced.
knew how
If
to love
how
imagine
27
who
really
and complacency
couples
is
why
so
many
split.
Any and all women really successful in love relationships know and practice giving their lovers great and
loving
sex.
Churchill
The
recently
tury's great
paramours
(if
men
in the world:
whom
twentieth cen-
who married
some of
the
most powerful
Obviously, she
knew
the
Hayward,
whom
she
overwhelming power of
sex.
man
some of
the
this century.
Whenever
ing.
there's
fun,
no
to
no
that
bored you
you knew
theater,
22
it
was
over.
the
same
original thought
know
and have
either pretend
one you know across the room, wave and walk away.
Or you
man
is
point of putting
into a wife
it
in,
pumping a few
times, and
coming
is,
but at
first
he could do
'
it
to a knothole, but
his normal,
everyday
it
life
up."
that.
when he
And
if that
because sex
is
it,
looking, and you really can't blame her for being there
It is
he
initial signal,
Why Men
Believe me,
and
when
truly satisfied
by
man
his
is
happy sexually
23
home
at home
at
and
faithful to
you
2
What Every Man
Looking For
You
Is
man
Everybody
is
of
this.
Men
attractions,
men
to fall in
are
aware
always
starts as
a sexual attraction,
And
exciting for
only
him
if
will
it)
to happen.
As long
woman (from a
co-worker) who cares for
mistress to an affair-ee to a
Is
Looking For
25^
what
make him
Why
the
is
really
will
woman who
doesn't a
same focusing?
"My
it.
me"
It's
know
he'll
you so much
you
that
arrogance!
Of
yourself to
become so complacent
you allow
if
The one
you exciting
sex so exciting to
"do" him
to
him
to
sexually. If you've
is
that
way
he can't wait
to
keep
made
have you
tied to
someone
at
home.
'
satisfied
married man.
make
If
for
26
really
kids,
and
let
let
Of course he
be vulnerable
may
or
may
any and
to
make
not
the
lot,
hot-looking babes
all
first
move.
If he's
but he'll
open for
first
signals
to his cues.
will probably
who
it,
it
feel sick
it.
in a relationship
And
woman
and leads
to the
may be
knew
man many
years ago
his life.
who
travelled a lot to
woman
haze, answered
New
up.
it.
It
was
the
in her sleepy
man's wife
calling
from
He
knew he was
knew
who
said
for sure
it
it
was a woman
was
his wife,
cheating.
He
called her
back and
come
to
told
Is
Looking For
27
him
their
all his
He was
asked the
out the
woman
first
he called the
to leave,
so upset he
airline to find
New
York,
From
When
call
He
them from
New York
told
me
let
him
in.
He begged
to himself.
all
her, but
the
no
and
appointments
left
She
told
done
this to his
wife
He
finally
moved
calls (this
He swore
it
28
and sick
many
years,
Angeles
rather unattractive
lot to
at
woman
his
it.
word and
didn't see
him
to his wife, a
since
Los Angeles
and
his
attention to
him
He
filled
so they
moved
to
pay a
lot
one
I last
totally,
more
for
a restaurant in Los
to think about
He
much
stronger because of
fling.
A woman
husband
at
was looking
for her
and
tried to forget
it.
She
tearfully
asked
me why would
some
thought,
decided
had
to.
Is
Looking For
29
When
told her.
was exciting
told
me
last
time sex
it.
asked her what she did and she said she just laid there.
"Boy,
that
must be exciting
for
him,"
I said.
She'd
it
when you
game like
bored when
play an exciting
fun, your
the person
is
is
going to
know what
card
is
coming up
and with
you don't
So
to
make
surprise her
sex exciting,
his
have
body
to
30
it
and
She
me
told
later
let
that
mar-
seemed
to love
it,
but
went crazy! In
fact,
often, that's
how much he
liked
to relax
he wanted her to do
it
it.
to
the time.
all
really is a sign of
Again, a
man
him
It just
fall in
woman
until
she decided
it
was
his orgasm.
does not
POWER!)
tier
he became totally
all
sexually, he
him
she
riage and
bed (Chapter 9
shocked when
he was
in
because she
because she
is
is
younger or
more
exciting
pret-
new
things,
Married
women
security.
"I
and
that
new
ideas,
more
willing
exciting.
know he
loves
me
he'll
Is
Looking For
is
about
talks
3/
be bored too
to him.
if
And
it,
she would
interesting
The reason
if
him (and
hey,
But she
is
exciting, she's
on the same
level as he,
is
whereas wifey
to
in love with
charismatic Paul
is,
who happened
If
to Paul
can understand
why he
left.
Noelene
is
very sweet,
32
would stand
met
Stuart Wagstoff.
me
on a
remember
He and
to people.
dirt
the
bin and
time
first
uncomfortable but
so
I just
to all this
show
bled I was.
looked
at the floor
and
'
biz,
'Are
mum-
had moved
it
was new
Now
off.
might appear
that Paul
was mean
to her, but
little
nothing
was
full
how
"Gone
it's
too
is
the timid
little
At a
house-
late.
Ever since I was a kid and was crazy about Huey, Dewey
dreamed
up,
I
looked and
one
in Australia
was looking
Then
even went
York
grown
get
went
to
one of what
for.
Long
to
Island in
in
New
anyplace on
box
sitting
forty-foot
there
33
shows.
to boat
the
"when
thought
a houseboat too!"
Looking For
Is
it.
There's no motor on
on
it
which you
motor yacht
that
it
it,
live in.
was
is
(a
like a
that
you can't go
it's
a barge with
He showed me
houseboat except
houseboat cabin
on water
to
is flat)
almost anywhere
you wanted.
I
then changed
would be
lot
terrific,
my mind
Wow!
more moored
It
told
at the
was fabulous.
me
he'd like
marina, so
me
to
took a
it's
definitely in the
future.
me
about himself.
two grown
sons.
When
He
visit,
he
34
years ago, he'd bought this boat (he'd loved boats since
it
ever since.
He
said he
had
thirties (he
was
and he said
down
to
Key West on
you
still
it
much
in
common
too, but
now
I
dates
looks
is
asked him
woman
very sexy.
if
he had a
lot in
common
and he said no, hardly anything, but the sex was great. He
said she didn't like boats or water (which he obviously
He had
a Persian
cat,
Michelangelo,
who was
he taught himself
not
to turn
a door knob with his two paws and get into any of the
cabins.
the stateroom
walked
in.
like cats,
Mikey knew
that this
Now
who
man's
asked him
how
and
it
girlfriend didn't
right in
one of her
cat!
could he be with a
woman
everything."
And it does,
"Her
lovin'
makes up
for
when
that
off, as
wear
it
off,
Is
Looking For
You wouldn't
on but with
whom
and
dislikes,
marry
how
till
office, but
who
turns
you
common.
you find someone
common,
attraction.
35
else in
that person
to satisfy a
man/woman
that
every
To make
make
They
on
ies,
work
a living, people
their duties,
sometimes
all to
make
buck.
Now
treat
how
silly
compare marriage
the
it
we
is
and foolish
we
to work),
a love-job.
that is (and
we might be
relationships as
If
we
we
could
can
if
we
able to focus
we do on
our
jobs.
At
the office
to clean
36
up or
bathroom/bedroom
in a
we make an effort
even when we don't feel
be
to
at the office to
be pleasant
terrific?
But
at
office.
you'd
be
fired,
is
make an effort to
long way at home.
so you
that,
at the boss,
things
don't
When
need
and
returns,
asserts his/her
the
A woman
that
when
live without
exciting that
it.
cattin'
him wanting
life.
to
in charge of
'a little to
push
to turn
you on sexually?
If
he
'
to,
my
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love your
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unless you have an incestuous relationship.
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you (Webster's
masochism
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your sexual
power of controlling"
Being
in love is a
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be
is
truly
powerless
in the
touch of
in love is to
hands of your
beloved.
to
48
slave. Willingly
and happily.
aware of
this.
Remember
Because you
feel
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to live without
first
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married
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Sex
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to
make
from you
and
the fact
her body.
life,
your body.
on.
to take charge of
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your body
money but
49
know
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make
don't want to
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man
has
her you're
start telling
made
all
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let
tired,
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as
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and soul excited with the promise of great body-andsoul-exploding sex on a constant basis, he will
make
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will probably
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is,
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up
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love you
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still
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love
you.
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still
be
in love
with you.
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really in love.
who
50
have stayed
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they have in
same person
common? What's
different about
them?
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Stewart
up
to
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riage?
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much
52
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most beautiful
girl in the
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53
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of fucking her.
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woman is
passive as she's made love to, boredom soon sets in. No
matter what she looks like, how old she is, how much a
man loves her. Passivity is boring. Once a woman learns
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to
whole point of
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he wanted to have an
affair. I
how many
married
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wanted
to see happily
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know
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asked him to
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because he verified
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women who
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women how
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him.
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husband he had an orgasm every time we made love.
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know
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truthful
men
Thank you
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Author
of:
to
be published:
HOW
TO SATISFY A MAN
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at that
in
many
different sizes
was very
my
religious
had
was about
ment are
(I
that love
and commit-
This particular
man had
was over a
seen.
It
touch
when
of every
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put
my
my
man who
hands around
him
ever saw
it.
in a
have ever
fingers couldn't
He was
the
envy
that only
when
woman
truly a pathetic
case.
So much
the spongy
tissues
making
muscles in a penis so
it
more
can't be
erect.
made
There are no
bigger by any
kind of exercise.
The head of
the penis
is
the
most
sensitive to
head
most
to the
shaft.
The
which produce
78
is
secretions
seminal
The
fluid,
urethra
bend
at the
where
it
that's
when
over
fifty
want
friends have
to quote
one of the
who
is
had prostate
finest
very
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Life,
medical
much
M.D.
into
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why
cell.
rate called
most other
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would be present
200
one year.
every case, by
this
most
At
this point
The American Cancer Society released guidelines advising individuals to avoid all red
meat
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high in
fruits,
also
recommend following
vegetables, and
whole
a diet
grains.
slow
its
80
The
one of the
race horse,
I
is
thoroughbred
also a vegetarian.
stopped eating
all
meat and
because
fish
me
then? But
love
beings,
all
was bad
at that
for you.
time
hadn't a
Who knew
back
fortunately lots of
about delicious!
portobello
And what
all-time
favorite dishes.
to give
up eating animals
for
It's
also vital to
good repro-
ductive function.
fifty,
half of the
male population
And
men
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have developed
will
hyperplasia, or
BPH, which
is
caused by a buildup
DHT, which
to dihydrotestosterone,
it
converted
grows larger
is
As
the prostate
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almost
weak
are
and feeling
that
"all the
way"
symptoms of BPH.
lots
saw palmetto
And
the
Two
some
many
no
drugs.
the
mends
And
is
FDA
that
be used
if
and lightheadedness.
man
will
its
toxicity,
be ejaculating into a
never
woman
of
Saw
palmetto
is
no?
82
berries,
ment
Many men
using
Saw
it
as a preventive
palmetto extract
and
BPH
over forty
that's a very
good
and no negative
is safe,
treatstart
idea.
effects
to
cells to multiply
larging.
Saw palmetto is also getting a reputation for stimulating hair re-growth, so you not only help your prostate,
you might
Pumpkin seeds
raw pumpkin
seeds,
pal-
mg
Some men
500
take two
mg
capsules with
Obviously a healthy
a good diet,
life-style is
little
and nutrients
chapter,
after
I list all
meals
is
and
also
most people
excellent).
Vitamins
is
that a
I
how many
to stay well
I take,
which
and healthy,
is
more than
do (dare
83
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say hardly
anybody?).
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all
is
most commonly
the one
all
man
needs to do
sex
all
working together
vites
is
is
not to
But zinc
is
mg
50
It's
recommend up
to
50
mg
life.
Some
doctors
meals.
immune
(minimum)
in the
problems.
body
work with
system, will
suggest 25,000
which
the zinc
is
converted
mg (minimum)
of
how much
how much I
ter
7 has details of
we
all
need plus
Selenium
is
of
all
is
look
at the labels
in
it.
84
Men
it
An orgasm
make you
Now
feel good.
obviously a
man
body
to function at
When
of
it,
you
your body
will
peak standards.
is
healthy, and
life
without anxiety or
You
Can't Be
Healthy and Be
Impotent! You
Can't Be Impotent
and Be Healthy!
TV
my many
When I spoke
(I
don't
call-in
TV
who
could
call in
live).
But when
said (as
poured
bad smoke
is,
in.
is
You
see,
how
it
86
radicals to increase
can seriously
curtail
activities
and pleasure.
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your sexual
your
to
thirty million
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is
fifty,
all)
and
cardiovascular dis-
of exercise)
is
smoking.
when
there
is
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is
with
it
monoxide reduces
duction.
ability for
an erection to
Every man
start
the blood
is
different
having problems
cut
down and
with
it
the
during intercourse.
till
smokers
is
last
And
their forties
all
quoted: "Tobacco
is
loving and
ing with
needed a
warm
person.
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several times
him
in the
knowing
would soon
either
When
user."
kills the
87
him so much
I like
was
heavy smoker,
the inevitable
smoke
is
how dangerous
cig
is.
tar is
cleaned out
believe
me
know.
It's
the toughest
are phenomenal.
better,
sex
you
to
starts to function
life.
And
ing
all
your
life that it
if
88
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go back
will
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after
you
go back
your
you'll
PQ
stop.
your pre-
to
faster
and eas-
way
very happy woman.
up, and
Because
to their pre-
said about
smoking
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is
true
are not
clitoris is
excited.
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if
little
sex!
are
you overdo
it
and/or do
it
all
More
patients each
month
for depression.
The
gigantic use of
became
a bestseller.
to
to
Then
in
Prozac
much
like speed,
it
89
you a feeling
on only
found everywhere
and orgasm.
If
anyone
is
taking Prozac
you'd
you
I sin-
like to
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GH3),
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which has
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in this
effects),
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go
John's
last
book,
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read
many
of the strongest
stores, is
in
in
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clinical trials to
have
and of course
it
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to impotence,
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mg
dried herb.
GH3
of hypericum, or a 500
mg
capsule of the
or St. John's
Wort
so there's no gigantic
is
money
to
be patented,
90
in
hold
everything!
now
comes
in
now
taking
So
to
it.
f/n-believable!
body must be
in
true barometer of
functioning the
life
way you'd
if
are a
they're not
like,
In
two of
my
Weak
to Ask,
and
Isle
of View (Say
it
out loud),
how
they work,
how much
tell
away
institutions (prisons,
free
and
also
go
my
late
mental health
institutes,
to
old age
information
I
is
in either of those
two books.
it
totally
changed
my
way of showing my
sale of the
life
around
to being the
know. This
is
my
of are vitamins
91
take too
much
take are very safe and far under what could possibly
and
soluble,
if
vites
USRDA, which is
and vitamin C are
surplus,
take
shake, but
vitamins
make
couldn't
and
as
those Bs!
all
pressure
(I
don't),
my
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the
nervous
400
water-
would be
it
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like
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units of vitamin
Dynamite vites).
a day (which
I
want 2,400
is
the
amount
in
units a day, so I
E and
12,000
mg extra
vitamin
C, and
my
It's
up
vitamin
to
that
we
collagen and no
more
colds.
is
stronger
start to get
vitamin
much
as 50,000
C and
mg of
always followed by a
lot
of water).
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take 4 table-
spoons
Vites
&
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Mins
take 12
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tablets
energy
Dynamite
shake
vites
30,000 I.U.
(Beta-
carotene)
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25
mg
150
mg
25
mg
150
mg
125
mg
250
mg
125
mg
250
mg
1,000
mg
mg
mg
2,000
mg
mg
mg
(Vitamin B,)
Riboflavin
(Vitamin
2)
Niacin (Vitamin
3)
Niacinamide
(Vitamin
3)
Calcium
25
Iron
Vitamin
B6
25
36
150
400 meg
800 meg
meg
200 meg
Iodine
210 meg
300 meg
Magnesium
560
Folic acid
Vitamin
12
Zinc
Copper
100
50
mg
mg
2mg
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300 meg
Pantothenic acid
100
PABA
100
Choline
1,000
mg
mg
mg
800
30
mg
mg
4mg
600 meg
300
300
1,000
mg
mg
mg
mg
mg
mg
Papain
100
mg
mg
mg
Selenium
100
meg
200 meg
Ribonucleic acid
100
200
Betaine
100
mg
mg
Molybdenum
100
meg
Chromium
100
meg
Vanadium
100
meg
Inositol
1,000
Potassium
1,000
Manganese
Vitamin
1,000
198
200
200
mg
mg
200 meg
mg
10
3,000
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mg
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take 12,000
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Vitamin
93
extra)
3,000 I.U.
400
I.U.
(I
take 2,000
units extra)
Phosphorous
200
Citrus
100
mg
mg
200
mg
bioflavanoids
Glutamic acid
the
people
all
need
it
is
the calcium.
Younger
brittle
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cium
in
your
diet,
When
body
to a
calcium
defi-
94
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nonvital
calcium.
become
start to
brittle
and
why
shake
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it is
it
so delicious in
hard to believe
good can be
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for
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far
it
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Chinese
mixture.
Ginkgo biloba
is
made up of
flavanoid glycosides
culation,
which benefit
cir-
brittle,
reduce inflammation,
cells,
which can
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in 1985 a
German
study
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deterioration.
researchers
was
that this
a difference in
seems
that
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my memory
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two
years,
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can see
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sixty
and they
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me by
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power.
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an
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strength,
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insulin,
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in animals restored
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it
my
through
immune
and
started taking
90
mg
health books,
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small capsules of 10
many
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enzyme found
in all
body
cells
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body
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the body
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constantly
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oxygen molecules
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starts their
degenerative work.
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what the
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does
by transferring the
97
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two
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Whenever
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stress creeps
up
which
enough,
utes
you
chew
if that's
not
I start
and relaxation
setting in.
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'em so much,
like
and yummy.
and small
them
in
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bottles,
and
like
know
that you're
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amazed
at
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And how
you're making
it
and marriage
...
happen for
Sexual happiness
when
is
her)!
Why
Marriage Is as
Important to a
Man as to a
Woman
I
my
good phys-
ically, socially,
When
surprised by
some of
by the answers
Some men
"Because
it
answers that
to
said
"Why
"Because
I fell
let
me
some
in love,"
give you
some
said
other
find enlightening.
"Because
living alone."
I
didn't care
a lot."
was
was
sick
100
it
was very
come up with a
"I
felt
sad 'cause
always having to
stressful
anybody loved
didn't think
important to me.
is
My
me
wife
me."
years and
I still felt
lonely with
them (one
for three
months, one for two and a half years, and one for
a
little
so
over a year).
much
in
other three,
to
spend
common
I just
my
When
(which
had sex
more
was
knew I wanted
and when
buddies a
thought
I
met
should be.
my
wife
and
lot
life
was
became
exciting."
we had
my
and
wife
with her."
life
wasn't as happy as
lot
my
met
on-call), I
bored a
girl
(this
every nite
love. I
found
it
with
my job
my
at
meet
so
that
wife."
(sic)
to
An
is
once
Why Marriage
Is as
Important
to
Man
101
for single
three years.
knowledge
and
it's
that
to take care of
him
to resist
as food
and water.
Men
free
(as
do women)
want
instinctively
be
to
same
stress-
in a
good
Some men
choose
they're very
ment.
happy with
know
ness, the
this
women, and
it
appears
noncommitted arrange-
man
a very important
in the
music busi-
lived with
two
different
women
com-
mon law
Then
statute
deliberate).
woman
was sure
that she
was
and she
But
alas,
the
Sometimes
it
102
together finally
tie
many
times
it
doesn't.
a man, he wants
woman, and
that's
It
is
his
makes two
'
man
make
is
On
Caring says,
does
wind.
As I mentioned earlier,
my
little
all
the years
HOW
was publicizing
TO SATISFY A
And
who work
at
Why Marriage
Is as
Important
to
Man
103
restaurant in
syndicated
know this,
(at this I
book, actually
body looked
at
it
It's
me
(at this
every-
Show
a very small
to satisfy a
man:
up!
me
loved
and
it
exciting,
is
in life to
men.
Then
men were
really sexually
would do anything
to
happy
Now
true,
many
even
if it's
enough
to
woman
to
to see
104
why
so
is
last
much
longer.
and how
I
really
it
last.
New
worked
never believed
never
the
how
TV
it
Then about
to
keep
and knew
marriage could
their
saw a
story in
gotten a divorce.
is
How
the spouse.
if
is
being given
bed her?
inti-
she'll
The most
can't work.
if
he sees a hot-looking
babe
he'll
Why
it.
to
want
to
keep
isn't exciting
it
just
between
them.
That
is
the point.
Why Marriage
Is as
Important
to
Man
ically (they
105
exciting,
is
love)
first fall in
your marriage.
Now
but
when
happens
it
.0000000001 of
incredibly
so
we
percent),
like that to
happen,
seldom
begin to doubt
(like
even
it's
why
promises to be exciting?
him,
Of
it
course
if
new who
you married
her/
And
So
Well,
it's
the
if that
exciting sex
Now
newness
were
seems
to
would be
there are
that
to constantly
Of
make
it
answer
exciting.
to
having
change partners.
it's
itself.
all
to, it's
Some
guilt,
and
this
But
if
another
woman
is
And
always
of course
there.
106
move
if
respond
if
if
man
There's no
is
And
alive
out.
his wife,
if
So when
never cheat,
minds,
it's
be known
I
it
men who
him
maybe
will
woman
has
let it
having him
as a lover.
me that psychologi-
was
putting too
much emphasis
trust,
anger
at spouse, etc.,
trust,
and
The
is
etc.,
same
roof,
is
over.
may have
(he's a compulsive
Why Marriage
gambler, a
liar,
Is as
a thief,
Important
to
Man
107
etc.), if
Now
comes
the
complex
part.
enough
to love
and respect
Can
man who
is
respect
himself
"out of
etc.)
is),
could
it,
is
not
exist,
but not
love.
to
be afraid of losing
to
change himself
would grow
in the
his respect
same
ratio as his
own
self-
respect.
I
know
and he with
woman who
her. After
fell in
left,
live
later
he called her
vowed never
and he never
did.
So when
it
comes
to psychological
problems, which
108
many
of us have,
it
how
love of spouse
is,
or neurosis
and
is,
really
if
depends on
how
strong our
is
enough
to
and spouse-
we do have minor
ones.
And
the
And what
band's libido
gift
of an orgasm.
Even
day.
are
on
in great health
But unless he
stances.
pen,
if
only once a
'
almost comatose,
week
it
does hap-
or once a month.
The bottom
love'
is
pills,
have an
presents
itself.
Why Marriage
But the
man and
Is as
woman
Mia Farrow's
Man
109
when
life is
fall in love,
to
and happiness of
real thrill
Important
live.
What
great book,
Roman
Polanski while he
Roman was
saying that
long-term
sexual
working as an
was
also
actor,
told
was
Roman was
that
Mia writes
at
had no
at
him a few
reply.
in
Cosmo
they
all
stated
married.
Arnold said
that
when he grew up
his father
and
that's the
in Austria his
when he
woman Arnold
110
Denzel Washington
his wife Pauletta, that
is
much he
is
that she
and how
together.
Suzanne
article titled
in
it
"When
Marriage
New
Is the
"Marriage
is
tries
on
for size
and
is
rather something
effort
to keep."
it
who
live together
it's
a fact
who
don't live
"Sex
need to
sacrifice
of marriage.
She continues
that
men, anxious
to try
any woman's
Why Marriage
Is as
Important
to
Man
"Men
Ill
will forever
strive to please
control
restraint in courtship."
explains
"Why Men
He
Big Ultimatum."
Secretly
Want
states that
to
"Marriage
tum
leap into a
new
life is
He
existence."
'
be Given the
'Beyond
isn't just a
it's
a quan-
all
expectation,
my
was unable
My
to imagine."
she also
won
decades of her
is
brilliant, clever,
Medal of the
a compilation of three
up connubial
when
There
is
think she
she wrote:
is
only the
difficult,
summed
no such thing
way of
both,
112
why mar-
women is because
men have the same emotional need to be loved as women
riage
is
as important to
men as
to
it is
do, and both are overtly seeking and searching for the
down
"My
is
walk with
mutual path.
that
to
only for
wife
is
yell
and scream
that
mar-
woman"
marriage
is
possibly
as important to
more
so.
men
as
it
is
to
women,
9
The Master Plan:
How to Keep Your
Husband Happy
and Faithful
Forever
The most important
part of marriage
is
love.
But
you can hold hands and hug and kiss, but sex is
closest
the
spiritually,
Two
people can't
So
love.
to
And
first
It is
ingredient
is
not a cliche to
attracted to. If
like theater
flicks
particularly
and adores
114
compromise a
life
let
quoted on the
lot.
classical, there's
of compromise.
me
TV
show
who was
from
Maria:
Maria
is
materialistic, as perhaps I
400 calls
I
have
to,
to bankers
and
make
like
calls.
little
in
common was
because
new amour,
As
And
I
the
see
it,
he craving
action and
So don't go
to
comes
to
is
very persuasive
when
it
115
when what
and
after a
nothing in
When
while you
may
it
find out
common.
reality sets in
total opposites,
you may
find
attract,
same
is
fell in
values, our
sames.
Peter Falk
same
'
'Kate
makes me laugh!
is
lots
whom
'
you
lifetime with.
When
sex
is great, it's
ten percent of
a marriage.
When
sex
is
bad,
it's
ninety percent
of a marriage.
when
to a
sex
man.
is great, it's
It
may be
percent,
ever 'bad'
'
'
is
starts
taking
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you
and doesn't
for granted
A man
pay attention
really
will not
marry a
to you,
woman
if
if it's
an arranged mar-
riage).
So
the love
there (or
is
really compatible,
sex can
that
make you
two people
is
all
living together
Now remember,
get,
so great sex
is
sex
is
One of
the closest
the
gets
is
how
to give
much and
And
she'll
do anything
for
him
as often as he
sexually to
make
it
Because
And once
do anything for
this
book
is
her.
a marriage manual,
have
to
you
still
When you
first
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and when you made love (assuming you did before you
got hitched), the sex was phenomenal. Just being near
each other got you excited and you both started really
feeling like
That's
to get married.
You, the
to
make
love to her
forever!
in
was
the one
who
you on,
really turned
you were charged up every time you were near her and
you got incredibly excited thinking about going
with her, but she was the one
was
She was
the
like
who had
to say
to
bed
OK. She
make you
surrender in an orgasm.
to get
you and
her
may have
her, but
played a big
part.
How
So
know what
render,
no master, only
How
fantasy.
is
no
sur-
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To have
orgasm
perfect total
and
trust
takes a person
is!)
feel is
strong and
really love
really focused
on him,
you were
you
on by someone you
you, or
what a
really
and
that's
dating.
she'll fake
it
if
woman
doesn't
many
times)
important sex
is
instinctively
that great
knows how
you
till it
started
It
man and
his
start
looking
the
men
it all
depends on
boredom/excitement threshold to
how
Now we
sexing you
all
is
woman who
know
sex
is
boring, so he' s
will turn
him
on.
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The woman
to!
assume
her power and become his sexual master and take charge
of his body.
It
all
who
is in
charge
for the
it
is
to
do
is
knowing when
make
What
most important
technical/physical
important.
How
show him
that
woman who
bites
it,
and the
part
of lovemaking
down
it,
him must
to
his body.
it
they hurt,
till
equally
are
hard and
is
not in
first
tenderly licks
to his balls
looks
it
and
tongue over them and goes back to his penis and runs
her tongue over the top, gently sucking the
woman
is in
tip,
that
it!
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his psyche!
his body,
are going to
teasing
to
or even
if you 're
You're going
of sex.
And
if
it is
to
the
power
little
to give
is right.
is
Remember:
Sex
is
Love
You
always a game!
is
never a game!
You always
tease with
sex.
woman on when
her husband
orgasm
till
that
she's
And
exciting to a
man
to
have
his
woman
it's
just as
then giving
him
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the greatest
in
his life.
When you do
call
him
at
him
tell
just before
is
him
think about
it
till
all
day.
start to
lead
him
bedroom
to the
him
to lie
on the bed.
first
your dress
Go
panties.
Tell
and arms.
him
his chest
move
or to touch you,
bend
to
his legs,
Then
tell
him
fingertips
Then go
up and down
the
tip,
shaft,
in control of
his balls
to his penis
whenever
it.
and as
all
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When he
his penis
Do
and go back
not
let
and arms.
He must be passive because you are actively in control. You can continue going from teasing his arms and
legs
many
your game
It's
Something
you
your husband
to masturbate
up and down
as
it.
it is
it
move
it,
for
is
put
some
saliva
slippery as your
hand goes up
and down.
Gently keep moving your hand up and down, and
it
and
it,
lick
roll
it.
in a while put
Then go back
it
to playing with
it,
comes.
Or,
if
you
keeping
until
he
it.
your mouth and hands, the time has come for you to
give
way
in, raise
up a
little,
When it's
about half-
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all
the
way
down.
You
are
in charge,
still
still
on
top,
his
till
intense
Or,
down on
if
start softly
hand around
it
and
start
it
again,
moving
it
of his penis
with
it
at the
this
the
The sensation
to
your husband
As you
is
is
that he's
all
"fucking
it,
let it
getting
mouth
tighter
and down
it
feel for
until
around
it
excited,
as
a sense of
love.
go
him
he has an orgasm.
And what
the man you
will be.
over
And what
an orgasm
you'll
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don't have
much
you decide
time, but
him a
is
reach under the covers and gently take his penis in your
hand and
softly caress
continue fondling as
Now
you
mouth over
it
it.
back and
let's
softly put
down
it till
But
and you
to get hard,
It starts
it.
your
Then you
it
he comes. That's a
and
he'll love
it.
you've got him where he's out of his mind with pleasure
You can
gently whisper,
heart, to give
yet, sweet-
and he knows
it.
"I'll let
You
little
more. The more you tease, the stronger the orgasm when
he
finally
If
has
you want
it.
to continue teasing,
you might go
to his
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and very
sides
to continue fondling
By now
him an orgasm.
It's
your
call,
That
your
own
clit till
a huge turn-on to a
is
And maybe
rubbing your
put
it
man
to
know
you're using
clit
till
it.
orgasm
as
woman
to take
to both a
is
the
husband and
a wife only if
done with
One
very exciting
play. In
my
which
based
game (and
lots
of fun)
is
to role-
women from
126
TIME
that
how
he was a "bad
little
to
let
him go
all
the
way
she
until
felt
it
in a very
sexy way:
After you have slowly taken
front of
all
(when you're
in charge,
all his
clothes off
when
his penis
and get
it
then say:
next to
him on
want
to allow
As he
stares at
"Are you
you
in
At
wonderment, you
say,
little
naughty? 'Cause
make
love."
if
you
127
And
and then
1
my
then you
"Would you
like to
it.
my
suck
minute?"
his lips
for a
"Would you
hot between
my
just touch
touches
me where
all
I'm
a bad
for a second,"
all
little
and he
it
Then you
play with
touch
like to
I'm going
to let
you
He
starts to softly
you want
it
As you
aroused),
gized,
get
clit.
you say
to him,
to let
him know
to let
I'm going
tiny bit
(make sure
is
already
you put
it in,
but only a
no
more."
He
you
gets
say,
"You
And
into you.
no more than
let
you go
that ..."
in another
128
it
in a
little bit
more, but
halfway."
little
boy and
let
you go
in
Now
it
up
till
orgasms happen.
ber, it's a
Maybe
he'll
play the young, shy delivery boy and you are the older,
married
have
woman
By
to seduce him.
woman's
tits
him look
at
before, and
asking
him
if
he ever saw a
if
your bra and touch your nipples, you can really get
"little
you'll be a
young schoolgirl
ask
he'll
ask
if you'll let
if
(if
sit
and then
little
pussy.
By
this
time
hot.
tries to
his lap,
on
Or maybe you're
and he
him
both of you
be
this
Maybe
will
let
He
tells
if
tells
he can stay
after
129
body
now
all
is
your
body.
You
to
could
have
to
after
he's spanked
off,
your
and
tell
him
to
him
what you do
crazy; or
tell
you take
maybe
and then
till
after
he goes
do
as his first
to
to
How
women you
with?
Of
different
and
all
will
be teasing him
women
needed because
if
it's
your attitude
really
that's important.
You
if
you have
you
the right
attitude!).
you or
all
know how
you
tied to the
To me, costumes
130
if
someone
else,
you go back
it
in
stifled
of different personalities
lots
because
we were
many
inappropriate to act in
But
if
we have
your
that
How
frees you.
taught that
it
was
different ways.
An actor unlocks
Now
Academy Award,
And
as long as
you
boy, that's
all that's
You can be
riding crop
needed.
which you
it,
it's
flick
week
it's
be yours.
he'll
And tomorrow
were
which
when you
in love with
it
is
the
same one
first fell
to, that
person
who
you
in love.
is
we
look
You
up
that
to
it,
131
when you
fell in love.
start all
over again.
goes!
the closest
we
will ever
be to heaven on
this plane.
if
happier and
that
'
much more
'pleasure bond'
'
With
last
'
'as
live
Afterword
To
all
action what
And
to all
practicing
much
all
all
of you
lots
who
of that love
all
is spilling
over and
We're
gently
because from
nected,
thank you
touching
love,
women
into
loving
all in this
one.
it
loving
it
all
con-
touches you.
together,
NAURA HAYDEN
is an actress, singer and author, who co-starred
many television shows with Don Rickles, George Kennedy,
and many others. She had the female lead in several movies,
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in
including "The
Angry Red
Planet,"
in
Buenos
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and
currently starring
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in
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Congressional Committee on
poor nutrition has on all Americans,
and she
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