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Planning your marriage is more important than planning your wedding. Unfortunately
nowadays, it is the opposite. Millions of people tend to spend most, if not all of their
time preparing for that perfect-glamorous wedding…and quite frankly, I’d say
probably half of that million ended up in a divorce.
InshaAllah this post will be of beneficial to you and your prospective spouse. You
may choose as many as you wish, out of 100 questions - what you would ask your
potential spouse.
I cannot stress how important it is to ask these questions so you may be able to
understand your prospective spouse and to find out if you are compatible with each
other.
MARRIAGE
RELIGION
FAMILY
SELF
34. What are the things that you do in your free time?
35. Do you love to have guests in your home for entertainment?
36. What are you expecting from your spouse when your friends come to the house?
37. What is your opinion of speaking other languages in home that I do not
understand? (with friends or family)
38. Do you travel?
39. How do you spend your vacations?
40. How do you think your spouse should spend vacations?
41. Do you read?
42. What do you read?
43. After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings
verbally?
44. After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?
45. How do you express your admiration for someone that you know now?
46. How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favour for you?
47. Do you like to write your feelings?
48. If you wronged someone, how do you apologize?
49. If someone has wronged you, how do you want she/he to apologize to you?
50. How much time passes before you can forgive someone?
51. How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
52. Do you use foul language at home? In public? With family?
53. Do your friends use foul language?
54. Does your family use foul language?
55. How do you express anger?
56. How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
57. What do you do when you are angry?
58. When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?
59. When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or otherwise, how should the
conflict get resolved?
60. Define mental, verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
61. What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
62. Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?
HEALTH
CHILDREN
RELATIVES
100. If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of different race
or culture, what type of relationship do you want to have with them?
Source: http://everydaywife.islam4parents.com/