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Did you know that your thinking will influence how you feel and behave? Your tho
ughts are the guiding force behind your total social presentation. When you thin
k rationally, you will experience positive feelings and demonstrate positive beh
avior. You will be more apt to act responsibly because you will see the situatio
n much more clearly and feel more positive that you are doing the right thing fo
r the other person. When you look at your relationship in a rational way, you ta
ke the time to assess how you are positively or negatively impacting the other p
erson. You will see the unique qualities of the other person in your relationshi
p. You will value the person's thoughts and feelings and allow this person to de
monstrate his or her talents. You will not place conditions on your love, and yo
u will engage in an open and honest dialogue.
Instead, you may be causing the shame, anger, and guilt in the other person in y
our relationship. You may be the source of the resentment or even the hate. If y
ou are involved in an unhappy relationship, you may be acting and feeling in neg
ative ways that are guided by your irrational thinking. If so, you would benefit
from knowing the factors that contribute to your irrational thinking. There are
three areas in which these factors may have surfaced during your life. They are
your psychiatric or developmental stability, your childhood family setting, and
your child-hood school setting.
by Jay Krunszyinsky
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