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Building Self-Esteem
and
Finding Your True Self
By
Suzanne E. Harrill, M.Ed.
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Theme: Deep Inside of You
Part One: Getting Started
Part Two: The Harrill Self-Esteem
Awareness Inventory
Part Three: Eight Ways to Improve
Your Self-Esteem
Part Four: Affirmations
Part Five: Why Are You Here?
Summary
Bio of Suzanne E. Harrill
Introduction
My intention for writing this brief book is
to share a powerful path for improving your
life. It begins with building a solid
foundation of sound self-esteem and
continuing the inner work of finding and
reconnecting to your true Self. I have been
blessed with teachers who showed me the
way to my true nature when I was ready to
move beyond the conditioning of my early
life. Many of these powerful teachers were
never met in person; instead, I read their
books and listened to their CDs. My choice
of a counseling career led me further on my
path of self-discovery. I learned as much
from my clients as they learned from me, as
we are all teachers to one another. Many
people I worked with were able to move
beyond many emotional issues and thinking
patterns that held them back. Most put into
practice the secrets in this book.
As a baby and young child we only
know ourselves through the reflection of our
caregivers. Our self-esteem is influenced
Early Teacher
L.S. Barksdale was one of my early
teachers. In 1979 my husbands job
transfer took us to Thibodaux, Louisiana. I
applied to teach at a small college there,
Nichols State University, and was hired.
Barksdales book was part of the students
curriculum. I needed his teachings to
improve the quality of my own life, as well. I
am grateful for his contribution to my selfdiscovery journey.
Low Self-Esteem
Now let us contrast this with high selfesteem, which is a quiet comfortable place
of self-acceptance and love for yourself as
you are. A clue that someone has a healthy
sense of self-esteem is that they lead a
balanced life, are actualizing their potential,
take good care of themselves on many
levels, and relate well to others.
Remember, as you read the following list,
that there are no perfect people. Even a
person with high self-esteem can possess
degrees of the qualities listed for low selfesteem, and there is always room to grow
High Self-Esteem
Score
Self-Esteem Statements
best of my abilities.
_____5. I always tell myself the truth about
what I am feeling.
_____6. I am incomparable and stop
comparing myself with other people.
_____7. I feel of equal value to other
people, regardless of my performance,
looks, IQ, achievements, or possessions.
_____8. I am my own authority. I make
decisions with the intention of furthering my
own and others best interests.
_____9. I learn and grow from my
mistakes rather than deny them or use
them to confirm my unworthiness.
____10. I stop my critical self-talk and
replace it with a nurturing, kind,
encouraging voice.
____11. I love, respect, and honor myself.
____12. I am not responsible for anyone
elses actions, needs, choices, thoughts,
moods, or feelings, only for my own.
____13. I do not dominate others or allow
others to dominate me.
____14. I have good physical and
emotional boundaries with others.
____15. I feel my own feelings and think
Part Five:
Why Are You Here?
Are you in touch with your guiding
purpose and doing what you came here to
do? If not, you will feel a void in your life,
even if you gain much outer world success.
Once you are on the self-discovery path
and have a sound degree of self-esteem
and awareness, your consciousness
nudges you forward to fulfill your purpose.
That is if you pay attention.
You were born to fulfill a mission that is
unique to you. Do you have a hunch what it
might be? If not, begin asking yourself
questions, such as, What really sparks my
interest? What do I daydream about doing?
Why am I here? How am I to make a
difference with my life? What talents do I
have that I could share?
Maybe you are called to be a great
mother or grandfather, to bring beauty into
expression through gardening, music, or
art. It may be to write a book or work with
at-risk teens. Your spiritual assignment
Summary
Happiness, self-empowerment,
satisfaction in work, good relationships, and
success are all built upon a solid foundation
of healthy self-esteem and knowing your
true Self. Love, respect, forgiveness, and
tolerance for yourself and all others are
valued. Healthy self-esteem is based on an
internal frame of reference, or locus of
control, for loving and accepting Self rather
than the external (relying on what other
people say or do).
May you gift yourself with the inner
work necessary to heal and transform. As
you examine your life, self-inquiry and living
from an internal locus of control will
become second nature. They are secrets to
becoming Self-aware.
As you fulfill your mission and express
your gifts, you will arrive at a deep level of
contentment and deep peace with your life.
Practice these simple secrets to move
to an empowered place in consciousness
where you live your life as a reflection of
your true Self.
Final Thoughts
Go at your own pace when making
changes in awareness.
After reading this book, choose one or two
things at a time to focus upon. Keep adding
more of the suggestions as you incorporate
the information in your life.
Final Affirmations
I am a worthy and precious being, an
expression of my true Self.
The next step in the greater plan for my life
is unfolding much like a rosebud beginning
to bloom.
I accept with excitement the challenge and
responsibility of going to greater degrees of
awareness.