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The only time success comes before work is in the dictionary.

Sometimes good guys gotta do bad things to make the bad guys
pay.
Winners don't make excuses.

It's not bragging if it's true.

When you're backed against the wall, break the goddamn thing
down.
Don't play the odds, play the man.
What are your choices when someone puts a gun to your head?
You take the gun, or you pull out a bigger one. Or, you call their
bluff. Or, you do any one of a hundred and forty six other things.
Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument.
Kill them with success, bury them with a smile.
Ever loved someone so much, you would do anything for them?
Yeah, well make that someone yourself and do whatever the hell
you want.
Courtesy: Suits

Sometimes it is okay to laugh at yourself.

If you spend less time bitching about your life, you will possibly
enjoy it more.
Remember that the world doesn't owe you anything. It was here
long before you were.
Never break a promise you make to yourself.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Failure slaps you in public. Success hugs you in private. That's
life.
The best revenge is to not give a shit.
Never put your happiness in other people's hand. They'll drop it.
They'll drop it every time.
Hard work beats talent every single time.

1) Never Tell your Problems to all, 20% will not Care & 80% will be Glad that
you have Them.
2) Life is similar to Boxing Game.
Defeat is not Declared when you fall down it's declared when you refuse
to get-up.
3) Always Wrong people teach the Right lessons in life. That is called Life
Experience.

4) Everything is Valuable only at 2 Times:

1: Before Getting It. &
2: After Losing It.
5) Two places are most valuable in the world:
1: The NICEST place is to be in someone's thoughts &
2: The SAFEST place is to be in someone's prayers.
6) 'FEAR' has 2 Meanings:
1: Forget everything & run &
2: Face Everything & Rejoice.
Choice is Ours.
7) 'EGO' is the only requirement to destroy a relationship.
Be a Bigger Person, skip the 'E' & let it 'GO'.
8) As long as we do not forgive people who have hurt us, they occupy a
'RENT-FREE-SPACE' in our mind.
9) I asked GOD: If everything is already written in destiny, then why should
I pray ?
GOD Smiled & said: I have also written 'Conditions Apply'.
10)Empty pockets teach millions of things in life. BUT full pockets spoil us in
"million" ways.
(you asked for 10 but I will give you 3 more as to give free advise and not to
follow it is our birth right )
11) TRUST is like a Sticker.
Once it is removed, it may stick again, but not as strong as it holds
when you first applied it.
12) Never win people with arguments. Rather defeat them with your smile
because people who always wish to argue with you cannot bear your
SILENCE.
13) 'MEMORIES' are always special. Sometimes, we laugh by recalling the
days we cried & sometimes, we cry while recalling the days we laughed.
That's LIFE.
Thank you

A girl met me in my 20's when she was visiting her cousin who was my room
mate at the time. Soon afterwards, she found me on orkut (yeah, the time
before facebook), added me, chatted me up and told me she loved me.
The next couple of years were filled with romance, hours long calls, dating,
movies, etc. We walked on the clouds for a while. Our parents were okay and
we got engaged. By this time, the differences and realities had started to
emerge. They continued to explode and we broke up soon after.
I spent many years in pain, trying to find answers and myself. It has now
been more than 7 years since we broke up. The following is the truth about
women I have come to understand.
1. Love, romance and relationship are superficial concepts
They work well to bring together a man and a woman and get married. A few
years on and you start seeing beyond this sugar coating. And it's mostly the
guys who are late to understand this convoluted game. Girls have been
aware of what's underneath and how to play it since about their puberty.
What do you think they were huddling and talking about while boys their
age played sports and computer games?
Most married guys eventually become aware of this. Most of them don't talk
about it, since, by then, it's too late and guys don't like to admit defeat. Some
of them, most daring I would say, don't accept it and get a divorce. And some
of them make up rosy theories about love and relationships.
2. What's underneath is the primal struggle for survival
It doesn't look like one, but, that's what it is. We don't live in the jungles any
more, but, we haven't evolved far above animals either.
It is difficult for most men to understand, but, a typical woman's life is all
about survival. That means, money, social status, a house, resources, a man
to back her up when needed and kids. Yeah, kids are too partly a survival
mechanism for a woman, since, once they have kids, a typical man will never
leave her, thus, ensuring her a lifestyle and resources.
These things are far more important to a woman than a man. A man can
easily just give up on these things and go live in mountains, live an alone life
or worst, kill himself. These options are extremely difficult for women to
accept and exercise.
So, it's obvious, that they are on their game since their teenage years.

3. Most guys have it coming

Most guys idea of struggle is to make money, gain power or generally both.
And when it comes to women, getting an attractive one to marry you and let
you have sex with her whenever possible. Most guys don't step beyond what
their ego and penis allows them to see.
Women know this fact and use it to maximize their above stated gains.
Sometimes, they paint it with delusions of romance and relationships and
sometimes, to their benefit, guys paint it with her.
4. Eventually, every guy figures it out
Ever seen, a man in his fifties or sixties talk fondly of his marriage or love or
romance. It is very rare. Because, it is the truth. By that time, every man
realizes that they have been conned in this game and that they never had a
chance to win.
5. A slave for life
Every woman needs one. And she'll go to any length to get one.
Who is going to drive the car? Or, even if she is driving, guess, who is going
to change a flat tyre? Who is going to make money in case a woman decides
to stay home and take care of her insurance (kids)? Who can they parade in
front of their friends and family as their own property? Who is going to
satisfy their desires by proxy (power and money)?
The answers to these questions matter to most women. They'll never ask
this explicitly to any man. But, an observant man will see this.
My gf(ex) pushed me sometimes. Asking me direct questions like, "Am I
going to drive you everywhere?" (I wasn't particularly fond of driving back
then and was procrastinating learning it); "Are you going to be a software
engineer all your life?" (She was impressed by titular positions such as
general manager, etc. and would have crushed me by now if we still have
been together).
Towards the end of my relationship, I was being forced or manipulated or
punished for such things as not going to a particular restaurant on a
particular day when she wanted to go.
At the onset, these things did not even register in my head. Obviously, the
thick net cast in the initial years of romance still had me in its grips.
6. Material life is more important to women than men

Women want things: car, a house, pretty furniture, furnishings, an exotica

trip, shopping spree, clothes; the list is endless. How can she make a man
pay for most of it without making him feel used? We all know the answers.
After a relationship becomes serious and committed you'll enter this trap
and will never come out. So, whatever dreams you had of making world a
better place, becoming a kickass engineer or a great artist, you can just
forget.
Unless, your dreams are in alignment with her material superficialness,
like, gaining more money and power, then, the chances are that she'll stick
with you.
Of course, men want things too. These days, more than before. But, a real
man is just beyond that. He lives on the minimum and tries to do something
that matters. My sincere hope is that, that man never gets married.
7. Romance and love can be pre-calculated
It's difficult for most guys to accept, especially, the kind that populates
threads like these. For a naive eye (heart and mind), romance is an amazing
and pure thing. You just love someone for what they are, accept them and do
cute things together.
Most women go beyond that understanding very early in their life.
I'll just state my own example here.
As mentioned above, my gf told me that she loved me and then all the
romance followed. Looking back, it was more than that.
Since, my ex-gf had already interacted with her cousin, and the cousin knew
a lot about me, he had shared a lot of that information when talking to her. I
did not think of it until much after my breakup, but, she already knew that I
had purchased a house and was working for a very large respectable IT
company.
So, my earning power and general asset owning capabilities were already
known to her. And since, she had seen me and interacted with me, she knew
I was a tall, ok looking guy who was generally nice (and unfortunately
naive).
That's what any average girl wants. Most of the items on her checklist went
green and she just took the next steps in the game. She chatted me up, being
extra nice to me, agreeing to whatever I say, even claiming to like many of
the things I liked. I was an easy kill.

I am sure, if I spend a couple of hours on it, I can write it out neatly as an

algorithm.
8. Life itself is pre-calculated by most women
Some romance, a spectacular marriage, a honeymoon to an exotic
destination, a few years working on career, may be make a kid, make
money, make career, have the husband do things whenever needed, grow
old, still have the husband to take care of you, have more money.
That's the script every woman has running at the back of her head all the
time.
Guys are generally no thinking that much until a serious relationship. As
soon as a guy gets in a serious relationship or marriage, he'll soon become a
part of her plan. But, she'll make it seem like you are now planning you life,
becoming mature etc. That's not your plan guys and that's not maturity.
If you are not party to her plan, if you are not married, good, you'll be
dumped and she'll find another body who'll work for her. If you are
married, she'll b***h until you surrender your soul.
9. A real man's life is too free and creative to be submitted to the whim of a
woman
The time I spent in a relationship with my ex-gf was the most restricted and
rigid I have ever had in my entire life. I was choked on lies, rules and
pressures. The worst part is that I did not even realize that until I became
free of her.
By freedom, I don't mean cheap thrills of sleeping with many women or
having wild parties or jumping off a cliff. I mean the real freedom, that of
the mind and your time on this earth.
No real man would spend his time making some female happy. He knows
there are better things to do. When mind becomes free of thinking about
more money for buying her things, or what will make her upset or leaning
toilet in a particular state; it'll automatically think of better things.
It is ironic, although, that women often serve as muses for some of the
greatest creations. But, I bet those women weren't the creator's partner or
wife.
10. Don't let her baby you
Ever. A few months into a relationship and she'll start addressing you with
terms generally reserved for babies or small kids. Guys like it.

My advice: don't. It's just her way of constantly reminding you how
immature you are and how much you need her like you needed your mother
when you were a kid. Basically, she is preparing you for a lifetime of telling
you to do things like a mother tells her child.
This too, I realized in retrospect :(
11. Maturity
No woman can tell a man how to be mature, for that matter, no man can tell
him either. You have to mature on your own.
You do not need a girlfriend or a wife to become mature. You can and you
rather should do it on your own. That's the very definition of maturity. In a
nutshell, to be responsible for your actions and yourself.
12. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
I had not experienced true anger till I had a girlfriend.
I was an easy going guy. I got angry, but, at the right things. But, I came to
know of true wrath only when in a relationship.
Somehow, after my relationship became serious, my anger levels also went
up. I became a guy I was not proud of, but, I could not help it. I still clearly
don't understand how it happened, but, it made me a worse person.
And after breakup, all hell broke loose. Both of us got angrier and angrier,
arguing, hating, throwing accusations around.
I won't go into details, but, a man's anger can't match that of a woman's. She
damaged many of my other relationships (personal as well as professional)
at will, spread bad word about me and damaged my reputation and career.
Although, I was also very angry, I could not say bad things about her on her
back, or think of sabotaging her relationships with her friends.
In the game of wrath, she won. That's one of the most important lessons.
After the breakup, I spent many years alone and very angry before I started
to cool off and became my natural self again.
14. Co-dependency is not a relationship
What we refer to as a relationship is mostly just co-dependency. A man or a
woman does not want to be alone, they need things from each other, hence,
the co-dependency.

I discovered post breakup that I am not much of a co-dependent person. I

really can handle myself on my own. If you can't do that, you enter a codependent arrangement. We should not really glorify it by calling it a
relationship.
15. Twisted nature of female mind
Like I said earlier, my ex-gf played some elaborate games to get to me and
then when things sent south, what she did was to blame me for it.
And I bought it for a while. I felt guilty, I almost surrendered to her saying it
was my fault. I spent a lot of time feeling unnecessary guilt. When, in fact, in
any relationship, when it breaks up, it's generally both parties who are at
fault.
But, I don't know how she did it. She had me doubting me for everything.
She cried and blamed me often. She made me the bad guy. I was not such a
great guy as a boyfriend, but, I was not that bad.
It took me a long time to see past that too.
16. No guilt
If things go bad, women never accept a fault or feel guilty about it. They
won't consider it at all. In their heads, they can never be at fault in a
relationship.
17. Natural born relationship experts
Women consider themselves an expert in relationships. You can see women
of all ages giving relationship advice to others. Most of this advice is
predictable and is more of manipulation than advice.
18. Intimacy is one way street
A woman always wants man to tell her everything. A lot of men fall into this
trap thinking she wants to listen and provide emotional support.
In reality, it's more of a survival mechanism. She is checking man, trying to
guess his whereabouts, whether he is lying, his goals and how they fit with
her plans, any of his secrets that might be useful to her.
For me, I made the mistake of sharing some very personal things and
feelings with my ex-gf. Then, when the fights got ugly, she just used those
things to insult me or use some of the shared knowledge to sabotage my
personal life.

On the other hand, a woman will not share her very intimate feelings with
you at all. If you are familiar with female nature, you won't be surprised.
They have a lot of things going on through their heads. It's generally a chaos
of feelings, desires, daddy issues and jealousy.
19. Natural hypocrites
Of course, most of us are hypocrites. But, women take it to next level. You
have to be alert. In a moment of anger or passion or love, they somehow
instantaneously manipulate the truth to tell you what you want to hear or
believe.
Many of the women are great actors when handling some intense personal
discussions. They can bring up tears on demand or act sincere when they
are not.
Women may make good wives, but, still, you can never trust them as you can
trust a man who is your good friend.
20. Women have all the power
As soon as you get into a committed relationship, you surrender all your
power to a woman. But, of course, it will not seem so. She will make it seem
like she is making all the sacrifice and you are the one who is gaining.
Yet, you take a look at any married couple, and you know who has all the
power. I need not say any more.
21. Female mind can be really beautiful and creative
By nature of its construction, female mind is different than a male mind. It
is more creative, patient and forgiving. If you have true love of a real
woman, you will be in heaven even on this earth.
I often find myself wondering what it is like to be a woman. And what
thought processes make it so creative and different. I draw inspiration from
many women when I am trying to do something creative.
But, most women, like most men, squander their natural gifts in pursuit of
trivial material gains. Hence, the above 20 points.
I must mention a bit of my personal background here. I was raised my a
narcissistic, self-centred mother of violent temper. So, in a way I was
already set up not to like women very much. And in a textbook Freud

scenario, I ended up having a girlfriend who was like my mother. That was
the ultimate blow.
Now, I live a life without a girlfriend or a wife. It's rather alone, but not
lonely. I have always been alone since my childhood, hence, I find it
comfortable. I live a rather happy and very productive life.
I think being away from women, has cleared my mind a lot and also made it
very peaceful.
Also, I am aware that not all women all like described above. There some
great women out there worth having a relationship with, who are truly
lovely. But, I am also aware, that like great men, they are also very rare. And
the chance of meeting one who is still available is practically zero.
Most of the guys will and I think must disregard this and go ahead and make
their mistakes anyway. The survival of human race depends on it. But, there
is that one guy in a thousand who will read it the right way and do the right
thing.