Documenti di Didattica
Documenti di Professioni
Documenti di Cultura
Relationships In
Marriage and Out
Edited by
Rivkah Blau
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Contributors viii
Series Editor’s Preface xi
Robert S. Hirt
Preface xiii
Rivkah Blau
Introduction: The Past and the Future of the Forum on
“Gender Relations” xv
Jennie Rosenfeld
1. Of Marriage: Relationship and Relations 1
Aharon Lichtenstein
2. Marriage, Sexuality, and Holiness: The Anti-Ascetic Legacy
of Talmudic Judaism 35
Adiel Schremer
3. How Jewish Society Adapted to Change in Male/Female
Relationships in 19th / early 20th Century Eastern Europe 65
Shaul Stampfer
4. Sanctity, Sanity and Connectedness: Struggles For
Commitment Among Orthodox Jewish Singles 85
Daniel Rothenberg
5. Perfect Person Singular: Unmarried Adults in Contemporary
Orthodox American Jewish Communities 91
Sylvia Barack Fishman
Kedushah (Sanctity)
Kedushah as constitutive of experience, i.e., as the organizing prin-
ciple of development and living; sexuality as a significant subset of
relatedness and intimacy; the need for “kedushah curricula” engag-
ing the development of individuals throughout the life cycle; the
need for trained professionals to implement such a developmental
program in schools and in communities.
“Pas B’Salo”:
The basic need for emotional closeness and physical contact and
their integration during transitional points in individuals’ lives, the
latter interacting with developmental lapses in “mirroring,” physical
and emotional contact.
At the “ripe old age” of thirty-five, Michaela lives alone as she pursues
an active and rich social and professional life. On Shabbat these days,