There are many characteristics that make someone be perceived as a High Status i

ndividual, and they can vary depending on situation, location, people you're int
eracting with, etc. For example, a succesful 40 years old business man who works
for a large company is definetely going to be respected and admired by his coll
egues and business contacts. Put that man on an EDM festival or rave, and he wil
l never have the same status as the DJ will, and viceversa.
However, there are certain principles, characteristics, behaviours and ways of t
hinking that are inherent of High Status people. There characteristics are going
to be attractive everywhere, with every person in the world, in every situation
you might be in. As I discussed above, the level of Status you'll have will var
y depending on the situation, but if you apply these principles and acquire the
characteristics, you will ALWAYS be a High Status person everywhere you go.
Although this part is mostly theory, I'm going to give you some tips and exercis
es related to each of the principles so you can start improving your life right
away.
Let's start.

1. High Status people have a great image of themselves.

"The world will tend to accept whatever judgement you place on yourself first" Jason Capital.
High Status people see themselves as the cool of the coolest and the best of the
best. They perceive themselves capable of achieving any possible goal and worth
y of everything.
This is kind of clich, like the "Love yourself and the people will love you too"
crappy advice. But it's true. Why? because when you feel amazing and have a grea
t image of yourself you will subcommunicate it to the world. You voice, you body
language, the way you look, the way you walk, the conversations you have... Eve
rything will subcommunicate how you perceive yourself as. Therefore, if you perc
eive yourself as the coolest motherfucker alive, people will tend to think that
too.
If you have a really damaged self image and a poor sense of self-steem I recomme
nd you to read Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. It's one of the greatest non
-fiction books ever written. It gives you a scientific point of view on how to c
hange ourselves' self image in order to achieve any goal. The book is not about
dating but it will help you improve your life exponentially. I recommend it to e
veryone.
Read it and complete all its exercises.

+2. High Status people lean toward their edges.

I first read about this from a guy called Jason Capital, my biggest mentor (You
should check out all his amazing stuff). It basically states that there are thre
e main edges in every man's life. And that leaning towards them means that you i
nvest time, effort, money and energy to them. Simply because they are the three
most important aspects of your life. Those edges are:

1. Health.
2. Relationships.
3. Wealth/Greater Purpose.
Imagine a triangle. Each one of these aspects is an edge. You have to lean towar
ds them.
A man who takes care of his physical and mental health is attractive. A man who
protects the one he loves and cares about his family and friends is attractive.
A man who is ambitious and works hard and invests in a new business is attractiv
e.
Now, the three main edges are in the same level and you should always invest in
them equally. You must not take care of your health at expenses of your closest
relationships. You must not invest all your energy into a business and forget ab
out your health or your family or viceversa. You get the point.
The are more edges but these are the most importante and the ones you should foc
us most of your energy and time in.
Note: I said "Wealth/Greater Purpose" because maybe because running a business i
s not your thing. Maybe you're not so interested about the money. When I say "Gr
eater Purpose" I refer to the biggest dream you may have, your biggest ambitious
, the path you want to take in your life, the profession you truly love. You get
it. It can be anything, from being a very successful singer to playing tenis pr
offesionally. As long as you love it and is ambitious, it's perfect. We'll discu
ss this point in much more depth later on this book, with actual exercises you c
an do to find out what you want your path in life to be, in case you haven't fig
ured yet.

3. High Status people don't seek anyone else's aproval, instead...

People seek their aproval.
In every interaction there's a person being chased and a person who chases the o
ther. The one who seeks approval, and the one who decides whether to give the ap
proval.
Usually, men chase women. It's been ingrained in our subconsious minds by movies
, parents, Disney, etc... We can see this in most interactions where the man is
the one who seeks the woman's approval. Hot girls are used to this, almost every
man they meet tries to agree with them in everything and please them in everyth
ing.
When you flip this around, something amazing happens. Your Status and attraction
skyrockets. She thinks "Wow, this guy must be amazing because I have to work fo
r him, it's not that easy". We humans like to earn things on our own. Something
who requires effort to get has far more value than something you can get effortl
essly. So...
She has to earn YOUR attention. She has to work for YOU. Not the other way aroun
d. And if she has to work for you, for your attention and approval, then you mus
t be amazing since everything good requires effort.
The same principle goes to male friends and business connections. They need YOU.
They chase YOU.

Now, how do I make her know that she has to work for me?
There are many ways to make her know that she is the one who chases you, but it
should be implied in the whole interaction, not just in one point. The main way
to do this is with your body language. If she's leaning towards you but you're n
ot, you're just there with your shoulders and waist pointing slighly away, it co
mmunicates to her and everyone else around that she is seeking your approval, an
d you are deciding if she's worth enough for you to fuck her.
However, sometimes you need to make it very clear and one great way to do this a
re something called "Disqualifiers", but don't worry too much about this, not ye
t. We will discuss it in depth later on. The point here is in developing the bel
ief that people have to earn your attention.

4. High Status people are desired by other High Status people.

Imagine you are a leader in a group, everyone seeks your approval, every girl is
chasing you and every guy wants to hang out with you. How do you think the peop
le around would see you? They would conclude you are amazing, that your presence
is desirable.
Ever heard of preselection? That's pretty much this. When a girl sees you gettin
g positive responses from other hot girls and attractive males, they will be far
more likely to be attracted to you, if not already attracted.
I know this won't happen at first. Especially if you don't have many people admi
ring you at the moment. But that's okay. If you follow my advice you will be att
racting beautiful girls that will make you "preselected" to other girls and ther
efore more attractive. As you can see, it's exponential growth. You can thank me
later.

5. High Status people have high standards.

Yes bro, you need to have high standards.
And yes, I know it's tempting to fuck the girl who is "kinda hot" because you ha
ve anybody else available. Most men live by that "I fuck everything that moves"
premise. But That's wrong!
It makes you look desperate. As if you wouldn't be valuable enough to be with be
tter people. Think about it for a minute. You are an extraordinarily amazing man
, full of dreams and goals and good qualities in your life. Why in the world wou
ld you hang out with a girl you don't like? for sex? because you don't want to b
e alone?
No man, you are valuable enough yo hang out with the most amazing girls on earth
. Just because you are you.
And I'm not talking only about looks. It applies to personal qualities as well.
A woman can be extremely hot but if she is boring, or treats you bad, or has bad
beliefs about things I consider important; there's not way I would make her my
girlfriend or be in a relationship with her.
Now you don't want to be a dick who requires every woman to be perfect in everyt

hing. That's NOT what I'm talking about. Everyone makes mistakes and no one will
agree in everything with you. There should be a reasonable limit.

6. High Status people have strong boundaries.

It's basically the same principle just discussed. But this time is more related
to personal qualities rather than physical characters.
You want to be with people who you actually enjoy being with. Forget about sex a
nd looks for a moment. Think about the qualities you want the people around you
to have (not only your girlfriend, but your male and female friends, your busine
ss partner, your family, etc).
Some questions you may ask yourself to fing out your boundaries:
- Does he/she have realistic yet ambitious goals?
- Is he/she leaning toward their edges?
- Is he/she funny to be with?
- Is he/she selfish?
- Is he/she enthusiastic, positive and happy most of the time?
- Does he/she encourage me to do the things I want?
- Does he/she make me feel better?
- What does he/she think about xxx? ("xxx" being a topic you consider really imp
ortant)
- What are his/her religious and philosophical views?
Think about what you will accept from others and what you won't.
Make a short list to get started. This is a very good way to find out your bound
aries. Probably you won't know them exactly at first, but they will be far clear
er over time as you get better with people.
Note: Don't be obsessed with this. Don't go asking yourself those questions when
ever you meet someone. They have to be clear, but don't be a dick.

Those are the 6 most fundamental qualities of High Status people. Memorize them.
Print the short list and read it every morning for 30 days. They should be ingr
ained in your subconsious by then.