“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God he created him….

The first book of Moses called Genesis

There is a group of men, rejected by all women. They have never received compassion or
love from a woman. Ignored and laughed at, these men form the elite of the Creators
beings. He has scorned them for his purpose. Women will never love or desire these men.
They look pass them, and wonder who would love a man like this. These men though
rejected and humiliated at times, are the ones who will change the face of the earth.

Anonymous

Hi

My name is Peter Booysen. I see myself as one of the men rejected by women. People
always tell me that I imagine these things, but in reality, I know what is happening.
Rejection from the opposite sex is hard to admit. Sometimes it feels as if they are just
being nasty, and that one-day you will meet the perfect girl/lady, and live happily ever
after. I will make you a deal. If you still feel this way after you have read this, then you
are probably right. However, if your believe fades in the illusion you are painting
yourself, then I strongly recommend you take my advice.

The purpose of this paper serves as a wake-up call for all men who constantly ask
themselves why the opposite sex dislikes them so much. As earlier mentioned, rejection
from the opposite sex is hard to admit, but believe me; it is the first step in your freedom.
This freedom is unlike any other freedom you have ever experienced. This freedom will
not only free your mind, but your whole being. You will be in control of your life. You
will design your own destiny.
I know by now you are asking yourself, but how does my destiny depend on how I feel
about women, or how women feel about me. I will tell you a secret. When you remove all
distractions, the only focus will be your goal. What is your goal? That is your freedom.

I am not saying that you should start hating women. Rather love women, but do not fall
in love with them. Respect them, but keep them at a distance. To save your life, you must
respect the one who tries to stop it. Only with respect, will you be able to adapt and learn
at an exponential pace (provided you use and develop your ability to learn/study). All
men and women have this ability- the ability to learn. It is an inherent trait. What I am
trying to say is that you should not let your guard down when it comes to women, and try
as much as possible to learn from women who present success. Listen to what they have
to say, but do not mimic them. Find your centre and point of balance. Be honest with
yourself at all times. Learn from successful men as well. Never seize to learn new things,
or to discover the undiscovered. Do not let people’s words put you down. Most
important, do not let life put you down, and of utmost important- do not let women put
you down. They hate and reject you for a reason. God chose you, despised and rejected
by women to become what he intended you to become- Great. I say it again. Do no put
yourself down. Do not let people put you down, and most importantly, do not let women
put you down. They will, because they have no other choice. This is God’s will for your
life. When you see all those young people, and even not so young people go out on dates
with their girls, I know the desire is there, but you have to let it go. The feeling of
receiving such passion and love from the opposite sex is not for you to receive. I do hope
you understand this. How do I know this, well, let me just say that I have years and years
of experience. That is why I want every man who reads this paper to understand that if
you are not constantly rejected or despised by women, and if you feel that this paper does
not speak to you, then please do not read further. I hope we have an understanding,
because the real revelation starts now.

What is my purpose?
As a man, we are raised with this believe that one day we will have to be the head of our
family, and that having a wife and children are ideals in this fairytale. I am here to tell
you, that if you never marry, because you cannot find a wife, how will you raise a
family? You must realize that the prospect of raising a family and being married one day
is an unreachable dream. Let it go, and search for your freedom. I know that you are
thinking easier said than done or even worse “What is this guy talking about?” Hey, if
you are not convinced that you will probably never marry, then try it. Seek a suitable
female partner for yourself. See how far you get with this mission. Personally, I do not
think you will get very far in this endeavor. I said it once, and I will say it again, and
again. God chose you, to be great. The sadness and lonely nights you are experiencing
now, is nothing in comparison to the amount of joy you will experience if you listen to
me. Do not desire a wife. Do not desire a girlfriend. They will never love you. They
cannot love you. It is sad, but true, and for you to reach your goal, you must understand
the above fact. Make no mistake; to be successful will require more than just diverting
your attention from women. It will require consistent work and sacrifice, but this is
common knowledge. Therefore, the question remains, “What is my purpose?” I said it
before, and I will say it again. Your purpose is to be great.

How do I put this purpose in effect?

The first thing to remember is that life will treat you according to your input. However,
there are moments where life seems unfair. It is only natural to think that life is unfair,
until you accept the lesson you need to learn from your current state of life. To live
without a mission, is to die in vain. Your whole existence becomes insignificant. To
assure that this does not happen to you, you must therefore seek something to do,
preferably something that you find interesting; something that you love to do. In other
words, you must find your passion and develop it. This is essential, because your passion
will be your wife. Yes, I said it. Treat your passion as if it is a woman. If you tackle all
your events as if you are doing it for the love of your life, then you would do it
vigorously. This piece of advice seems in conflict with the mission of the paper, but
please do not let the above advice fool you. To love a woman, and to visualize or make
use of your imagination to aid you to achieve peak performance, are two different things.
If you feel that thinking about women will motivate you, then go ahead. However, if that
state of mind puts you in a vulnerable position, I strictly suggest you abandon it. The aim
of visualization is not to promote vulnerability, but to serve as an aid in achieving a goal.
I know that this is easier said than done, and requires practice, like everything else.
Another important point to remember is the fact that no two countries experience the
same time at the same moment. For instance, will you read the same time from a watch
clock when you are in America, as apposed to Africa, given that you look at the two
watch clocks at the same time? The answer is no. What am I trying to achieve with this
example? For the time that you remain passive, someone else- preferably a woman- is
working her ass off, trying to succeed. This thought must serve as motivation for you.
Knowing that to be successful and achieve your dream takes hard work and dedication, is
the first step towards you freedom. However, knowing something and doing nothing
about it, is a waste of time.

Secondly, remove all distractions, or potential distractions from your life. Time is
precious, and you do not want to waste time on things that cannot benefit you. Instead of
trying to find useless ways of killing time, try to do something constructive with your
time. Read a book, exercise. Speak to somebody on an intellectual level, rather than being
frivolous. When you do engage in humor, try to keep it at a limited level. Reason with
yourself, try to improve the way you experience everyday life. Identify your weaknesses,
and write them down, so that you may know how to deal with them. Always brainstorm-
this is to ensure that your reasoning skills improve. Never back down from a suitable
challenge, and always try to improve your skills, whatever they may be. Most of us have
more than one type of skill. Remember, to be great, you must exercise your talent. Your
talent is the key to your freedom, and your freedom, is the key to greatness.

Where do I begin?
Every event has a beginning, seasons, marathons, speeches, etc. A strong beginning can
put you to an advantage. A weak beginning can require more input as you progress. The
important message to remember is that everything in live has a beginning. If you decide
to accept your purpose in life, then you have taken the first step to reach total freedom.
This is your beginning, and you should make sure it is a strong one. A strong beginning
will aid you in building momentum, with less effort. A weak beginning will require that
you use more effort to achieve the same results. However, the effect is not permanent.
Once you have achieved your “centre”, your momentum will sift automatically.
At the beginning of any event, there are certain obstacles you will face, and procedures
you have to follow. For our purposes, there are a few obstacles and procedures to
consider.

Obstacles that may prevent you from starting out strong:

 1. First, the most important obstacle to look out for is you. I bet you are shocked.
You probably thought I was going to mention women as the first obstacle. No,
you must first know yourself, before you consider looking at women as an
obstacle, because believe me, if you know your strengths and weaknesses; women
will not be a problem. If you know that you like women a lot- knowing that, they
do not like you at all- you are identifying a weakness. This weakness is an
obstacle, and can cause you to have a weak beginning, if you do not address it as
soon as possible.
2. The second obstacle to consider is laziness. This is a common disorder of the
male human nature. I call it a disorder, because it is not a natural thing. Many
times, you hear women say that men are lazy by nature. This is one of the greatest
lies ever told. Men are not lazy by nature, but by choice. Remember one thing,
women will always try to put you down, and make you believe in things that are
not true. They do this to prevent you from achieving your true potential. If they
handicap you, then they feel good. Sick but true. Never believe any bad word
women say about you, because you are great, you will achieve unbelievable
heights. To overcome this laziness, you must- I stress this- you must expel the
laziness, by hard work and dedication. Let perseverance and success be your
objective, whenever you do something.
3. The third obstacle to consider is doubt. Doubt can be a dangerous weapon. It can
destroy you if you are not careful. If you do not believe in your purpose, the only
alternative is to doubt your purpose. Doubt and denial works as partners of
destruction. If you are in denial of your own potential, and doubt sets in, well let
me just say that you are going to have a tough time eradicating these feelings.
Never let doubt ruin you, and do not let it be present when you start this journey.
Believe in yourself and your abilities.
4. The fourth obstacle to consider is women. Yes, finally I get to the most dangerous
of all. Why do I look at women as the most dangerous obstacle of all? Well, for
starters, they can bring about all the above obstacles with total ease. A woman can
destroy you with a smile on her face and a song on her lips. Women have a great
ability, to deceive and conquer. Many men have fallen victim to their innate
ability. The strange thing about this revelation is the fact that although many men
may proclaim and agree with me on this fact, they still fall victim to this trap.
How is this possible? I will discuss this in detail next.

What danger the female entity holds

It is very difficult to evade the seductive call of a woman. Many men have fallen victim
to it. They do not realize their state, until they are totally ruined. Therefore, the question
remains- what do women posses that make them so irresistible? I will answer this for you
in point form.

1. Women are beautiful- Yes men. If you think that you by any chance can just
ignore a woman, then you are dreaming with your eyes open. To do something
like that, and not think about the woman in an intimate way, well, let me just say
 that it takes a lot of training. To ignore a woman, especially a beautiful one, while
she is desperately trying to get your attention, will seem to most men as being
stupid. I mean, this is an opportunity. However, what you do not know is that
beauty is a woman’s first defense/survival method. Remember that men and
women have evolved over millions of years, living together. The further the
evolutionary process, the more complex the relationship became between men
and women. Finally, women have discovered how to manipulate men using
various methods. The most common method, well, is beauty or physical
attraction. Women instinctively know that most men will “fall” for a pretty face.
The more attractive the physical features of the woman, the greater the possibility
is that she will meet a person that will posses over the necessary tools to ensure
her survival. Well, at least this was a rule of nature. She trades her beauty for the
services of the man. In today’s world, women do not need a man to support them,
but they still use that same technique. Most men fall for it, but some men have
evolved past that weakness of the male specie.
2. Women are the inventors of body language- We just discussed beauty, now lets
look at body language. In simple terms, body language is the usage of one’s body
to convey messages to another person, or entity. It is a form of non-verbal
communication. Although non-verbal, it does deliver strong messages. Women
have developed this technique over millions of years. Transport yourself back in
time, a couple of million years ago. How do you think people communicated? Did
they just start speaking to each other, or did they use some other method of
communication. I believe that body language, was probably the first way of
communicating effectively. There were probably sound coming from their
mouths, but certainly meaningless sounds. The most effective communication
back then- I believe so- was body language. Nevertheless, what does this have to
do with the manner in which women manipulate body language in this age? The
answer is simple. The role of women as the caring partner, the nurturing partner,
gave them a considerable advantage, since men in general love it when women
cuddle their ego.
3. Women use hypnotism to achieve their goal- Hypnotism in this sense should not
lure us to think that women have learned the special technique of hypnosis, but
we should rather consider the fact that women have some kind of radiance about
them. For those who had mothers, can you remember that most of the time, your
mother would be the person you liked the most. She would be able to turn you
frown into a smile, without saying much, and sometimes without saying anything
at all. The presence or suggestions of a woman can have a dramatic effect on you
as a male, if you are not alert. Therefore, I need to stress, that you should always
treat women with caution.
4. Women operate according a system of chaos- Have you ever noticed that women-
well, most of them- are very tidy, speaking in terms of their work, especially
when it affects their status. I know you are saying that this sounds contradictory to
the word “chaos”, but let us look at the word chaos. The word chaos refers to a
state of disorientation. It can also refer to a state, in which you have no control of
the situation, or whatever the matter may be. Chaos is bad, and can ruin your life.
To prevent chaos, we as men invented logic. We needed a method or system, in
 which we had control of our work, life, or whatever the situation may be. When I
mentioned, that women operate according a system of chaos, I was referring to
the fact that a woman has the ability to disrupt your logic. This also fits in with
the previous point concerning hypnosis. It is easy to disassemble a system,
because then you have less orientation, or ordered steps to adhere. However,
doing the opposite, to assemble, can be much more difficult. In fact, women use
their system of chaos to prevent us from obtaining a higher structure of thought,
or whatever system may improve our lives. They intentionally introduce chaos in
our lives, to ensure that we do not reach our level of functionality. This is a
complex, but important mechanism concerning women and their ability to cause
havoc in your life. Be careful of this.

How to evade women and ensure your survival

To evade a woman, is a very difficult task, since us as men have developed a weakness
for the opposite sex. In history, we see that women are degraded and humiliated. There
were moments in time, when women seen as witches were executed. Men, afraid of the
women and their evolution, did the violent acts that were committed in the past. We have
a chance to change these errors. When we evade women, we should not turn violent, but
we should rather become quiet and let our intellectual capacity and hunger to learn lead
us to a greater understanding of our purpose. If we understand ourselves, women will
pose no threat to us. However, we have to keep in mind the tactics women will use to
bring about chaos in our lives. Women will always hate us. They will never love us. The
dream of sharing a home and enjoying the love that only women can give is not part of
our purpose. You the reader need to understand that women can only love the ones they
share “chemistry”.
Always remember, that the reason women do not love you, is not because you are an
unlikable person, or that you do not look attractive. Remember that the reason why
women dislike you is that you are the elected to be part of a greater purpose. Feel
honored and never let people put you down, never put yourself down, and most of all,
never let women put you down.

Final words to the reader

I know that I have said and revealed many aspects in this paper. I hope that you the
“elected ones” have learned something concerning your purpose. Please feel free to
contact me via email. Remember, that your purpose is to be great and to contribute
towards a greater future.
I hope you have enjoyed the paper and I look forward to hearing from you.

The Author

Peter Booysen
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