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People talk about how happy (or unhappy) they are feeling all the

time, but are unable to define it. Happiness is a positive emotional state that is
subjectively defined by each person. As per the Websters Third International
Dictionary, happiness is a state of wellbeing characterized by relative
permanence, by dominantly agreeable emotion ranging in value from mere
contentment to deep and intense joy in living and by a natural desire for its
continuation.
In the context of psychology, happiness has been cited as a
psychological state and an overriding goal of human behaviour. Watson (1980)
stated that no quest claims a larger following than happiness. According to him,
the essentials of happiness for most people are among the stable elements of
life (friends, work, nature).
There are two popular definitions of happiness:
1. Happiness as a warm puppy definition: According to this definition,
happiness is just about anything a person could imagine. Happiness may
be a good job, being loved etc. Happiness according to this popular
definition is just about anything, anyone, anywhere might think of as
making themselves happy.
2. The second popular definition states that happiness is satisfaction,

contentment, fulfilment etc. Infact, happiness is a part of a special


category of mental experiences that include such positive things such as
joy, pleasure, satisfaction etc. Some researchers have attempted to
measure cognitive reflective side associated with quality of life.
Happiness occurs in various ways and it is often seen as a reflection of
satisfaction with life. Whether people perceive many pleasant things,
engage in interesting activities are satisfied with their life in general
contribute to happiness.

There are certain aspects of happiness, which need to be


mentioned: Stability: Longitudinal investigations have shown that people
tend to stick to their happiness judgements once formed.
However, happiness judgements are not necessarily stable
through time.
Definiteness: Only when people decide whether to judge their life
favourably or not, the concept of happiness applies. Therefore,
happiness judgements can vary in definiteness.
Time emphasis: Happiness is an evaluation of life as a whole.
The judgement may cover not only the present, but also on the
past or anticipate the future.
Consciousness: Happiness is a state of consciousness and it
denotes what the person really believes.
Appropriateness: The degree to which the subjective evaluation
fits with the given standards of good life is also a variable aspect
of happiness.
Agryle, Martin and Crossland (1989) believed that happiness is composed
of three related components: positive affect (pleasant moods and emotions),
absence of negative affect (unpleasant moods and emotions) and satisfaction with
life as a whole. Positive affect is commonly divided into joy, pride, affection,
ecstasy whereas negative affect is separated with guilt, anger, depression, stress
etc. Hall (1996) asked people what they think are the most important source of
satisfaction in their lives and found that most often mentioned domains were
family, home life, money, living standards, social relationships, social values,
housing, work and health.

CONCEPT OF HAPPINESS IN ISLAM


Happiness is a feeling that resides in the heart. It is characterized
by peace of mind, tranquillity, a sense of wellbeing, and a relaxed disposition. It
comes as a result of proper behaviour, both inward and outward and is inspired
by strong faith. Allahs Messenger (Peace be upon him) said, True enrichment
does not come through possessing a lot of wealth, but true enrichment is the
enrichment of the soul.
It is the nature of every person to seek happiness. One of the most
elusive objective of every human being is happiness. The Noble Quran reveals
the secret of attaining perfect happiness in this life and forever. We learn from the
Quran that happiness is the exclusive quality of the soul. Thus, a body that
attains all the material successes it longs for money, power, fame etc may not
always belong to a happy person. From an Islamic viewpoint, happiness is not
restricted to material prosperity, though material reasons make up some elements
of happiness. The material aspect is merely a means, but not an end in itself. The
main focus in attaining happiness is on non-material concerns. Happiness
depends totally on the degree of growth and development attained by the soul.
The Quran provides a detailed route towards perfect happiness for both body
and soul, both in this world and in the eternal Hereafter. Allah (SWT) has said:
Whoever does good whether male or female and he is a believer, We will most
certainly make him live a happy life, and We will most certainly give them their
reward for the best of what they did. (Quran, 16:97)
Islam comes with a complete way of life. It provides rules and
procedures to prepare a person for life in both this world and the next. Islam
ensures a persons wellbeing in this world as well as in the life to come. Allahs
Messenger (Peace be upon him) said, Among the things that can bring
happiness to the son of Adam are a pious wife, a good home and a good means of
transport.

Happiness, from an Islamic perspective occurs on two levels:


1. Wordly happiness: Islam lays down a number of rules and regulations to
guarantee mans happiness during his wordly life, which is his first life. At
the same time, Islam emphasizes that the life of this world is nothing more
than a means of attaining the Hereafter, which is the true life we all must
strive to attain. Allah says, Little are the enjoyments of this life of this
world as compared to the Hereafter.
2. Eternal happiness: This true and longlasting happiness depends on the
righteousness of the individual in his wordly life. Allah (SWT) says, For
those who do good in this world, there is good, and the abode of the
Hereafter will be better; and excellent indeed will be the abode of the
pious.
Islam gives man a sense of belonging which is one of the basic
psychological needs of man. A Muslim is urged to perform prayers collectively.
Pilgrimage is also a collective practice. These practices help man to grow
socially and to feel that he belongs to a particular group.
BARRIERS TO REAL HAPPINESS
1. Disbelief in Allah and lack of true faith: Since the true faith fills the heart
with comfort, security, reassurance and contentment, and makes man feel
that he has a strong relationship with the Almighty Allah, who alone is the
Creator of man and everything visible and invisible and knows best what
achieves mans happiness and wellbeing. Therefore, one of the biggest
barriers to real happiness both in this world and the Hereafter is the
rejection of Allahs true religion (i.e. Islam). Those who lack correct belief
and faith and stray from the right path will suffer from spiritual void and
deprive themselves from real salvation and mercy.
2. Sin and Crime: Man has not yet realised the consequences of sin. Sins and
crimes are the real barriers to happiness. Therefore, a criminal is always
more unhappy than his victim.

3. Envy and Jealousy: Envy and jealousy are sources of dissatisfaction for
people. Therefore, we are advised in the Holy Quran to seek refuge in
Allah from the mischief of the envious one as he practices
envy(Chapter 113 of the Holy Quran). Both envy and jealousy, when
translated into action, leads to the destruction of happiness and deprive
people of the good things they enjoy. The best refuge from evil is trust in
Allah along with the purity of heart.
4. Ill will: True believers are described in the Holy Quran as saying when
they pray to Allah: And leave not, in our hearts, rancor (or sense of injury)
against those who have believed.(Quran, 10:59). Ill will is contrary to
happiness; it belongs to a different domain of human feelings. It is like a
virus that kills the sentiments and kindness in man.
5. Anger: Anger denotes displeasure and hostility. It is one of the biggest
threats that spoil ones happiness. Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him)
stressed the importance of self restraint when he advised one of his
companions, Do not be overpowered by anger.
6. Injustice: Injustice, no doubt will bring ruin to everybody who practices it.
This has been proven by many examples that served as warnings and
lessons to humanity to shun this dangerous vice and maintain justice and
equality. It has been stated in a verse from the Holy Quran, And how
many populations did I give respite, which were given to wrong doing? In
the end, I punished them. To Me is the destination (of all). (Quran, 22:48).
7. Fear of wordly power: Fear of other than Allah is the cause of humility,
insecurity and unhappiness. Whereas, fear of Allah produces in man lofty
ideals and drives him to develop sound conduct and excellent moral
behaviour. It frees him from all fetters of human bondage and safeguards
his dignity and freedom of will. Allah says in the Holy Quran: It is only
the Satan that suggests to you the fear of his votaries: be you not afraid of
them, but fear me, if you are true believers. (Quran, 3:175)
8. Pessimism: Pessimism is synonymous with misery and trouble. It often
leads to depression. A pessimistic person would hold back enjoying his

normal life or achieving his objectives. Therefore, the Messenger of Allah


(Peace be upon him) promoted and liked optimism but discouraged and
disliked pessimism. A pessimist, due to his defeating attitude, faces several
troubles and difficulties.
9. Suspicion: Allah (SWT) states in the Holy Quran, O ye who believe!
Shun suspicion as much (as possible): for suspicion in some cases is a
sin..(Quran, 49:12).
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) also says, Shun suspicion,
because suspicion is the biggest lie (Narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim).
No society pervaded by suspicion and mistrust can prosper or lead a collective
life of happiness.
10. Arrogance: An arrogant person leads a life of misery, even though he treats
other people rudely and boastfully without due regard to established norms
of moral conduct. He oppresses them or scorns at them but he is definitely
haunted with guilty conscience which make his life miserable.
Turn not thy cheek in scorn towards folk, nor walk with pertness in the
land. Lo! Allah loveth not each braggart boaster (Quran, 31:18).
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) gave his advice in this regard
when he said:, On the day of Judgement Allah will not look towards him who
trails his lower garment out of pride. (Bukhari and Muslim).
11. Alcohol and Drug addiction: Many people are of the view that happiness
can be attained through alcohol or drug addiction. Therefore, they resort to
drugs escaping thereby from the troubles and worries of life. Drugs may for
some time make a person forget his worries; but in fact lead to
disintegration and destruction.
WAYS TO ATTAIN HAPPINESS
Islam is a religion of peace and every single law of Islam aims at
bringing happiness to the individual.
Belief in Allah: When a person believes in Allah, this belief gives him a
strong feeling of security, which is a basic psychological need. It gives
the believer a strong support in critical moments and gives him

continuous hope against all hopes of despair. A true believer will enjoy a
tranquil heart, a peaceful soul, and will not be full of worry and anxiety
over life. He will be pleased with whatever Allah has ordained for him,
thankful for all the good things in his life and be patient with
misfortunes. The submission of a believer to Allah gives him peace of
mind because he believes that his life has a meaning and a purpose that
he must strive to achieve.
And whosoever follows My guidance, on them shall be no fear nor
shall they grieve. (Quran, 2:38)
Truly, in remembering Allah do hearts find rest. (Quran, 13:28)
A person who believes in Allah tends to be more ethically responsible. It
makes a person feel that he is being observed by Allah everytime and
everywhere. This feeling makes a person try to be as uncorrupted and far
from sin as possible.
Belief in the Life after death and the day of Judgement: A Muslim
believes in life after death. This belief gives the person a feeling of
satisfaction with the justice of Allah. Allah is fair; everyone is
responsible for his actions. This responsibility makes everybody watch
over his own deeds.
Goodness and kindness to others: Man is a social being who needs to
interact with other beings of his own kind. It is not possible for him to
exist independently of others. Interacting with others is unavoidable and
people differ greatly from one another. Thus, it is unavoidable that
displeasing things will happen between people that can cause them
distress and worry. For this reason, Islam emphasizes morality and
development of moral character.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said, All creatures are
dependents of Allah, and the most favoured among them by Allah is the
one who is most helpful to his dependents. (Narrated by Tabarani, Abu
Naeem and Bayhaqi)

The tendency towards kindness emanates from human relations, for


mans delight depends on the happiness of others and vice versa, and
this reciprocity provides happiness for both the individual and society as
a whole.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said:
Every Muslim should do an act of charity.
Suppose he couldnt afford that? people said,
Let him work with his hands and give out charity, he answered.
Suppose he couldnt afford it? they said.
Let him help the grieved and needy, he answered.
Suppose he couldnt afford it? they said.
Let him do good and avoid evil, it is an act of charity for
him.(Narrated by Imam Bukhari)
O ye who believe! Cancel not your charity by reminders of your
generosity or by injury,(Quran, 2:264)
Renunciation of too long term hopes and grieves of the past: Many
people spend most of their time worrying about their future life and
regretting past mishaps. A good solution to this source of worries is to live
within the limits of today. This does not mean to neglect the future and stop
planning for it, nor does it mean to forget failure to draw lessons from past
experiences. It aims at ridding our mind of obsession with futile cares that
lead us only to stress and frustration. What helps men to get rid of worries is
complete trust in Allah (SWT). This kind of trust fills one with great peace
of mind and contentment along with the realization that everything is within
the power of Allah and drives one to be more optimistic about life.
Contentment is the secret to happiness in life.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) says, Whosoever begins the day
feeling family security and good health; and possessing provision for his
day is as though he possessed the whole world. (Al-Tirmidhi)
And for him who fears Allah (and observes his duty to Allah), He (ever)
prepares a way out, and He provides for him (sources) he never could

expect. And whoever puts his trust in Allah, He will suffice him. For Allah
will surely accomplish his purpose. Verily for all things has Allah appointed
a due proportion. (Quran, 65:02-03)
Whoever follows my guidance, will not loose his way nor fall into misery.
But whosoever turns away from My message, verily for him is a miserable
life. (Quran, 20:123-124)
Being content with what we have today, embarking on utilizing the day that
we have and being grateful to Allah can lead us to happiness.

Avoid feeling of inferiority: A major source of discontent and


unhappiness is the feeling of inadequacy and incapability. The most
effective solution to such a source of uneasiness and suffering is to forget
about people with higher standard of living; for if we compare ourselves
with such people, we would certainly feel miserable. We can find solace
when we discover that we are endowed with more blessings of Allah than
many others.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said, Look at those inferior to
you, and do not look at those superior to you. Thereby, you would be able to
appreciate better the benevolence of Allah bestowed upon you.(Narrated
by Imam Bukhari and Muslim).
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said: When any one of you
happens to see one on whom Allah has bestowed more riches and a finer
physique, he should look at one who is inferior to him (in this respect).
(Narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim)
And your Lord declared publicly: If you are grateful, I will add more
favors unto you.(Quran, 14:7)

Character building: One important step on the way to happiness is to


work towards harmony with oneself and with the outward world. The
achievement of such harmony requires the building up of ones personality
so as to become compassionate, forgiving, tolerant, stable, confident,
consistent, patient, flexible and adaptable.

To be one of those who believe and urge each other to steadfastness and
urge each other to compassion. Those are the Companions of the Right.
(Surat al-Balad: 17-18)
A good action and a bad action are not the same. Repel the bad with
something better and, if there is enmity between you and someone else, he
will be like a bosom friend. (Surat al-Fusilat:34)
We should be moderate in all that we do for a stable personality.
And those, who, when they spend, are neither extravagant nor niggardly,
but hold a medium (way) between those (extremes). (Quran, 5:88)
For ultimate happiness, one should always practice patience.
Seek help through patient perseverance and prayers. (Quran, 2:45)
Character building could be achieved by adopting the Islamic educational
system which helps one to acquire a balanced and sound personality and
adapt himself easily to other people and things around him so that he could
help create a happy environment.
Self control is another important characteristic which can help in achieving
happiness. A Muslim should fast for one month every year. This fasting
trains his will and frees him from being enslaved by his own habits. Fasting
also makes him more sympathetic with others suffering poverty or
deprivation.

Less interest in economy: Islam prohibits interest because individuals in


the same society should be partners. In the interest banking system, the
depositor requires a certain interest on his deposited money, whether the
bank faces profit or loss. The interest system is a big blow to social
solidarity. In Islam, interest is not allowed. The alternative method in Islam
is partnership, where all partners share the profit or loss in proportion of
their invested shares. This system of Islamic banking is fairer and often
more profitable to a greater number of partners.

Building of better understanding: Seeking knowledge of Islam and


removing misconceptions, superstitions and baseless worries that spoil his
tranquillity and happiness.

Repentance purifies: We should rectify our mistakes with repentance


than dwell on them and feel bad.
O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain
Bliss.(Quran, 24:31)

Learning and pursuit- Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) stressed the
importance of the pursuit of knowledge as a way to eternal happiness.
If a person follows a path for acquiring knowledge Allah will make easy
the passage to paradise for him. (Muslim)
Pursuit of knowledge provides man with a feeling of enjoyment and
pleasure.
To form a happy social life: choose spouse, friends and companions wisely.
There is a saying - Keep a happy man company and you will be happy
This is true because a happy man is an optimistic and confident person who
enjoys peace and assurance, tries to transmit his optimism and cheerfulness
wherever he goes. Moreover when we have righteous companions and
friends, we acquire good qualities from them.
Strong will and self confidence are factors necessary for the attainment of
happiness. These factors can develop and direct the life of the individual
towards success and happiness. They are also essential to overcome the
hardships of life that obstruct ones way towards the achievement of his
goals in life.
A human being is the product of the unification of the body and soul. Thus,
Islam has taken both material and spiritual needs into consideration, on the
other hand, it has laid down principles necessary for the happiness of the
individual as well as the society. All this shows that the moral teaching offered
to humanity by Islam is one that will bring peace and happiness to the world.

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