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interaction.
Our brain is an incredibly complicated instrument. Our
relationship with it, is a love-hate one. We think we have
control over it but usually something unconscious dictates our
actions.
In most of our social interactions, we find it difficult to feel
comfortable among strangers because our brain tries to
protect us from exposure.
This however isnt helping us when trying to be social and
meet new people, is it?
This is why assuming comfort is so powerful. Commanding
your brain to feel that you already know the person you are
about to meet puts you in a position of advantage. It increases
the chances of people showing interest in you and
consequently even liking you.
In most cases, people will accept your request and help you
out. This occurs because we dont really like the guilt of not
helping someone out and we do like to be the one who is
capable of helping.
8) Having trouble
remembering names?
Repeat the other persons
name during the
conversation.
I suck at remembering names. I usually dont even listen to the
other person when he says his name the moment we get
introduced to each other. So usually, I ask a friend to
introduce himself to the person so I can listen to his name. But
then I forget it again. Awkward. Remembering names is very
important because we feel important when someone mentions
us. So the moment you meet someone repeat his name.
Example: Hi my name is Alex Nice to meet you Alex. So,
Alex how do you know John? And continue to repeat his
name throughout the conversation.
simple words. You are what you believe you are. You are
confident if you believe you are confident You are attractive if
you believe you are attractive You are extrovert if you believe
you are extrovert If you want to look deeper into this idea look
up two words. Neuroplasticity andbrain rewiring.